>>76374906My advice for long term is to let the woman pick you. She needs to be attracted to you on a fundamental level, and want to be with you nearly regardless of whatever your income, profession and lifestyle is. Doesn't mean you should ever become a bum and coast on this alone, but it means you won't need to simp 24/7 and can make your own decisions without her monkey branching off to someone willing to spend.
Now of course this means you probably have to settle further down on the SMV ranking, and you also need to be attractive to begin with. You should still love your long term partner for who she is and vice versa, not for status or appearances.
This also means that the egirls with massive social media activity are not wife material, because a) she's probably vapid as hell (all women are) and b) you'll have thousands of retards constantly simping in her DMs, most will be pajeetards but you only need one decently attractive person with fuck you money for woman.exe to run to completion and your relationship is ruined.
Choose long term partners with your heart and soul, not your dick.