There's nothing that frightens me more than what kind of rejection I can get in front of the entire gym, even confrontations aren't as bad in terms of fear.

>>76348825 (OP)
You don't? You are there to fucking lift not try to pick up women.

>>76348825 (OP)
Go for it. Yes, everyone within earshot will notice, but you're a biological male, there will never be a "right time" if you wait for it.

>>76348836
fuck off

>>76348836
This
>>76348825 (OP)
>>76348891
Pajeets

>>76348825 (OP)
Just go up and say something. If they seem uninterested, distracted, or not reciprocating then stop talking to them and move along.
Women will drop everything for the "right guy".
If that guy isn't you then that's tough, but that's life.

How do I stop viewing approaching women as a humiliation ritual?

I know I need to do it otherwise I'll be single and celibate forever if I don't, but the idea of approaching a woman and trying to "rizz" her seems like a pathetic humiliation ritual.
it's literally "ma'am m-may i have a crumb of pussy"

>>76349096
This shit. After at least 5 times going up to a girl just to talk you can easily distignuish between
>she's somewhat interested
and
>you're invisible to her
Women are bad at hiding the fact they want nothing to do with you nor do they have the grace and tact to do it in a nice way. Girls will either talk your ear off from one question you throw at them or will literally side glance you till you walk away.

>>76348836
Based FPBP, /thread

>>76349136
Same here. A few have already given me the clearest signs but I still don't approach because aside from the obvious one aforementioned by anon, I also have nothing in common to keep talking to most people. Like I know how to initiate conversations, just never know how to stay in them.

>>76348825 (OP)
You dont unless you're 100% sure she's into you

>>76349136
I need to get over this too

>>76349136
never approached a girl for this very reason

sex havers please help, how do you actually go through it all

>>76349136
>>76350962
>>76350968
>>76351259
these are the people who call u a manlet on this board and claim to know what women like. charisma is literally a natural thing. You can barely train it. how about trying to make a female friend you don't fuck, then just use her as a wingman. Seeing a guy with girl friends establishes you're not a complete psycho
>how to make friends with womeme
you're unsaveable. you can't be spoonfed everything in life; figure it out yourself dudes

>>76351470
Adding onto this post. most relationships start from a common hobby or profession. If you can't relate to her with gym stuff, then who are you gonna relate with?

>>76348825 (OP)
enjoy your sexual harassment charges anon

>>76348825 (OP)
Stop treating socializing like its some complicated hunt.

Literally practice being a social person. Have casual conversation with people everywhere you go.

Pick up books on social skills.
Stop gooning so much.
Stop smoking weed.
Stop wasting so much time online.
Be around real people in real life and just socialize more.

You'll learn to read people and be able to introduce yourself and have casual conversation with people everywhere you go.