>>22933396 (OP)The pain dulls with time, but
>>22933702 is right. Only way to truly get over it. You can't rush into it though. Just take some time to work on yourself, hang with friends, get your personality and your mojo back.
Try not to do anything stupid or destructive while in pain. This is when men are at the highest risk of ruining their lives - when they're bent out of shape over a woman.