a new girl ive been seeing earns ~$40k per year as a fitness instructor and online english teacher. I earn $140k with my remote job. I think if we get more serious she is going to want to quit everything and live off my income but im not really rich, its just that she makes so much less that i couldnt really justify making her work. I wish she earned more money but it seems like shes trying and im not sure how to bring it up. thoughts?

>>60685303 (OP)
Don’t tell her how much you make. In fact, tell her she makes more than you do.

my gf makes more than me and still leeches

sometimes i have to reminder her that i will not pay every fucking bill

women are whores

>>60685303 (OP)
At the end of the day, feminists made women think girl bosses were empowering while every woman I have talked to hates corpo life

>>60685303 (OP)
> /biz/ - relationship advice

I think that a woman must work, being a neet is just pathetic. Taking care of the household was a full time job before household appliances. Everyone who says women started working doesn’t know history. Women simply moved to different kind of work after machines did their old jobs, just like men. Of course i tell women this and they understand. If they disagree, i know they are neet minded gold diggers, as pathetic as 4channers, and they get yeeted after i get tired of fucking their holes. Part-time i understand when the kids are not teenagers yet or the work is very stressful, but being a stayhome mom just is close to neetdom these days when the kids aren’t below 4 years.

I was in a similar position a couple of times [31 yo, single m]. Currently, I am making $ 100k USD/y in an office-based software job, and when I mention my plans [switching to a $ 140k USD/y job with a remote software engineering salary in lower tax region], most of the girls [doctor, teacher, lawyer, engineers] think about how life can be so easy for them.
result ? i feel that i am not rich at all, we still need to work on common goals together. When i mentioned this to them, 90% of them disappeared[didn't go well, etc]. The remaining % 10% is coming from a similar background[poor family but school smart], and they liked me a lot as well. But the issue was, I wasn't into them all that much at that point.
i think the solution is: playing into their ego is significantly cheaper than having big-baby at home. Be an attractive guy, even more attractive. Have girls around you and only choose a woman if she insists on having a relationship. Eventually, you can find a mentally stable, well-educated woman who also believes "more balance" in life, more logical. i have found this kind of woman around, but I am not "into" them. The ones I am into are expecting too many things from me; the only way to improve results is by making the dating pool bigger.
This is what i can see as a solution.

>>60685328
Terrible advice.
when you tell or a woman knows she makes more money than you, she'll think you are a loser.
OP just needs to tell her he makes a lil' much more than her, let's say 60 or 70k.
she won't leech from him and won't quit her job either

>>60685303 (OP)
well, impregnate her and then she can live off your money.
keep her pregnant and busy with children, that will be her new job.

>>60685303 (OP)
fitness instructors fuck their clients

>>60685303 (OP)
You sound like where I was a few years ago
>be me
>O3 in Coast Guard
>make $133k with BAH
>meet wife
>librarian
>$35k a year
>she starts living with me but still working
>come home one day
>pregnant
>tell her to quit her job
>job is now motherhood
>she argues saying she likes her job
>tell her no
>eventually she agrees
>shes happy
>O4 now
>2 young children
>3rd on the way
If she quits before you have a child shes a leech. Make sure you want to have a kid with her, otherwise break it off.

>>60685303 (OP)
Ehh just go with it, I am in the same boat.
I earn ~£225,000 PA, whilst my wife earns around £50,000.

>>60685303 (OP)
Tell her she can leave one of the jobs and you'll cover the necessary expenses, like rent etc, but that she should keep 1 of them for financial independence. This allows you to not be her sugar daddy who's paying for purses or clothes or whatever dumb shit women buy. You're just there to pay for things when it's a shared experience (going out to dinner, etc.) basically if you two are doing anything together then you'll pay but anything materialistic she wants is on her so you aren't wasting your money. This allows you to play the masculine position of being the provider but still allows you to not spend money on dumb shit, only experiences and necessities.

>>60685303 (OP)
dont betabux

>>60685303 (OP)
Protip: If your wife makes more than you, then just let her. If you ever get divorced, then she's the one that gets fucked having to give YOU money kek i know somebody that this happened to.

>>60686890
This. My buddy almost got suckered into signing divorce papers that would have prevented her from paying him alimony (she was clearing 500k / yr as an NYC real estate agent; he was making like 220k in sales). In his emotional cloud, he almost signed. Would have fucked him royally. Luckily he didn't and instead got proper lawyers involved and now he gets a very nice check every month. Still works too and takes great care of his 2 sons. Stay frosty anons.

>>60685303 (OP)
40k is literally the cap for most women's earnings unless she becomes a corporate roastie. man up and retire her, anon.

>>60685303 (OP)
I cannot understand why some men put women into their lives if not to immediatly bake a baby inside them.
There's zero reasons to put a modern women into your life if you don't want to be a father, RIGHT NOW.

>>60685303 (OP)
>fitness instructor
she is fucking other men.

>>60687904
I cannot imagine how fuming that whore is being, lmao.

>>60687912
This

Become a man, realize that theyre nothing but a hole to dump until you find one that doesnt have her skull full of instagram/tiktok bs

>>60685303 (OP)
if she raises at least 3 White babies for you, do it
if she's childless then fuck that

>>60685303 (OP)
you should make her a trad wife and your cum slut bed slave. idk why you havent done this, honestly. if i made your money i would.