>>76337608 (OP)Most likely not. At 30 y.o., if it was (just?) you being ugly, you'd still have gotten laid once or twice with some drunk slut or desperate uggo.
You either have unrealistic standards (speaking from experience there lol - for a while, girls were all over me, and my stupid teen self went "I don't want to fuck people I can't even respect, much less love" and stayed khv into my 20s), or you're just too autistic.
learn how to talk to people, do it as often as possible, and your chances will increase. After that, it's just a numbers game of getting in contact with as many women as possible.
protip: If you're some overly manly man, working in engineering, doing full contact martial arts and spending your weekends stalking deer and messing with bikes, you'll have a much harder time than even some effeminate brony hanging out in the kid's section of the book store. Was a real eyeopener when I saw a guy like that get a girlfriend before me...