>>60577854 (OP)>most people seem to think that you HAVE to spend all your money if make a lot of moneyI consider this a poor person mentality.
Poor people are in a constant cycle of not having money, and when they do get money, they immediately spend it on "nice things" that is actually just pointless materialism.
Then they go back to not having money. Then they'll have some kind of emergency, their car will break down and needs repairs, or they'll be behind on a bill, and they'll be all depressed and angry at not having money. They'll get their next pay check and pay it off, then spend it all again on stupid shit, and be back to where they are with no savings.
I know several people like this, they spend all their money on stupid shit like funko pops, they always complain about being poor, they have no accountability for their spending, they think the universe has conspired against them for why their life is like this. In the rare cases when they do manage to save a few thousand dollars, it all gets spent on a vacation and then come back to 0 savings and 0 investments.
I offered to sit down with one of them and go through and helping them create a budget and at first they welcomed the idea. They had a good income and I thought for sure I could help.
When it came to cutting a bit of their entertainment spending, they refused to consider it. They had to spend the money. And I can understand spending some entertainment money once in awhile even when you're poor, but they had to spend everything immediately.
Buying a funko pop every other week instead of every week was unacceptable.
There was nothing else to cut though, and so there was no helping them.
I think some people are just supposed to be in their position in life, they create their situation and live in it.
Just a shame they're allowed to vote and demand sympathy for their countless poor financial decisions.