> be me
> live with gf of 3 years for 2 years
> pay the rent,food,gas,groceries,vacations
> on top of that do chores because I work from home so I have more free time
> gf tells me one day
> Anon it bothers me you dont cook I always have to cook most our meals
> in the heat of argument she told me that the fact that I do chores is "bare minimum" in modern relationships
> know for a fact she got this from some niggertiktok Stacey
> next day
> told my gf I want the fight patriarchy and gender roles and that we should truly try doing everything 50/50 , chores and finances alike

Fast forward week

> I actually realise I do almost the same ammount of chores
> Went to groceries and it was her time to pay
> She never looks at price tags
> Price kinda high
> She is quiet the whole ride home

To all Anons here I highly recommend this approach. Also I am going to book a trip to Tokyo and either way she can pay her half or I am going with some friends without her lol.

>>60743820 (OP)
just continue the current path until she snaps & cries

You should have put her in her place but you’re not man enough to do so.

Your gf sounds like a dumb bitch

>>60743829
It just builds resentment

>>60743855
She is kind and has carrying soul

>>60743820 (OP)
If she can't handle cooking then she's useless and brings nothing to the table

>>60743820 (OP)
I also want to add this is a recipe for divorce if you ever get married. Until everything is 50/50 she has no skin in the game. Also if you marry her make sure you get a prenup. If she's the one it shouldn't be an issue

>>60743881
She can she just thinks that 20 min of fast tofu cooking and leasing a babylon tower of dishes equals to paying for everything

>>60743856
>>60743889
Sounds like you resent her. As you should. A woman not holding up to her role in the household is a recipe for disaster.

>>60743907
I dont care about woman being a housewife. But if you are not career oriented then at least make it up in the kitchen

>>60743919
I'm sure you like her a lot but ultimately if she doesn't do house chores she isn't the one man. I've been through it and it gets worse

Anon you have a fucking 7 year old as a girlfriend
In fact, I'd wager a lot of 7 years olds are more responsible and do more around the house

Jesus man
Her pussy is not that worth it
Tell her to do shit

I promise she will actually respect you more for it and will actually see you as more of a man for it
Most women are extremely immature annoyances that actually need to be put in their place

>>60743820 (OP)
based. if she has a job, she can pay for half.

>>60743820 (OP)

My then unemployed now ex-wife once had a fit and said she was going to get a job and buy all the stuff I wasn’t buying her.

I told her that’s fine after she pays for half of our expenses… which would obviously exceed her earning power… so she aint buying shit.

She’s a complete retard so she didn’t comprehend what that meant.

Even when I pointed out that I hadn’t bought myself anything in literally years, and I bought her shit every other week, she still didn’t see the light.

Ah well, now life is basically the same as it was, but I don’t have to buy her anything or feed her or listen to her talk.

I strongly recommend you don’t marry this woman because it will cost you. Maybe not for 5, 10 or 20 years, but it will cost you and she will walk away with much more than she brought

>>60744030
She does not demand stuff from me. Maybe an icecream or a mango from the store. She is financially low maitanance, plus she works. I dont think we are on the same boat on this one Anon

>>60744021
She is a student and only has part time job so I kinda feel bad for her

>>60744007
It just turns to back and forth argument or quiet household for at least few days.

Women who don't work full time just sit at home and spend money while getting more depressed and fatter.

Shitting out kids just speeds up the depression, money spending, and fatness. The stay at home trad wife meme is for cucks.