>>23291878
What about therapists? I've been with a bunch through my life and none of them were even to close to be as nice as the current one. I'm genuinely in love with her and that's a bad thing.
>>23291879
That's very inadvisable.
You are aware love is behavioral, right? You'll feel emotions, but those are not love. It's the mindset you choose to adopt in response to those emotions, and the intentional allowance for yourself to continuously feel and act upon those emotions, that's love.
Which is to say, if you shouldn't be in love with her, this is literally just a skill issue.