>>60508991its not the kind of attention you think it is.
when a woman finds out you have a steady girlfriend, they become disarmed, because presumably they instantly know you aren't some kind of rapist/serial killer/psychopath. they know that there is a woman out there who spends a lot of time with you and chooses to be with you, maybe they also assume you can provide for a family.
its like walking up to a restaurant youve never seen or been to before. you are hesitant to go inside because the food might be shit, give you poisoning or just be a waste of money.
then you pull out your phone and google the restaurant. 4.9/5 stars, 4,000+ reviews. suddenly you feel much more confident about going into the restaurant and spending money.
this is women with taken men