>>149352207I'm thinking part of it is with her promotion their lives are necessarily going to go in separate directions. They will each get their own lieutenants and work independently from one another, away from each other for long stretches of time. Even moreso if Emil decides to go on paternity leave. Is it fair to expect a relationship to survive that? Could someone as 'ugly' as her complete with Emil the hero's new lieutenant? Especially when she's not even around? Would it be okay for Chea to go from having one deadbeat parent at home while Dad is on missions to having no parents at all? I don't think Elka wants to come between Emil and Chea.
Of course, Emil seems to think it is worth it. And I don't think he agrees with Elka about her assessment of her looks. The concern about not taking away time from Chea is a valid one I think, but not unworkable. She will have during doting grandparents soon, not lackadaisical mothers. I do hope they stick together, but a big confession with a happily ever after ending that handwaves these problems and their character growth isn't Ashley's style.