>>76266019If he’s a 35-year-old 4chan-posting “loser,” the dynamic shifts. He’s likely not pulling 18-year-olds with charm, status, or resources—more like leaning into niche online spaces where he can exploit shared interests or edgelord vibes to connect with younger, impressionable women. 4chan’s culture (anons, incel rhetoric, meme-heavy cynicism) can attract socially isolated or rebellious teens who vibe with that chaos. These guys often target women who feel alienated themselves, not necessarily “undesirable” ones, but those craving validation or a sense of belonging that peers their age aren’t giving them.
It’s less about him being “hot” and more about him gaming a specific subculture. Data’s sparse, but studies on online grooming (e.g., 2022 UK Home Office reports) suggest older men in fringe forums exploit emotional vulnerabilities more than physical appeal. Younger guys might not even be in these spaces to “compete,” so it’s not about who’s “wanted” but who’s accessible in that weird corner of the internet. Still smells predatory, though—loser or not, he’s likely banking on the age gap to offset his lack of social game.