I understand why incels are mad, because it is humiliating and seen as a sign of weakness to be a virgin in modern society, but I genuinely do not understand or feel romantic love. There is sexual arousal with girls and socialization but no love. This seems alien and performative to me.

>>22975855 (OP)
>There is sexual arousal with girls and socialization
you get something like sexual arousal from socialization?

>>22975855 (OP)
>This seems alien and performative to me.
it is a real thing, but yeah, it is alien & performative to many people now

>>22975861
>you get something like sexual arousal from socialization?
No from sex and touching women. I feel sexual arousal and I socialize with them but I never feel any love, even in a "relationship."

>>22975866
oh i see
>"there is sexual arousal with girls"
>"socialization but no love"
i thought you meant
>"there is sexual arousal with girls and socialization"
>"but no love"

Glad I'm not the only one I was married once but when I got tired of pretending she left not that it bothered me I did it all on a whim to begin with

>>22975871
Nah I don't get aroused from the mere act of socializing.

>>22975866
would you want to feel love if you could?
have you felt any other form of love, maybe from a family member?
what about comraderie with friends?

>>22975873
seems like alot of time/effort to waste on a whim, but i guess you weren't putting much energy/investment into it so it wasn't a waste?

>>22975876
I feel strong platonic love for my best friends. I don't really feel anything for my family, which is only my parents pretty much, and I don't think I will feel anything when they die. I don't specifically care about romantic love, I only began getting involved in this because it is seen as bad to not have experience.

>>22975882
>I only began getting involved in this because it is seen as bad to not have experience.
And there is some pleasure with sex and foreplay, which I realized after doing it.

>>22975882
>>22975886
hmm..

who are these mad incels you speak of? What are they mad about? How would you know?

>>22975879
Just something to alleviate the boredom of time

>>22975882
it's good you have such close friends
would you say you've been under alot of social pressure?? it's something you seem to cite frequently

i got peer pressured into doing some dumb things, one of which cost me some hearing damage..
got burnt out a bit as well

>>22975899
>who are these mad incels you speak of?
Fairly widespread.
>What are they mad about?
Being a male virgin is seen as bad.
>How would you know?
I was an incel for awhile because of mental reasons until I had sex with some people and had girlfriends.

>>22975886
that is nice
>>22975904
i see

>>22975910
>would you say you've been under alot of social pressure?? it's something you seem to cite frequently
It was mostly psychological rather than external.
>one of which cost me some hearing damage
Yeah I went to a party when I was 16 or 17 and my left ear's hearing is permanently fucked.

>>22975911
How would you know if someone is a virgin or not?

>>22975918
Huh? I'm speaking from personal experience and people online.

>>22975934
I know that.. Im saying you are assuming people are virgins..
Having sex doesnt change the way you think or your opinions

Sex is optional

>>22975855 (OP)
I unluckily felt love, but it is a feeling for the weaks. I'm not talking about platonic love, but passional love based on pure nothing and that lead retarded to create toxic familiar envoirments who will always end up in a divorce.

You are simply smarter than the plebs into not feeling it

>>22975855 (OP)
Also about the incels I would say that they are right because today's society is a gynocentric abomination where everything involve around foids and everything is about worshipping the foids.

I honestly won't allow neither pajeets and neither deformed subhumans to reproduce, but I do indeed think that guys who are simply average looking and of aryan stook deserve a concubine to pass down their genes

>>22975855 (OP)
You could be aromantic. It’s one of those retarded lgbt terms. But if it accurately describes you then it is what it is.

>>22975855 (OP)
>seen as a sign of weakness to be a virgin in modern society

Well society sucks why the fuck should incels listen to what is considered socially desireable when what is socially desireable doesn't actually offer them any benefit?

>>22977006
>I unluckily felt love, but it is a feeling for the weaks

Unfathomably based

>>22975863
This