i make a lot of friends at the gym

>>76356027 (OP)
I wear a shirt that just says "Big Nissan Energy" and it draws 4chan users to me

>>76356027 (OP)
I am not good at making friends at the gym :-(

I make enemies at the gym

I don't look at other people at the gym. I look past them like they're not even there. I hate other people.

There are a few people at the gym I'm obligated to say hi to, but they're all men with the exception of one middle aged retired punk rocker varbie who looks like she's smoked a pack a day for the past 40 years.

How to make female friends at the gym? I have a lot of friends that are men but they are useless, I just wanna talk to girls without looking like a creep but 99% of girls look like robots with headphones on

>>76356027 (OP)
Must be nice. People I know actively avoid making eye contact with me so as not to get approached by me. Forget about girls. Wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

> t. Indian

>>76356209

I either work out after 9pm on weeknights or during the day on weekends. Perfect time for an antisocial training session.

The last couple weeks have been kinda shit because the first few weeks of Summer are almost as bad as New Years in a lot of the bigger chain gyms (protip for normie lurkers: the time to start working on your "Summer body" was September of two years ago), but it'll clear out again soon.

>>76356396
>> t. Indian
I'm sorry bro

I don't have friends but i say hi to the cleaner and some times talk to this powershitter, oh and this other guy who asks me to spot him as he sqwwwats

>>76356396
my condolences

>>76356396

I know people love to clown on Indians, but just keep at it. All of that "eww, Indians" shit will go away once you are a /fit/ Chadpreet. The American distaste for Indians comes from the recent arrival, skinnyfat tech workers who say and do a lot of weird shit because they don't know how to control themselves around hot white women.

Honestly the biggest issue I've seen with Indians in the gym is that a lot of the more recent arrival, "off the boat" Indians don't believe in bathing well or using deodorant. People tend to get pissed off when they're three machines over and your BO is burning their nostrils.

>>76356436
Thanks brother

>>76356396
I don't think vidyut gets much shit for being indian

>>76356359
>>76356374
Me. The overly talkative black uncs are not fucking helping.

I miss when my old gym was a social hub.
>work at physically big (big space, lots of machines, not too many members compared to the space) in college
>make small talk with new members and people buying drinks/supps
>learn how to make better protein shakes than my coworkers (the secret is to just add an extra scoop)
>regulars start making extra time to talk to me before/after workouts
>congratulate their victories, commiserate their sorrows
>start making tons of friends that I see in and out of the gym
>don't have to pay for my own drinks at certain bars because my regulars just pay for me
>shack up with a few qt gym thots (stop doing it pretty quick because they'd get mad and have a fit and quit the gym)
>start hearing all the goofy gym gossip
>get a few guys together for a boxing club
>ff to COVID
>gym closes down, don't get to see friends for months
>finally get back to work, most of the old crew is gone
>new regulars slowly become pissy, loud zoomers and neurotic, condescending Insta whores
I eventually quit obviously, but I really miss the golden days.

>>76356374
>female friends
come on man.

But if you're really serious,
>start chatting with female receptionist if possible
>bonus if there's a protein shake bar at your gym
>NEVER make a move on her (she's your anchor girl)
>other girls will see you talking to her
>they'll either think you're a "safe" guy to talk to, or that you're nonthreatening because you're a wiener who makes "friends" with girls
>slowly start including other girls in your conversations with the receptionist

>>76356529
I talked to the receptionist at my gym and this didn't do shit for me, other females at the gym don't give a shit about that

>>76356521
>that guy that calls mere acquaintances "friends"
eesh

>>76356639
i mean, they'd probably wind up being acquaintances for you. but i had barbecues and float trips with most of these people lol

>>76356529
lol what kind of gay fantasy story is this

>>76356580
well, she has to be fairly sociable herself. Your only other bet is to make guy friends that actually have female friends, but it sounds like you've had a hard time with that.

Why do you want female friends, specifically? You're just trying to fuck them, aren't you?

>>76356775
it's not a story you sped, it's instructions because that anon apparently has a hard time making friends and they HAVE to be female

>>76356792
The approach you described can come across as disingenuous and manipulative because it involves using one person (the receptionist) as a strategic tool to gain the attention or trust of others, rather than building authentic connections. Here’s why it might feel off:

1. Instrumentalizing Relationships: Treating the receptionist as an "anchor girl" to leverage social proof reduces her to a means to an end, rather than valuing her as an individual. Genuine friendships, even casual ones, are built on mutual respect and interest, not ulterior motives.

2. Calculated Social Engineering: The strategy of deliberately showcasing yourself as "safe" or "nonthreatening" by chatting with one person to attract others can feel like a performance. It risks coming off as inauthentic to both the receptionist and the other women, especially if your primary goal isn’t to connect with them as people but to achieve a social outcome.

3. Potential for Misrepresentation: If you’re presenting yourself as friendly and nonthreatening but your endgame is to pursue romantic or other interests, it could lead to misunderstandings or feelings of betrayal if others sense they were part of a calculated plan.

>>76356792
not even that anon. sounds like instructions an incel would make on the idea of how he would make friends when he’s never had friends in his life

>>76356796
>disingenuous and manipulative
Yeah. Anon is being disingenuous and manipulative by trying to seek female "friends" that he really wants to sleep with. I don't see the problem with what I wrote, and ChatGPT use does make you factually gayer than anon.

>>76356797
asking to make female "friends" to sleep with, and needing instructions for them, is incel behavior. I probably shouldn't have provided instructions because that shit has always happened naturally for me.

>>76356805
virgin hands typed this

>>76356808
a dude who makes "friends" with girls hoping to get laid typed this

>>76356808
not even that anon but
>v-virgin
>you're an incel! shut up!
not a good look lil bro

>>76356815
Not even that anon, but green texting in 2025? Yeah, you’re definitely socially retarded with no friends. That’s why you’re in this thread, right? Looking for advice kek

>gay incel needs help getting girls to be his "friends"
>dude offers shitty advice
>gay incel proceeds to sperg and pretend to be multiple people to save face
It's summer alright

>>76356831
not even that anon but
>g-gay incel
>It’s summer alright!
not a good look lil bro

>>76356147
>it draws 4chan users to me
You a masochist?

>>76356819
>nta
>you're fucking faggot
>kys

>>76356838
Not even that anon, but green texting in 2025? Yeah, you’re definitely socially retarded with no friends. That’s why you’re in this thread, right? Looking for advice kek

HAHAHAHHA THIS KID IS SO ASSBLASTED WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED TO THE THREAD

>>76356852
you've got his brain shorting out, he's taking forever with this next reply

>>76356852
Right, it was one thing to write shitty instructions, but then to react so defensively about it when others didn’t agree and start spamming incel comments pretending to be multiple anons? Taking it way too far

>>76356796
moden ai is so cucked. if we had the wild west ai that was at the beginning it would give a totally different answer

>>76356858
>>76356860
nta but hes just trying to give advice to some virgins. i never posted multiple replies

>>76356860
>highroading
>from the dude who can't talk to girls

>>76356860
pro tip: its easier to press ESC instead of pressing backspace on your whole comment. Figured you'd need the tip

>>76356780
Yes

How? I wish I could make /fit/ friends