People talking to me at gym - /fit/ (#76267814) [Archived: 1094 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:29:07 PM No.76267814
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I used to have the problem of no one wanting to talk to me and not having any friends.
Since I lost weight and got lean and big at the gym, people don't leave me the fuck alone. Like if I'm at the gym, people will just come up and talk to me, which I don't mind. But I'll do a single set and they'll come back and wanna talk or ask for advice and they'll ask for my Instagram, and if I give it to them they'll text me all fucking day just wanting to talk.

I wanna just say FUCK OFF, but I also don't want to be rude
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:32:12 PM No.76267827
>>76267814 (OP)
>I used to have the problem of no one wanting to talk to me
>Now I have the problem of everyone wanting to talk to me
Both cant be a problem anon.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:36:08 PM No.76267842
>>76267814 (OP)
Wear giant fuck off headphones and a low profile hat while avoiding eye contact with anyone. They filter out all but the biggest autists and homos.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:37:43 PM No.76267849
>>76267814 (OP)
i literally just changed gyms because i became the main character. i got sick of the fact that any time i go there literally 6am, noon, 6pm or midnight, i knew guys there.every single time guys come up to dab me and small talk whats up brooo, looking big broooo, fffuuarrkk thats a nice bench

just shut the fuck up, i dont want to acknowledge anyone at the gym
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:39:00 PM No.76267856
>>76267814 (OP)
Charge them money for advice. They will either leave you alone or you'll earn some cash.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:39:42 PM No.76267857
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>>76267814 (OP)
>lean and big
height & weight bro? I'm 5'10", 170lbs.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:42:13 PM No.76267866
>>76267814 (OP)
Something is telling me no one cares about you as much as you think and most people are just being nice and coming by to say hello, not to worship the ground you walk on as your delusion states
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:45:10 PM No.76267881
>>76267849
>familiarity breeds contempt
lmfao one of my favorite sayings. It's so fucking true. I rotate through all the waffle houses in my area to avoid getting too comfy with any of the staff. I order close to the same thing every time, and it annoys the fuck out of me when they start to assume what I'm gonna order. Is it a problem that means anything? No but it pisses me off and that's all that matters. I order "a lot" of food, and I can hear the server & cook expressing surprise & disbelief that someone my size wants that much food... Again it means nothing but it annoys the fuck out of me. I don't want people getting comfy around me because they see it as an excuse to act EVEN MORE unprofessional. I've learned there's almost nothing to gain from shooting the shit with people either. They get dopamine, I get nothing. Maybe I'm autistic & weird as fuck, but I don't like getting too close to people. I inevitably notice things I don't ike and it makes me angry.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:45:37 PM No.76267882
>>76267849
I cycle between gyms at least once a year because of this. Once you talk to anyone a single time they won’t leave you alone. Eventually you acquire a little entourage of people you feel obligated to smalltalk with which makes the workouts drag on longer and longer so I have to reset the board.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 9:15:40 PM No.76268011
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>>76267881
>>76267882
OP here, agreed.

Genuinely it's fucking up my shit, even if I go to the gym with say my brother or my dad. I won't be able to get a good sesh in cause these people won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE.

I'll tell them "listen man, I ain't really gonna talk as I'm training with my dad/brother" and they'll STILL hang round, watch me lift, ask me questions about my lift. Like DUDE, take a hint and FUCK OFF.
>And if you wanted to know what I'm lifting or how much weight I have on the bar...? USE YOUR FUCKING EYES!!!

I don't often get to train with my dad so it's one of the few times I actually get to see him. Being in my mind twenties and shit.

And if I'm by myself in the gym they'll ask for my opinion on everything, like they want my approval on what type of curls to do or how much weight "I" think they should be lifting. Bro... Use your own head.
>worse Is when they ask for fucking LIFE advice. Like bro IDK. Go to a therapist or something. I don't have all the answers to your life. And secondly, why the fuck do you care about my opinion? Ask YOUR friends, or your mom, or your dad. I'm just a dude that goes to your gym.

Genuinely, when I was a fat fucker, no one approached me and now Im thinking I preferred it that way
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 9:29:25 PM No.76268066
>>76268011
Holy shit that’s hilarious. At least I never gave out my number to the DYELs so they can’t bother me outside the gym too. I would run and not look back OP.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 10:22:58 PM No.76268244
>>76268011
holy KEK lmaooo, I love how they report random shit to you and text you randomly haha
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 12:09:41 AM No.76268633
>>76268244
Tell me about it
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 12:47:12 AM No.76268736
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>>76268011
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:21:46 AM No.76268836
I’m kinda jealous. I’ve been going to the same gym for 3 years and not anyone has said hello to me except 2 roiders but they left afrer year 1.
I should be more social but fuck I dont want to get interrupted by nerds. I just want the hot poosies
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:32:59 AM No.76268858
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>>76268011
> heart reacts

Dude, this isn't just a gym success thing, you must be pretty good looking for people to latch on you like that.
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:39:04 AM No.76268868
>>76268011
Post body, height and weight. Show me why people treat you this way because it sounds delusional
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:56:09 AM No.76269149
>>76267814 (OP)
>>76267881
>>76268011

antisocial retards contribute nothing to society
write your manifesto
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:34:49 AM No.76269277
Start intimidation maxxing, or find a bigger pond.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:31:47 AM No.76269651
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Based tbH
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:58:27 AM No.76269937
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>>76268858
>>76268011
Dude from the right side screenshot liked a random old post of mine at 4 in the morning
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 12:53:34 PM No.76270068
>>76267881
you are either schizoid or have avoidant personality disorder, I know because I do the same shit
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:33:28 PM No.76270184
>>76268011
this nigga wants to sex you anon