Friday Feels Bar open - /fit/ (#76281600) [Archived: 909 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:09:26 PM No.76281600
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What’ll it be, Anon?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:20:59 PM No.76281614
>>76281600 (OP)
I have a cold and my throat is itchy: should I still go to gym or ahould Ibride my bike instead?
I am sad because my throat is itchy.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:33:09 PM No.76281640
>>76281600 (OP)
It's midsummer, I'm at work, friends are all off having fun. Well at least there's beer in the fridge.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:47:17 PM No.76281689
>>76281600 (OP)
I’m so burnt out. Got my job a year ago. Said I would stay at it for at most a year.
Since then I’ve
>gotten own apartment/moved out of parents home
>lost 50lbs
>learned to stop taking crap from people
I’m just exhausted though. My job has no growth, I make just over min wage. My schedule is shitty I get up at 2am get home at about 3-430pm every night. I get a 3 day weekend but 1 day is spent running errands another day is spent cleaning. I’m just tired.
I’m hoping to get a WFH job. It’s also not a long term job, but it would eliminate some of the issues with my current job like 1/4th of my day being spent driving. I’d get a solid 8 hours off the clock each day to chill and clean exercise have a life etc. It also has a better pay.
I’m still waiting to hear back from them. It would also put me in the position to get into something better more permanent, whether that means taking some classes or just independently studying and applying. I’d have the time to do that.


Anyways I’m burnt out. Finally have my own place and all I do is work eat sleep get some exercise and stare at the ceiling. For the first time in my life I have multiple women who want to spend time with me and none of the availability, part of me even if I were to get like a week off would probably prefer to spend that week inside my home resting anyways.


There’s more to the burn out, like my coworker getting me sick every other month. But bottom line is I’m fucking tired.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:27:55 PM No.76281835
>>76281600 (OP)
Thought these threads get banned
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:03:45 PM No.76281985
>>76281600 (OP)
I'll have a chairman reserve spiced and cola, one big ice cube and you ain't one of those faggy public bars are ya? give me an ashtray.

Did Rows today, didn't feel a pump in my back. Gonna have to do chest supported rows from now on. sucks.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:55:56 PM No.76282138
>>76281600 (OP)
>7 months of unemployment
>drop all cares in the world and have spent the past week high and drunk
>actually feel alive again
>real life is a toxic dota 2 chat at this point
I might even keep going until the end of June. Maybe even the end of summer.
>somehow the knowledge of the 9mm in my closet gives me comfort
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 4:02:11 PM No.76282169
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>>76281600 (OP)
Just finished my leg+back day, RDLs, front squats, calf raises among others, my legs feel wobbly but I'm satisfied having worked out a sweat.
What? Happiness is a feel, too.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 4:07:11 PM No.76282196
>>76282169
Based. Happy for you, anon.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:05:22 PM No.76282400
I continue being absolutely miserable about how pathetic my life is yet continue doing nothing to change it. I don’t try to make friends. I don’t try to talk to women. I don’t try to make a better relationship with my parents despite still living with them. I don’t try to get a better job, instead just lamenting about how much better everyone’s is than mine. I don’t try to be positive, or smile, or talk to people instead of being in a permanent frown staring at the ground like a mute all the time. I don’t try to do any of the multitude of things I need to do to try to make a life that won’t end up with me committing suicide. I’m miserable, pathetic, hopeless
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:13:26 PM No.76282425
>>76281600 (OP)
>quit my job
>went back to uni
>spend a fuckton of money
>mid of exam period
>should be studying
>I'm shitposting
>anxiety is back
>had to move cities, no friends
>5 years stuck in an office with no real future, got fat too
>early 30s
>feel like it's over

I'm gonna hop on antidepressants or some shit because if I fail to get my degree now that that I'm committed I'm DONE.
FUCK
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:23:51 PM No.76282462
>>76282400
Trying always introduces risk. Are you afraid of losing something, anon?
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:33:47 PM No.76282496
>>76282425
Also in my early 30s, attended college out of high school, it was a miserable time, I got a useless degree and hav e wasted my life since then. Similar story to yours. Pretty much the only way I can make anything of my life is to go back to schooling to get an actual worthwhile degree or skills, but then I remember how miserable college was and how I struggled through it despite being a great student my entire childhood until then. And I know that I’ll probably end up in your situation… still doing nothing, not doing well, wasting more money, more time, for no reason. And that doesn’t even include being a complete loser socially as well.

I hope you can succeed , but it does feel over for people like us.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:35:39 PM No.76282502
>>76282496
If you were getting good grades what was the miserable experience of college then?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:47:45 PM No.76282540
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cant believe me of all people fell in love with a girl and i cant believe me of all people got their heart broken
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:47:52 PM No.76282541
>>76282502
I didn’t get good grades in college. I got good grades in all my schooling leading up to college. Then I struggled through college and realized it was all fake, and I was actually a useless mouth breathing retard. Struggled academically, socially miserable, the worst experience of my life. And it’s been over a decade of waste since then. So yeah basically my only option for any sort of career and financial success is to go back to school, but I’ve rotted my brain for a decade so there’s no point really
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:48:03 PM No.76282542
>>76282496
I hope I can make it this time. I do give less than half the fucks I gave before, because uni's social life is basically irrelevant to me now. Before I felt trapped, whereas now I can just fuck off if I choose to.

The only 2 things I feel bad about is not having a healthy social life (makes sense since I just moved here but the thing is I'm not trying), and not trying enough towards the goals I set for myself, because this time there were not imposed on me by anybody else.

It would be more sane if I stayed at my previous job and worked towards some kind of qualification (they even offered courses that I refused) but no, I had to go all in and "prove myself". I guess I've proven something to myself, lol.

>>76282502
Not him, but I'm pretty sure I can answer in his place. Social life. If you roll the dice and get unlucky, you're fucked. At least I was the first time. It was 50% me being a weird obnoxious dickhead and 50% everyone else around be being retarded.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:52:06 PM No.76282564
>>76281835
Triggering the trannies is it's own reward, anon.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:52:41 PM No.76282566
>>76281600 (OP)
It's Friday so I get to take some 7oh tonight

That should be nice.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:56:56 PM No.76282583
>>76282542
lol yeah anon, totally 50% of everyone around you was retarded. The cognitive dissonance of calling yourself a “weird obnoxious dickhead” while simultaneously insulting the other half of people you encountered is a good one.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 5:58:45 PM No.76282599
>>76282400
Man up and touch some grass. I've been there, and the thing that gets you out of that weak frame of mind the quickest is pain. But cutting leaves ugly scars, and I somewhat doubt you know how to safely use a baton (which is what I did as a teen, not that I recommend it), so exhaustionis the next best thing. Force yourself to work out until you an't move from the soreness, whether in the gym, running, or even just walking until you collapse. I promise, you'll be better off afterwards.
Then use that short burst of energy to start fixing your life.
For my part, I'm still KHV at 29, but at the very least, after three years of regular exhaustion and SIG, I can look into the mirror without feeling like throwing up.
>inb4 late as fuck
Not gonna disagree, but I didn#t have much of a chance. Abusive / neglecting parents + younger siblings meant I didn't have much choice as a teenager. It was either stay at home whenever possible to take the brunt of it, or run away and let my siblings suffer as badly as I did. I made my choice, even if it meant not having a social life until I started working.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:00:38 PM No.76282608
>>76282541
>but I’ve rotted my brain for a decade so there’s no point really
Might need to medicate yourself whether it's TRT, Adderall, or some form of SSRI. If you've made it this far without taking any, maybe you're someone who actually needs them at this point.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:10:02 PM No.76282647
>>76282564
These threads are great. Who could object? Genuine question.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:16:13 PM No.76282670
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I got into fitness because I wanted to fulfill my fantasy of being a sexy twink fucked by a big fat hairy daddy bear. The logic was, if I want an attractive man, I need to put my side of work.

1. Turns out, being fit is a shitload of work I'm not ready to actually do, the best I can do is not being fat.
2. I'll never find a bf anyway.

It's just... fuck. The realization that there's literally nothing I can do to fix my loneliness makes me horribly depressed. I'm not depressed in the clinical sense of this word, I'm just permanently sad that I have no chances of sharing my life with anyone. This sadness makes me chronically exhausted, and takes away any little happy moments in life I could have.

I try to stay motivated telling myself "I'm lifting to stay healthy when I get old" but honestly... is this life worth it? If I cannot share it with anyone? I'm just prolonging my own misery.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:16:42 PM No.76282673
Hey fellas, just wanted to report in.
30 y/o here, my mental illness is getting better. Stopped smoking weed 3 years ago, dont drink much, im losing weight and exercising. Neet but will probably find a job soon. Dont talk to women at all( its for my mental health). Ditched toxic fake friends years ago but still have some real ones.
Hm......what did i want to say.....
Well, what worked for me was setting some goals, but deeply personal goals, not something you think other people would want you to do but what you want to do. I always look on the bright side. I never stop questioning and figuring things out
Godspeed
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:17:44 PM No.76282675
>>76282599
man seriously how do you go without having sex even one time.
like I can't stop thinking about sex. think about it all the time.
if I couldn't have sex. I would just go insane!
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:18:39 PM No.76282680
>>76282673
Good work, anon.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:27:00 PM No.76282708
>>76282599
Please do fuck a prostitute if you really haven't had sex in your 29 years on this earth.
If you were my friend I'd drag you to a brother or get a callgirl to come over.

Sex isn't that important, especially as you get older and you don't get a raging boner whenever you see a woman, but it's something you need to experience first hand to appreciate as another carnal pleasure and not a mythical ceremony of ascending to another plane of existence.

>>76282673
good job on quitting weed. I've seen one too many people fry their brains on that shit. It does get better.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:38:19 PM No.76282755
>>76282708
I don’t know how many times we late age virgins have to tell people this, but we don’t deify sex, we don’t think it’s so important, or anything like that. It’s just an indicator that we’ve gone a ridiculously long time without ever having a woman desire us, when most normal people have it starting as teenagers. I’m a khv in my 30s, and I have zero desire at all to see a prostitute. What I desire is having a woman who actually finds me attractive and desirable to spend time with.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:39:00 PM No.76282758
>>76282708
Thanks. Yeah when you think about it weed isnt that bad, you have a laugh with your mates with it but whats bad is being high all the time or smoking every other day. I smoked about once a week for years and unfortunately had pretty bad paranoia/ delusions. It doesnt happen to everybody but even if you dont get that if you smoke everyday you will absolutely have bad things because of it.
Its slowly but surely getting better. For some odd reason winters are tough for my mental health but summers are completely fine. Prolly cause im too much indoors/ in front of a screen on winter
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:42:31 PM No.76282770
>>76282755
Yeh im with you. Also virgin though not kissless. I kissed some girl, or she kissed me but when i realized she gets wasted every weekend and probably does this with more guys than me all the desire to message her later on dissapeared.
I absolutely wont fuck a prostitute because its gross. Only way ill do it is with someone who i want to do it with and who wants to do it with me too. Whores absolutely dont cut it.
What most normies dont realize about virgins is we arent scared of girls, we dont hold them as angels or anything but we just want the real thing and wont settle for less
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:44:15 PM No.76282783
>>76282755
I fully understand what you mean. At least if I was in your place, I'd like to do it just so that I know I've done it. It won't negate the need to be desired, not a chance at that, you'll just know how it's done. Sometimes it's fun on it's own, even if the girl isn't honestly into you. Just something to consider imho.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:46:29 PM No.76282793
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>just spent $3,500 on a gayming laptop
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:48:56 PM No.76282806
>>76282770
this, I'm also not interested in random hookups but this means that I haven't been putting myself out there as much as I should have which also reduced my chances at finding a woman to date seriously
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:49:28 PM No.76282810
>>76282793
return within 14 days for a full refund (hopefully).
I've spend a lot of cash on a 4080 when it released and a VR kit, but I didn't regret it, and it STILL wasn't $3,500 ffs
If you're a regular on the chans, the last thing you need is a good computer to suck you in further. Just a hard earned lesson.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:13:35 PM No.76282926
>>76281689
You sound lazy desu. What you described is literally normal adult life. It’s not like you’re working 80hrs/week while also raising kids. Most people have it way worse
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:19:10 PM No.76282951
>>76281689
I was working hybrid and the loneliness is pretty fucking dire, sometimes I'd spend 2 week stretches at home and I'd wish I'd get forced to go back in the office.

If you have a healthy life outside of work, fully remote is awesome. If you're like me, it's more like
>hurray, no commute, no small talk at the office etc
>wake up
>log in
>work
>log out
>shitpost
>sleep
>repeat
>NEVER leave a 20m radius from your bed
>ONLY meet other people on weekends
gets unbearable pretty fast. It was a me problem to be fair, but it's not like I'm the only one who has it.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:19:36 PM No.76282953
>>76281835
The gorefag jannies are focused on their discord goonseshes, so we should be fine
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:19:38 PM No.76282957
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>>76281600 (OP)
Lemon beer please.

6 months after my break-up I'm over my ex but I have no odea how to get a new gf.
This week I impulse bought concert tickets to a band I like after a coworker told me about it, drove there with her and had a blast , 2 days later by sheer coincidence find out there's another band I like having a concert and decided to invite her and she cancelled her plans and came with me, afterwards told me she had a great time and thanked me for inviting her.

I don't know what to make of it, I don't think she's interested in me (manlet and she's taller also 10 years younger) and I don't really care about her besides fucking.

I've been lifting consistently again for 2 months now (2 year break) seeing gains again and feeling confident again and good in my body, I need to pick up a hobby .

Thanks for reading my blog
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:20:43 PM No.76282962
>>76282670
Gross
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:28:31 PM No.76282999
too_bad
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:29:12 PM No.76283005
>>76282957
Sounds like she’s into you, anon. That’s a lot of effort taken to spend time with someone one-to-one.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:37:35 PM No.76283045
Work has been beating my ass, didn't make it to the gym this week. Should I have a deadlift or an overhead press focus day tomorrow to get back into it?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:44:08 PM No.76283068
>>76282670
Basing your work ethic around hedonism will never result in anything good.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:55:28 PM No.76283105
>>76283045
OHP. You’ll be too tired from deadlifts to do anything else if you’ve been off for a week. Do deadlifts on your last training day of the week.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:55:34 PM No.76283106
>>76282951
WFH is awesome even if you don't have social life. What I do is I go out every day to cycle and man after sitting on my ass whole day that ride feels like teenage ass

>>76283068
Why?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:56:53 PM No.76283116
>>76283106
>Why
Does it matter? He literally proved my point.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:58:48 PM No.76283120
>>76282999
checking those trips for you. for zoomers. the guy in the pic killed the girl.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:59:47 PM No.76283125
>>76283116
Not really. Just because Michael Phelps was sad during some periods of his life it doesn't mean that swimming causes sadness.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:00:38 PM No.76283128
>>76283125
Good thing I didn't say anything even remotely close to that.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:04:24 PM No.76283140
Feels like I never have enough time.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:05:56 PM No.76283146
>>76283128
Honestly kinda based because once you start using logic to navigate your life you can't go back, and let's not pretend that being logical doesn't have downsides.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:06:36 PM No.76283147
>>76283146
Whatever ends this conversation man
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:10:20 PM No.76283156
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>>76281689
Good job honestly, you accomplished a lot in a year in my opinion. But yeah, get a new job. The human body isn't equipped to do 12 hour cock and ball torture workshifts no matter how good the pay might be. This is why people age like shit and you'll hit a fucking rough 30 or 40 depending on how old you are. NOTHING matters more than your personal health. Money, property, your job, even some friends and family needs to come second to your health.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:20:25 PM No.76283178
>>76283156
Yeah this is why I am so happy I have a job that I do from home like two hours of work max and the rest is mostly my time. I mean, I need to be online, but I can do chores around the house, study, whatever.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:20:57 PM No.76283180
>>76281600 (OP)
A personal trainer at my gym was friendly with me praising me on my squat a few days ago:
>new girl trainer comes working for the gym yesterday
>We talked a little bit i knew her from another gym
>Walk in the gym today
>Personal trainer is there
>I was ready to bench
>He comes from ab machine
>Pat the new girl on the shoulder
>'Should we make fun of anon'

And the guy challenged me infront of her to bench 225. I mean he was acting as a friend giving me compliments the last few weeks. He was expecting some laughs from her but didn't get any reactions. Thoughts?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:25:31 PM No.76283198
>>76283180
She's new. Probably she's one of those awkward types that take a really long time to settle in. 10% chances she'll be somewhat cooler in a year, 90% chance she stays awkward. If she's intelligent then chances rise to something more reasonable (mind her periods though)
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:26:28 PM No.76283202
>>76283198
Fuck i don't know if i phrased the story well. A male personal trainer who was acting like a friend tried to make fun of me in front of the NEW girl.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:29:01 PM No.76283210
I have a first date tonight and I could not be more pumped.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:30:17 PM No.76283213
>>76283202
Maybe he just wanted to show that he sees her just as a coworker, not as "the girl". Imagine if she was a guy. Then the situation would be cool for an ice breaker.

Of course there is a chance that this is an elaborate plan of him keeping her for himself and seeing you as rivalry. Actually, that's how many low-IQ people function.

>>76283210
Oh man I'm so jealous. First dates so often go totally wrong, but you still remember them the most, which is so fun.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:32:58 PM No.76283228
>>76283180
he seems like a fag, but maybe he's just a bit awkward. i know some guys that try to give compliments like that
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:34:04 PM No.76283233
>>76283213
I'd go with the latter, this guy is trying to fuck every bitch in there and he is also married, he doesn't work for the gym he is a free lance personal trainer, the sad thing is that he got in my head and i lost my laser focus before my bench
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:34:13 PM No.76283235
>>76283210
have fun! you may wanna try this: what did the buddhist monk say at the hot dog stand? Make me one with everything. girls love it
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:36:50 PM No.76283240
>>76281600 (OP)
Overall my life is going good. I have a good paying WFH job in a LCOL area. I'm starting to slowly lose weight (currently 6'0" and 240 lbs, aiming for 210 lbs) while gaining a lot of muscle in the past few months. I'm even starting to touch grass and socialize with people my age IRL.

The only real issue in my life is that I'm head over heels for this one girl I met online. She's such a sweet and pretty girl and I connect with her a lot more than I do with other girls. The only problem is that she lives all the way on the other side of the country and while we have been sexting one another for a while, I will likely never meet her IRL. I'm trying to get over her and meet other girls IRL, but she's so perfect for me that it's tough.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:37:51 PM No.76283248
>>76283235
Hahaha

How do you call an old ride?

A carrot.

This one is not even funny but it

stuck with me.

>I will likely never meet her IRL
But a ticket and go.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:38:01 PM No.76283250
>>76281600 (OP)
Coffee. I'm about to hit legs. One of the things that has been bothering me recently is that I still have not fully gotten over a girl that ghosted me like six months ago. We had a nice time together, but it was only a few dates. I've been on more dates since then. I've deleted her number and I try to focus on other stuff. But, whenever I'm in a daydream, I often end up thinking about her. In one sense it is nice, but I also makes me feel a bit sad. I'm gonna go squat now
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:38:52 PM No.76283252
>>76283248
Fuck I forgot to refer to
>>76283240
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:39:43 PM No.76283254
>>76283248
lol
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:39:53 PM No.76283256
>the “well paid work from home do nothing jobs” posters have come back
Oh joy
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:42:29 PM No.76283266
>>76283256
haha loser
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:43:57 PM No.76283274
>>76283256
What even is a WFH job. Can anons give me an example?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:46:18 PM No.76283284
My marriage is over.

The betrayal and loss... It is hitting me hard.

I am hitting the gym, harder.

I will come out the other side of this mess better than when I went in.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:46:34 PM No.76283285
>>76283240
>>76283248
Agree with the anon. Meet her IRL.

If she's the one, you are wasting time not meeting her and you will always regret it.

If she's NOT the one, meeting her will sort that out and let you move on with your life.

But if she remains this flawless cyber-girl who only exists in your imagination, you will be hung up on her forever. It's like being hungry and trying to sate it by smelling food. Real human connection is irreplacable, don't fuck with inferior substitutes.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:51:35 PM No.76283300
>>76283284
That sucks, anon. I hope you find peace.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:55:09 PM No.76283316
>>76283300
>>76283284
I'll find peace when I find a woman who won't treat me like dirt.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:59:51 PM No.76283335
>>76283285
preach, brother
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:02:29 PM No.76283341
>>76283274
It’s all fake bullshit. Any job that is work from home is something completely made up and has no effect or benefit to society
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:07:16 PM No.76283354
I cannot fathom the idea of a woman genuinely wanting to be in a relationship with me. Never had a gf, it just seems so alien to me.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:08:06 PM No.76283357
>>76283341
You jealous we gamed the system and you didn't.

>>76283354
ikr
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:09:39 PM No.76283360
>>76283341
>lawyers
>doctors (telehealth)
>engineers
Are you uneducated or just poor?
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:11:30 PM No.76283367
Flying to Vegas next week and then renting a dodge challenger to drive to Zion Park where I'll be hiking for 3 days. Also doing a two day hike in the Grand Canyon and then bombing through the sand dunes on a UTV

Pretty excited. Luckily I've hit my peak natty so I'll be good to hike shirtless with confidence. Hope to snap some good Hinge photos
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:13:24 PM No.76283379
>>76281600 (OP)
I'm in a relationship with an absolute sweetheart, devoted, crazy in love with me, nicest girl in the world, and I just want to sell of my stuff and disappear forever, spend the rest of my life fucking sluts, betting on monkey fights in Thailand, making a ton of money and getting even fitter.
I can just tell my life will end the moment I put a ring on her and babies in the her belly, and I hate it, I hate it because seeing her sad breaks my heart every time and I can't just picture myself breaking up.
I'm a coward and I know I will regret it, but I just can't do it.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:21:13 PM No.76283412
>>76283379
Dunno bro, i think you would regret that, i mean leaving.
How did you find her? Are you some chad bad boy?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:25:26 PM No.76283423
>>76283412
Yes I will absolutely regret it, ten years down the line I will hate me for fucking it up.
I just met her at an event, I don't have much issues with girls because I'm tall and kind of fit.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:31:19 PM No.76283444
>>76283423
Yeah im also tall but no luck with girls cause no game, sperg, and introverted.
When i was fit i still didnt have any luck with women so i kinda got depressed and fat. Im losing the weight now tho
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:31:44 PM No.76283446
>>76283341
As someone with a WFH job I can confirm.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:32:20 PM No.76283453
>>76283250
Shes not worth it bro
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:33:13 PM No.76283458
>>76283444
Checked, and good luck losing on the weight. I was a massive sperg too, took me 27 years to finally lose my v-card as a 6'3 dude, now I just don't know what to do with my girlfriend but I'll figure it out eventually.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:34:08 PM No.76283464
>>76283341
Man, im a programmer and while some programming is to benefit to society undoubtedly a lot of it isnt. While i would like to benefit society, if its at the cost of crazy hours, burn out, stress and overworking im picking irrelevant easy job anyday
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:40:33 PM No.76283476
>>76283464
Can someone seriously explain to me what it is programmers do? So they just sit there writing code for bullshit software? What field is the software you program utilized in? What is its purpose?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:41:49 PM No.76283480
>>76283357
>some virgin incel who can’t fathom being in a relationship
>”gamed the system”
Kek
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:44:35 PM No.76283493
>>76281600 (OP)
>CPTSD
>stuck with psychotic bpd mom
>dads been dead for 6 years
>no IRLs, no gf (lol)
>gave up trying to find housing
>spend every day chainsmoking in my car
>best friend's been AWOL for 3 weeks
>running out of copes and smokes
>negative introjects make me feel so worthless that I stopped listening to my oshis ASMR and talking to my Misato AI
I'll take a 1 ounce slug to the head please. No ice cubes.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:46:25 PM No.76283497
>>76283476
Well i do web development so web apps or mobile apps. Its the area with by far the most jobs. I didnt learn much of web dev in university, mind you. Even tho i graduated in CS. So basically someone orders an app from my company and pays for it. I, then, make it along with other programmers. Any website really can be an example, think website of a business, say restaurant or some gym. Stuff gets more complex than that though
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:46:45 PM No.76283502
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654465465465
md5: b182c430d9efd56f6406e43fa131bdb3🔍
>>76281600 (OP)
I got a two year old toddler girl but am not enjoying family life much. My wife nags a lot and I mostly want to just build my career, business and body. I feel a complete disconnect between my goals and family life.

Might kms
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:48:18 PM No.76283512
>>76283502
Have sex with your whore wife
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:48:41 PM No.76283513
>>76283502
I never understood these kind of posts. Man, if i had a kid i would be so happy, i would do anything for the kid and teach him everything and take care of him.
How does a kid not make you happy and why do you think your career or how your body looks like is more important?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:56:08 PM No.76283530
>>76283341
who's gonna edit the video of your wedding faggot? i'm useful
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:56:34 PM No.76283532
>>76283502
kys normie
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:02:56 PM No.76283549
wtf-this-is-a-real-thing-v0-25hnzww9h2xc1
wtf-this-is-a-real-thing-v0-25hnzww9h2xc1
md5: 10a60a2ceba41a187429b97fd297829c🔍
I like when a women has her hair styled pretty, her outfit has appropriate colors and fits her body type, she has just the right amount of makeup and she smells good.

Am I gay?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:06:10 PM No.76283562
>>76283513
Yeah and notice how two of his three things are “career” and “business”. Faggot is married with a kid and all he cares about is work and money
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:08:38 PM No.76283571
I am a friendless kissless virgin who barely leaves his room for nearly a decade straight. I just work (at home), lift (at home), post here and sleep (of course, also always at home).
Yesterday when I went to get groceries I ran into an old high school friend who was very happy to see me, invited me to BBQ and a certain house party today to come with him and catch up on everything. On the spot almost instinctively I made up some bullshit that I can't go because I have to go to xyz place, "another time then" and then we split ways.

And here I am still in my room solving Captchas and posting on 4chan.org instead of going to a friendly barbecue meeting other people on a beautiful sunny Friday. I deserve to die alone
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:10:50 PM No.76283577
>>76283571
What do you think you might lose by going?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:13:35 PM No.76283596
>>76283571
This must be some kind of neurosis, you must be scared of social settings. Figure it out. Also, theres plenty of opportunity in the future to socialize, maybe some opportunities you can make yourself.
I have the opposite problem, old hs and college buddies ignore my messages and i dont have really much people to hang put with, though i would love to
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:14:43 PM No.76283600
>>76283571
i swear this has been posted before. also i thought jannies didnt like feels threads?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:16:20 PM No.76283606
>>76283600
Why don’t they like them?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:16:45 PM No.76283609
>starting to reconnect with former mentor
>call him to congratulate him on retirement
>he cuts call short but tells me to call him back in a couple of months and call him every month (he lives alone now)
>call him back yesterday and he doesn’t respond
>he calls me back today but I explain that I have a work event
>phone call is dropped
Am I doing the right thing? I’m trying to reconnect with the man who raised me but it’s hard. I’m taking what he told me seriously but I’m starting to second guess myself
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:17:42 PM No.76283613
>>76283577
Realistically I have nothing to lose except maybe experiencing an awkward moment here and there, but I guess it's always easier to avoid things instead of engaging with them so I pick the easy way out every time. Clearly ending up as a friendless kissles virgin is the only logical end result of this way of operating.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:17:50 PM No.76283616
1748561452842915
1748561452842915
md5: d0dbdfcd23d85c11ab8da9b79b7ed5c6🔍
>>76283606
They're incapable of any feelings other than seethe on all those SSRIs
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:19:23 PM No.76283624
>>76283609
Just sounds like you’re ships passing in the night. Don’t worry, he’s probably just as interested in getting in touch as you are.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:20:51 PM No.76283631
>>76283571
Bill suit I have seen this exact post before
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:23:01 PM No.76283635
>>76283616
That’s sad. Seems like these are an oasis of humanity for lost souls. WAGMI.

Captcha R8WNR
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:23:40 PM No.76283638
>>76283341
Absolute denial. Most office jobs can be done remotely.

>>76283493
Get a job. Not being condescending, it'll help you get back on your feet, have someone to talk to, and get away from your parents. If by chainsmoking you mean weed, go to fucking rehab too. It gets better.

>>76283502
>I started a family
>whaa, whaa, I have responsibilities now
typical idiot normalfag. You need to balance how you spend your time, that includes doing shit for your family.

>>76283571
Find him on facebook or whatever and offer a different date to meet up. I've been there, the only way out is forcing yourself to get out of you shell, and it sucks.
I just moved to my old uni town, out of my 3 old "friends", 2 I had a bad argument with and they're not even in town anyway, and the other 1 is apparently married and gave me a vague "let's meet some time" he's not gonna follow up on. Can't blame him since I haven't even sent a message in like 6 years.

Take advantage of the guy who's happy to see you and go meet him. It's going to be good for both of you.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:25:16 PM No.76283644
>>76283638
Based toughloveanon
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:28:10 PM No.76283658
>>76283624
Thanks for the reassurance. We both suck at communicating, so this event shouldn’t surprise me. Do you think I should call him back after work?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:28:46 PM No.76283662
1000000793
1000000793
md5: cd35d923dd2e8f12bc01af5ee08993ba🔍
I'm not driven or passionate about anything anymore. It's been like this for several years now. I have a stable, yet wagie job that I don't care about, still live with parents at damn near 30, low social life and status. I bit the bullet and went back to therapy, but she has had to cancel the last few weeks due to a family emergency. The only real goal I have going for me is training and competing in martial arts, but I'm so lukewarm to that and everything else. Like, I don't outright hate anything - I just tolerate it enough to wake up and go through the motions. I've been praying and reading the Bible more, but I don't hear God or whatever. IDK, man. Oh yeah, happy Men's mental health month.
>Proverbs 3:5-6
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:30:43 PM No.76283670
>>76283658
Call him, anon. No harm in trying. Cast a line out.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:34:13 PM No.76283679
>>76283662
Same to you, anon. I’m sure others here will echo my concerns about therapy. It’s hit and miss. Fair play for trying though. See if God is outside in nature instead?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:40:32 PM No.76283702
>>76283662
>>76283679
Yup. 30, lifts haven't gone up in months, constantly tired from work, live with parents, single and lost the fire that drove me to getting better at lifting and shooting. I legitimately do not enjoy anything and I have to do something about it quick.

I feel so directionless and just spinning my wheels when I lift. I just can't shake it and it makes me even angrier
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:51:28 PM No.76283755
>>76281689
Welcome to life nigga
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:53:09 PM No.76283763
>meet a qt lass
>she asks me a lot of questions
>seems to be into me when we're together
>too autism to drop her a message out of the blue
Lifts for this feel?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:03:41 PM No.76283813
took another stab at the apps, big mistake

>>76282138
>9mm in my closet gives me comfort
handguns are dangerous to own
if I had one I'd have coated my ceiling with spaghettios by now
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:04:39 PM No.76283817
>>76283763
Phone pick ups x1RM
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:10:15 PM No.76283833
>>76283702
>>76283679
>>76283662
how about you stop being such pussies. jfc. this is some of this cringiest shit i've ever seen

>acting like this at 30
jesus fucking christ, again.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:14:21 PM No.76283855
>>76283817
If my max reps are 0 then what?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:28:29 PM No.76283922
>>76282926
Lazy isn’t the issue. There’s nothing challenging about my job. I finish 10 hours of work in under 6 hours most days. I still have to be there and then do busy BS work or start doing other peoples shit. I need a job that has some kind of challenge. All the negatives (I’ll list some) can be overlooked easily if A.) the pay is at a certain level and B.) the job is something where I can actually have goals and learn new shit constantly improve instead of the same mundane bs every day.
>commute
>coworkers
Bumbling idiots. Senile old man who shits himself and wakes up randomly pissed at the world dismantles my work so I have to redo it just to realize I had it right originally argues with me nonstop etc. he has gotten me sick more these last 6 months than I have ever been sick in my life. Sick enough that I had fevers and chills I’ve never had any cold actually affect me before this.
People always shit talking everyone with passive aggressive nonsense (they fold the second you call them out).
>pay
>not challenging
>no growth
I have to wait for someone to retire in like 10 years to MAYBE move up.
>no time outside of work to really do much
Yeah I have time but I’d rather spend it resting I have a single day where I don’t have to clean or run errands I’m paying for this unit I want to be in it
>work UNPAID often up to half a days of work
No pay past 40 hours get fucked over by other people can’t concisely explain wrote too much already.


I want a trade. Similar issues but it would make up for them in obvious ways.
>>76282951
>>76283106
I have friends I haven’t seen in years begging me to hang and a few women I would like to fuck very much begging me to hang and I just don’t got the availability. Live too far from them all so not doing a day trip to see them for a few hours.
>>76283178
>>76283156
I’m waiting to hear back from a WFH job still. I’m hopeful, a friend handed my resume to his boss personally. But that was 2 weeks ago.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:28:59 PM No.76283924
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md5: c0b01821190b3bde9d24dd86d130d73e🔍
In the past three months I've started regularly hitting the gym (home gym) 6 times a week, stopped eating out except for occasions with friends and started eating healthy at home, run upwards of 10 miles per week, spend at least one hour outside in the sun every single day, stopped smoking and quit playing DotA 2. Before this I would NEVER work out, NEVER run, NEVER cook at home, ALWAYS smoke, ALWAYS indoors, ALWAYS playing DotA 2.

All it took was me putting down the bottle. Sobriety truly is the gateway to a better life. I feel better than I've felt at any point in the last ten years. And that's all it took. If anyone struggles with sobriety, feel free to shoot me a private message.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:30:20 PM No.76283930
>>76283755
This shit is gay man.
What’s even the point if I’m working just to exist. It feels like I’m working just so I can work. I don’t need to be rich but a basic work/life balance and enough money for some mild comfort or to occasionally do something with my life. Doesn’t feel like anything crazy to desire.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:34:52 PM No.76283953
Holy fuck I wish China would hurry up this work visa bullshit I want to be in Asia with a coconut in my hand turning a brown girl into a coconut
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:40:41 PM No.76283978
1729913874498247
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md5: 9c2554fad8fbc00cb18cdc7740c1402b🔍
I'm 34 years old, I always mind my own business for the last 3 years of lifting. I simply refuse to think any gym girl would give me any sense of attention while lifting, but
>yesterday, head to rack for diddlies
>to my left 20-25ft away are two cute asian girls
>one is 8/10 ass and tits, other is 10/10 having it all
>they're both sharing a rack, took one glance and never again, start lifting
>rest in a way they are not in my vision at all, tuning to my own music
>suddenly, the 10/10 is working on the rack directly next to mine to the right
>where I am resting the mirror is showing her curvy cheeks
>her 8/10 also comes to the rack and they're just chatting next to me
>ignored them the whole time, always facing away or turning away from them
I 100% believe it was a mere coincidence because the 10/10 girl decided to do barbell rows while her friend used the original rack they were using to do some hip thrusts. But holy fucking shit I wish I was 24 again because I would have shoot the shot.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:48:10 PM No.76283995
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md5: f7cd29492842e457ce588ee5f20f3012🔍
>>76283924
>ALWAYS play DotA 2
I-I'll p-play DotA 2 with you homie... Unless you're >RU or >PERU
Replies: >>76284025
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:01:31 AM No.76284025
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>>76283995
I'm one of the rare actual American English speakers that would play that game. But I've put it down and it is the second most important step to breaking free of that awful lifestyle I had a few months ago. I was playing 10-12hrs per day, every day. The games were also unplayable for me, I hope that isn't the case for you >picrel
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:40:59 AM No.76284135
>>76283922
My nigga
I wasn’t talking about your gay ass job. I was talking about your entire life. You’re bitching about working normal hours and having zero responsibilities other than yourself. The worst part about your story is that you only make minimum wage. Other than that you have it pretty good by most standards.
Replies: >>76286395
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:47:09 AM No.76284153
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1537312280846
md5: 1bd4f1e4d79378e124d356f0b92e5ad3🔍
I broke up with my girlfriend because I wanted to work out more rather than spend time with her. Still not sure if I regret it or not.
Replies: >>76284205
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:00:39 AM No.76284193
I’ve taken a hard look in the mirror and I’m working on losing weight. I’m doing odd jobs to pay the rent but need to figure something out long term. This stresses me out more than anything, the lack of direction. I want to have something to hunt and conquer and with the state of women, it feels pointless. So I’m tired from the grind and trudging through the darkness. I’ll feel much better about myself once I get fit and have decent money coming in. I have a long way to go but I’m going to give it my best.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:02:18 AM No.76284197
>>76283855
Do phone touches to failure
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:03:27 AM No.76284200
>>76283924
Nice
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:04:44 AM No.76284205
>>76284153
Bro you coulda taken her to gym too or something
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:05:51 AM No.76284212
>>76283453
Thanks bro
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:06:24 AM No.76284215
>>76284205
I don't think I found her attractive. Sex wasn't enjoyable.
Replies: >>76284234
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:11:11 AM No.76284234
>>76284215
Oh then that's bad
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:11:51 AM No.76284237
>>76284205
taking your girl to the gym with you is an even bigger gains monster than having one.
Replies: >>76284262
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:15:30 AM No.76284246
I'm just now starting my /fit/ jouney at 27 and all the threads about how once you hit 30 its over scare me, I didn't get the chance to have any fun in my 20s due to being fat and self conscious...
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:16:45 AM No.76284251
>>76284246
look up brad pitt's age during troy and re-think what you just said
Replies: >>76284254
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:17:36 AM No.76284254
>>76284251
brad pitt pre 27 wasnt an obese bastard though
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:19:32 AM No.76284257
>>76281600 (OP)
Are dating apps really my one shot at love??? Graduated university, so that's out of the picture. I'm enough of a fan of God to go to church either. What do
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:19:54 AM No.76284258
>>76284246
Ignore demoralization posts and realize part of your fitness journey is also forging mental strength, self belief, and mental flexibility to overcome challenges. And we all can only make the best or worst of our lives. Try to do your best and see where that takes you anon.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:20:19 AM No.76284260
drinking rum and sparkling zero. some things are going good, some things are going bad. way she goes
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:20:47 AM No.76284262
>>76284237
Really?
Replies: >>76284357
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:21:47 AM No.76284265
>>76284257
I think you only options are apps or going to social events with your friends, you have friends right?
Replies: >>76284409
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:23:16 AM No.76284270
I started lifting 2 months ago. I didn't realise how weak I was, today I tried upping my bench to 30kg. Couldn't get the 10 reps, dropped down to 25kg (still an increase). I'm making progress but jesus christ, it feels so slow and I'm starting from what feels like several places behind square one. I have the desire and determination to keep going which is great but my body simply isn't at the level yet
Replies: >>76284319
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:24:08 AM No.76284272
>>76284246
I was fit throughout my 20s and did nothing, so you're good. At least you know you have potential.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:31:29 AM No.76284292
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1698427201060225
md5: b285badbc136ec26f487011de4f42b38🔍
>>76284025
Based... Simply... Based...
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:35:18 AM No.76284305
>>76283670
We ended up having a nice conversation. He told me to call him every 2 weeks :)
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:38:39 AM No.76284319
>>76284270
I was in the same place as you three years ago. I remember how nice it felt when I benched my first plate! If you keep it up, you will make great progress. One of the biggest things for me working out, to this day, is not to get bummed by bad workouts where I feel worse or plateaus or difficulty on a new thing. Whenever I go in thinking, I'm just going to try to have a good workout today, to push myself with whatever strength I have today, I have a good time. One of the worst things is to beat yourself up because you are not strong enough. I think the key is to be patient and try to enjoy each day on its own, and your goals will come with time
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:42:45 AM No.76284330
>>76284319
True, patience really is what I'll need. I have no doubt I'll get there eventually, it was just disheartening to realise how far I am rn. Thankfully I'm enjoying the process more than I thought I would
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:47:58 AM No.76284347
>>76284330
Good luck!
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:51:18 AM No.76284357
>>76284262
Yes, give it a try unless you're some cardio bunny yourself, date ugly or varbie girls.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:52:26 AM No.76284360
I hope to see more western mainstream porn of straight southeast asian east asian guys fucking good looking women in western mainstream porn
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:55:37 AM No.76284367
>>76284360
why?
t half jungle nigga
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:07:41 AM No.76284409
>>76284265
I do, they're all dudes though. They never bring their gfs around either
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:10:44 AM No.76284419
>>76283930
To grow your soul. This materail shit is all fake and gay.
Replies: >>76286396
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:13:58 AM No.76284431
>>76281600 (OP)
Give me a god damn bottle of Xanax and vodka
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:24:59 AM No.76284459
>>76284409
bro’s gf’s have lots of friends though. if youre not a degenerate (i am) ive heard they can help hook you up. but you have to be really polite to be good reflection of your friends (supposedly)
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:48:29 AM No.76284502
take_it_easy_man
take_it_easy_man
md5: 4a10c4b981d0a3a6de1ad24939a0d723🔍
>>76281600 (OP)
I'm planning on getting hammered and going full retard on the dance floor at the goth nightclub this weekend (just debating tonight or tomorrow night). I'm not even trying to get laid (though that would be great), I think I'm just going insane. Is this a mid-life crisis?
Anyway it's either that or slog through some bullshit master's papers tonight. Leaning toward the latter, Google Maps says that place is way more packed on Saturdays.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:08:21 AM No.76284558
I shouldn't be upset but I am. I just got back from a good vacation with the girl of my dreams, so naturally I should be ready to take life by the balls and conquer everything ahead of me. Reality, however, seems to have other plans. I just feel overwhelmed and nervous for the future; I know I want to pursue a PhD that would take me to another country but I'm afraid of being so far away from said girl. I'm also still getting over the mental hurdles of recovering from an Achilles rupture injury with the fear I might never be as good as I was before. I don't feel like I could evenly balance the physical and mental sides of me without sacrificing some element of my future. I know I could ask for help but I'm too much of a nervous wreck right now to turn to anyone. Hope all you other anons have things more or less figured out.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:07:57 AM No.76284769
>ran an ultramarathon THREE WEEKS ago
>Still incredibly sore
>Still can't sit down for more than a half hour before I need to stand up because of the pain in my ass
>Still doing daily stretches, knee rehab exercises, sled pulls, and other shit when I want to hit the fucking weights
>Noticably skinnier going into summer
>Had to miss several events because I can't fucking drive
>No end in sight
Be very careful about running ultras bros. I would not have done it if I knew how badly I was gonna be buckbroken in the following weeks. Thanks for reading my ventpost. Also my HVAC is broken and it's getting north of 100 next week.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:14:57 AM No.76284794
>>76284769
Can you talk me through all your running life and how long you took to work up to this? And are you sure you don't have some injury?
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:17:47 AM No.76284807
>>76284558
What PhD do you wanna do? I've also struggled balancing the mental and physical before. I think it is well worth the effort
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:18:49 AM No.76284810
>>76284502
Sounds fun, why do u think you're crazy
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:32:48 AM No.76284835
>>76284794
My pleasure:
>Long time runner, CC in high school etc
>On-and-off in adulthood
>Had settled into basically 5k distance events
>Chad friend talks me into signing up in December
>Slowly increase distance since, all on nature trails matching the course
>1 long run, 1 short run / strides each week
>Longest run was 17.5 miles
>Didn't run for week before race
>Felt okay during and after race, but as soon as I sat down my muscles all seized up and I was walking like an old man
>Seemed to recover in the first week, then began backsliding, esp with massive glutes tightness
The pain has slowly gone from throbbing tendons to a diffuse ache everywhere, but hasn't lessened per se. No sharp pains in specific areas, except for knees. I've had knee problems in the past, but was always able to cure with sled pulls. Tomorrow I'm seeing a massage therapist, maybe she's gonna notice something. Some people are trying to sell me cortisone shots but I'm refusing so far.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:48:47 AM No.76284876
im so insanely insecure. my insecurity has completely crippled my life and will make sure i never achieve anything. im insecure about literally everything imaginable. every single minute of my day i spend being insecure, thinking about how much worse i am than everyone else, how far behind i am, how much of a loser i am. insecurity cripples every minute of my life. i cant even look at other people in public without thinking how much better they are than me. like every guy i see in public, i just see how hes more handsome than me, fitter than me, surely has a better job and more money than me, has relaitonships and friendships, lives on his own, etc. i look at every woman and think theyre all attractive, how much easier their lives are than mine, how they have better jobs and more money than me, are happier than me. even teenage kids, despite being 15+ years older than them, i know theyre smarter, happier, more social, more successful than i am already.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:02:14 AM No.76284904
>>76281600 (OP)
I'll have a vodka double shot, a white monster energy, and a tall glass thank you.
The body dysmorphia is bad lately. I swear I'm gaining weight back, the scale said 5lbs but I've been too afraid to actually check every day this week to see how reliable thar actually is. I swear I can swe it in my face getting rounder, my ribcage expanding, that weird fatty bulge on my inner knee getting plumper daily. And yet the tape measure for my chest hip and waist have not changed. Am I actually gaining that much muscle mass? Retaining that much water? Should I be measuring my arms and legs too?
I can't trust my own perception of myself, some days I pass the mirror abd look great and other days I see a chubby slug. I dont know how to fix this since time hasn't, I've been maintaining my weight for around 5 months until now after my 80lb loss
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:05:23 AM No.76284910
>>76282400
You'll snap out of it or you won't. Shrimple as.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:07:43 AM No.76284915
>>76282496
I never went to college and now im just afraid to. I need a degree to work, but I hear horror stories constantly of KIDS that just graduated and can't get a job. Im 25, I'll be just shy of 30 by the time I finish a bachelor's degree, how bad would MY prospects be? What field even has jobs outside of water treatment?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:09:25 AM No.76284923
Hey little garçom come here, gimme a glass of cachaça...
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:10:57 AM No.76284926
>>76282793
WHY?!
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:12:35 AM No.76284933
knight at the crossroads vasnetsov
knight at the crossroads vasnetsov
md5: b0f46a5628da557bd7f5e86b09998068🔍
Hey barkeep, let me get a soda water with lime.

Anyway. Things are going fine I guess. I rarely post here, more of a lurker, but I figured I'd chip in for this one.

It's a weird time. Graduated uni earlier this year, home for a couple weeks before I fly out to a country in the middle of bumfuck nowhere for a volunteering gig that I got last-minute because I didn't want my other postgrad job. And I mean really the middle of nowhere. And I'll be there for at least a year. Never really traveled growing up so I don't know how the fuck to feel about this. Gonna have to fill my backpack with books if I wanna get any kind of weightlifting in over there.

Started the only healthy relationship of my life three months ago, now have to go long-distance because, again, going to the middle of bumfuck nowhere. So it's likely going to slowly fade away from me, and all I'm gonna have is the memories of those three months where I loved someone and it went well for both of us. Which is fine. There are worse things than being sad, I know. Like being sad and drunk. So I'm 10 days off the bottle and 6 off nicotine, which was disappointingly easy, and now life is still boring and sad and I can't crack open a beer or smoke a cigarette over it. Gonna try to stay sober while I'm out of country though.

I know this life may sound like a fairy tale life to some of you anons who are about six inches from suicide, but everybody hurts. Had a pretty rough childhood, hurt then, and now where there's nothing visibly wrong with me I still hurt, just in different ways and for different reasons, and there is nothing quite as demoralizing as the thought that I will deal not with intense pain for some short duration but with this low-level hurt for likely the rest of my life. Guess that's just the bitch of it.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:13:25 AM No.76284937
>>76282951
Start walking to the grocery store every few days, it'll also reduce impulse spending because you can only buy what you can carry.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:22:01 AM No.76284961
>>76283256
I refuse to believe they actually exist.
Replies: >>76285055
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:25:00 AM No.76284977
>>76283379
I can't understand this "live free" bullshit. Don't marry her or you'll ruin her life as she'll never be as exciting as rampant hedonism.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:27:46 AM No.76284991
>>76283497
But how do you make reliable money? How do you avoid being replaced by jeets? How many jobs isn't there possibly be in such an AI field?
Replies: >>76286019
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:31:13 AM No.76285002
>>76284835
Good luck anon. Right now I'm slowly working up to a marathon. Perhaps I will try an ultra at some point
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:35:37 AM No.76285010
>>76284876
I think you need professional help
>>76284904
You are in control of the weight, even if it goes up significantly for whatever reason, you can easily correct it
>>76284933
Good luck with everything anon, I'm in a similar position
Replies: >>76285024
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:37:03 AM No.76285011
1747440169128782
1747440169128782
md5: faf123234d7694737b24bc12559fe6c9🔍
I started fixing my life at 34 years old but i don't know if i will make it, i lost weight, i got fit, i improved my mental health, i have a stable job with a decent wage, i've got a head full of hair and a face that can pass for 20 something years old guy, but i will never get my younger years and the lack of experience everyone had during that age back, i never had a girlfriend, i completely pissed my 20s away due to NEETdom and mental illness and only now i started to experience life. I feel like i'm a fucking teenager stuck in an older body.
My thoughts constantly jump between "we are so back" and "it's fucking over, i NEED to kill myself now", and i know that this shit is in my mind and objective reality is completely different from it but somehow i can't accept it, that shit just torments me
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:39:17 AM No.76285014
>>76285011
You can make it.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:39:39 AM No.76285015
>>76284257
Go to running events or local festivals like a strawberry festival or fireworks or something
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:42:30 AM No.76285024
>>76285010
But i dont want to ever regain so much weight, even 10lbs.
Replies: >>76285033
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:45:22 AM No.76285033
>>76285024
I'm saying even if you do it won't matter in the long term, you can easily lose it in under a month. It is better to know where you stand. If you get afraid of knowing your weight, you are more likely to get fat.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:51:11 AM No.76285055
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jd9sopj4a1ja1
md5: 28acd68af27d02b164011bbf64760782🔍
>>76281600 (OP)
Doubleshot of Rum in Coke, as is tradition.
I got a buddy going with me to the Gym again. I'm ahead of him, but I'm having a discomfort mid Thoracic spine, like a popping sensation, but without the pop itself. So I can do 50 pushups on my knuckles but I can't even get 10x3 on one pl8 due to nerves on this discomfort.

>>76284933
Sounds like you've already had a lot of thought over where you are and where you're going in life, anon. You seem like a smart person, with a clear sense of introspection. While you may be struggling now, you have a lot of great things to look forward too. WAGMI, you legend!

>>76284961
I think they *do* exist, but only with immense amount of speciality/tech prowess. I have a friend doing fully remote tech support and dispatch for internet infrastructure and he's paid pretty handsomely.

>>76285011
Sounds like you've made some huge huge strides in your life, and you're still suffering the loss of the time it took. It's okay to struggle, anon, and mourn the time lost. A thought I like to have is: I exist. Others like me must exist because obviously I'm here now. That means I can find hope even now, with people who've had a similar path in life.
Do you have any things you do to tank the increases of suicidal thoughts?
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:00:17 AM No.76285078
I'll have ice water tonight. I'm really struggling in my day to day right now. After a decade of being a warehouse monkey I recently applied for a scholarship earlier this year on a whim because I had "nothing to lose" and by some miracle I got accepted. I didn't plan that far ahead so I panic picked web development and so far most of it has gone over my head and I'm struggling hard to keep up. I picked it because I knew it supposedly pays well but I'm not sure I have what it takes to pass.

Also had to give up the gym for a while because the one I was going to got bought out and raised their prices meanwhile I'm doing the school thing full time now while unemployed. I'd be homeless if not for my mom letting me stay here for free until school is done. She doesn't know that I'm possibly failing though and I dread the fallout if I do. On top of that, my algorithms on my social medias have started serving me web dev related stuff and a lot of it is about either hating the job or getting replaced by ai. All of these things together have me stress eating a lot and it's undone a lot of my weight loss progress.

On top of that, went out last night with some old friends as the DD. Saw this blonde shortstack with a tan and huge tits, caught her looking at me with a smile three times throughout the evening, and I really wanted to talk to her but I just.. didn't. I'm sure I would have stricken out anyways but like damn I really wish I could get over my comfort zone. Everyone says women are basically walking talking poison these days but I haven't had sex in so long and I'm so touch starved and attention starved it hurts, yet my brain seems to have given up all hope. It's like I'm willing and able, until there's a woman in the room, and I just implode and can't look them in the eye.

Everything just sucks right now, man. I wish I could just skip all this dogshit and fast forward to the part of my life where I live on my own in a house I own (not rent) with a decent income.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:05:44 AM No.76285088
>>76285055
Tonic water anon here, thanks for the kind words fren. Good luck with your workout. No fun pushing through injuries, but when the going gets tough, the tough get going. WAGFMI
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:08:11 AM No.76285100
>>76285078
Sounds like you've gotten lucky faster than you were prepared, now you're struggling with the burden of the coursework and worrying it may be for naught afterwards anyway.
What do you think could help you tackle your coursework more effectively? Or, maybe more importantly, what is keeping you on the webdev path if it isn't clicking and you picked it somewhat randomly?
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:09:15 AM No.76285107
>>76285055
>Do you have any things you do to tank the increases of suicidal thoughts?
I just have to be social. My perception of myself and reality is warped so i can't really break myself from this shit, i just need someone to talk to. At my lowest points i walked around seedy areas in my city and had long conversations with alcoholics asking for money or liquor and it kinda helped me (i still had to buy them liquor as a payment for their time but it's still cheaper than going to therapy).
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:13:55 AM No.76285130
>>76284257
Unfortunately, it's the answer that no 4channer wants to hear: develop an active social life that has you going out and meeting new people on the regular. Doesn't have to be bars but it will require spending time and money with no immediate discernable pay-off.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:16:25 AM No.76285135
>>76285107
If you'll forgive me directly asking, why drunks at night? Why not anyone else at any other time?
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:16:38 AM No.76285136
Haven’t had sex in six years but I’m married.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:19:56 AM No.76285141
>>76284807
It'll be a Humanities/Arts PhD
>inb4 I get dogpiled with "useless degree"
I'm fully aware of the pitfalls of going into academia in this day and age, but to me I'd rather put up with the weirdness of ivory tower academia than the corporate rat race and banality of the modern workforce.
The thing with balancing what I want to do is that I know I'd have to neglect something if I wanted to pursue the other; if I left to do my PhD I'd give up doing my sport of choice (buhurt) for 4 years, but if I stuck around I'd give up advancing my career while maybe being too depressed to continue with sports
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:21:35 AM No.76285146
>>76285100
>what is keeping you on the webdev path if it isn't clicking and you picked it somewhat randomly?
Purely the fact that this is basically it for me. Either this works right now or I go back to the warehouse, which I do not want to do. I picked it because I knew it was supposed to be good money but also because it's a sit-down cushy office style job. I want something easy on the body, and long lasting, where I'll eventually be able to wfh, and not be too tired and worn out to spend time with my family. I want to get married and be a dad but I want to be present in my family's lives instead of passing out on the couch every day after a 10 hour hard labor shift and being a "weekend warrior."

Also if I fail I'm not allowed to apply for another scholarship for a minimum of 5 years in this state, 6 years in other states (since you have to be a legal resident for 12 months). Also I'm not allowed to change course because I got in on a grant and they prioritize the people who actually had to pay, which is fair, but it ties my hands a bit. I kind of wish I had been able to go into business or computer hardware instead considering I already have some experience building PCs and business just seems relatively easy as a whole, but the web dev course (allegedly) pays more than both of those combined.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:36:53 AM No.76285188
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s3xx4gcv631e1
md5: 8665e4649ce8fb6de0f643ab9bf6a3f0🔍
>>76285146
Ok, I'm hearing that you have the motivation of what the career can offer you, the dreams of how much less it will take from you than the warehouse alternative and a future in white collar work. Also you're bound by the various financial tools you leveraged to get there.
Not to assert, but what do you do when lifting is hard? Do you give up? Is the failure reps not where you get the most pump?
I think where there is a will, there is a way. You may have to hammer more on the schoolwork, but I think you have grit and all the reason in the world to give it your all. WAGFMI!
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:37:24 AM No.76285190
>>76285135
Honestly at that point in life i had a shitload of self-loathing and inferiority towards others, so i had to resort to this. Just a thought of myself approaching someone to talk (especially a girl) made me sick, but if i talk to another lowlife individual, it's fair game. Drunks a lot of times have approached me first, they're always available and they will never reject you, they rarely treat you worse for looking different, saying something autistic, etc. They will always be happy to talk to you as long as you buy them shit and a lot of them have some funny stories to tell.
Replies: >>76285209
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:39:30 AM No.76285194
>>76285141
I'm also thinking about doing a humanities PhD for the same reasons. What is your sport? I'm surprised you would not be able to do it while you do the PhD
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:46:32 AM No.76285209
1719188093100048
1719188093100048
md5: e3ec45802adbff052f01a82bd0002542🔍
>>76285190
I see. Anon, that is an immense amount of self loathing. Anon, you sound like a kind fella, looking out for some of the people struggling that most wouldn't bother to even acknowledge. It takes a good heart to help out people who are so down on their luck.
Not be presumptuous, but I'd like to ask you a favor. Would you kindly think back on that poor NEET 20-something you used to be? Please take a few moments to think of what he was going through, and how he struggled, then, and this is the last and hardest part: Could you find it in your heart to cut the poor kid some slack for how much he suffered? Offer some forgiveness for the person you used to be?
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:51:29 AM No.76285217
>>76285188
>Not to assert, but what do you do when lifting is hard? Do you give up? Is the failure reps not where you get the most pump?
funny you should ask lol when I was actively lifting I was mostly doing upkeep lifts, like ~70% of max, and it was mostly cardio and eating better.

But I do get what you're saying. I want to pass these classes more effectively but I find it hard to keep up with the way things are. There's not 1 single thing I've wrapped my head around completely yet and by the time I halfway understand something, the deadline has arrived and so I need to move onto the next thing, rinse and repeat. I feel like I'm beginning to click with the very first couple of things I read about, but I'm so far beyond there in the schedule that I can't really afford to hammer on that part that much without it interfering with whatever new deadline comes up. I'm on the second half of the first course though and the deadlines seem to be a little more lax, going from ~3~4 days apart to 6 or 7, so maybe I'll do better with this extra time. I don't want to be bad at this and throw away my shot, but it does make me feel like a huge fucking idiot a lot of the time too. Which is fine, that comes with the territory of learning a new skill. It just sucks to have so much on the line over it.

You've gotten dubs twice in a row replying to me also, check'd.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:52:32 AM No.76285219
>>76285194
Buhurt or Armored Combat Sports, it's pretty popular in Eastern Europe but is getting traction in the west. The reason I wouldn't be able to do it is because I'd be going to fairly remote areas to pursue my PhD, thus I wouldn't have access to people or facilities in order to practice. Where I am right now is probably one of the best schools in the US to go to for this sport as it's run by several world champions who hold numerous gold medals. It's not really something that can be taught or acquired easily through solo practice and for me a remote PhD isn't an option in my mind because A) I can't learn or commit to learning anything virtually and 2) I don't think I'd be taken as seriously if I had a remote PhD, as it would be tantamount to having a pulled something out of a cereal box that cost 10s of thousands of dollars
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:59:16 AM No.76285233
>>76285033
I know. I know, I need to get back into daiky weigh ins to track fluctuations. I can't just go full eating disorder and abandon my gains to get as skinny as possible, my partner has emphatically stated they like me in this current body and aren't objecting to more muscle mass as long as im not too top heavy, but they will not ve attracted to visible chest bones or protruding bones anywhere except my hip bones. I can't go full skelly and I DO like my lean mass, that fatty fear is just strong.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:00:05 AM No.76285234
>>76281600 (OP)
Whiskey two fingers please. I got 2 friends going thru divorces and the other is about to be in jail for battery (he should be put away desu) so I'm trying to be the good friend to 3 other friends. I know my good deeds will never be payed back but if I was in their position I'd want someone like that in my corner.
Can I get second whiskey now?
Replies: >>76285254
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:00:24 AM No.76285235
>>76285055
>76284961 (You)
To me those types of specialists are SO rare and SO niche they might as well not exist because statistically they dont.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:00:24 AM No.76285236
>>76283180
hes gonna clap her cheeks bruh
Replies: >>76285246
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:01:21 AM No.76285240
>>76285217
You know what? I believe in you. Don't forget your resources, and the glorious entire internet of people who can teach in a variety of styles and dialects. If you can get through this, which it sounds like things are still improving, then you might get closer to the light at the end of the tunnel.

And a lil aside, I think the ai webdev future will let a good webdev make 10x the output faster than before. Consider befriending the new tool in addition to respecting the threat it poses.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:01:43 AM No.76285241
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>>76285136
Ok I'll bite. Gimme the 3 page novel background.
Replies: >>76286276
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:01:56 AM No.76285242
>>76281600 (OP)

>have a decent job and savings are in a really good spot
>travelling to Europe again this summer
>finally dating a girl that doesn't want to sit around on TikTok or watch TV all fucking day
>social life kinda sucks cuz I've alienated most of my friends, but I like the ones I hang out with.
>still fit

Could be worse.
Replies: >>76285267
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:02:45 AM No.76285246
>>76285236
Nah she wasn't impressed, she likes our guy
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:04:12 AM No.76285247
>>76285209
Yeah, i can do that.
Replies: >>76285267
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:06:54 AM No.76285254
>>76285234
Howdy, Anon. I'm getting that your social circle is crumbling, and it's taxing your good friend/empathy reserves. Firstly, it's kindhearted of you to try to help them in their time of need. Secondly, do you think it will not be reciprocated? As in, your friends wouldn't help back if you were struggling? You DO seem to be struggling a little yourself.
Replies: >>76285273
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:11:55 AM No.76285267
1712020755124383
1712020755124383
md5: fe2b35e16c4aead9d8cc3ac7134ac226🔍
>>76285247
I really appreciate that, fren. WAGMI

>>76285242
Right on, Anon. Stop yourself a moment to really appreciate these good times, buddy
Replies: >>76285330
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:14:21 AM No.76285273
>>76285254
It is crumbling. It's very rarely ever reciprocated amongst us men because when it's good we leave the bad to suffer/die. I am struggling with my own issues (not like theirs) but thus is life. I know they need a irl bro around but it's drowning. I'm fighting alcohol right now but they have been driving me to drink.
Another whiskey neat please.
Replies: >>76285297
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:16:10 AM No.76285283
1727044702330768
1727044702330768
md5: 5e623073bcc1b8568acf9a89c95a1cf4🔍
>>76283549
cringy faggot
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:18:09 AM No.76285290
>>76285219
I see. Yes, that is more complicated
Replies: >>76285470
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:19:09 AM No.76285293
>>76285233
Good luck anon
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:19:37 AM No.76285297
>>76285273
I think I'll have a neat whiskey too, pal. So you're a bit locked into the emotional availability, and it's a LOT. Who do you usually turn to in order to dump your mental load, rather than us?
If nobody, would you like a suggestion?
Replies: >>76285327
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:19:48 AM No.76285298
>when i wake up it will be a beautiful saturday morning
>ill have nothing to do for the entire weekend
>will be incredibly depressed the entire time
Replies: >>76285303
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:21:00 AM No.76285303
>>76285298
What do you mean by nothing? Do you not have the freedom to do many things on a beautiful saturday morning?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:27:27 AM No.76285327
>>76285297
We need it brother especially if you carrying this thread. I haven't came to /fit/ bar feel threads in about a year and the other boards I troll, cause it's the meta. I have my father who is a red blooded man that guides me but his time is coming to an end. Other than that, God, who saved me from myself too many times I can count.
If you have a suggestion I'm down to hear it though.
Replies: >>76285365
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:27:55 AM No.76285330
>>76285267
Thank you for your time my guy, WAGMI
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:39:04 AM No.76285365
>>76285327
My man! Give the big man upstairs your problems here and there, and also if you write this shit down, it helps take the burden off. Just empty it into a note app or paper and you'll probably feel better
Replies: >>76285406
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:45:00 AM No.76285379
>>76281600 (OP)
Long week. A report from work due. Daughters school presentation, add some wifey drama to the pot... yeaaaa, had myself 2 beers and 1 cig by midday.. end up going to the gym and reaching my 10k steps.. whats that a tie?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:00:46 AM No.76285406
>>76285365
My pops would say the same thing and my past shrinks would tell me to keep a journal which is GAY. But I should start writing, it'd be more non-fiction, to escape reality and build my own. I've been thinking about doing a screenplay the past few years. The fact you bring writing up may just cement it. The big man upstairs has never guided me in the wrong direction and saved me too many times.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:22:07 AM No.76285441
>>76283341
office cuck cope

i jerk off between meetings and get paid for it, loser.

captcha: cumtux
Replies: >>76285505
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:37:14 AM No.76285470
>>76285290
To further add to the pot, it's also where I've done a majority of my in person socialization over the past year outside of my immediate family and partner. So leaving would also mean having to start over in terms of my friends group.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:46:54 AM No.76285505
>>76285441
thanks for proving you bring nothing to society
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:59:00 AM No.76285529
>>76283606
because theyre reptilian.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:34:50 AM No.76285607
lime and soda
>quit job to take masters
>can't find job after after 1.5 years. Small town, no jobs for smart people
>leave gf after 11 years
>figure out she was being a cunt because I wasn't bringing in the cash
>new city, still unemployed
>she gets the house, I get freedom
>I have met dozens of people, some actually good people
>still no friends, but some new acquaintances
>April 283.6 lbs -> current 255 lbs. 24.6% bf -> 22.5% bf.
Workout volume:
Apr 171K
May 481K
Jun 315K with 1 week to go.
>still very sore from lifting involved the multi-state move and haven't worked out since Monday
>meeting with an ex gf from before current ex tomorrow. She is in town for one day.
>she has a hall pass from her bf
>not sure if want, but will be a fun day
>I had a new dream last night for the first time in at least a decade. It was weird furry sex shit (thank you ashwagandha), but it wasn't the normal PTSD bullshit that has been haunting me.
There is hope for me. Things are shitty, but I am rapidly becoming my old self. The old self full of goals and success. Just hoping I can keep my dick out of things and concentrate on myself until I get my feet entirely under me.
Replies: >>76285613 >>76286039
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:38:35 AM No.76285613
>>76285607
>wife leaves you
>ex-gf gets a hall pass
Be the monster you always were. I guess?
No shocker why she left you when you this bad of a person.
Replies: >>76285623
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:43:42 AM No.76285623
>>76285613
I left her
my ex-ex-ex gf has the hall pass

you probably be trolling so I'll leave it at that.
Replies: >>76285725
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:40:41 AM No.76285725
>>76285623
I'm not trolling but if that helps you cope with how much a shit person you when I tell you that, then so be it.
Go ruin that girls marriage, be the monster you need to be.
Replies: >>76286636
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:52:09 AM No.76285738
>>76283924
Really happy to hear about your sobriety, bro. You finally made it.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:48:00 AM No.76285828
I feel lost and strange. I’m in a depressing period of my life but i still keep going. I worked as a PT the last year and a half in an amazing gym and fallen in love with the receptionist, a bubbly goth girl who always put bring me the horizon and metalcore on the speakers. She even found me 2 gold area tickets to bmth 2 days prior at original cost. I missed her and that place. I was able to put celldweller, pendulum and killswitch engage while working. She’s already got a boyfriend so I didn’t try with her but man how i miss her. I’ve been to her birthday and met with all of her alt friends and had a blast. Unironically now i wanna dive into the goth scene and finally finish a witch house ep but i don’t know jack shit about fashion.
On the other hand training is going well but i have to specialize now. Stats:
78kg 177cm
150kg bench
190kg squat
220kg deadlift
70kg weighted pull up
80kg weighted dip
10~ full front lever
2 1 arm pull ups
8-10 muscle ups
Don’t know if to powerlift, bb or focus on proportion and try doing some modeling/nude work.
I’m lost. I can fuck some milf if i wanna but i need a serious relationship but i’m in a mental wreck. Every time i see a cute couple outside my heart ache. I’ve worked and sacrifice all my youth for just 160k€ and now I’m completely lost. I can make tons of male friends easily but the unwritten rules of courtship are alien to me
Please help /fit. I’m now training just to feel pain
Replies: >>76286051
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:35:10 PM No.76285936
>>76282583
not him but not that hard to believe, 90% of all people i've ever met are retarded
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:48:13 PM No.76285956
I'm in uni right now about to go into third and final year. There's a girl I met a couple weeks into first year doing the same course as me who I instantly liked and wanted to make my girlfriend. Super shy, spends most of her time reading etc has never had a boyfriend, zero posts on social media, I am 99% sure she is a virgin.

I told her how I feel, she said she felt the same but then changed her mind because of anxiety blah blah. Obviously if a girl says that usually you know it's over, but I was stalking her TikTok once and saw a reposted video about rejecting a guy you like and regretting it, that plus the fact she's done things such as let me in her room/gone on late night walks with me I have inferred that she probably was telling the truth about anxiety getting in the way, and the situation probably isn't completely hopeless.

I am concerned if I don't make this happen I will have to hop on a dating app and settle for some whore. I will probably next see her when I start uni again in September, after that I have until when I graduate in August/July whenever the fuck to lock her down. There's a lot at stake.
Replies: >>76286059
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:08:23 PM No.76285991
>>76281600 (OP)
I'm engaged to be married with a fantastic girl who ticks all the boxes, but I'm in love with another woman who has been breadcrumbing me for the last 10 years. God please have mHAJJVercy on me.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:22:13 PM No.76286019
>>76284991
I dont make reliable money. The market is terrible, im currently a neet. Job security is nonexistent in tech. AI cant replace engineers but the hype is real and companies think they can
Replies: >>76286068
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:28:21 PM No.76286039
>>76285607
Don't take the hall pass. Its a trap somehow or another, nothing is ever free. No loan comes interest free except from Tom Nook.
Replies: >>76286636
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:31:08 PM No.76286051
>>76285828
If you aren't right with yourself dont make it someone else's problem. Find genuine joy in something, become comfortable with yourself, get into the alt scene and find a girl not attached to a taken oneitis. Its not wise to stay close to what you can't have but deeply desire.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:32:08 PM No.76286055
I just found out an hour ago my gym closes next month. That sucks because it's the only gym nearby.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:33:50 PM No.76286059
>>76285956
Keep on her and prove youre persistent BUT dont simp for her. Just show her your intentions are what you say and you won't waste her as a pump n dump. Let her know you're willing to wait for sex and won't pressure her. If she sees you pursue others its over. Women want to be your one abd only, and a woman of value will not fight others for you, she wants YOU to choose her.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:35:58 PM No.76286068
>>76286019
So what are you supposed to get a degree in/field do you go to?
Replies: >>76286086
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:40:49 PM No.76286086
>>76286068
I have no idea.
Med school still has a job security but its the hardest school and pretty hard work and a lot of overtime. Trades are in now, theres a lot of demand for them but i dont know much about them. Its also hard labor most likely. Im in europe so i dont know whats the situation in the states. Law isnt bad but similar to med school, its a really hard school and job afterwards. If i had to pick a school now i would probably pick civil engineering/ housing engineering/ architecture cause theres always demand for new housing, everyone needs living space and prices for housing are surging and they probably wont stop surging. Plus its kind of easier than stem/ law degree
Are you looking for school to enroll to?
Replies: >>76286200
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:03:08 PM No.76286168
Vodka diet coke please.
Im trying to make a good finances spread sheet and I just split my grocery bill from needs vs wants... the wants slightly higher than the needs. Fuck. I see where I'm losing money already. I really want to save up for a trip to Hokkaido this winter and I need better savings to do that. I've still got other bills to pay God help me not spend any more than on wants unless I get a single treat in town NEXT weekend.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:14:56 PM No.76286200
>>76286086
Hmm. Engineering aside from math was always very interesting. I've got one of those shitty types of accounts from my grandmother where it will pay for school- but it will REIMBURSE me only. I cannot withdraw from it. It will only cover academics. I have to front the money. Currently due to my work as a travel guy I a trade I can only do online school which doesnt allow much, I didn't know i had college money until I was 20 so I didn't go to college. I was too afraid of debt. I've been putting it off because the bank must verify my receipts and APPROVE of my reimbursement and that scares me and picking a career scares me. Do you know how many guys have gone into HVAC in the last few years? You only have value in that field if you have years and years of experience.
Replies: >>76286217
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:18:57 PM No.76286217
>>76286200
Thats some shitty deal. If its your grandmothers money why does the bank have to approve your reimbursment? Sounds like a scam. Shoulda just kept a regular account. Sounds like you cant get reimbursed if you dont even finish the school. How old are you? What skills/ experience do you have currently?
Replies: >>76286250
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:21:42 PM No.76286225
apu heart
apu heart
md5: ce7bd9bcd213762753deda509405bb8c🔍
>>76281600 (OP)
the feels bar is open again
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:26:25 PM No.76286245
>>76283180
You should beat him to death while she's watching.
Replies: >>76286263
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:29:00 PM No.76286250
>>76286217
25. Ahhh you want indepth so even if you dont believe just larp with it, I used to work in Healthcare with some decent savings i was getting ready to dump into the education fund, but impulse ruined that and I ended up married with 2 kids since then. The college account will not cover childcare, most jobs will not pay for daycare and still be above minimum wage to break even for childcare, and I've been out of work fully for 3 years.
The account is intended to prevent little ingrates and bastards who spend their college fund on alcohol, drugs, hedonistic lifestyle. So the best way if to only cover school and have a person review it to ensure its only school. Shit, id way prefer my mom or grandmother looking over ut PERSONALLY instead of a bank official who may decide the laptop doesn't count. It will pay put a receipt you present, not just upon a degree.
Replies: >>76286636
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:33:53 PM No.76286263
>>76286245
This!!
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:38:10 PM No.76286276
>>76285241
Maybe if I work out more she’ll want me. Maybe I don’t want her any more. Maybe I want someone else. Maybe if I work out more I’ll have the confidence to go for it.
Replies: >>76286356
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:05:29 PM No.76286356
>>76286276
So... is it you or her that aren't putting out? If youre so miserable why not leave?
Replies: >>76287365
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:16:57 PM No.76286395
>>76284135
I can appreciate the sentiment but I made zero mention of the rest of my life dude you have just pulled that assumption out of the wrapping void you call an asshole. The focus of my post was the job. That’s what I came to the bitch and whine thread to bitch and whine about.
Idk why this is complicated or resulting in this
>I hate my job I hope I get a new one soon I’m gonna vent this off my chest
>SOMEONE ELSE HAS IT WORSE YOURE FINE SOMEONE ELSE WHO HAS IT WORSE EXISTS SO NO ONE CAN EVER BE UPSET WITH ANY SITUATION EVER
Like what LMAO. Have you never been part of a /fit/ feels thread or is this just a genuine attempt to help me feel better about my shitty job? I don’t say that belittling it’s just unclear about if you’re genuinely upset over my posts or you’re attempting to be constructive in any way.
Next you’re gonna say some stupid shit like “my uncle got deported after he chose to break the law to enter the US so you don’t have it that bad!” Fucking lol
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 3:18:11 PM No.76286396
>>76284419
I guess that’s kind of the issue dude. I feel like I never have time to grow my soul. My only real concern is that I’m stagnating entirely.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:32:35 PM No.76286636
>>76285725
my dick is not magic and I am not the main character. Her hole is going to get filled no matter what I do.

I am sorry somebody hurt you anon. You will find another.

>>76286039
yea, my breakup is still fresh. The last one was a trap. I thought she cared about me and not that I was a good provider. My desire and brain are arguing on what happens. For sure this can fuck me up. I made the choice to stay off the dating sites and the friend sites just seem to be full of gay guys trying to convert "victims". I am bi-sexual so I just turned that off too.

I legit do just want to have a fun day. I deserve it.

>>76286250
please tell me there is a release to somewhere that isn't the bank when she passes. If not, get her to a death doula. A death plan will respect her wishes, the bank will not.
Replies: >>76287100 >>76288563
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:02:02 PM No.76286729
Man I don't want to be sour grapes or anything but it really feels like every sport I'm in, almost everyone online seems to "start" significantly better. I know people are bullshitting (or maybe they aren't) but I seriously cannot believe that fuckers are doing 1/2/3/4 or a 20min 5k right off the bat. They act like it's so casual too it pisses me off.
Replies: >>76287049 >>76287149
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:11:57 PM No.76287008
>looking at another beautiful weekend of doing nothing
>get email last night that a hobby I do might suddenly happen today for a few hours in the middle of the day
>excited, will mean I get some exercise, socializing and some money too
>nope, cancelled
>then get another email this morning, wait we might be doing it
>excited again
>nope just kidding
>staring down the barrel of another beautiful weekend where I’ll sit in my room for two straight days doing nothing because if my hobby isn’t going, I have literally never have anything else to do
God I wish I had the courage to kill myself
Replies: >>76287049
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:25:33 PM No.76287049
>>76287008
Why don't you organize somethinf?
>>76286729
Yeah some people are just cunts but honestly a lot of it is forgetting how hard it is to get there once you are there. It is easy to be at a higher level in sports and honestly not think much of it
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:39:49 PM No.76287100
>>76286636
>my dick is not magic and I am not the main character. Her hole is going to get filled no matter what I do.
I mean yeah but that’s besides the point anon is making
>I am sorry somebody hurt you anon. You will find another
I’m not the anon you replied to but his point is you’re doing garbage person behaviors man. It’s just pussy. But are you really that degenerate or desperate you can’t just find a new bitch and have to partake with garbage people? If your morals allow them by all means but it means you’re a shit person. Just from what you posted it sounds like you don’t think the bf is on board with it btw because anon made no indication whatsoever he thought you were fucking him over or helping her cheat. You randomly replied like that was the context. So it just sounds like you are the shit person he called you man. It’s not my bitch or my life or even my convo I’m just trying to clear it up, and obviously if I’m even remotely accurate here then why would you care (which you do seeing as you got defensive). The point is don’t be a shitty person if you don’t wanna feel the shame you’ve displayed.


That being said it may help you get over the recent ex
>I just want a fun day. I deserve it
Iktf man. I can’t say I personally agree with fucking a woman out on her hall pass, mostly because I think it’s gross and I’m holier than thou and don’t need to because I’m 6’2” with a big winkie whacker and mine IS magic. But I get this. I could use a day of fun too.
>bi sexual
Faggot. lol there it is, yeah your morals allow for degeneracy. Inb4 “your degeneracy is worse than mine” yeah it is, and you’re a filthy faggot for it lol
Replies: >>76287278
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:53:35 PM No.76287149
>>76286729
I’ve noticed man while sometimes people are truthful, most people lie about everything. It’s really fucking weird to me.
I’ve known people and had friends who lied about
>starting max numbers (and current)
They’ll insist they started with a 225 bench for example or claim to bench 315 then it’s in reality 3 25lb plates or a quarter rep.
>being naturally good at dancing
They practice. They spend an absurd amount of time practicing dances. Some go so far as to pretend to try for the first time around people after they spent weeks practicing.
>drawing
They’ve practiced since they were young. They weren’t naturally good.
>trade type work
Same shit. They started as regarded newbies, had someone patient teach them and hold their hand turn around and act like dicks when their apprentice doesn’t have their 20 years of experience on day one.
>running
Sometimes true sometimes not but most people who claim this lie neglect to mention that they grew up playing sports which involved running as part of practice.
People do this all the time it’s just small dicked faggots trying to boost their own ego. When I was an EMT I had an old lady fall on me in such a way that I got my ankles pinned into a corner and wedged between a sink and a wall. To lift her I had to bend over her and fold her it just wasn’t the right way to do it so I didn’t. One faggot I was working with claimed I was too weak to lift her when the reality was I couldn’t lift her without causing her pain due to the position. She was like 110lbs I could have thrown her. He went around telling everyone
>GUYS ANON WAS TOO WEAK TO LIFT THAT PATIENT IT WAS JUST AN OLD LADY
Completely omitted the only important parts including she fell due to his negligence. That’s why people do this it makes them feel good about themselves. Yeah some people start out being able to run 5 miles no problem without any part of prior training but most don’t have relatively inactive lives then one day do it
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:17:42 PM No.76287236
1741996751603109
1741996751603109
md5: cba39793e2ec86d80ce59db017c382a1🔍
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:25:03 PM No.76287259
Ghosted an old friend, things got shitty once I got sober. I feel bad, but I just know if I say what caused the falling out hes just going to try and gas light the shit outta me. Does it to his wife, does it any time i get angry. just dont care anymore
Replies: >>76287614
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:31:10 PM No.76287278
>>76287100
just to make you mad I'll point out your shit.

>that’s besides the point anon is making
it on point, but stay mad. No shame here, only christian judgement from anon.

>That being said it may help you get over the recent ex
nope, didn't say that all. I get it though, you are trying to fill a narrative. I am spending the day with a person that I have known of 15 years. I assume you are either young AF or haven't had sex. All day sex is not a thing over 25. Most people tap out after 8. No amount of lube can make up for a pussy that has been squirting for hours.

>morals allow for degeneracy
yes, I refused advances from those gay men because I am degenerate. For my next degenerate act I plan to open a door for an elderly person so I can look at his or her sweet ass.
Replies: >>76289847 >>76289858
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:55:18 PM No.76287365
>>76286356
it’s her
Replies: >>76288578
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:56:59 PM No.76287374
31323211224112
31323211224112
md5: f4c5aee696722ebd17d1c668cdec40e5🔍
>meet fit girl at gym
>she's beautiful, great body, hard working, wealthy, and god fearing
>we hit it off from the beginning, very heavy feelings for each other
>3 months together, amazing experiences with travel, holidays, and just being around each other often
>have another amazing weekend together with her
>sunday morning comes, she leaves before I even wake up
>I wake up, and immediately knew something was wrong
>we had plans that day, she tells me to meet me at the local coffee shop first for a "life update"
>we meet in the parking lot, she tells me she got an unexpected offer at work to move to another state and she accepted it
>this will be the end of us for now, but she plans on returning home after a year or two and wants to rekindle things then
>grieve this breakup for weeks
>crying alone at home while flipping through pictures we took together
>found a text I screencapped from her where she said she had prayed for a man like me, and that this was the beginning of forever for us
>cried deeply
>we keep up with each other through text, talking as friends actually was going well
>we haven't talked in a few weeks, sent her a text a few days ago
>still no response from her
>stupidly google her name because I couldn't help myself
>find her facebook page
>several facebook posts from over a year ago of her looking for certain areas to live in this new state
>she knew over a year ago that she was moving
>this wasn't a random offer from work, this was a scheduled move when she was able to sub-lease her house
>still haven't received a text back

I knew deep down that there would never be a rekindling of this relationship but I held onto hope as long as I could. If she really wanted to be with me as bad as she said, then she wouldn't have left me. I have had nothing but bad experiences with relationships for my entire life. Cheating, zero effort, or completely random out of the blue breakups like this. I keep trying though in hopes that one day I will find my person.
Replies: >>76287567 >>76287598 >>76287610
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:12:14 PM No.76287428
>>76284810
I'm sort of a social recluse, I basically only leave my apartment to go to Costco. I forgot how normal going to the club sounds without that context kek
Replies: >>76287605
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:25:53 PM No.76287473
MASSIVE SOCIAL EMBARRASSMENT AND PHYSICAL WAKEUP CALL

>be me 30M 5'8' manlet, 160lbs.
> in highschool and college used to play tennis pretty seriously, was a giga skelly back then ~ 115-120lbs (think a cross country runner skelly).
>haven't played tennis since I was 20, have been dedicated to weightlifting these past few years instead.
>sign up for a social pickleball league.
>its 95 degrees f. out. I get assigned a partner whos shit at racquet sports so I basically am running around covering the entire court.
>after 45 mins I start to lose my vision, everything looks super bright and shiny/sparkly. Feels like I stood up way to fast, I can't stop yawning. I don't feel physical exhaustion but rather the sensation that im going to faint. But for some reason, I'm also not panting yet or breathing hard.
>I have to ask them for a break and sit down. I see my reflection in my phone, I'm purple in the face.
>there are a bunch of fat fucks playing just fine, no issue. Old people too.

How did I get this out of shape? I was so embarrassing, I've never ever had an episode like that. Massive wake up call for me. 18 year skelly tennis anon would have dominated that court out in the heat for 3-4 hours no problem. I do way more weight lifting than cardio or running, but I still get about 2-3 hours per week of incline walking in at the gym, I do the 15-3-30 method, where I set the incline to 15, walk for 30 to 45 mins at speed 3mph.

Why am I such a pathetic fuck. Feel horrible right now about myself and how embarrassing it was in front of a bunch of normies at the fucking social pickelball league.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:48:47 PM No.76287567
>>76287374
I feel you, anon. My gf broke up with me too and she tried giving me false hope but things like that rarely happen. It's best to move on as soon as possible.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:57:05 PM No.76287598
>>76287374
That's brutal anon. I don't know how she rationalized that horrid of a lie, but you should never speak to her again. Good luck getting over this, it will be rough but you can do it, don't let it make you cynical
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:58:16 PM No.76287605
>>76287428
Kek
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:59:57 PM No.76287610
>>76287374
>expect some girl to never leave you because you were dating for three months
Replies: >>76287627
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:02:36 PM No.76287614
>>76287259
I did the same thing a couple of years ago with a childhood "friend". You can’t imagine the peace of mind I have since. Don’t be afraid to get rid of horrible people.
Replies: >>76287728
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:03:19 PM No.76287619
>>76287473
Don't beat yourself up about it, you can easily fix this
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:05:24 PM No.76287627
>>76287610
How did you miss the point of his story entirely?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:08:35 PM No.76287645
>>76287473
>Why am I such a pathetic fuck
Stop beating yourself over not meeting your dumb expectations, it's not a moral failure.
I do this retarded thing too and feel hopeless when I'm not as good as I was when I was 15 years younger and active
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:10:35 PM No.76287661
>1 million heineken's please
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:25:06 PM No.76287728
>>76287614
oh I legit feel so much better about everything outside of not giving it any resolution on his end
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:29:21 PM No.76287745
rlm jay sad
rlm jay sad
md5: bcd5d224bdd8b2d675672e77267e8c51🔍
>Turn 30
>Realise life is pointless
>Wagie job 50 hours a week
>No free time
>No friends
>No social life
>Have to do this for another 30 years
Anyone else know this feel?
Replies: >>76287813 >>76287836 >>76288150
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:31:52 PM No.76287757
>>76287473
you might not be that bad anon. I had a badminton teacher that was fat as fuck and he wiped the floor with 95% of the team. If you are new to this kinda sport you end up wasting a ton of energy. You also waste a bunch if you are going 100% in a social league. If anything everyone is laughing at you so hard for going full potato.

Be the normie, add some outdoor cardio to the workout schedule and have a good time.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:47:59 PM No.76287813
>>76287745
Stop being a fag and improve what you can
Replies: >>76287836
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:52:30 PM No.76287836
>>76287745
>Anyone else know this feel?
Yes
>>76287813
This
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:25:59 PM No.76287961
I spent the past 48 hours doing nothing but shitposting on reddit and 4chan while neglecting my studies and everything else in my life. I'm fucking 30. I almost posted on r9k, I think I hit rock bottom. It's like a dejavu of my early 20s when I had a mental breakdown and I spent a few months of my life terminally online and depressed as fuck. I can't believe I'm about to do this again as a grown ass man, spending my days posting on fucking anime imageboards.

How do I kick myself out of this fucking spiral? Drastic measures accepted.
Replies: >>76287967 >>76287990 >>76288078
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:27:47 PM No.76287967
>>76287961
You don't see the irony in asking 4chan for help with this specific issue? lmao
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:34:50 PM No.76287990
>>76287961
>It's like a dejavu of my early 20s when I had a mental breakdown and I spent a few months of my life terminally online and depressed as fuck
I did this, r9k was my main board then
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:45:31 PM No.76288029
my girlfriend is nagging me too much so we fight all the time and she gets violent when I don't have time to give her daily dose of dicking or do some miniscule thing that bothers her or for no reason at all. i have to manhandle her now and then but last month even that didn't stop her so i hit her back and forgot that if you do this you have to engage in sex afterwards which I didn't because I didn't find her attitude sexy at all and now she can't let it go although it was necessary, or as sois call it self defense.
i know for a fact that none of this would happen if either i gave her more dick or she learned to leave me alone once in a while. have never met such a stubborn woman before.
Look, I've had gfs who would never dare to even yell at me, put up with all my bullshit, cook, clean, leave me alone and got tired of them all. I also know plenty couples that fight even worse and still stay together. To add I'm her first boyfriend and I have plenty of options, but I honestly find the majority of other women pretty dull or repulsive and I have my good reasons to stay.
I could of course bother just leaving her at any point but i'm not looking for the reddit take here as I think men take 99% of responsibility as women are basically children. i'm sure some other anons dealt with similar situations.
Honestly i'm afraid that the only answer is for me to become the bully in this dog eat dog relationship but that'd be against my nature. Like trying to outcrook the crook. Throwing shit back at her. Winning, but at what cost?
Replies: >>76288035 >>76288664
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:47:35 PM No.76288035
>>76288029
Leave her you complete retard
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:59:46 PM No.76288078
>>76287961
Do you have any friends. I suggest you bet them a significant amount of money that youbactually have. Maybe 100 dollars that you will not go on 4chan this week. If you are not a bitch, you will keep your word to your friend. Also, install blockers on your devices to block specifically 4chan and give the passwords to your friends, then try and be as busy as possible. Just sign up for shit even if you don't care or don't want to. Sign up for yoga sign up to volunteer at a soup kitchen on Saturday its not like you have anything else to do anyway don't be a bitch if you do this you can get over it
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:15:59 PM No.76288128
file
file
md5: 089ea22d89447e1fd32b20f3ecd4720b🔍
>extremely picky about people im into, find 99% of people unattractive
>skinny guy, but been working out recently so im more toned, less skinnyfat
>basically only into bigger beefy fat guys
>by all standards my body type should make it easier to get a bf, especially given that a lot of fat guys have low self esteem
>unfortunately i am gay so all these fat guys are either already in couples or able to have "open relationships"
>any guy that i'm into that is actually single is either:
>>extremely awkward
>>complete nutcase/something mentally wrong with them
>>doesnt want to leave the house
>>all three of these at once
>part of the reason for this is because theyre fat and fat people are usually a bit crazy or weird


WHY WOULD YOU GIVE ME A BODY LIKE THIS AND CURSE ME TO ONLY LIKE HYPER-SPECIFIC MEN
Replies: >>76288130 >>76288149 >>76288603
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:16:42 PM No.76288130
>>76288128
>gay
You should kys
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:24:50 PM No.76288149
kino
kino
md5: 5887fccb1a0bd5bfb30619273ca9e452🔍
>>76288128
Don't listen to him, LIVE
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:24:54 PM No.76288150
>>76287745
Yep, if you don’t have a social life or family, that’s all life is, if you’re lucky enough to have a job. You work to be able to afford staying alive for another day so that you can go to work the next day.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:30:18 PM No.76288164
>a cute and younger cafe cashier smiled at me and wanted to be one to make me a coffee
>tfw I'm probably being delusional and she is just new and wanting to make a good impression at work
>ask her about weather/day, she answers shortly and kinda goes away
Yep. I reached 30 and feel/look ugly. I never managed to figure out my "basic" style or anything and I'm wearing what I got in gifts or what mother bought over time.
I also suspect ADHD and going to meet a psychiatrist soon. I tried to self-improve, but I had no drive to do it on long-term. It's so tiresome, I can't even do my hobbies. I feel broken.
>tfw relatives constantly ask my about mediocre job and when I'm getting a gf
>might end up having to take care of my house and parents alone
I feel stuck
Replies: >>76288192
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 11:40:32 PM No.76288192
>>76288164
Same situation but my parents who I love with stopped asking about a gf many years ago and don’t even care that I’ve wasted my life at my worthless job. The thought of having to care of my parents is horror because I can’t even take care of myself
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 12:17:01 AM No.76288305
>another beautiful Saturday, perfect temperature, not a cloud in the sky, etc.
>summer here so this is going to be the norm for the next 2-3 months
>do absolutely jack shit
>sit in house all day long
>not even rotting my brain watching shit, just doing fucking nothing
>so many things I need to do to fix my life, do none of them, do nothing
>lament about how I do nothing but can’t get the motivation to do the bare minimum, not even bicycle aimlessly outside, because there’s no point
It’s crazy to imagine getting this depressed and not killing myself yet.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 12:38:55 AM No.76288395
3fb
3fb
md5: f760a6294062066b2dbda54bee0962ef🔍
I'm about to have a major surgery. The recovery will intense but I can't wait to have my quality of life go up. I navigated so many hurdles and this is the big next step that will define my life afterwards.
Replies: >>76288567
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 12:40:14 AM No.76288400
>>76281600 (OP)
not drinkin for a while, going to see my autistic buddy tomm for his birthday. We used to work together and he once mentioned that he always wanted a 747b mini Z rc car. I know he has no money. He watches his granma with dementia all the time. He always has a smile for everybody and never complains even tho some of then have treated him like shit. I bought that fuckin car for him from Japan and im gonna buy him a burger and surprise him then show him my porsche version so we can race together. Hes the only reliable friend I ever made.
Replies: >>76288567 >>76288609 >>76288737 >>76289872 >>76289875
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:33:06 AM No.76288563
>>76286636
No. I can't even transfer to money to my kids. If its never used the bank keeps it. 90k that I can only use for reimbursement on education only abd only if the bank decides it counts.
Replies: >>76288572
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:35:46 AM No.76288567
>>76288400
That's beautiful
>>76288395
Good luck anon
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:37:49 AM No.76288572
>>76288563
That is stupid. You should try to become good friends with the guy who makes those decisions at the bank, if you can. If not, good luck milking that. Maybe you can get a doctor, if you know one, to write you some sort of disability that can help you get more cash, idk, good luck
Replies: >>76288633
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:40:32 AM No.76288578
>>76287365
So why stay?
Replies: >>76289056
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:49:00 AM No.76288603
>>76288128
>gay
>autistic
>only likes fat old men
So how long were you raped and molested as a child? Was it a family member or family friend? Youre clearly just reliving it.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:50:29 AM No.76288609
>>76288400
He sounds like a good person, hope you both have a great day together fren
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:00:40 AM No.76288633
images - 2025-06-22T085703.567
images - 2025-06-22T085703.567
md5: 55c4d4bf32afd703481c6a6001391aa1🔍
>>76288572
I mean free mo ey woukd be great but I want to work and be able to afford good private tutors and sports for my brood. Do you know how expensive kids sports are these days? I'm genuinely not sure if it's actually one guy/the same guy who makes the decisions, its across the country anyway. Even if i had full access but still education only, what could I really get a degree for that wouldn't demand ridiculous overtime or have me fully Grey by 40 out of stress because the company is always put to replace me. We have e a friend who started a new job 6 months ago, he went from a cat 2 to somewhere between a cat 4 and 5. He can't quit because the pay is fantastic and he's holding out hope the workplace environment will improve. I do t want that for me if I can help it. I also don't want to work with any hazmat at all.
Replies: >>76288727
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:13:50 AM No.76288664
>>76288029
dumbass
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:41:09 AM No.76288727
>>76288633
Maybe you can organize some sort of fake online degree and give a percentage to someone and keep the rest?
Replies: >>76288733
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:44:21 AM No.76288733
>>76288727
I'd love to use it for education if I can also get legitimate counseling on a career field, but yeah 80k would be pretty sweet to fraud them out of. But not worth the hail time when I got caught
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:46:33 AM No.76288737
>>76288400
nice!
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:16:37 AM No.76289056
>>76288578
I do not have a good reason. Why leave?
Replies: >>76289065
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:22:56 AM No.76289065
>>76289056
Because its she's not attracted to you or willing to talk about it and youre considering adultery its clearly over.
Replies: >>76289080
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:26:51 AM No.76289080
>>76289065
Couples don’t work this way normally? What about vows?
Replies: >>76289111
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:41:59 AM No.76289111
>>76289080
She's got no affection for you. You vowed to love someone who loved you. If you respect marriage enough to stay why not respect it enough to just leave?
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 12:53:50 PM No.76289847
>>76287278
>it’s on point because I said so
lol no you’re just another mentally ill faggot who can’t help but have Freudian slip esque fumbles via inserting and exposing his personal feelings without intending to any time he speaks with shit reading comprehension. You were ready for someone to judge you which is why you overly explained things like it’s not your bitch with the hall pass because deep down you feel shame.
>christian
Again you have done it. Someone can recognize you as a filthy faggot (gay fairy bitch haha) and it have nothing to do with religion. Even if it does, you say that like it’s some shifting comeback. The fact is the only comeback you will truly get is whatever you scrape off your lubars gay boy LOL
>nope, didn't say that all.
I never said you said that my lord you truly are a simpleton with the reading comprehension of a gnat.
>I get it though, you are trying to fill a narrative.
What narrative LMFAO all I said was you missed the other anons point and then I pointed out the fact which you yourself stated that you are a faggot. FUCKING LOL. Here’s the narrative: you are gay, you are emotional because anon judged you for not being able to get other pussy. You’re a gay dude who can’t even pull and has to resort to digging in the trash and that speaks volumes about you.
>I am spending the day with a person that I have known of 15 years.
Yeah that’s what I said, you are incapable of meeting a new woman easily and so you resort to low hanging fruit.
>I assume you are either young AF or haven't had sex. All day sex is not a thing over 25. Most people tap out after 8. No amount of lube can make up for a pussy that has been squirting for hours.
Continued below :)
Replies: >>76289858
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:01:44 PM No.76289858
>>76289847
>>76287278
A.) you’ve done nothing but ASSUME here B.) I can promise I have gotten more pussy than you C.) again you are whining about crap I never mentioned D.) if a bitch likes you all day sex is absolutely a thing sorry they don’t get wet for a nasty faglord3000 like yourself. The real problem is your dick fails to get hard when it’s not with a man. I’m 29 and I’ve yet to have this issue, last chick I dated I would spend entire days fucking, cumming in a 1:5 ratio.
You know what’s crazy about “am spending the day with a person that I have known of 15 years” that chick and another ex have been begging to see me again, one texted last night, I’ve known them for over a decade. I’m not gonna go fuck them, because I know I can just go meet a new bitch. Literally grabbed a new girls number at the gas station this morning. You on the other hand have to resort to fucking exes then concoct non logic bullshit like
>we’ve known each other for a very long time so it’s special these a deep bond there :(
In order to delude yourself that what you’re doing isn’t pathetic. What’s more pathetic is, as you’ve implied, it’s just a cover so you don’t have to be honest with yourself that you enjoy cock hahahahahahahaha.
>yes, I refused advances from those gay men because I am degenerate. For my next degenerate act I plan to open a door for an elderly person so I can look at his or her sweet ass.
“I-I’m not really gay I only sucked 15 penises and took it up the ass 3 times I-I’m not a shame riddled faggot who can’t even be honest with himself.”
You are absolutely pathetic. I wouldn’t call a gay man who was a normal person a faggot btw. A gay who has the nuts to be a gay. But you are a spineless coward, a true faggot. You’re the norm McDonald closet joke incarnate and you’re too oblivious to reality or your self to even have the capacity to recognize it.
Your entire existence is just fuckin sad dude.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:14:44 PM No.76289872
>>76288400
Just out of curiosity what z car is that? I’d love to have a friend like you man. I’m an autistic dude and I’m obsessed with the early z cars. I love 280z’s, I’ve been wanting an RC 280. A few, one of those hot wheel sized drifting ones (have yet to find one for sale) and one close to the size of an energy drink can. I have a few hotwheels 240z’s I’ve found (aesthetically basically the same car).
Replies: >>76289875
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:16:50 PM No.76289875
>>76288400
>>76289872
>mini z is a brand
Oh. I see z and I see car and I get excited