How to ask grille at gym for number if you see her mirin?

>>76265280 (OP)
Ignore her because you're a pussy and then lay awake at night regretting your decision when she stops showing up at the gym

I usually say "ayo gook, what's yo number?" but it depends on what race I guess

>>76265280 (OP)

"caught your attention? whats your name? I'm Anon".

then just go with the flow of a natural conversation getting to know each other with going turbo-autist over anything. If they are genuinely interesting to you, you follow up with "wanna go out for *insert shared activity of interest here" sometime?"

>>76265314

typo correction: *without going turbo-autist*

Ask her to spot you

>>76265314
That’s the gayest introduction ever.
If she looks at you, think of Tony Soprano and go “How you doin?” If she responds, start talking about whatever, anything at all.
If she looks away she isn’t interested. If she looks at you again smile and go over to her and start talking she was just shy.

Don’t try to be anyone or anything. Women can smell that because women are masters at deception. You might be able to trick them with a lie into believing a falsehood but they will know on some level something is wrong they’ll the ick even if they consciously do not detect a lie.
>what do I say? Should I run lines before I talk to her?
No. Just go up to her and talk. The words will come to you. Trust me they will. You don’t believe me but they will.
It will feel natural and you won’t sperg.

No one told you this because boomers thought everyone knew, milloonials are mentally ill, Zoomers haven’t figured it out.
Don’t run game.
Don’t run anything.
Just say anything. The weather. The weights. Her routine. What she’s lifting for.
Anything.

>>76265280 (OP)
>at gym
don't

>>76265280 (OP)
I had a girl come up to me and I think ask me to dance and I just shrugged because I couldn't hear her

>>76265469

>"Don't try to be anyone or anything"
>"think of Tony Soprano and go "how you doin?"

You say two different things.

>>76265280 (OP)
>*smacks lips*
>Ayo sheeeeiiittt beeeeiitch gibs me sum of dat
>Bix nood muffugga
Works for Tyrone

Become part of the "gym culture." Gyms fundamentally exist because people want to be social while being fit; otherwise, people would just have home gyms. Once you're already just talking with people, it seems perfectly natural you would talk to the girls.

>make gym frens
This can be tough, but you have lots of options here. Doing boxing worked wonders for me because it helped me make male friends and it was a super attention-grabbing activity at a lifting gym. Girls would literally come up to me asking if I could teach them self-defense, giving me an immediate in (they never REALLY wanted to learn self-defense). Join a class if your gym has them.
>find common social area (CSA) at gym (front desk, protein bar, water fountain, stretching area)
>routinely meet up with friends at CSA
>establish rapport with staff
>even if frens are not at gym, hang out at CSA and chat with staff
You have to REALLY try to fuck this one up. If she's already looking at you, just hanging out with gym friends makes it that much easier to rope her into a conversation and ask her out from there.

>>76265280 (OP)
Ey bb gimme them digits
>>76265481
If you couldn't hear her how did you know she asked to dance hmm?

>>76265676
This works for me. Try it, OP

>>76266055
yeah some faggot was bragging about how he had multiple mid women ask for his number in a month all because he’s in the gym at the same time 7 days a week. that’s how you become someone’s gym crush and they know what hours to find you

>>76266055
How busted were they? lol

>>76266096
>how did you know she asked to dance hmm?
I wasn't alone, a friend pulled me aside when we left and said "dude what are you doing?"

>>76265481
Animals are so wholesome sometimes

>>76265280 (OP)
Give her your number, stop asking for shit

>>76266429
The broads? Not bad, just not insanely pretty either. One was a cute ambiguously Asian girl with a decent butt. I'm not talking about swarms of women or anything,

>>76265280 (OP)
It doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it. Confident body language, playful smile, solid eye contact, clear tone, all that shit. You can literally speak gibberish like “what’s your favorite color” and if your approach is correct plus you meet her physical criteria, you’re in.

Whatever you do, do NOT mention crime statistics

>>76265280 (OP)
If she's a normie (No spider or SS rune tatoo) they like when you talk to them like a normie, if they like you. It hurts though so I don't do it.

>>76265280 (OP)
"Hey"
>hey
"You could use a but of work on your form"
>w-what?
"Yeah, your FORM you know, your body form haha"
>...
"Is that why you come to the gym, to work on your form?"
>uh
"So I don't really train at the gym. For me it's mostly Ring Fit Adventure and zumba, you know, zumBA BA BA, if you know what I'm saying haha."
>...
"Well if you want to work on your FORM, we should hang out. No sex tho."
>wut
"So how about topgolf at 8pm this Saturday? Get to practice our stroke game, with that double overhand death grip haha."
>...
"You like Death Grips? Great band. Well let's exchange number."
"Alright, see you in Church."

How is this post allowed ? But mine keep getting deleted ?

>>76265280 (OP)
A girl today in my gym was smiling at me and we were talking. I was showering her the exercises. She had a very nice fit body and aesthetic tattoos. Maybe if I wasn't autistic I could have a girl like this.

Why do men think that every time someone talks to them and smiles they think someone is flirting with them. It's depressing to be honest. Why is it so hard to understand that some people are just normally nice and just want to have a normal fucking interaction with people without anything more than that. I grew up with 3 sisters and I've heard sooo many stories

>>76268440
>Why do men think that every time someone talks to them and smiles they think someone is flirting with them.
They are. Doesn't mean they want to fuck you, but they want validation from you being interested. I'm attractive and most women are nice, but sometimes one totally ignores me, and I assume she has a really cool boyfriend and doesn't want validation.

>>76265481
I had a girl buy me a beer but I rejected it since my friend group was leaving and I was already drunk lmao

>>76268626
Based as fuck

She’s not ‘mirin you lmao.