Networking and Socializing - /biz/ (#60686238) [Archived: 143 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: /OEdxLQm
7/24/2025, 9:57:56 PM No.60686238
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I'm starting law school soon and got invited to a school dinner for incoming students, current students, teachers, and local school alumni.

I have less than zero desire to go, should I anyways to make connections that could potentially help my career?
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Anonymous ID: +5NdYB2e
7/24/2025, 9:59:53 PM No.60686250
>>60686238 (OP)
yes
Anonymous ID: fXLocwLu
7/24/2025, 10:01:35 PM No.60686257
>>60686238 (OP)
I don’t care NIGGER
Anonymous ID: d59FI6+5
7/24/2025, 10:13:38 PM No.60686319
I don’t get how people like you can exist. Where will you meet more prestigious people than these? Where will you be part of a more prestigious group? Aren’t these the people you’re supposed to have your fun crazy student years? How about all the possible hot law chicks? Aren’t you just interested to meet new people? I just can’t understand.
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Anonymous ID: hXVovAyz
7/24/2025, 10:15:21 PM No.60686328
>>60686319
>Aren’t you just interested to meet new people?
No? Do you know where you are?
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Anonymous ID: f6G30MiE
7/24/2025, 10:15:32 PM No.60686329
>>60686319
>Possible hot law chicks
You gotta be kidding me
Anonymous ID: /OEdxLQm
7/24/2025, 10:15:49 PM No.60686330
>>60686319
I really wish I could look at it this way, but honestly all I want to do before school starts is work out, read, and watch tv. I have trouble forcing myself to go to a social outing if I can avoid it.
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Anonymous ID: d59FI6+5
7/24/2025, 10:21:53 PM No.60686351
>>60686330
>i dislike fun and exciting living

Were dropped on head as a kid?

>>60686328
I’ve been on 4chan since 2008. People like Zyzz came from here. What are you talking about?
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Anonymous ID: OSNQx79s
7/24/2025, 10:22:55 PM No.60686360
>>60686319
If you go to an actually tough school you have exactly 4 hours free time per year
Anonymous ID: hXVovAyz
7/24/2025, 10:23:46 PM No.60686365
>>60686351
Yeah bro Zyzz represents the median 4chinner
Anonymous ID: TkQrnjTJ
7/24/2025, 10:58:08 PM No.60686534
>>60686238 (OP)
Dress sharp (actually sharp, seek advice), look your best, relax and show up. Be someone people will want to hang out with. If you’re not someone people want to hang out with currently, view this entire thing as practicing social skills.

I don’t care what anyone on this board says, unless you’re in the 99th percentile in some high in demand skill, developing social skills is the one thing that is fairly easy to learn and with extremely high ROI. It’s the way to make friends and get women. Just do the things you already know you should do.

Read up on the old WallStreetPlayboys stuff, mostly Efficiency.
Anonymous ID: yqXj0LiV
7/24/2025, 11:58:49 PM No.60686856
>>60686319
>possible hot law chicks
Kek this is furthest from the truth. I just finished my first year. Law chicks are not attractive.
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Anonymous ID: ETOLCQOK
7/25/2025, 12:09:26 AM No.60686912
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>>60686856
Wrong
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Anonymous ID: f6G30MiE
7/25/2025, 12:13:06 AM No.60686927
>>60686912
Bruh. I went to a top 20 law school (USC) and I can count on one hand how many "attractive" law chicks were in my class. And even they were mid compared to the undergrads. Amy Comey Barrett is as hot as they get.
Anonymous ID: YojrOJcI
7/25/2025, 12:14:50 AM No.60686934
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>>60686319
OMG prestigious people! I can't WAIT to hear their opinions!
Anonymous ID: yqXj0LiV
7/25/2025, 12:21:34 AM No.60686983
>>60686912
I can't tell if you're memeing or not. Regardless, law chick hotness is severely disappointing. Especially when I see the undergrads around campus. 20 year olds are 10x more attractive than mid 25 year old law students
Anonymous ID: p9ObNqUH
7/25/2025, 12:51:30 AM No.60687108
>>60686238 (OP)
Go, you Will need them later In life
Socialize
Anonymous ID: Bk5bK7v7
7/25/2025, 1:01:40 AM No.60687149
Even if you force yourself to go and somehow manage to make some connections you need a certain kind of personality to actually be able to keep connections active after, it's not a one and done type of thing.

As a typical 4chan posting autist you probably feel utterly spent and exhausted just thinking about doing these small talk charades once, let alone actually actively doing it both online and offline with the same people on a near daily basis.
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Anonymous ID: p4YeFdIM
7/25/2025, 1:11:07 AM No.60687170
>>60686319
>Where will you meet more prestigious people than these?
gas station
>Where will you be part of a more prestigious group?
in line for the bus
Anonymous ID: bXX2H7sS
7/25/2025, 1:26:16 AM No.60687213
>>60686319
How detached from reality you have to make such a statement with a straight face. Kek
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Anonymous ID: nTsTw0yA
7/25/2025, 7:03:04 AM No.60688239
>>60686238 (OP)
I was you 6 years ago. I went to this and it went alright, but it also wouldn't have mattered for shit if I didn't.

Go and if you end up doing any better than making awkward small talk with the people that just happen to be nearby you have me beat at least.

I do recommend making friends if you can help it. The industry is extremely referral-based and what most people think of as the pinnacle of lawyerhood (big law partner) is more of a networking-based salesman role than anything else. But there's plenty of roles that are autist-acceptable and it's going to be what you make of it. Ganbatte anon you got this.
Anonymous ID: MyugCj77
7/25/2025, 8:03:15 AM No.60688363
>>60687213
I actually live in the real world unlike you fucking weirdos.
Anonymous ID: 3YqFTJpJ
7/25/2025, 10:14:08 AM No.60688627
>>60686238 (OP)
If you don't have connects you'll never get hired anywhere, this isn't 1963, no one is going to just take a chance on you
Anonymous ID: 0GUf00Br
7/25/2025, 11:12:28 AM No.60688721
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>>60686319
>Aren’t you just interested to meet new people? I just can’t understand.
kek, good bait.
Anonymous ID: 8oAoywoo
7/25/2025, 12:00:04 PM No.60688787
>>60686319
you can't understand because you're a bottom of the pyramid slave, likely a third worlder
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Anonymous ID: Qq2KGMHb
7/25/2025, 12:04:58 PM No.60688796
>>60686351
>I’ve been on 4chan since 2008.
If comprehension hasn't breached that thick skull of yours in nearly twenty fucking years, you are truly hopeless.
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Anonymous ID: WDbsNbUq
7/25/2025, 2:17:43 PM No.60689141
>>60686912
Butterball
Anonymous ID: PEbF7GCo
7/25/2025, 4:57:40 PM No.60689781
>>60686238 (OP)
>wants to be a lawyer
>doesn't want to socialize
are you retarded? I'm not a lawyer but I know that your whole career consists of meeting, talking and doing shit with and for people lmao
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7/25/2025, 5:28:34 PM No.60689912
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>>60686238 (OP)
>should I anyways to make connections that could potentially help my career?
yes, connections matter more than almost anything else. Unless you're such a great lawyer that people HAVE TO work with you. You're going to be spending more time around these people than you will spend with your family. once you start working Connections could be the difference between being employed and unemployed. Not saying you have to be some great social butterfly, you just need to be there and be friendly. There is no escaping the game.
Anonymous ID: 7T0Fv0i1
7/25/2025, 5:38:39 PM No.60689944
>>60686351
how are you this dense
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Anonymous ID: 9q+Ko+rM
7/25/2025, 5:50:37 PM No.60689982
>>60689944
>>60688796
>>60688787
We get it, you people are absolutely losers. You can stop responding to him now. You've made your point.
Anonymous ID: hXVovAyz
7/25/2025, 10:36:01 PM No.60691213
>>60687149
>As a typical 4chan posting autist you probably feel utterly spent and exhausted just thinking about doing these small talk charades once,
Literally me.
Anonymous ID: MyugCj77
7/25/2025, 10:57:49 PM No.60691278
>>60688796
There is nothing to comprehend. There is no logical reason for not wanting to meet new interesting people, especially if you are in uni.
Anonymous ID: cH847kPs
7/26/2025, 12:03:31 AM No.60691574
>>60686238 (OP)
>I'm starting law school soon
I'm sorry, Anon. Don't do it.

>should I anyways to make connections that could potentially help my career?
Honestly, yes. Law school is entirely about making connections. The whole school-ranking thing at its core is mainly about whether your law school has a strong alumni network that will hire you because you went to that school.

Sure, some schools only accept smart students, while other schools will take in anyone who can fog a mirror, but the more highly ranked schools can be picky about those students precisely because of their alumni network.

>>60686856
>I just finished my first year. Law chicks are not attractive.
You must be at a nigger-tier school. Mine had some truly hot chicks in addition to the purple-haired nose-ring bulldyke landwhales. One of them was basically Japanese porn star tier hotness, and when we went on visits to law firms she liked to leave her blouse open halfway down so that she could wave some top-tier boobage in front of the hiring partners.