Hey /fit/bros. first post in a long time, I broke up with my cripplingly ill GF as I couldn't take it anymore. We met today as she wanted closure. Instead she put me on blast for being a piece of shit and instead of flipping on her about loads a shit she put me through, I was stoik and just sat and took it. Now I feel like shit. Care to cheer an anon up?

Also, to keep fitness related, I can't grow my fucking bices bros. I do preacher curls with 9kg and can barely fucking lift the barebell after the 10th rep, second set. Triceps are juicy and all my other gains coming along, but just lagging here. Any advice?

>>76372266 (OP)
She's probably fingering herself to how stoic you were while she was giving you shit right now.

>>76372272
See this is eaxctly the kinda reason I come here. Instantly put a smile on my face bro, thanks man. Shits difficult rn and my brain's panicking a big

You should feel bad, anon. This is the price you had to pay in order to split up with this shedemon draining you of energy, nothing comes free in life, in the gym or out. The bad news is you had to sit there and take her shit and yelling and post about it on a Mongolian frog forum. The good news is you're free now, and you'll feel better over time, and eventually you'll find someone new who won't steal your energy away from your routine for your biceps.

>>76372266 (OP)
Why do you subhumans keep coming here for validation and shoulder rubs, if you're so le stoic just take it to your dad or frie... Yeah you dont have anyone besides your morbidly obese gf because you suck.
You can stay here i guess if you keep the chungus wholesome estrogenized posting to a minimum

>>76372288
Thanks friend, you're 100% correct. I know this stuff in my head and I know it was the right decision but just having it confirmed by others helps me know I'm on the right track.

Favourite bicep exercise?

>>76372291
Yeah you're right, the silence is deafening and I just needed someone to talk to else I'd ruminate. You're helping anon and I'll man the fuck up again once I traverse this hurdle,

>>76372300
>You're helping anon
You know what also would help ? Killing yourself

>>76372315
Thanks anon,

I hope you get the gains you're pursuing, big or small. WAGMI

>>76372322
>WAGMI
Doesn't include your plebbit newfag ass, take that fake nice snarkiness out of here.

>>76372330
What do you do for bi's bro? You do hammer curls?

>>76372340
I do your mom

>>76372315
Pretty bad advice ngl

Don't listen to this energy drainer , anon. Find someone new who makes you want to be better. I've been in the same situation. It's scary to be single in this current world. I get pussy all the time, but it's kind of meaningless and hollow. We'll both find someone

>>76372358
Bet - I think that's the other take at the minute. I'm 32 this year, she was 21 - I met her before she got ill (like four months before) I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world but everything changed. I held out for nearly two years hoping she'd get better but that's not the case.

WAGMI anon, you keep fuckin' them bitches until you find the right one. it's only meaningless and hollow cause you're expecting something deeper from it. Just take it for what it is at face value while you're searching

>>76372373
So what exactly was wrong with her OP, you didn't give her AIDS or something did you?

Also heavier bicep curls until full sets then another size up

>>76372386
We never got anything definitive. We went through several things, first we thought it was a gallstone, then it turned out it wasn't and is most likely some rare auto-immune disorder or fibromyalgia. I waited for a light at the end of the tunnel but it never came. She also has endometriosis and I want a big family but was willing to sacrifice that for her.
Eventually things turned into me careing for her and her barely being able to move. Most people I know (and her entire family, and now her obvs) thinks I'm a huge piece of shit for what I did, but I just couldn't lose more of my time in that relationship.

>>76372373
That's hilarious. 33 now but started I dating a girl that age a few years ago. It was a 3 year relationship. She was thinking long-term, but I felt like I was just with her because she was younger and I wanted somebody around.

God speed , anon. WAGMI

>>76372386
my ex had cancer and at that point i didn’t want to fuck her frail Auschwitz looking ahh. i stayed longer than i should have only because she had the best prescription drugs and she’d eat my ass but fucking her felt like a chore i always imagined another girl when i was inside

>>76372358
maybe you should find hotter girls retard you drowning yourself with mid pussy is exactly why you’re in that situation ugly faggot

>>76372408
Did you stay until she passed? Did you also feel like "I can't leave because it'd be a piece of shit thing to do" anon? I'm still fighting that internally and, now that emotions are high, thinking in my head "did I do the right thing?". I ruminate like a motherfucker and need to get over it.

I can't play vidya (my #1 passtime) as I used to do that shit with her all the time. Everything right now just feels kinda tainted and I can't do anything without me thinking of her bros.

Chest and triceps tomorrow though. Going to destroy myself

>>76372398
The thing to keep in perspective is that you never married her. In marriage, we take a vow to stick together "in sickness and in health." Now, you may have confused things by living together or even having (*shudders*) premarital sex, but in a sane world, dating is supposed to be a process where a man and a woman get to know each other and discern whether they want to be married.

>>76372424
no i blocked and ghosted her. worst feeling is being with someone you don’t want. had to protect my peace

>>76372425
Fr, the advice I'm getting here today is all golden. I tried asking ChatGPT what to do (I know I'm a faggot) but I wanted to confide into something non-biased. Ironically it's programmed to be biased towards the user, so everything I suggested was damn near faultless. Knowing I've got real people telling me things like this Anon is helping me a lot. Thanks bro

>>76372412
Bro I strictly bang 9/10s. It gets boring after the millionth time. A 5/10 girl that loves you unconditionally is what you should strive for

>>76372412

>>76372412
Lol this guy doesn't fuck

>>76372412
I fucked a model with a BBL, botox lips and everything. Couldn't finish. Soooooo

>>76372431
bro this is crazy to me. I'm not going to judge because I've been in your shoes and from one person in that situation to another - that shit is HORRIBLE. Everyone is basically condeming you when none of them are in your shoes to see the situation.

I PRAY if I met another girl I don't every fall ill and regress slowly. I'd rather be blown out instantly then let her have a chance to build any resentment towards me.

>>76372461
There's something about bitches who look uncanny that just doesn't do it for me. I don't get men who are into that, but we all got our own fetishes so I can't judge.

I'm into watersports and I'll never understand scat-fags

>>76372266 (OP)
>Now I feel like shit. Care to cheer an anon up?
Probably won't cheer you up, but just know if the roles were reversed she'd leave you at the first sign of trouble and feel zero guilt or remorse.

>>76372488
The insight helps king,
She used to love feeling up my muscles and I stopped going gym after work just to get back home in time and look after her. I went from 75kg lean to 105kg (I'm 6'1). I'm back on the grind now kings, it's been three weeks but we're getting back to where we started.

I'll be honest and say I coulnd't imagine her leaving me if I started to deteriorate, but having said that I never thought she'd react the way she did to this breakup either so I guess I never fully knew who she was.

>>76372461
so you fucked a nigger bitch and you’re bragging about it? lol

>>76372530
She was white lmao, but I love those bitches you're referring to. All natural black asses..and I'm not bragging. I just know you're a loser and I'm telling you I've done what you never will

What was she ill with? Let me guess: muh mental illness from dating a redditor? You are a massive faggot and your self created situation is gay.
Sage this bullshit

>>76372530
What's wrong with just fucking a black girl anon? You don't gotta marry them

>>76372553
This anon gets it

>>76372553

>>76372556 See
>>76372398

But she DOES take venoflaxen for some issues. She described it as "I feel emotions more intensly than most people, so I need these to be "baseline" otherwise I can't cope.

I really shoulda seen the flags long ago

>>76372557
Might as well be a fag too

>>76372553
by fucking a bbl duck lips plastic bimbo? lol what are you trying to prove. if you wanted to mog me you should brag about banging a 13 year old or something

>>76372553
Bro i couldn’t cum while fucking this girl because i wasn’t attracted to her but this is why i’m better than you

Absolutely fuck the tranny jannies that ban mental fitness threads, /adv/ is full of women and faggots so /fit/ is the only place I'd ever want to get advice

Ive been with my gf for 5 years now and happy for maybe only the first 2, I cannot overstate enough how much of a catch literally everyone I care the most about thinks she is; she is very loving and kind and patient and selfless and has helped me through the lowest point of my life, and shes attractive and smart and healthy and just wants to get married and have children, and we almost never argue

And I just dont want it for some reason, I cannot pinpoint exactly why but I just preferred being single and not having to worry about another person in my life and their happiness. Im so full of constant guilt its crippling, I feel like such an awful person for not wanting to move forward with a great girl and do what instead? Chase whores and shallow sex and have no responsibilities and likely never marry or have a family and an hero when im 50 when the hedonism runs dry? But I cannot lie that I just don't want to be in a relationship, at least not with her. What do I want? A 10/10 who does everything i want? Wtf is wrong with me?

Pray for me bros

>>76372266 (OP)
women are not worth it anon
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATHbXA6phv0

just lift and focus on yourself

>>76372581
You are a weak spineless retard and deserve your unhappiness.

>>76372601
So breaking up wont make me happier? If I stop being a weak faggot ill feel better about everything and her?

Explain why I was so happy when single then

>>76372581
I'ma be real with you bro, they're all looking IN the relationship from outside - but no one is who or expereince things the way you are.

The only misstake I can honestly say I think I could have done better with is actively trying to do shit with her. How often do you just hug your girl and let that sweet, sweet oxytocin build-up?

See, each time you blast inside her (or blast with her ingeneral) your prolactin knocks your dopamine right down. It's this period where you gotta try and build that "love" feeling in other ways.
Relationships are work Anon. How old are you? You might fr have time to go out there and fuck around - hell, you might even have the chance to James Bond Cheat and see if the grass is greener. Sometimes we just need a bit of strange. Talk about it, we're here bro.