>>18479136 (OP)>and learn to tolerate contactsyes
that's 100% how you'll look best because the lenses will make your eyes appear beady and smaller
you can minimize this with high refraction indices and smaller glasses in general but it'll be there, always
found this video recently that's somewhat relevant
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAlSBaTZuhU
that explains what kind of glasses you could go for if you don't want to use contacts (like when you're applying for a job you'll probably want to wear glasses to appear more competent)
I'm more partial to round frames (either thin, titanium or thicker acetate)