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Anonymous (ID: 6JxTJKma) Netherlands No.23530335 [Report] >>23530402 >>23530421 >>23531490
I gave him evrything ans he emotionally cheated on me
For context: I’m Dutch (24F) and he’s British (29). We started dating for 2 years. Honestly, he was my whole world. I loved everything about him, his presence, his confidence, the way he cared for me. He had a high-paying job, lived in London, and I’m in Friesland, but he always made the effort to come see me, and I’d go visit him too. He had his own place and pretty much provided for me in every way possible.

He was extremely protective. He would get upset if I talked to other men, if I left the house without showing him my outfit first, or even if my gym clothes were too tight. He kept track of me on his phone, and it was clear he saw me as “his wife.” I actually loved how he took the lead, and I found comfort in following him. I was head over heels for him. Even now, just thinking about it makes my hands shake.

He would leave marks on me, as a way to remind me that I belonged to him. He insisted the thighs were “better” than the cheeks and he was right it left a mark that hurt physically and emotionally.

I just found out that while we were together, he had been emotionally talking to another girl. Even though nothing sexual happened, I see emotional attachment as betrayal. I trusted him completely. I shared my first everything with him, and now it feels like all of that was disregarded.

I’m trying to hold it together, but it’s impossible. I don’t know if I’ll ever find someone like him again, someone so intense, protective, and possesice. I feel so broken

I want to forget him so badly, but I can’t. I was so obsessed with him that I didn’t even notice anyone else. And yet, he gave that emotional space to someone else. It’s unbearable
Anonymous (ID: RPRbeThD) United States No.23530359 [Report]
I know a Dutch girl who solves sudokus on You Tube. She won't show me her tits, but maybe you will? I'd really like to see 'em, anyway.
Anonymous (ID: ds7m5iXH) Australia No.23530402 [Report]
>>23530335 (OP)
if you kill him he wont be able to date anyone else and you will own his soul in the afterlife so you can be together forever.
Anonymous (ID: 6MNVTFuk) United States No.23530421 [Report] >>23530492
>>23530335 (OP)
>He would leave marks on me, as a way to remind me that I belonged to him

Any man that does that is going to cheat on you guaranteed

Also I know you're from an atheist country, but there's a reason Christians save sex for marriage, specifically to avoid sharing your deepest most emotional experiences with some random person you never see again.
Anonymous (ID: ds7m5iXH) Australia No.23530492 [Report]
>>23530421
yeah lets trust a fatty that tries to force their religion in your face. dont you have some food to eat or a school to shoot up?
Anonymous (ID: gf969kpP) Poland No.23531490 [Report]
>>23530335 (OP)
that's what you get for not dating based Indian chads
Anonymous (ID: IDW6Wl3u) United States No.23531499 [Report]
>he emotionally cheated on me
Stopped reading there kill him then yourself
Anonymous (ID: Kkje7+sX) United States No.23531507 [Report]
1pbtid
probably copy pasted from some god-forsaken subreddit
do not engage
Anonymous (ID: YpbpVChj) United States No.23531518 [Report] >>23531546 >>23531550
This is why ITS IMPORTANT TO TEACH YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT LIKE, LOVE, LUST AND MANIPULATION. It all starts in the childhood. The longer you let your kids be raised by their friends, iPhone, computer, and YouTube, the harder of a life they will have. Please be involved in your kids life and teach them these things.
Anonymous (ID: s7YAd1SX) United States No.23531546 [Report] >>23531550
>>23531518
Thank god I dont have the responsibility of a kid
Anonymous (ID: Kkje7+sX) United States No.23531550 [Report]
>>23531518
>>23531546
true, never have kids
4chan bant
Anonymous (ID: Kkje7+sX) United States No.23531552 [Report]
>go anywhere
>the same shit