help their sons financially so they can get boosted in life. if they dont help, then their sons will be repeating all the same problems their fathers had all over again such as renting a place, finding a job, budgeting for foods, etc.

if they help, their sons couldve progress faster and focus on the next problems.

>>60518764 (OP)
Give a man a fish he eats for a day, teach a man to fish and he’ll never go hungry

>>60518764 (OP)
Because 99% of fathers can barely make enough to keep a roof over their head let alone providing the means for their offspring to make it

>>60518764 (OP)
nah, my son can learn how to work like I had to, if I were to boost him he would never learn to work hard and save

plus I don't have much money sitting around after my last vacation and buying a new boat.

>>60518771
stfu out of touch boomer. go outside touch grass and realize that more & more young men are struggling

>>60518764 (OP)
Because their wives steal everything they earn for baubles and as-seen-on-tv trash. It's the women who never have anything when they die. Gma and gpa divorced in the 80s. Grandma worked 30 years at principal financial. Died in poverty with about 30 animals.
Grandpa died about 10 years prior, a millionaire from working at Maytag as an assembler.

>>60518764 (OP)
>help their sons financially so they can get boosted in life
>financially
lolno you just want free money fucking loser

>>60518782
>learn
ok good argument, but for how long? he tasted hardships after working for 10 yrs yet experienced no growths like your generation or before

i have some rich friends, they have good work ethics but they didnt forget to mention that their fathers assist them a lot

>>60518803
>>learn
>ok good argument, but for how long? he tasted hardships after working for 10 yrs yet experienced no growths like your generation or before

if he worked hard for 10 years and got nowhere then I would call him a dumbass and laugh at him for not saving lmao

when I'm a father, i will only put my son to the test for 3 yrs, let him taste the hardships of finding a job, compete with immigrants, working under predatory employers, etc. then I'm gonna boost him (ask him what can i do to help him to grow in life)

thats all. now pls unsubscribe from my blog. jannies clean my shit pls stupid niggers

My dad did that for my oldest brother. Paid for his college fully and supported him however he could. Sadly a combination of mean mommy, bleeding heart liberal values from dad, and generally weak genes = bro crashing out in his 20s and he pissed away over 5 years being a depressed NEET, leeching even more ungodly amounts of money from dad the whole time (he also bought him and his now wife a fucking condo for him to NEET in). Bro kind of got it together but of course he got married too and who was gonna pay for that?
Dad doesn't seem to care but sometimes the regret of the overall path he took in life slips out.
Did my middle brother get that kind of help? Nope lmao. Me? A very small fraction lmao. Turns out if you bait suicide hard enough you get a free existence.
The salt in the wound is how much of a horrible piece of shit my brother was to me when we were kids while he maintained our mom was the real villain in the house (she was kinda bad but just your average manic cali girl, couldve been a sweetheart our whole lives if dad had an ounce of balls to *WHAP* her in place every once in a while). Kept going "yes, mom, you WERE a bitch, you just don'r remember!" Guess whose xanny addiction and years of freaky weird (dad-funded) electroshock therapy has now burned massive holes in his memory? Lmao.
You read this whole post? Are you retarded?

>>60518855
double dubs checked
>Did my middle brother get that kind of help? Nope lmao. Me? A very small fraction lmao. Turns out if you bait suicide hard enough you get a free existence.
feelsbadman. why didnt ur mid bro & u didnt get it tho? is it because u both display good self-reliance? i feel that's the case most of the time, parents dont rly pay attention to the good ones.

at least for me, my brother ran away from home and my father starts calling him his favourite and pay for his car and get him a 125k job using connections... while me who pay for my own car, have my own place, found my own job, etc. never got any help & never did any emotional tantrum like my older brother, yet they call me the ungrateful & the arrogant one.

>>60518764 (OP)
Recently become a father and put 20k into an S&P 500 ETF he gets access to at 18

>>60518886
>is it because u both display good self-reliance?
Could be. I think he was also literally just out of savings at some point and would've bankrupted himself if he did anything significant for either of us, he was paying obscene amounts of alimony to my mom for a long time.
I still respect him as a man despite his unbelievably cucked politics and two-outta-three parenting record. He had oldest bro out of wedlock and honestly the most rational choice even in retrospect would've either been to beg her to get an aborty or just run out. But he thugged it out and was there for us every day he could be and worked his ass off to keep us real comfortable. Very few people deserve to look back on their lives on their deathbed and think "jesus what a fucking waste," I want to do well enough where there's no chance he thinks that
>my brother ran away from home and my father starts calling him his favourite and pay for his car and get him a 125k job using connections
Squeaky wheel gets the grease I guess. It's hard to find a balance between being a boomer psycho and evicting your kids at 18 vs being a coddling enabler. No clue how I'm gonna thread that needle. If they're anything like me, I'll give them a good amount of slack I think

>>60518771
He didnt say "Dads should live their Son's lives for them" he said "Dads should help their Sons learn to adult".

>>60518788
true kek, even happens to the upper elites
>While she was rumored to be worth $200 million, upon her death Vanderbilt left son Anderson her estate, which was worth approximately $1.5 million.

>>60518764 (OP)
Because fathers valuate more their sons freedom and health than financial success.

>>60518764 (OP)
yeah build empire and legacy . stop waging for the jew

>>60518788
Women truly lack the understanding about saving money.
My mother finally retired and for the first time in her life she's having a surplus instead of living with debt.

She's BEGGING to allow her to spend her money with me.

I saw an interesting post on /biz/ a couple weeks or so back.
Dude was saving up for his (very young) nephews, I am going to do the same.
1 euro a day, every day until they turn 18. Afterwards, will go from there. Plenty of time to get closer to them - I love them, and my sister, but we're both kinda crap at keeping in touch and teaching the kids how to money is as good an excuse as any.

>>60518954
Bingo. And women wonder why they weren't allowed to have bank accounts or vote.

>>60518819
You have no money. Shut up.

>>60518771
you left out the part where the subject of your story is a fisherman who works for a jewish boss who is scheming how to teach 1 billion indians, 20 million illegal mexicans, and an LLM how to fish.

My father was a 300 to 350 pound man, on welfare, living in an apartment who used to drive the city bus. Obviously in debt. He died when I was 8.

I noticed guys (and girls) who received too much financial and emotional help from their parents often become losers.

Hard times forge strong men. Despite my dad being a loser, my fit and have a nw of 290k. My only dilemma is with finding a white partner to have pure bred children. I'm in deep with a Chinese woman, and I might regret having a hapa family in this dying white world.

>>60519149
>cannot get a same race woman
>settle for poor women from the other side of the world
>think is not a loser himself

>>60519160
You're imagining she's poor for some erroneous reason. She has more money than most of biz anons (>40k).

I also haven't settled yet.

Are you trying to bait me? Why?

>>60518789
>financial elite: "here son let me buy you a business to get you on your feet. we must continue ruling over the cattle."
>neoboomers on /biz/: "FUCK YOU I GOT" MINE
This is why you fags will die sad and alone

>>60518764 (OP)
have you seen the men that woemen pick? Retarded douchebags are mostly the ones who are fathers. theyre the kind of men that dont give a fuck about their progeny.

>>60518764 (OP)
its all depends if helping or not helping benefit the jews or not
for example if the rent is $4000/m then it will benefit the jew renting so help by stay home is good save rent
but if the rent is $800/m then no help is good and rent
always do opposite what the jews want u to do then u will help ur son

>>60518764 (OP)
That’s why I’m here, faggot.

>>60518764 (OP)
I have $30k in bitcoin for my son when he's 18, he's 3 now. In 15 years hopefully it would be $3m at least

The money won't avoid the mistakes you just mentioned. Fathers should coach self sufficiency and industriousness into their sons and then reward them with some financial/material help as they go along. The worst thing to do is to give a useless/lazy whelp some cash on top of it.

>>60518855
Yes I did, yes I am

>>60518764 (OP)
People don't seem to realize what even a small headstart of like $5k can do for someone if they also have guidance how to use it

Actually the guidance is worth ten times any amount of money

>>60518855

Since we are blogging, how do I cope with being the ugly kid?
My mom always liked my brother more even if he's an asshole to our whole family, just because of his looks.

I don’t believe in helping too much, he needs to make his own mistakes. I will buy him a car, make sure he doesn’t have any money problems stopping him from doing what he wants growing up, and when the time comes I’ll give him a large downpayment on his first home. I think he will figure out the rest.

i think the better question is why does the lack of adversity such negatively impact people's lives? the role of a parent is teaching their kids skills, not giving them shit they didn't earning and fueling the rise of depedenapotomus welfare queens.

it's not coincidence that most inheritances get squandered.

>>60520002
Your mom loves your brother more because hes an asshole, not because hes more attractive. The rules of the ho don't change just because she's your mom and you're her son. Be a smartass and watch in amazement as your christmas gifts become more expensive
t. Learned this in a way that'd make most people off themselves

>>60520026
Millions of people are born broke and stay broke no matter how tough their parents were
Millions are born rich and stay rich no matter how soft their parents were
You have brain lesions, giving you an urge to exert power over someone because people have been exerting power over you your whole life, and now that you've reached x income and y age you feel it's high time to do the whipping. It's a very good thing you will not be reproducing

>>60518764 (OP)
the truth is most of our ancestors wanted this but at some point they realized they will not be able to

>>60520002
Nah, you're just the good guy and women (even mothers) feel utter disgust from the good guys.

>>60519474
Nigga really wants a hand me down lmao.

>>60519705
>Actually the guidance is worth ten times any amount of money

Lmao.

>>60518764 (OP)

My dad is lazy and broke and can't even maintain the double-wide trailer he lives in.

My dad was paying child support for two children at 22 years old. He smokes two packs of cigarettes a day and is a functioning alcoholic.

I had 0 problems finding a job at 18 years old, budgeting and living on my own at 21. Though, I didn't start investing until I was 25 because my parents told me investing was a scam and it took me a while to uninstall those files in my brain.

>>60518778
/thread

>>60518894
/based father

>>60519175

Just ignore the ragebait. I understand your position completely.

>>60518764 (OP)
being a father is optional

>>60520212
Both of my parents have long been dead. I have no one to support me. I just hate the attitude of exiling your children. Literally nigger-dad behavior. Are you proud of yourself anon? You lived up to the role of nigger-dad.

>>60520261
thank you bros
>>60518894
so nice to hear, holy God

>last night I tried falling asleep without watching a YouTube video
>daemons begin terrorizing me immediately
I feel like crying right, I'm so tired. Pic unrelated

>>60518764 (OP)
Fathers spoil their daughters not sons. So their daughters have high expectations of their man, while their sons don’t have high expectations for hand outs in life.

>>60518855
Funny how life is just a repetitive mess. You’re half way across the world from me and yet our stories almost align. That small fraction will be better in the long run, treat it as back up and work on building capital. God speed

>>60518764 (OP)
Yeah I wish. My whole family is a case study for bad financial decisions.
I am the only one budgeting and saving for early retirement.
I am on my own.

>>60519149
I'm worth $1.2M and with a Filipina (here in SEA)

Let's not fool ourselves. Your Asian pussy having $40k which rounds down to zero doesn't change much about the core of the matter: you and I both lack a proper white woman to breed with, for whatever reason.

290k is a very decent start, but a supportive dad would have you at multiples and would help you not waste time or get derailed.

You knowing some guys they got support and became losers are clouding your vision on what good support and child rearing looks like
>>60520026
>i think the better question is why does the lack of adversity such negatively impact people's lives? the role of a parent is teaching their kids skills, not giving them shit they didn't earning and fueling the rise of depedenapotomus welfare queens.
Holy retard alert. I went to university with people that mostly had >$200k invested in their k-12 and another $200k in their undergrad and another $200k in professional school if desired.

You sound like my dad that used this philosophy as an excuse to cheap out on most any investment while splurging on his own toys.

I agree with the other anon that it would be the best outcome if you never reproduce.

>>60518771
mine never did either of these, so try again

I’ve been giving my kids silver for their bir the Birthdays, Easter and Christmas

That way in 15-20 years time they can understand what a good vs bad investment is

When they see how much more money they could have made having some kind of other asset, then they’ll know what to avoid, and not become precious metal schizos

So I’m helping them without spoiling them, I’m teaching them a big lesson

I’ve been giving my kids silver for Birthdays, Easter and Christmas

That way in 15-20 years time they can understand what a good vs bad investment is

When they see how much more money they could have made having some kind of other asset, then they’ll know what to avoid, and not become precious metal schizos

So I’m helping them without spoiling them, I’m teaching them a big lesson

They’re too young to understand now, but when they’re adults and have a bunch of silver that’s barely gone up all their life they’ll learn a good lesson

>>60518764 (OP)
Being financially well-off, even to the point of just holding a 5 figure investment account in your 20s, is *exceptionally rare* and puts you so far ahead of everyone else. It's really sad to see the state of the average finances of a normie, but it's true.
>picrel yr 2022
>includes non-liquid "assets" like home (lol) and cars (lmao)
Bottom line is most people are actually fucking broke.
>But why don't people save and invest and become millionaires?
Who fucking knows Anon

>>60521894
Cheers dude. Maybe our sons will find good white women with our guidance.

I hope your Pinay is a strong woman (leaves you alone when needed and doesn't create stress) and knows how to take care of herself.

How old are you? Is SEA life really worth it? Can you imagine having never gone there? If so, does life seem less vivid if you stayed in your home country?

My dad left my mom when I was 16 and never game me a single cent. I always thought he was barely making by, he had his little appartment and his pension.
When he died I got 3 million.
I will never understand boomers

>>60520846
there's a vast difference between supporting your children by non-financial means (connection, education, etc) vs justhandmedownmoneypa

>>60518764 (OP)
making your own mistakes and learning from them is more valuable than money. men need to learn to live on their own without external help.

>>60518824
thats stupid. spoil your kid as much as possible so they know having lots of money is awesome. i remember all my rich classmates, they knew they were rich and they knew the power of money really young. They knew their fathers were rich too.

>>60523216
how did he die?
did you ever try to contact him? why/not?

>>60523297
I kept regular contact, visited him, called him, I tried to have a normal relationship, never asked for anything because i thought he was just earning his pension. During 2015 I literally had to ask my mom for money for food because of how broke I was. He knew that.

When he got older and his brain started to deteriorate I still helped him managing the home bills, taking him to the doctor when he was sick, got him a cleaning lady that went once a week, etc
He died during covid, alone in his house.
Turns out he owned 3 other aparments, 4 in total. I literally sold one for 600k in 12 hours, gave 100k and one to my mum to live in, rented another and moved into the last one.
We literally could have had such a nice life but he just chose to drink all day and ignore us.

And don't get me wrong, I don't think I deserved any of it, the sad part to me it's that he lived such a sad, lonely, boring life when he could have been travelling the world or doing whatever he wanted. But no, let's just hoard and not share with anyone, not even enjoy it for yourself.

I will never understand boomers

>>60523355
> But no, let's just hoard and not share with anyone
its cause youre poor. you wont understand

>>60523355
You were poor one, thats a sad life.
Your dad was fine.

>>60523479
Yo understand that I have his wealth now and i choose to share it right? I even grew it in the stock market. I haven't worked in 5 years, I paid rent for my friends when they were in need, I gave my mum a house, and I want to share and help everyone around me.

>>60523556
Youre pathetic. You’re talking shit about your rich father and you were a broke poorfag. Yeah I have never held a job long too. Havent worked in 5 years too. Whats your point? Rich people can do whatever they want. And your friends rent? lol.

>>60523556
Youre still a poor person. You didnt grow up with wealth and you bitch about rich people. Leftist?

>>60523594
my dad was an alcoholic loser that died sad and alone. His money changes nothing. I am a poor person with a 5 milli net worth, whatever you say kiddo

>>60523602
He was the one with the money and doing what he wants. Youre also the one who said he should have helped you and you were brokie. So, deep inside youre just a seething loser. 5M is nothing. lol.

>>60523602
its your brokie loser attitude that thinks your dad had to help you. or that rich people have to do this and that. i hear this all the time
>brooo ur rich?!?! then why are u here gaming with usss
lol like wtf

>>60523612
Fathers should help their childrens is not the wild take you think it is, psycopath. Also 5M puts you in the top 1% of the world.

>>60523602
he wasnt an alcoholic loser. just an alcoholic. you were the one that was broke. kek.

>>60523617
Father’ can, but they dont have to. You were broke. I dont respect you. You will always carry that brokie energy with you.

>>60523617
it’s your brokie loser attitude. rich people and dads dont have to help anyone. brokies like u always want a handout.
>gibs me dat!

>>60523627
You are a sad human being, you will never know love and you will die alone.
I pity you.
Good luck.

>>60523639
oh dear…why do brokies ALWAYS say something like this?
> You are a sad human being, you will never know love and you will die alone. I pity you.Good luck.
I have heard this so many times. and why do you type so passive aggressive like a female. lmfao.
Have a nice day!!
i love to copefarm people online and they ALL say this to me. hahahaha

>>60523639
You were broke. LOL. and you still have your loser brokie attitude. lmfao

>>60523639
I don't think that samefag knows about poster ids on this board, he's a mentally deranged crackhead. You can ignore him

>>60523355
Sounds like you never had the time to confront him or ask about his decisions in life?

How'd he accomplish owning all these properties of he was such a a dunkard?

stupid entitled attitude of the poors
>the rich should help us!
>help me dad!
>tax the rich!!
no. fuck u brokie.

>>60523664
>How'd he accomplish owning all these properties of he was such a a dunkard?
exactly. his son is the brokie loser, not him.

>>60523664
Funny story? I found after digging through all the paperwork he inherited them from his mum. I never met her as she died before I was born.
The incel id is a nice touch tho.

>>60523664
If his dad chose to help him, no problem. But this brokie loser post feels that rich people need to help him.

>>60523683
ok brokie loser.

>>60523683
brokie loser pos garbage.

>>60523702
why does it makes you so angry? are you broke? I'll send you some money if you need it so much

>>60523683
>The incel id is a nice touch tho.
kek

Seems like your paps was in some sort of emotional turmoil. Was your mom a estrogenic nagger?

>>60523705
i just dont like poor people and their
>help mee
attitude.
>tax the rich!

>>60523726
I agree, but which post does anon give you this vibe?

If you don't answer this with a specific post number, you know you're fucked

Bootstraps. Firm handshake. Hit some bricks. That's what I did.

>>60518764 (OP)
Its a "i had to deal with this shit so should he" sort of atitude

>>60518789
>lolno you just want free money fucking loser
Thats right

>>60523712
yeah I wish he would have gone to therapy lol, so much wasted potential.
My mother is the best, self made, strong, independent, good cook, fit even at 70, divorced him taking 0, worked as an economist all of her life and has always supported me

>>60523733
I had to deal with this shit and hear me, if I ever have a child I'll make sure they don't have to deal with the shit

>>60523731
wait until he hears my dad was unironically a commie, like communist party member levels

>>60523731
i already tagged it in a reply to him. i am on phone and it is too much work. he has the typical brokie loser attitude
>gibs me dat
>dad should’ve helped me, i was broke
>tax the rich
just scroll up. i hate these brokie loser attitude.

>>60523764
>it is too much work
>brokie loser attitude
You should ask your manager if you can bring your laptop to doom post while taking breaks from stocking grocery store shelves.

>>60523797
why should i scroll up on my phone and do all the tagging? why dont u browse the thread?

>>60523748
My grandfather spent It all on whores, so my father now spends it on wine and fancy bags for my mother. About yours?

>>60523810
I don't have your warped perception which is what I'm trying to understand

>>60518771
Rich people are so wise. I can smell your fish from all the way over here.

>>60523826
wtf? why did i say that is wrong?
i just said poors always want handouts and
>my dad should’ve helped mee wahhhhhh

>>60523826
>my dad was richhh why didnt he help me and mumm

>>60523764
Leave the hard work (phone scrolling) to the brokie losers. Don't strain yourself trying to communicate with them.

>>60523797
>>60523857
lmfao. ikr. go to the interview topic thread. /biz/ is full of working class people. no wonder there is so much resentment here.

>>60523849
I interpreted it as having an absent father. Fathers, broke or rich, should be present for their children.

>>60523869
okay this is /biz/, it should be money related and that anon said he was broke.

>>60518925
>adulting
>to adult
Yikes

fucking brokies losers itt kek
that nigga was broke kek

>>60519149
We are 3% of the world's population and dropping. Just saying. If you're young you have plenty of time to put yourself in a position to knock up a blue eyed cutie. I like East Asians and have a few good slant mates. But they are unironically not us.

>>60522109
Underrated comedy post

>>60518764 (OP)
I dunno. My family was poor but we always share resources and my dad tried his best and supported me through college so now I help him.
Love my dad he's the best

>>60518764 (OP)
My father did the best he could for me, the oldest of four. We were not well off.

>>60524055
I can relate to how you feel. My dad’s the same—he might not be the perfect father, but I can feel that he truly loves me. We weren’t well-off growing up, but he always tried his best to give me the best he could.
He’s the coolest dad and I love him.

My brother is 7 years older than me and he used to absolutely hate me and our dad because he had to go to a shit local school and work his ass off to afford to go to a mid-tier university. Then, right as my brother graduated, our dad's business really took off and I ended up being sent to a great private school and having my university fully paid for.

My brother was FURIOUS about the "spoiled little shit" treatment I got and all but broke contact with the family over it, we'd see each other maybe once a year at best. We only reconciled a couple years ago after dad passed away. Took us long enough (I'm 38).

>>60524035
Post hand

>>60518771
Who’s the fish?

>>60518771
posted like a true AI

stupid fucking brokie loser working class itt
T_T

>>60523244
Nah, you don't want your kid to be a retard crashout who thinks he can do whatever he wants just because his dad's money will save him.

>>60523556
Don't listen to those other 2 faggots. The fact that you're doing good for others with the money you inherited says a lot about the kind of person that you are. If I have money one day, I'm going to do the same thing as you. Cheers, fren :)

I've thought a lot about why boomers are so mean to their kids. I think they were programmed by the establishment (probably large part the Rockefeller foundation) to be nihilistic and stingy with the next generation, because, if they legally transferred large amounts of wealth (the largest in history) to their gen x and gen y offspring, it would be much harder for blackrock etc to pilfer. Boomers were taught to spend everything except for the capital tied up in their homes, which is more of a precise target for the establishment.

>>60518764 (OP)
I intend to do just that if I have a kid. Teach them fiscal responsibility. I dont blame my own dad for not doing so. He did his best with the knowledge he had and the work he put into making sure we were comfortable.

>>60523612
>>60523616
>>60523619
>using the term "brokie"
Faggot detected. Go jerk off to Andrew Tate and slit your wrists after you bust.

>why dont more fathers do this?
Almost all fathers dont even have enough themselves, you stupid brokie loser.

Fathers dont help their kids cause they are barely getting by themselves, u stupid brokie

Majority of people are working class brokies, what the dads gonna do?

bro what do expect? most people are already barely getting by

>>60518764 (OP)
After he proves himself that's he's not a worthless fat need like you