>>76350200I think my mistake was rather uncommon. I often read that beginners mess up at the start because they choose a bad program (or no program at all), but in my case, from day one I had a structured program made by a lifter I knew from an online bodybuilding forum. He was both a coach and an experienced lifter. It was a classic full-body program with 3 sessions per week, starting with compound movements and then isolation exercises.
My problem was with nutrition. On the forums, they put a lot of emphasis on being in a calorie surplus rather than on total protein intake (they did talk about protein too, but in my impression, the focus was really on the calorie surplus, supposedly you can’t make progress without it). So from September 2022 to May 2024, I focused on being in a surplus, but since I couldn’t manage to eat both a lot (in terms of quantity) and well (with enough protein), I sacrificed quality for quantity.
As a result, after a year and a half, I had certainly progressed in terms of performance but very slowly, and I just ended up fat. Obviously, I realized something was wrong well before May 2024, but since in the explanations I discussed online I mentioned that I didn’t feel my muscles much during training, people kept telling me, “That’s definitely the problem. You MUST feel your muscles; otherwise, you’re doing the movements wrong.”
At the end of 2023, I hired a coach who made me work on mind-muscle connection and on the movements themselves, breaking down the exercises into all their phases, slowing down the execution, etc. It didn’t change my sensations at all, and even today, they’re almost nonexistent (and I’m open to discussing this and whether or not it could explain my difficulties).
I followed this MMC-focused program for 4 months at the end of 2023, but apart from a drop in performance, I didn’t notice any changes in sensations, so I stopped.