>>76352609 (OP)Eating low glycemic food for at least the last month of pregnancy helps delivery. Insulin competitively inhibits one of the hormones for tissue relaxation.
General advice like an offer is: relax. The first few months of my first childs life I was way too stressed, trying to take care of everything and fixing everything immediately.
Also, co-sleep if possible for the first year at least. If you put them in their own room too early kids get abandonment issues and way needier than if you just have a natural amount of contact with them.
Don't use a pacifier. It will fuck up her jaw.
Similarly, for good craniofacial development, feed her real (tough) food as early as possible. According to my dentist, lifetime cavity rates go down significantly if they don't eat sugar until they are at least three.
Kids aren't stupid. They are just unknowledgeable. Treat them like a human and they are more likely to listen to you. It's normal to get frustrated with them, but if you lose your temper, you lost.
No screens for the first few years and limit screen time as much as possible afterwards still. Unless you want her brain cooked.
Children need structure. Lunch, naptime, Dinner, an evening routine and bedtime at the same time every day makes life way easier.
'Do as I say, not as I do', doesn't work. Kids learn by imitating their parents. Set good examples.
That's all I can think of for now. If you have any questions go ahead.