I don't care so much about forfeiting the cunt, and I'm lucky to be getting Friday Saturday Sunday with very little money lost. It's losing the ladling that's crushing me.

What are the political implications of this shit hurting like fuck? Any of you blokes have similar stories?

>>22934425 (OP)
You're a deadbeat nigger.

>>22934425 (OP)
She probably left you because you became obsessed with fringe, right-wing politics.

>>22934425 (OP)
>ladling
What's that

>>22934426
Leaf we don’t execute people for divorce. We aren’t under sharia law yet

>>22934427
The majority of white women voted Trump in 2024. So she would have to be black or brown

>>22934425 (OP)
Be the best version of yourself possible and it will all work out

Keep it civil with her in order to raise a healthy kid and not have her turn him against you (tho that may still happen).

You care about the kid, and that's like 90% of being a good dad. You'll do great at that.

Take care of yourself. Have a full life, find what makes you happy, so you can bring the kid into a happy environment.

>>22934427
No, not the case. Adult life with a family is far more complex than that.
>>22934428
The child version of a lad. Your kind favors them at the altar of Ba'al.

>>22934428
A small lad

>>22934425 (OP)
Tell her to GTFO and you are keeping the kiddo.

>>22934435
I am past anger, annonmosity guy.

>>22934432
Yes, and thank you for reminding me of that. I keep telling myself that she is a woman and this is just what they do. It's mutual and I don't want to stay, but she just turned up the cunt meter at the expense of the child at the end. Actually, that part is strangely liberating

>>22934433
>Adult life with a family is far more complex than that.
I can smell the insufferability on you.

>>22934438
Well, it is. If it's insufferable to be right then we should get divorced, too.

>>22934425 (OP)
>What are the political implications of this shit hurting like fuck? Any of you blokes have similar stories?
I do not.
Happily married for years.
I know it has to suck
Guys over on Gruntspeak/Redonkulas on Rumble - about all of them have gone through what you are going through and lived...
They don't require you to pay any superchat bullshit to ask questions and have them help you - they've saved over 500 dudes from an heroing over the years, so they're not stupid and their advice is sound
They are solid guys with a lot of life experience
I think they broadcast on Thursdays
Hope this helps
https://rumble.com/c/RedonkulasPopp?e9s=src_v1_clr

>>22934440
Thanks. brother. At least I've got my kid, I like my job, and I'm still 6'4.

>>22934425 (OP)
That's your mistake and it's entirely on you.
Don't have kids with women today. If you want kids, get a woman from 100 years ago when women were good, and get her pregnant.
Any man who has a child in today's world should expect to lose that child in divorce.

>>22934442
I'm happy I did it because I got far luckier than most. True that I could have been completely destroyed.

>>22934441
Anytime.
I do know there's plenty worse than going through a divorce.
I had to learn how to walk again at 32, and then got diagnosed with leukemia.
Still here. Still walking. Still breathing. Cancer in remission.
There are worse things. You got your boy - which is awesome, I got a son - and a job that does not suck, plus you're White and over 6'
Not too bad brother.
Going to bed now - have a good one and God protect you and yours.

>>22934425 (OP)
Your son is going to get raped by a spic or nigger that your wife “dates”.

>>22934443
You have a remarkably good attitude, anon.
My brother got divorced a year and a half ago and got partial custody of his baby daughter and seeing his daughter only half the time is ripping him apart. I wouldn't be surprised if he commits suicide, frankly. But that would hurt his daughter too, so he may not do it for that reason.

>the ladling
so, out of curiosity, did you mutilate your son's genitals?

>>22934445
Shouldn't have laughed but I did

>>22934447
Her family applied light pressure but I said no. Cock intact.

>>22934425 (OP)
It was your responsibility to pilot your marriage through the end of your child rearing responsibilities. Women are children, they are incapable of this responsibility. The blame falls squarely on your shoulders. Either you failed to live up to the task, or shirked your responsibility like a craven manchild. Thank God you have only ruined one child.

I have four kids and I have 10 more years on the mission. Sure it’s tough, women are the ultimate villain in life’s journey. But I’ll be damned if I allow her to beat me. If I succeed I can divorce her and live a life of well earned peace knowing I succeeded at my task.

>>22934445
>Your son is going to get raped by a spic or nigger that your wife “dates”.
Seriously?
Wtf is wrong with people like you? You're supposed to represent the "right wing" and what's masculine and tough?
You're a sociopath telling a recently divorced dad some shit like that.
You really should kill yourself.
I'll walk you through all the steps right now of how to end your life and we'll get it done in an hour.

>>22934448
At your son being raped? This post won’t age well.

>>22934451
That's why I laughed. Just the absolute absurdity of doing that.

>>22934451
It happens to 80% of white sons of single mothers in America. You sound like you WANT his son to be raped. I want him to stay with his wife you pedophiles.

>>22934454
Nailed it, mate. You're too smart for this thread.

>>22934454
>It happens to 80% of white sons of single mothers in America. You sound like you WANT his son to be raped. I want him to stay with his wife you pedophiles.
What a crock of shit! Just the thing a sociopath would say to rationalize his behavior.

>>22934455
If you really believe 80% of sons of divorce are raped as kids, you're nuts.

>>22934455
Np mate. You don’t love your son.

>>22934457
I'm being sarcastic.

>>22934458
This got an even bigger laugh than the last. Cheers man

>>22934449
by doing the absolute bare minimum you've done better than the vast majority of men. make sure your wife doesn't schedule something like that as a way of getting back at you through him. remember, every time she looks at him she sees you

>>22934436
>I am past anger,
Then you are ready for violence without emotion.

>>22934425 (OP)
I have two kids and a miserable bitch of a wife. My marriage is a C grade. Not great but not terrible. It's just a slow grind of her being a bitch followed by 40% of her being pleasant.
I prayed every day for God to help me turn my marriage around.
> Nothing
And then one day, I was mad at her so I prayed for God to give me strength to end my marriage and a sense of relief over came me.
I'm going to talk to my father about it when I see him next week and admit my plan. When I head home after this family vacation I'm going to sit her down, tell her that I've decided it's not fair to ask her to give up pot when I won't give up my steroids (don't smoke) and that these differences are irreconcilable. It's time for us to end this and that I will be sleeping in the guest room while I arrange for a mediator to guide us through the process.
The worst part is I love my kids and I wish she would just die because life would be better if she just left it. Alas we can't always get the happy ending .

>>22934425 (OP)
> 5 year old son
> living with single mom
get ready to call your son a "daughter" in 2 years max

>>22934425 (OP)
Just be available for your son anon. Always appear to be doing well even when you are suicidal and missing your child. Keep your head up. We all find out who our parents truly are sooner or later. Have fun and treat yourself like a king most of all. Your own health MUST come first, then family will be good forever

>>22934435
Me in the background

>>22934462
"An ATM."
Book was fucking great too. You get a little more Anton

>>22934425 (OP)
>It's losing the ladling

Losing the what?

>>22934425 (OP)
If you feel like you aren't completely destroyed watch your back. She will sniff that on you and go for maximum destruction including trooning your child and getting he/her to suicide.

Can't you make the 5 year old choose?

shit like this scares me
i'm feeling down because some chick i knew for a while ghosted me out of nowhere. i can't imagine how i could deal with what you're dealing with-- which apparently most people who marry will experience.

>>22934463
>I've decided it's not fair to ask her to give up pot when I won't give up my steroids (don't smoke) and that these differences are irreconcilable
wait, what? She smokes weed and you take steroids, and somehow that's the issue with your marriage? I don't get it

>>22934425 (OP)
Ladling?
WTF are you talking about?

>>22934464
I have installed some failsafes, and the first 5 years are the most impressionable. I have given much thought into preventing this.

I still might fail, and that horrifies me.

You listening, divorcedmom sonrape anon? THAT'S effective use of fear.

>>22934425 (OP)
Best regards. Let your kid know how much you love him with the time you share.

>>22934475
Thank you, brother.

>>22934425 (OP)
Crushing will be the realization that you're letting your kid, your flesh and blood, the literal reason for your existence as a living, breathing thing, be raised by someone that probably hates you and definitely doesn't respect you.
That'll be the toughest part.

>>22934477
from being the kid as long as you don't suck when you grow up the kid will realize how great you are/how much you sacrificed

>>22934480
Not if the stupid cunt convinces your kid to get the next variation of the clot shot we all know is coming.
Not only will she turn the kid against you, she'll end your kids hope of having a meaningful life in one fell swoop as well.

>>22934497
most kids would be considered right wing actually

It'd be hard to. Even 'liberal' kids I've met are still based they just repeat programmed talking lines they in no way believe in or practice in any way

>>22934497
man that's good advice
cocksucker

>>22934499
that doesn't even affect whether they get vaccinated or not
usually the authority figures get scared & scare the kids into it

kids aren't rational agents who make decisions based on their political beliefs
they're vulnerable maggots who usually have no control over their lives until they're like 25 or 30 tehse days

>>22934504
And what, the parents are so disconnected from their kids, the kids have so little respect for their patents that they won't even listen to said parents when it comes to preserving their fucking lives?
Isn't preserving their children's lives supposed to define a patents existence?

What, society normalizing humanities destruction means its totally out of your hands if society convinces them to destroy their ability to reproduce?

Because you and the old lady separated after 15 years of commitment because of what?
You fucked up, and you continued to Fuck up for YEARS for your marriage to fail, because woman are fucking crazy but so are we, but you're coming here for solace in the dark future your poor lonely child is now going to be on with your probably useless and wasted weekend tutelage to steer him through the absolute hell that is growing up and figuring out what matters in life?

You have one fucking job dude, so does she, and paying the fucking bills ain't it.

>>22934785
i'm not OP, i'm just some rando from bant

>>22934499
That's true, but almost ever teenager I knew in 2021 took clot shots so they could get back to their garbage social lives and athletics club activities their parents put them into so they could 'get back to normal' and 'fit in'.
Instead of having those kids be interested in hanging around what used to be the foundation of western society: family.

Society got kiked hard, and the funniest thing is, even those inbred dick cutters still place family and blood above everything else.
Instead of their fucking jobs or their retarded and absolutely pointless social lives.

If it was that hard to do the right thing 4-5 years ago (when the right thing was so, easy because all it required was trusting your instinct and trusting your genetics), how hard to you think it's going to be next time, when genetics isn't even in the fucking picture anymore thanks to the gene therapy everyone took?

Guy wants to do the right thing? Wake up, suck it up, win back the old lady (because she's a woman, and 15 years and a kid is still 15 years and a kid) and spend the rest of your life red pilling them and getting them all the Fuck away from the cities and this society that is very quickly, visibly going smash.
Kids 4, right?
Your definitely still have a chance.

>>22934785
>You have one fucking job dude, so does she, and paying the fucking bills ain't it.
agree

>>22934815
>Kids 4, right?
>Your definitely still have a chance.
also agree
>>22934815
>If it was that hard to do the right thing 4-5 years ago (when the right thing was so, easy because all it required was trusting your instinct and trusting your genetics), how hard to you think it's going to be next time, when genetics isn't even in the fucking picture anymore thanks to the gene therapy everyone took?
>Guy wants to do the right thing? Wake up, suck it up, win back the old lady (because she's a woman, and 15 years and a kid is still 15 years and a kid) and spend the rest of your life red pilling them and getting them all the Fuck away from the cities and this society that is very quickly, visibly going smash.
society will keep turning and keep turning and keep turning, though
my parents had the same sentiment
you CAN'T extricate yourself from society
you can do it for a few decades but after that your kids only options are integrating with the rest of society or somehow expanding your little off-grid community
in the latter case, you just get ATF'd immediately
it's better to just try to take your family to the most hospitable place possible at the time, and try to integrate there
the purpose of a social life is supposed to be to access opportunities, for yourself AND your kids

america is falling the way russia did, but russia is still there, and the people are still there
it's not apocalyptic
i'm sure some people did choose to live in the woods during all that, but i'm guessing most of their lives weren't that great or desirable or fulfilling
if you're worried about society collapsing, for the sake of your family, it's best to go to a better country and integrate rather than live in the fucking woods isolated

>>22934834
>the purpose of a social life is supposed to be to access opportunities, for yourself AND your kids

The purpose of a social life WAS supposed to be to give you and your kids access to opportunities. But that's gone. It's running on that memory, but it's a fallacy. Thanks to social media, socializing is now designed to kill individuality, and to Fuck everyone up about their sense of id and their sense of right and wrong.
Spending thousands on sports, movies, clothes, cars, tv's, phones, internet services, that's all bullshit designed to separate us all from our humanity. The fix is in, we can sense things are fucked and we're waking up to just how fucked things really are.
Pretending society is going to keep turning, after the bioweapon on covid and the even more sinister bioweapon of the clot shots, after crackbook and x, after AI, after automation, is just cope.
Nothing is as it seems. Humans and their necessity for comfort, their desire for simplicity their inherent laziness and complacency, has doomed society.
(((They))) managed to destroy society in the space of 24 years and I guarantee you that pace of destruction is going to accelerate.
You build something worthwhile in the country, you'll find you're not alone out there. Will it save you and your offspring? I doubt it, but then again, you keep a low profile and don't Fuck things up or make a lot of noise one way or another, they will probably leave you alone for a while.
It's worth the risk.
Staying in the cities is the death march of humanity.

>>22934862
>You build something worthwhile in the country, you'll find you're not alone out there. Will it save you and your offspring? I doubt it, but then again, you keep a low profile and don't Fuck things up or make a lot of noise one way or another, they will probably leave you alone for a while.
>It's worth the risk.
>Staying in the cities is the death march of humanity.
yeah, my suggestion isn't to live in the woods or live in the cities, but to go to a more hospitable country
>Pretending society is going to keep turning, after the bioweapon on covid and the even more sinister bioweapon of the clot shots, after crackbook and x, after AI, after automation, is just cope.
you'll see lol

>>22934862
>The purpose of a social life WAS supposed to be to give you and your kids access to opportunities. But that's gone
it's not gone if you live in a small town in indonesia, for example
it's not a fucking monolith which is gone or not gone, it's a principle faculty humans have
there are places where socializing is useless and places where it's useful, you understand?

>>22934862
>Humans and their necessity for comfort, their desire for simplicity their inherent laziness and complacency, has doomed society.
i'm sure that's how it seemed during the dark ages, if you were somehow paying attention back then
but society WASN'T doomed
it kept going
things get drastically better and worse and better and worse

>>22934868
>pretending the 3rd world isn't thing to be exterminated like rats if population control is on the agenda when ww3 starts

Yeah buddy, WE'LL see.
I'll take the boreal forest and 0.4 people per square mile, you can take a billion neighbors all fighting for the same scraps when 9 meals to anarchy comes home to roost, and the world's 2 most fought after resources, food and water, disappear for a few years.

Being white skinned in the third world will be a death sentence when ww3 starts. But go enjoy the tropics.

>>22934917
i've heard it all before

>>22934878
Are you fucking retarded?
Does AI and automation and overpopulation and gene therapy and ww3 mean absolutely nothing to you?
You're going to pretend that the dark ages (why the Fuck do you think they're called DARK, dipshit?) and our current society of almost complete and total societal observation and control have absolutely anything in common?
You too stupid to understand the difference between 500 million people being on the planet without electricity or manufacturing of ANY KIND is the same as this society of 8 billion total consumers?
(((They))) want less people, 500 million actually being stated, and they sure as Fuck aren't waiting for natural selection to run its course.

>>22934922
Go to southeast Asia then.
Show off how far your American dollar goes amidst the unwashed masses that make $300/ year.
At least when you #diesuddenly it'll be interesting, with a machete and your bloated corpse getting fed to the sea.

>>22934927
you should see a therapist

indonesia was an example by the way
i'm not going ther eand i don't know anything about it
it was to illustrate what i meant

the world isn't ending

>>22934934
The world as we know it is always ending. You're too young and stupid to know that, but you'll learn.
Or not.
Stay on your antipsychotics and antidepressants.
I'm out, you're a fucking retard and you're really, really fucking boring.
Seriously, go to another country. You've obviously never been anywhere.

>>22934945
therapists don't give you pharmaceuticals, those are psychiatrists

>>22934945
>The world as we know it is always ending.
i feel you
that's a complete walkback from your apocalyptic rhapsodizing though

bloated machete corpses and unwashed masses population culling, that's great
the same shit my whole life from my BPD mother

>>22934862
you got mad and had a tantrum when i didn't respond to this post the way you wanted me to
if you were gonna leave you would've done it already

and you probably have or are going to have children, that's the thing
everyone is so fucking worthless

everyonei s just possessed by a little bundle of genital torture deep down
no one is conscious
i can't talk to anyone about anything because of the railroads in their heads
i fucking hate the CIA so much

>>22934945
have fun with your substanceless rhetoric and genital torture retribution fantasies, be sure to set the example to your kids that you can't do anything & you're completely helpless

OOOOH YOU GOT MEEEEE
GOT MEEEEEEEEEE
"how do you respond without sounding mad?"
i sound more mad than you so you should come back and dance on the corpse

congratulations on winning
druggie faggots in suits are putting shrapnel in civilians & stopping OP from seeing his kid but yeah you win with your hreotric

i forgot, it's "just" the internet
nothing is to be taken seriously, therefore nothing will be taken seriously, therefore nothing will be taken seriously

i watch a lot of TV
i'm gona be just like you one day

GOD YOU TYPE SO FUCKING SLOWLY

>>22934472
The problem is she has health problems like being a land whale and the pot makes her Ok with her lot instead of fixing it. She also has poor coping mechanisms, cries all of the time for inane shit, and is miserable.
I work out and do steroids to cope with this fact and I figured having a jacked male model husband would help her feel better. Sort of did, but she's still miserable.
Like I said, I'm about to bounce.

>>22936008
Maybe stop being jacked and shooting steroids (vanity, especially male vanity, is the ugliest gayest thing in the fucking world) and take the land whale for a walk?
Human society and human life is ugly out here, but if you can see the beauty that is also everywhere in nature, maybe you'll see a little beauty in each other again?

>>22936008
She sounds depressed and lonely as shit.
You remember those vows you took, right? You make promises and don't keep them? I'm sorry to say, but that makes you a piece of shit.