>>76368776
The most important tips to have success at dating are:
1 - Outcome independence.
Act as if it's not a big deal and stop caring about the end result. You're meeting a girl to know each other, whether you click or not, and it ends in nothing it doesn't matter.
Act as if you had 3 other dates lined up for you this week (which you should) and you don't care if this specific woman doesn't like you.
If she ends in "friendship", hook up, relationship or she's The One, it doesn't matter. Your mindset should be "I'm going to give her a chance", that's it.
2 - Make her do 80% of the talking.
The less you talk, the more success you'll have. Your job as the man is to direct the conversation with questions, and make her talk.
This positions you as the one who's judging and qualifying the other, and her as the one trying to meet your standards.
Talking too much is submissive behavior, the one that talks the most is the one trying to earn the other's approval. Think of it as a job interview and her as the one trying to argue if she's worth your time.
This also works very well because their brain has something that the more they talk the better they feel, and they associate these good feelings with being with you.
On top of it, the less you talk, the fewer chances of you saying something that is seen as a red flag that immediately disqualifies you. They will usually instantly lose attraction if they see one little bad sign.
They will yap for like 15-30 minutes straight without realizing that you haven't said anything. When this happens, and they ask about you, briefly answer, never avoid the question, and re-direct it to her with a related question.
3 - Choose a date location where you will be sitting next to each other, not in front of each other. (Crucial)
4 - Best place for a date is a bar where you invite her for a drink. Dinner dates are the worst for a first date, second only to going to the movies.
Avoid anything where you spend too much, gives simp vibes.
