Thread 76342841 - /fit/ [Archived: 479 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:51:32 AM No.76342841
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How the fuck are people happy when working out? Is there a way I can hypnotize myself or rewire my brain to find enjoyment in lifting? I hate every single second of it even if I like getting bigger.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:48:19 AM No.76342963
Do it for long enough and you’ll start to enjoy it. Same thing happens for running
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:51:24 AM No.76342971
>>76342841 (OP)
Just use lower weights bro.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:54:59 AM No.76342977
>>76342841 (OP)
Dude delete your other thread
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 5:00:07 AM No.76342988
lifting increases your testosterone for a while

when you have base high levels of T, elevating that further will increase them to supraphysiological levels albeit temporarily

in this state it's a very zen feeling and you just enjoy the moment, coupled with the amazing feeling of the pump

it's a bit hard to explain but you feel "complete"
the physical exertion required to reach such a state is what makes the reward even more tantalizing
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:28:20 AM No.76343173
>>76342963
this unironically
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:51:58 AM No.76343234
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>>76342841 (OP)
Well the main problem is when you compare it to things you already enjoy it probably doesn’t fit or come close to fulfilling the same desire — it’s not relaxing, engaging, emotional or social. It’s kind of dull, like sitting with yourself, only you’re also exerting yourself at the same time. So yeah, it’s at odds with most “desirable” things, but eventually you start to enjoy it for its own unique reasons, in its own way. Like for how you’re proud of how normal it’s started to feel, how it’s time to yourself where you don’t have to worry about the rest of life or “if you’re doing enough” because you’re right where you’re supposed to be. It’s an excuse to catch up on podcasts and music, you start to see small improvements in how you breathe, move, and feel. You enjoy how your muscles feel after a workout, how limber you get, and your brain releases subtle but noteworthy content chemicals that you start to miss when you skip days. It’s a bunch of small little perks that don’t measure up individually to the punch of sensation that a video game or cheeseburger might have, but you start to develop a sense of preference for the clean slate, the freshness, the general wellbeing and removal from random aches, pains, and subtle chemical imbalances that plague most people. A lot of wellbeing stems from exercise, more than people consciously recognize, and it simply makes good times better and bad times easier.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:06:04 AM No.76343257
>>76342841 (OP)
I hate it too but fomo and imaginary middle of lifting block prs, not looking like a ficticious antagonist, im pretty poor so ufc fighter is a viable career, petty squabbles with easily half a dozen hobos about the half ounce blunt i smoke while passing through shantytown with a pint of vodka and a natty daddy.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:08:18 AM No.76343263
>>76342841 (OP)
Just get high and drunk after work or whenever and start lifting all the time fucking around and making food, the gains loss from drinking isnt bad unless youbdrink 247 since protein synthesis happens for probably a week after lifting but i 100% for maybe the day after so if you dont go to bed drunk youre golden.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:11:37 AM No.76343270
>>76343263
>just lift more often so youre always building muscle
>compound strength and lifting every day are incongruent unless targeting specific gains from high freq work
>more for power and deep fiber is simply impossible to do as well if heavily fatigued from doing multiple hard sets several days in a row due to cns fatigue

You basicall lose no gains drinkikg might as well just party at the gym and the home gym so its fun. I legit put 100lbs on my 1rm bench in abyear drinking as much beer as possible for like 8 months.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:30:41 AM No.76343299
I played a lot of video games growing up. I have learned that "number go up = dopamine hit". So, seeing my bench or squat whatever go up as I hit PRs? Yeah, big time dopamine hit.
Simply knowing that what I am doing is constant progress towards bigger numbers means the entire workout process becomes its own dopamine hit.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:34:45 AM No.76343306
- Good workout music
- Find workout variations that you prefer (unless they are a meme)
- Do it for long enough
- See results
- Hype yourself up before going
- Reward yourself with an appropriate snack afterwards, a shower or something else
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:07:35 AM No.76343368
I find joy in being better than most people around me. I’m soon 20 years into this, I have a wife and two kids and watching other fathers pretty much die at work due to stress and their bodies giving up makes me feel superior.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:18:23 AM No.76343393
>>76342841 (OP)
https://youtu.be/bykPAYTLUU0?si=qXUWPdmh9zPImsMV
watch this
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:18:26 AM No.76343394
>>76342841 (OP)
Go heavier bro
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:31:06 AM No.76343777
>>76342841 (OP)
Lift light for many, many reps.
Rather than difficult, it'll feel like a ticklish, satisfying stretch. Just try it.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:04:56 PM No.76344124
>>76342963
Yep, this is the answer.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:13:18 PM No.76344143
>>76342841 (OP)
The desire to mog and not be mogged burns deep
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:37:28 PM No.76344214
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>>76344143
>the pain means it's working
that's how
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/3aWcKBewspg
DA PAAAAAAHMP. I'M CAAAHMING.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:40:19 PM No.76344224
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>>76342841 (OP)
>the pain means it's working
that's how

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xZQ0YZ7ls4

DA PAAAAAAHMP. I'M CAAAHMING.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:28:00 PM No.76344347
>>76343234
True, since I've been going to the gym consistently I'm just generally happier and when I'm sad I get out of it much quicker as opposed to wallowing in it for a week
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:38:13 PM No.76344377
>>76342841 (OP)
for me it was switching to calisthenics. Moving my body through space by doing pullups and dips just feels so much more satisfying than sitting on some machine.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:41:40 PM No.76346084
>>76342988
checked
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:01:57 PM No.76346178
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>>76342841 (OP)
Get addicted to caffeine and then only take it when you go to the gym.
You''ll then enjoy the gym through Pavlovian Conditioning
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:06:56 AM No.76346358
>>76342841 (OP)
Exercise releases endorphins, that's how.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:10:10 AM No.76346368
work is not meant to be enjoyable, the results of it are
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:16:32 AM No.76346392
>>76346358
>Exercise releases endorphins, that's how.

Exactly - I had to read all the above comments to eventually find this.

After a good session of weights I get a buzz - feel energised, happy and a bit hornier than usual. Plus the muscle groups I've been working on are pumped - I look better.

I don't get this from cardio.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:23:11 AM No.76346414
>>76342841 (OP)
Lift more and more intensely. Paradoxically, you need to lift more often.
mixedchad
7/7/2025, 12:31:26 AM No.76346435
>>76342841 (OP)
eat more and cleaner food so you feel better and have more energy
do a workout you actually enjoy
dont go too crazy and fry your body
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:35:02 AM No.76346451
>>76342841 (OP)
Listen to Iosys
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:41:12 AM No.76346477
>>76342963
Started both a month ago. How much longer?

I feel happy accomplish and "bigger" immediately after, but not really during, and ABSOLUTELY not before.
For exmaple, today is both run and lift day and I am slightly dreading it. Wish I could just have a lazy Sunday playing videogames before the workweek.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 1:01:56 AM No.76346552
>>76342841 (OP)
good. get the fuck out and stay home. you are just wasting time anyway
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 2:16:28 AM No.76346768
>>76342841 (OP)
Imagine exercise is mortal combat with your nemesis and put on appropriate music.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 2:28:44 AM No.76346787
>>76342841 (OP)
its a addictive
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 2:47:27 AM No.76346830
>>76342841 (OP)
I never 'enjoyed' lifting but recognize it as nessisary for my longevity. Switching to more HIT focused routine has been great for me. Keep seeing progress not spending egregious amounts of time going to the gym. Just a lot of effort and a bit of hustle every 3rd or 4th day and you'll do fine. It won't make you look like a bodybuilder that is almost exclusively the domain of drugs not routine.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:04:33 AM No.76347009
Before I go to the gym I put a paper bag over my head and get on all fours and run around in my house until I break something expensive (glass breaking or wood splintering) or expend all energy. I then go to the gym.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:06:55 AM No.76347020
>>76342841 (OP)
I love skyla so much, if she was real i wouldn't be racist.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 6:40:07 AM No.76347489
>>76342841 (OP)
I watch this video before every workout https://youtu.be/M46plNiZReM?t=19
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:44:43 PM No.76348180
>>76342841 (OP)
workout in a fun way
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:50:40 PM No.76348198
>>76346477
for me it took about half a year of serious, consistent lifting
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 3:49:40 PM No.76348732
oh hahaha OP.

i have ADHD and extremely high need for cognition. i have always fucking despised every form of exercise for being incredibly boring and fucking dull. i can work out for at most like 20 minutes before my scribblebrain is just fucking done. i have never enjoyed exercise and i don't think i ever will.

couple tips:
1. work out with other people. they keep you accountable and sometimes it can be fun
2. stop and ask yourself what else you would be doing. playing videogames? jerking off? it's not enough to just be thinking "man i really don't want to be here" - you are choosing between alternatives. if you're not here, where else would you be? and is that the choice you want to make?
3. podcasts. it helps a bit.
4. workout less, more often. shorter workouts more frequently until you build a sustainable tolerance. my workouts are 4 core exercises plus bonus work. some days i only do the four and leave, other days i'll do five or 6 or 7 exercises because i have more tolerance
5. don't do things you don't like. i hate squats so i don't do them. working out already sucks enough without forcing yourself to do awful exercises that suck. the most important thing is that you actually go to the gym. there's no point designing a perfect hardcore workout that you do for 2 months and then bail on. obviously this is suboptimal, but it's better than not going at all.
6. lower the intensity. you don't have to go to failure on every exercise.

i've been working out for five years and i've hated every fucking second. i still fucking hate going to the gym. i'm procrastinating going to the gym right now. but life is full of things that we hate. i hate going to the dentist too.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 3:51:53 PM No.76348739
>>76348732
oh and set goals.

my current goals for this 16 week block are to put 20kg on my bench (not going so well) and add an inch to my arms (going pretty well). goal setting produces intrinsic motivation. write it down and track your goals on paper where you can see it every day. i have line charts up on my wall.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 3:52:32 PM No.76348743
>>76346477
>>76348198
same, about 10 months
then I literally am addicted and can't sleep if I don't go to the gym and get a nice workout in
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 3:55:43 PM No.76348754
>>76346477
run slower
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:08:31 PM No.76348813
>>76342841 (OP)
You need to actively think good though, specifically when lifting.
Think of what makes you happy, over time your grain will associate lifting with happy.
This is not a fast process.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:17:57 AM No.76350870
>>76346477
Dig a little deeper. What do you dread about it?
>Being sore afterwards?
>The time it will take you could have spent gaming or gooning?
>Being all sweaty and gross afterwards?
>he "pain" needed to lift heavy things or go the distance when running?
What do you dread so much, anon?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:21:19 AM No.76350878
>>76348732
As a fellow ADD-fag I agree with all you said. I don't use all the tips you gave, but some of them will surely help other people in our situation.

Here's my biggest ever MEGA SUPER PRO TIP GAME HACK for everyone ITT: just gaslight yourself, bro.

Lie to yourself. Tell yourself that the only way your day will feel productive is if you work out (whatever that work out happens to be, even if it's just going outside for a moderate intensity walk for an hour)
>you're a piece of shit if you don't work out
>you'll feel like shit if you don't work out
>working out is the only way you'll feel happy today
etc

Just fake it till you make it, brahs... with lies, victim-blaming, and gaslighting. You're welcome!
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:39:58 AM No.76351132
>>76342841 (OP)
Idk man I've been training for almost 20 years now since I started young
I hate it more every day and see it as a necessary evil, cant enjoy the process just the results
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 5:47:38 AM No.76351988
I've been working out regularly for over a year now. I do not enjoy it, but I've come to hate it less over time.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 5:58:22 AM No.76352017
>>76342963
Bullshit. The longer I've lifted the more I've hated it. It was kind of fun at first lifting literally nothing and getting instantly bigger and stronger, but as time goes by, you're doing more and more of the same shit (boring) for longer periods of time (boring) and working massively harder for less and less gains.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 6:02:20 AM No.76352030
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>>76342963
This
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 6:05:54 AM No.76352044
>>76343299
This. I started liking my workouts a lot more and being way more motivated once I started taking notes of my PRs.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 6:35:46 AM No.76352134
>>76342841 (OP)
>How the fuck are people happy when working out?
I dunno, it was always fun to me, except maybe for the first few weeks (because it hurt). I guess it's the feeling of blood moving and feeling your own strength after a while?

>>76342988
>lifting increases your testosterone for a while
No, it lowers test acutely.

>>76350878
>lies, victim-blaming, and gaslighting
Sounds like /fit/ alright lol.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 2:18:27 PM No.76353114
>>76342841 (OP)
>he doesn't get satisfaction from improving his body, even if it's not instantly noticeable
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 2:19:29 PM No.76353118
>>76342963
Running is different. you secrete more endorphins when running
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:02:14 PM No.76353253
>>76342841 (OP)
I mean it isn't really pleasant to be moving your body past it's limits. It's uncomfortable. I don't think it's happy in the moment, it's the feeling better after you're done and the results that come.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:13:14 PM No.76353287
I used to be jacked and shredded and for me the way I made it fun was based techno music and mirin' myself in the mirror. Stop giving a fuck and do cringe zyzz poses in front of the mirror. Get off on yourself thats the key imo