its unironically easier to make a million dollars than get a gf in 2025

>>60677344 (OP)
who would want a gf in 2025?

It'll be even easier in 2026 when a bushel of wheat is $750k

I'm a 30 yo KV, retired and financially independent, I'll probably be a millionaire this cycle or the next but I've never had a close distance IRL gf and I can't get replies from anyone on dating apps. It sucks but it's better than being both an incel and poor. And no I'm never going to pay for disgusting prostitutes

Pepe pulls his pants all the way down to go pee. Try standing and you'll get a gf

>>60677344 (OP)
that's only if you have standards.

>>60677344 (OP)
Sure if you're a socially awkward nerd like most 4chan anons are

>>60677386
you're a woman what do you know about it

True
>>60677386
Looks>social

>>60677344 (OP)
Now imagine being me and holding LINK and being a 26 year old insane short white man.

>>60677344 (OP)
I have both, sucks to be you anon.

>>60677396
You need both. Women get major “ick” if they find out you have no friends

I know OP is just shitposting but I'm no larp a 30 year old millionaire who never had a gf. Never had sex, never even been on a date. I look around and see average dudes with gf's, so I don't even buy the blackpill bullshit, yet somehow it's like I've been cursed to repulse females. Sure I'm 5'8 and maybe 5/10 facially, but I lift, groom, wear fitting clothes, and am not a complete social sperg, yet women have never ever shown interest in me. Where did I go wrong. I just want love.

>>60677344 (OP)
nigga you just have to be funny and not talk too much about money, I feel like since I stopped mentioning that half my paycheck goes in memecoins like kokok women take longer to leave, that's progress

>>60677557
youll get in one day anon. women are prone to liking people they see often. If you are in the same space as women over time, without failure, you will click with one. be it work recreational etc.
im 186cm, and fit cause i do a lil roids. also ive heard that im handsome. despite all that, i dont get approached, i had to woo my absolutely mid gf. but some women at work show interest in me. i dont go out alot tho, its usually for work or gym. am probably a little spergy idk

>>60677344 (OP)
please teach me how I must be retarded. I have a girlfriend and I kind of regret it.

>>60677375
You build relationships with women through social circles, acquiantances and work, otherwise youre never gunna touch a woman. Dating apps are pozzed, no chance for people like you.

>>60677375
This: >>60677628. Meeting in bars / random places is better than dating apps, but it's still shit.
You need overlap in some of your social ties or else she's gonna be inclined to fuck around and avoid going beyond fuck buddies/using you for dinner/attention at her convenience.

yea im at like 3m now but still a virgin at 40
i tried to have sex but it felt like nothing when i put my weiner in so i still consider myself a virgin but im now especially more confused about what motivates non autistic men because they always used to brag about that even though it doesnt even feel good
whatever i cant wait until i get an ai gf that massages my brain from the inside

>>60677344 (OP)
Only if you’re ugly. Males with bad genetics are not meant to reproduce/ have sex in nature, marriage and monogamy are societal constructs meant to help genetic “losers” get girls.
>>60677535
You really don’t need much social skills if you’re handsome. T. used to be a super autistic introverted nerd and still got attention from girls.

>>60677344 (OP)
No lie. I was 32 when I got my first gf and that was a few months after I became a millionaire in 2021. I kept it a secret and was stingy af throughout the relationship though.

>>60677818
That being said, try putting yourself out there more. Join some social activities like church (if you’re religious), cooking class, sports, clubs revolving around some of your hobbies, go to bars etc. A lot of guys cry about not having a gf but don’t put in any real effort/ time.

If you’re fat, dress like shit, have a bad haircut, bad skin etc. working on those things can help a bit too.

>>60677710
Sex, like almost all drugs, takes a little bit of time to become really enjoyable. It might suck at first but with a hot woman who enjoys it too, it’s like porn x50.

>>60677344 (OP)
bump

>>60677386
Women are worthless right now.

>>60677828
The problem is they all want to work and I am neet. No way in hell someone is going to date me if she's gotta get up and go to her bossgirl job while I make coffee, look at charts and do my hobbies. Also, no way in hell I'm letting anyone into my life, they couldn't handle being this free.

>>60677344 (OP)
a gf costs $1 million a year

If I go to Japan as a 6"2 white guy with my king hair, how do I get girls? I can get girls in America without much difficulty, but I'm not sure where to go in Japan. The language barrier would be difficult and I'm not sure and dating apps? Reposting from /smg/

Getting a gf is easier if you have no standards and date some ugly, old, fat spinster. Getting a gf that actually makes you feel like your penis is for something more than peeing, that's the hard part.

>>60677375
>my main draw is money
>i won't fuck prostitutes
all the women you could get are prostitutes bro. just find a good one that doesn't make it obvious. buy her nice things every month. jewelry, perfumes, clothes. $5000 gift card. she'll fuck you silly.

>>60677344 (OP)
bump

>>60677570
How do you like having a mid gf, I'm struggling with multiple girls and unironically have to decide whether to maintain a polygamous lifestyle or pop aryan kids out with 1 gf only.
I have commitment issues so it's hard to engage with just 1, thinking I would cheat or get bored in the long run

>>60677344 (OP)
That's easy, however making a girl which you find at least an 8 in attractiveness and who is a good girl, cooks and is loyal wanting to be your gf it's difficult

>>60677344 (OP)
and getting a girlfriend is easier than getting a job
I've been looking for 2 years and I'm only surviving on what I got in 2020, at this point I'm trying to make the same thing happen but with memes and my moomoo, I just want a job man

How do I make a million dollars then? I have a job that pays €5k monthly and I put €1500 into VWCE and €1800 into mortgage and I guess that's the most viable way to get rich, but it's a slow grind.

I'm thinking of upskilling but:
1. Jobs in Europe kinda suck anyway
2. I'm fucking tired of having to study study study just to get aboard the next hype train

>>60677344 (OP)
I could get a gf tonight, but she has BPD and a toddler from another guy. She also relentlessly abused me and kicked my shit in every chance she got while we dated. One time she got me evicted from our apartment and started fucking other people in the other room while I was trying to study for a CS exam.

>>60677344 (OP)
Shitpost thread but obviously not. Only 10% of Americans, the richest country in the world, have 1M that doesnt include their homes.

>>60682002
10% of Americans = 34 million people.

>>60682011
Ands thats only 10% of Americans. And that us only 1M.

Now me, as a Europoor, that isn't poor, I get better numbers out of Europe kek
Not hard.

>>60682011
And that is only 1m and like a shitty 200k home. 95% of Americans live in shitty homes and shitty areas.

The only possible way for me to ever even just try to get a girl is to hire a professional assassin and pay him tens of thousands of dollars to literally seek me out at random times putting a loaded gun on the back of my head where if I don't approach at least one girl he'll blow my brains out on the spot or something like that.

I have no clue how anyone is actually motivated enough to seek girls, try to win them over and then spend money, time and effort to try to keep them with you after that. All what happens in my brain when I see an attractive girl anywhere is just "damn, she's hot" and I keep walking, that's it

>>60682028
>>60682034
I used to live in California for 10 years when I was younger. You make it sound less than it is. There are plenty of extremely well off folks in the US

>>60682104
But most people still arent, 95% are still not.

>>60682068
>I have no clue how anyone is actually motivated enough to seek girls, try to win them over and then spend money, time and effort to try to keep them with you after that. All what happens in my brain when I see an attractive girl anywhere is just "damn, she's hot" and I keep walking, that's it
Basically this. Unless you find some way to dominate the relationship (and many girls have basically no interest in that unless maybe it you’re pro athlete level Chad they’ll do it) having a girlfriend is just employing an entitled, expensive, highly opinionated child who you’re not allowed to discipline in any way at all.

Who the fuck would want that? Practically every man I know in my life who is married or in a serious relationship is not someone I envy at all. I literally can’t think of a married guy that I would want to trade places with. Jesus Christ man

>>60677396
Looks>social but you can still slay with bad looks and amazing social. Ive seen it happen with a number of people, most notably a 5'3" friend of my brother's who was Casanova in his hs/college years and currently has a wife. I think you have to be truly deeply unfortunate with looks for them to be the ONLY reason you cant get female attention.

>>60682110
And it is better that way too. We need wagies. Lots of them.

>>60677557
>a 30 year old millionaire who never had a gf.
What level of autism is this?

>>60682333
Checked and he is a self described 5'8 and 5/10 facially dude.
That is not enough these days to have them run your door in.
They all expect the best for them, you are supposed to serve, pay, be 10/10 and considerate. Girl power!
We all know the top was in.

I’m 29 year old Kissless man and I only have 20k to my name

>>60682359
Good. Do not pay for women. Wait. They need to learn their place again. Which is serving you as a loving mate for providing a life for her. It will take time.

>>60677344 (OP)
>a million dollars gets you a gf
>a gf doesn’t get you a million dollars
>>always has been

>>60677557
anon i don't mean to explain this as a brag but i'm 31 (32 at the end of the year) and didn't have a relationship until recently. technically a millionaire also but well-enough-off regardless, and my main problem has been finding someone compatible.
i could have easily gotten hitched any time in my 20's to a random out of thirst, but it never sat right with me. i've championed IRL-approaching because apps never 'felt' right (especially for mid guys like me where any presence you might have in person that elevates your attractiveness is completely lost), but after many years of it just not happening, i gave in and got hinge. i had exactly one match after close to a week of use, and now that match has completely changed my life.
she's qt accountant that is incredibly mature and realistic, and she herself had only recently put herself on the app for similar reasons. more to the point, she's already financially secure - she doesn't need anyone to provide for her, but she's one of the rare self-aware w*men who knows that her biological clock is ticking and being alone sounds terrible, and that she sees a future with me because i understand her.
all this to say that, this happened suddenly and without any logical reason. i didn't do anything other than put myself out there. keep looking, ask your circle for hookups. your friends, family, colleagues - nothing wrong with asking them if they know anyone who's single, and trudge through the apps as a secondary.

>>60681163
im not a fan. been with her for a year, and lately shes gotten alot fatter. shes also not the brightest, and likes to spend money on dumb shit. but shes cute and shows that she needs me, which i like. will probably end it soon, since im not turned on by her anymore

>>60677710
i remember first time i fucked. i kept thinking
> is this really it i cant feel anything
but on the third fuck it became what all the fuzz was about

>>60677344 (OP)
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>>60677344 (OP)
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>>60677344 (OP)
I've been trying to understand the reason for this for years now. Why is it so hard to get a gf?
I've done other difficult things but I can't even get a girl to text me back, starting a relationship seems insurmountable at this point.

>>60683455
Damn, I want a pretty perfect unicorn but it doesn't exist, I will settle with an 8 with almost no curves (she's blonde and tall, but quite flat) but at least I'll pop aryan kids like that. Or at least that's my cope and rationale. She's also kind and shy, so no thrills but I guess I won't be stressed. Also can't cook for shit, guess we can't win them all. Additionally will have to expire my other 2 gfs, I was between this one and another one to choose, the third one was fat but had all the curves I needed, wish I could keep all 3 of them. Thanks for reading my blog

>>60678786
exactly.
every "but my one ugly friend pulls" story forgets to mention the absolute behemoth of a women he's settling for.

>>60684283
As other anons stated, put the minimum effort, lift weights, dress nice and groom yourself that's the bare minimum. If you're not at least a 7 on the looks scale you'll have a tough time in the dating world, but doing the above should make you above a 6 and above the avg men. You shouldn't have a problem finding a girlfriend then.
Unironically, as I mentioned above I'm deciding to quit a 3 gfs relationship to settle with just one, gonna be tough to commit here.
Also do watch your bucal hygiene if you got crooked teeth, that's disgusting lmao and that's something you can fix too (hopefully not your case)

>>60684295
This is unironically why you shouldn't be a whore. You don't want to be thinking about how much your wife doesn't have the same "curves" as some slut. Virgin master race wins again

>>60684370
Yes agree, but once you have the possibility to fuck everything that moves, you just want that variety, I'm at crossroads between popping kids or living single forever, I guess this is the tradeoff I need to make. If I was ultra rich I would be having multiple wife's though, but realistically I need to settle with one

>>60684332
I do calisthenics and jogging regularly, which has definitely helped improve my appearance a lot. I think a lot of my experience is based on before that, but even now I still find my experience frustrating. My friends insist that there's nothing wrong with my appearance and when I look in the mirror nothing sticks out at me as particularly bad, I'm not balding and I'm around 180cm height.
Also, I'm not really socially inept, in the past I was but the past few years I've been socializing regularly in various different groups. It just seems like whenever I meet a girl I'm interested in one of these groups, which doesn't happen often, I get her number and we message a bit, and her tone is always slightly disinterested and eventually she just stops replying. If I ask her to meet me somewhere for coffee before she stops replying, she might say yes but either reschedules or just cancels entirely.
What irritates me about this is that I hate doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, any time I've had another problem in my life like this it's been a complete change in strategy that resolves it. But with this, there's nothing I can do but keep self-improving which takes way too long to see results, or just keep trying the same shit and getting more and more demoralized.

>>60684404
You just need to grind through it, it's unbelievable tough but it's a numbers game, you can try approaching in person for better results, I was okay doing online dating and that works for me, but even then women are always flaky, also forget about coffee for first dates, get some drinks (no dinner) and try to kiss her after a bit (touch her first) just look at basic pua stuff. Third date at most should be sex so either go to your place/hers or have the logistics for sex.
If you play the game long enough and go for the grind you'll get what you want.
For tinder use tinder platinum else your likes are going nowhere (that's the only app I used to pay) hinger is good, bumble is very gay but you can try
Good luck

>>60684426
>and try to kiss her after a bit (touch her first) just look at basic pua stuff.
This is a whole other issue for me. Even if I get wasted I still can't bring myself to invade someone's space unprovoked like this. Maybe it's the culture I grew up in but this goes against every instinct I have. It was a problem last time I was seeing someone, she was from another country where guys are more direct and she basically had to tell me what to do. It was pretty humiliating and obviously didn't work out.
That experience fucked me up a bit, because on one hand it showed me that really attractive girls can potentially be interested in me, but on the other hand she had insane highly unreasonable expectations. And that, plus shit I read online, made me think all girls have expectations like this of guys, like if you show any sign of weakness or doubt then it's instantly over.
It made me not want to even try anymore for a while. The whole reason I want a girlfriend in the first place is to bring pleasantness into my life. If I have to force myself to do things that make me uncomfortable or hide my emotions, that defeats the entire purpose.

>>60684469
That's key bro, you need to escalate without fear, if you're not able to get physical (light touching) you won't be able to arouse her. You aren't having an intellectual debate and she won't get wet from that (nor she's smart enough to even get into one as most people and women are retarded). The drinks is just a social lubricant, you use it to lower her anxiety and yours (but maybe that doesn't work for you but it's gonna work for her). You just need to slowly escalate touch, ask about anything she has wearing you can touch, heck you can even play thumb wars after some drinks and you'll have your excuse. Once you bounce from the bar go for the kiss even as a goodbye don't be awkward and you'll have it if you do things right, gauge the situation accordingly. 2nd date you escalate more and for the third is sex, that's the beginner playbook and what you should aim (never go for more than 3 dates without sex she also has a sexual expectation too which would be fulfilled if you take accountability for the role you need to play)

>>60684527
>ask about anything she has wearing you can touch
That's a good tip ty.
Btw what's your approach when texting? Do you ever double text? Has a girl ever ghosted you and then changed her mind later?

>>60677344 (OP)
Not really, just don't be short and/or bald. Both things money can fix

>>60684668
Texting is for setting the date nothing more, you can't really create rapport unless you meet one of those crazies that likes to know everything about you via phone (happens but it's a minority). For ghosting don't take it personally, I have banged young chicks for weeks and suddenly they text me they are not ready to continue seeing me because insert random bullshit here. I just know it was my turn and it's over, I literally delete the conversation and her phone contact after 2 days so I don't keep in contact and they never engage again (it's over).
For the date say something simple as to meet during the week/weekend and just confirm 24 hours before and on the date day as well. Ask chat gpt if you need ideas for that simple text

>>60684322
Thats cope but I'm sorry that you don't have a point of reference to help you see that it's cope.

>>60684862
This is true. To be good at online dating you have to be free of Ego. Like an efficient businessman making your moves but never butthurt at rejection, just calmly move on to the next calculated move with the next girl to increase your chance of success.

However, after having fucked various girls from online dating, I am now in my mid-30s and seeking real meaningful shit like marriage/kids, and I just can't see that happening with these fickle novelty-seeking emotionally-immature validation-addicts on online apps.

They might even be physically attractive, but they basically never have the emotional or mental quality of real high-quality women (wife/mother material) that I meet in real life.

Those types of women get annoyed or scared away by online dating quickly, so you have to run into them when they are new to the system. If a girl's been on the app merry-go-round for a year or more, they get messed up in the head from being toyed with by an endless rotation of Chads.

>>60677557
>>60682333
I honestly think it’s way more common than society lets on

>>60685307
Same boat brother, I'm choosing a shy and sweet girl but she's 29 and doesn't know how to cook, so that kinda sucks also slightly dumb but not that much and she gets it. My other choice was the ambitious girl earning a bigger salary but she just turned 31 and it's way too progressive on politics so I think we'll end out fighting medium term.
The shy girl doesn't even have social media so that's also a plus.
M knows how to cook.
Decisions huh? I could also continue fucking with no fucks given but I noticed it's a drain of cash setting dates and never been satisfied
> Pic related

>>60685500
Where did you find her? She can always learn how to cook.

>>60677344 (OP)
This is because 1M isn’t enough to get a hot gf in a western country if you’re ugly and/or short, you need about 10-20x this if you’re below 5’7 or not handsome.

I have slightly over a mil and attractive women dont give me the time of day because im 5’5

>>60685532
Unironically tinder, I'm cooked, the other one is from Hinge. And had a 3rd which I cancelled also from hinge but she's chubby (great ass and tits though) but L and M are Blondies with blue eyes so I wanna pop Aryan kids, L is 1.74m so she's taller than M.
I only do online dating because I wfh and only go once per week to the office.
I'm 1.85m myself and good looking so I don't have issues getting women there.
But yeah, used to have multiple girls and now thinking on the settling down path. I just want to have 3 gfs desu and put kids in all of them, but I don't have the financial capacity for 3 divorce rapes

>>60685551
Yes, if you don't provide her Hollywood dream man looks, then you better significantly (exponentially) boost her lifestyle.

Any mid or above white girl in the US can get a 100K bullshit job, so she doesn't care if you make 150K or 250K or 350K. She's already living a 400K lifestyle anyway, with travel and luxury experiences. So to catch her attention, you have to be net worth 10M+ range, not that she sees your bank accounts, but she will see that you can afford business/first class, private yacht rentals, etc.--the next lifestyle level she aspires to because that's what she's programmed to want from IG all day.

>>60685557
>tinder
stopped reading right there, don't be a retard dump that girl asap as possible and go full 360 on her pronto

>>60686059
Fuck bro, now you're creeping doubts into me lmao. I mean she is fine with me to continue to have fun with her or pursue something more serious... I could give it a try and see if it works or just continue on my path, I will talk to her this Saturday and see what we want. Also I know tinder is the worst out there but every once in a while you find some nice girls

>>60677344 (OP)
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>>60677344 (OP)
>>60677386
>>60678786
>>60685557
>>60686059

it's pretty easy to get a girlfriend if you're not right-wing

t. not right-wing