Thread 22942396

The reason the Jews want redpilled men to stay single and sexless is because of oxytocin. This hormone, which is released during cuddles or sex with a significant other, plays a powerful role in health and mental plasticity. It's game changer.
Why do you think wagies and other normies can pull off a 9-5 and work 4 hours a day with a fraction of the stress and much more energy reserves than a redpilled man can? Because of oxytocin.

By making women loathe redpilled men (the 'ick', weird, NPNW, MGTOW, etc.), the Jews are actively waging a war to weaken us, mentally and physically.
By definition it's a trifecta of chemical, biological and psychological warfare.

Furthermore the lack of this hormone hinders cognitive abilities in the long run, which is why redpilled men experience severe mental decline in their middle to late life.

PS: this hormone is NOT triggered by casual sex or sex with a hooker.

>>22942396 (OP)
You can still have sex without all the bullshit. Hookers exist

by this logic, promiscuity would be one of the worst things you could possibly do for your mental health

>>22942397
Read OP’s last sentence, he already pre-empted it lol

>>22942397
that's not even close to "sex with a loved one"

>>22942399
Psychosocially also can be bad, yes.
The famous chudscience about how a person having too many sexual partners throughout their lives impairs pair bonding & leads to less successful marriages on average, seems to be based on truth.

>>22942396 (OP)
You do know this is released when you pet a cat or dog? kek fucking chill nigger

>>22942400
I did, it’s bullshit

>>22942401
Lol

>>22942404
>it’s bullshit
How would you know?

>>22942396 (OP)
an important part you forgot to mention:
>By making women loathe redpilled men and making men loathe women

>>22942398
well that's something

>>22942403
not gonna lie, I enjoy hanging out with my cat more than I do with most women.

>>22942405
How do you think?

ok but a lot of men will just end up murder suicideing and taking Jews down with themselves

>>22942396 (OP)
>By making women loathe redpilled men
Women LOVE truly redpilled men.
>(the 'ick', weird, NPNW, MGTOW, etc.),
Women loathe those men because they are extremely low value, uptight, neurotic, socially retarded weirdos.

>>22942396 (OP)
Demonstrably false. No couple remains in the cuddling stage for ever. Even the sex: it is popular said that if a couple puts a coin in a jar every time they have sex for their first year, and every subsequent year they take a coin from the jar for every time they have sex, the jar will never empty.

>>22942411
Women will have sex with anything, including dogs. They know nothing about value.

>>22942396 (OP)
It is difficult to understate just how much psychological damage occurs in the young mind in never experiencing love when it was supposed to. It creates invisible but ever present and outwardly manifesting psychological wounds that may heal over time, but never disappear. It is a lifelong crippling of the mind, affecting things like confidence, self-esteem, healthy thought processes, and inability to cope with the difficulties in life in a healthy way. It breeds attitudes of perpetual envy and anger and depression. Especially when said individuals are constantly bombarded by images and media of people having lived their best life while they missed out and can never experience, ever. Because time is only linearly forward.

A means to try and "heal the mind" which has already happened for many who have resigned themselves to apathy and quiet resentment, but it doesn't remove the scar. The scar is always there. Always present. And it will always serve as a reminder, and always influence future thoughts and decisions and actions.

>>22942401
>>22942404
If you've never been with a good looking girl, long term, say at least 6 months to a year, and experienced how insanely better sex is, then you haven't experienced sex. You get comfortable with each other which A) makes it easier for her to get off and B) makes sex better for you as well. Not only that, but you know that you back have it damn near whenever you want, which is a nice mental cushion to have. I've had both worlds, experienced, practiced, relationship sex, and one night stands. One night stands lack regularity, comfort, it's usually bad, afterwards is usually awkward, you have to worry about STDs and getting metood. There is absolutely no contest between the two when you can have amazing regular sex with a gf, and eat pizza and play vidya afterwards. Now as far as dealing with gf bullshit, that is a whole other conversation.

>>22942396 (OP)
>this hormone is NOT triggered by casual sex or sex with a hooker.
Completely false. Oxytocin is released during sexual intercourse or even non sexual physical intimacy with other people, regardless of whether or not they are a significant other or you have a close emotional connection to them.
The release of oxytocin in conjunction with dopamine during sex can increase the emotional connection to the other person, but that does not mean there needs to be a pre-existing emotional connection to trigger the release of oxytocin.

Listening to ASMR releases it.

>>22942415
I guess that makes you a stud, gg
I’m happy being a plebeian in your presence

Having been married, you are delusional if you think it’s less stressful. Relationships are the most stressful shit there is next to war. But no one who hasn’t been through a few can understand, it’s impossible to appreciate the chill tranquility and freedom of being single until you have been through Dante’s Inferno with women a few times

Western women have ruined everything with their garbage attitudes

>>22942414
Nice blackpill kino, desu.

>>22942399
>>22942402
>The famous chudscience about how a person having too many sexual partners throughout their lives impairs pair bonding & leads to less successful marriages on average, seems to be based on truth.
No, it is based on a very bad misinterpretation of one study that showed a decrease in the production of oxytocin in people who had increasing numbers of simultaneous/overlapping sexual partners. Increasing numbers of subsequent/consecutive non-overlapping sex partners did not cause a change in oxytocin production.
And in the people who had decreased oxytocin production while having multiple sex partners, this change was not permanent and oxytocin production went back to normal levels when they stopped having multiple overlapping sex partners.

>>22942396 (OP)
Do a mental jerkoff

>>22942396 (OP)
Imagine being so repulsive you have to wrangle men with psychobabble just to keep them on the pussy plantation. Imagine being a modern woman.

>>22942396 (OP)
Oxytocin is released during casual sex as well, nerd. It's even released during gay sex

>>22942396 (OP)
based and snuggle pilled
WOMEN OWE ME SNUGGLES
TOTAL KIKE DEATH

>>22942414
Women are not tender, they’re just emotional, meaning they are easily emotionally sweet and easily emotionally vindictive. Women also have zero, ZERO guilt about lying and deception to anyone including loved ones, they’re just not capable of feeling guilt for it or even hesitation. If you look at ANY woman you wish loved you, I promise you she is a completely different person than you think. Personalities and political beliefs to women, are the same as hairstyles or fashion, they’re as fake as makeup and weaves.

>>22942413
Any man who is still an adult virgin in the hypersexual, promsicuous, post-sexual revolution hookup culture world we live in is objectively an extremely low value, bottom 2% type male.

just take a hot bath

>>22942419
Nah that's not how I meant it friend. It's important to understand just how shitty one night stands are compared to regular sex with the same girl

>>22942428
based and truth pilled.

>>22942429

Very deceptive. Is banging a 400lb land whale the exact same as banging a 9/10 bombshell?

>>22942429
>Any man who is still an adult virgin in the hypersexual, promsicuous, post-sexual revolution hookup culture world we live in is objectively an extremely valuable giga genius
ftfy

>>22942414
>It is difficult to understate just how much psychological damage occurs in the young mind in never experiencing love when it was supposed to.

This anon tells the truth.

>>22942423
So you yourself state it is true then, their oxytocin levels were hampered and they were healed when the degeneracy and evil was removed. You are a lying faggot of the highest order.

>>22942433
>Is banging a 400lb land whale the exact same as banging a 9/10 bombshell?
Of course not, but that is also completely irrelevant.
Every healthy, heterosexual young man has an extremely strong natural drive to have lots of sex with lots of fertile young women.
And any young man living in a Western developed country lives in a society where it is insanely easy to have lots of sex with lots of young women. For any man who is anywhere remotely close to being normal or average in any western country in 2025, it's basically impossible to not have sex.

>>22942429
The value of a man is not measured by the broads he fucked.
Lol
Lmao
That's really gay of you.

>>22942396 (OP)
Correct

Mark Gungor was right. "Wait Until Marriage

Youtube

>>22942414
Ok but what is the best thing we can do after damage has been done?
Give me something to work with!

>>22942397
That’s sexual release, not love anon. Busting a nut is different than love and affection from someone you care about

>>22942437
>Of course not, but that is also completely irrelevant.
>Every healthy, heterosexual young man has an extremely strong natural drive to have lots of sex

You sound like a loser coping.

>>22942396 (OP)
Anon the natural state of man isn’t to be loved. Sorry nobody told you that. Go find apes and show me monogamous life long love. Go ahead. Ill wait

>>22942396 (OP)
Oh cool, this is mostly correct but also needs some information added to it. The lust and pairing chemicals. Epinephrine and norepinephrine for lust; oxytocin and serotonin for bonding. When you start a relationship or sexual encounter it generates epinephrine and norepi, this is the flutters. The excitement. That anticipation and burst of emotion when you get a new text. Part of “the spark”, and dopamine gets released telling us “hey this is good”. Ironically these are the same chemicals triggered during the fight or flight response, sans the dopamine. It’s easy to get addicted to this and one reason why many younger women have serial trysts or sleep around, or are prone to cheating. These chemicals slow down or stop around two years of continuous exposure to someone. It’s like clockwork, those exciting chemicals fade. Now, they should naturally be replaced by the pair bonding chemicals serotonin and more importantly oxytocin. This takes time, and is very similar to the love and fondness a man has for a dog, or the chemicals a woman’s body releases (or should) if she holds her newborn. This is long lasting, doesn’t fade and is what carries relationships long term. Chasing the excitement or lust, chasing the spark is a recipe for failure because our bodies simple grow tolerance to it with the person causing it over time. But women these days don’t stick in relationships long enough to develop to that stage, or worse a man does things to inhibit the oxytocin and serotonin (working hard away from home for instance), and as soon as a male that causes the norepinephrine, epinephrine and dopamine to trickle again - it’s over. It’s how you have cases of women that are married for years to a loving husband that works hard for them sleeps with a deadbeat and throws it all away. It’s biology and they can’t help themselves.
Men, protect your women. Build those bonds. Create those moments of tenderness, serotonin and oxytocin.

>>22942436
No, I am saying that the incel chudscience claim that increasing numbers of sex partners throughout ones life leads to impaired pair bonding and less successful marriages is not true at all. That claim is based entirely on a complete misinterpretation of a study that actually showed the exact opposite of that.

>>22942435
He used “understate” to mean “overstate”. “One can’t overstate” means something is so tremendous that it is impossible to exaggerate. “One can’t understate” would theoretically means something is so trivial that it is impossible to marginalize it beyond how unimportant it is

>>22942396 (OP)
According to you, wouldn't they want us to have sex so we are contempt with being wage slaves?

since its a chemical process its only a matter of time until this can be perfectly replicated.

>>22942440
Accept your situation in life.
This is probably easy to do if you have experienced some success though.

As you age (like after 25) sex loses its significance. Then you gradually get less and less horny.

You are supposed to find a girl to start a family with. Who cares how many girls you fucked in high school in the grand scheeme of things?

>>22942447
It's in their best interest to make it easy for us to have sex yet they don't for some reason.

>>22942396 (OP)
Reminder that all

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women hate threads or women hate adjacent threads are bot threads. Every last one is made by and consists of posts made by a bunch of cellphones sitting in a server rack.

These exist as astroturfing to ward away potential newcomers.

>>22942438
A man's value isn't based on the number of girls he has fucked. But high value men typically fuck lots of girls, and very low value men typically fuck few or zero girls.
You just aren't actually a high value man.

>>22942429
the datapoint the arrow is pointing toward is meaningless. A 25 year old in 2018 turned 18 in 2011. 2012 was when shit started going off the rails and it wasn't in full swing until around 2016-2017. If the data matches this in another decade, I will swallow my words, but I think we're going to see massive increases of inceldom in each cohort with men 18-20 at that time being around 95% virgins

>>22942396 (OP)
Ok Jeet

You can also cry to release oxytocin, just so you know

>>22942445
>More partners equals a better marriage
You are smoking crack. Enjoy your HPV. Maybe marry that chick who just fucked 1100 dudes? She must be the best wife in human history

>>22942437
>normal or average in any western country in 2025, it's basically impossible to not have sex.

Yeah if you're into banging 400lb land whales. Even at that rate with "hoeflation" in full swing, good look with that even.

I'd rather pay for sex with some Asian prostitute who will find me somewhat attractive. And make me feel great about myself.

I will get more Oxytocin from that then I will

Compared to settling for some fat. Manish Single mother. Who will give me nothing but a headache and laugh at me behind my back.


Western woman are over its that simple. They are almost on par with Indian men. It's just they are ( a lot) more attractive physically

>>22942453
The GSS data for that specific variable is only partially available through 2022.
But for other similar data such as "percent of 18-29 year olds that were sexless in the last year," sexlessness peaked for men in 2018 and then gradually declined. While for women, it actually increased over the same period.
Then a massive decline in sexlessness for both men and women in the post-pandemic era.

>>22942775
you are a sheep

>>22942789
For realising the west is fucked? And we've been sold a false bill of goods. Our parents, grandparents had way better options than us.

I'm not going to get that and im not going to settle for less. Better to give into spite then the Ki*e

>>22942401
Your mom is a hooker and I love her.

>>22942806
>Better to give into spite then the Ki*e
you don't have to do either one, it's a false dilemma

>>22942396 (OP)
sex is inferior to meditation

Quite secluded from sensuality, secluded from unskillful qualities, he enters & remains in the first jhāna: rapture & pleasure born of seclusion, accompanied by directed thought & evaluation. He permeates & pervades, suffuses & fills this very body with the rapture & pleasure born of seclusion. Just as if a dexterous bathman or bathman’s apprentice would pour bath powder into a brass basin and knead it together, sprinkling it again & again with water, so that his ball of bath powder—saturated, moisture-laden, permeated within & without—would nevertheless not drip; even so, the monk permeates… this very body with the rapture & pleasure born of seclusion. There is nothing of his entire body unpervaded by rapture & pleasure born of seclusion. This is a fruit of the contemplative life, visible here & now, more excellent than the previous ones and more sublime.

Then, with the stilling of directed thoughts & evaluations, he enters & remains in the second jhāna: rapture & pleasure born of concentration, unification of awareness free from directed thought & evaluation—internal assurance. He permeates & pervades, suffuses & fills this very body with the rapture & pleasure born of concentration. Just like a lake with spring-water welling up from within, having no inflow from the east, west, north, or south, and with the skies supplying abundant showers time & again, so that the cool fount of water welling up from within the lake would permeate & pervade, suffuse and fill it with cool waters, there being no part of the lake unpervaded by the cool waters; even so, the monk permeates… this very body with the rapture & pleasure born of concentration. There is nothing of his entire body unpervaded by rapture & pleasure born of concentration. This, too, is a fruit of the contemplative life, visible here & now, more excellent than the previous ones and more sublime.

>>22944790
And then, with the fading of rapture, he remains equanimous, mindful, & alert, and senses pleasure with the body. He enters & remains in the third jhāna, of which the noble ones declare, ‘Equanimous & mindful, he has a pleasant abiding.’ He permeates & pervades, suffuses & fills this very body with the pleasure divested of rapture. Just as in a lotus pond, some of the lotuses, born and growing in the water, stay immersed in the water and flourish without standing up out of the water, so that they are permeated & pervaded, suffused & filled with cool water from their roots to their tips, and nothing of those lotuses would be unpervaded with cool water; even so, the monk permeates… this very body with the pleasure divested of rapture. There is nothing of his entire body unpervaded with pleasure divested of rapture. This, too, is a fruit of the contemplative life, visible here & now, more excellent than the previous ones and more sublime.

And then, with the abandoning of pleasure & pain—as with the earlier disappearance of elation & distress—he enters & remains in the fourth jhāna: purity of equanimity & mindfulness, neither pleasure nor pain. He sits, permeating the body with a pure, bright awareness. Just as if a man were sitting covered from head to foot with a white cloth so that there would be no part of his body to which the white cloth did not extend; even so, the monk sits, permeating the body with a pure, bright awareness. There is nothing of his entire body unpervaded by pure, bright awareness. This, too, great king, is a fruit of the contemplative life, visible here & now, more excellent than the previous ones and more sublime.”

https://www.dhammatalks.org/books/WithEachAndEveryBreath/Section0003.html

Someday a woman will deem me worthy of speaking to her. I just need to double my income, lose 20 lbs of fat, gain 15 lbs of muscle, live a fun and interesting life as an Alaskan bush pilot or circus acrobat, be funnier, more empathetic, own a house, and have perfect confidence. I know what I have to do, just a matter of work. I do sometimes fear what happens if I do all that and I'm still not good enough? Or what if upon talking to a woman i fail? Like I say something not funny? Nothing bad has ever happened to me, so I don't know how to console them or help them work through tough times or difficult emotions.