I have never had a girlfriend before but intend to make a conscious effort to try to get one this year.

How much money should I expect to have to spend on a gf per year? What sort of financial hit can I expect to take?

>>60654363 (OP)
women always want at least half of your stuff either formally or non formally.

The only possible way for me to ever even just try to approach a girl is to hire a professional assassin and pay him tens of thousands of dollars to literally seek me out at random times putting a loaded gun on the back of my head where if I don't approach at least one girl he'll blow my brains out on the spot or something like that.

I have no clue how anyone is actually motivated enough to seek girls, try to win them over and then spend money, time and effort to try to keep them with you after that. All what happens in my brain when I see an attractive girl anywhere is just "damn, she's hot" and I keep walking, that's it

>>60654363 (OP)
Fuck her and then you can think about the budget. Often I fuck a girl thinking I'm going to get into a relationship with her, and then I dump her after a week because I find it tiring.

>>60654382
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Whats expensive is meeting women in the first place.

>>60654408
How much does that cost? And where is it done?

>>60654363 (OP)
What kind of girlfriend are you going to get?

>>60654382
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but we seek girls to fuck them. simple as. unfortunately dating apps have conditioned us to believe we are incredibly unattractive and therefore should not be approaching girls irl, lest we been seen as a "creep"

If you put in more time and effort (compliments, oral sex, dates to cultural places or outdoors activities, personal hygiene), you won't have to spend as much money. Guys here don't seem to get that. Oh, and be sure to clean up after yourself, in the house and out.