Can you develop the mindset of this type of guys?

(This is /fit/ related because I need the right mindset to stay away from vidya and vices to train harder than I already do, mental fitness is /fit/)

I ended up in a violent environment due to poor choices and im always ready to fight now. The idea used to give me anxiety
>a black eye is just a scratch where i was raised

A tbi would help.

>>76380765
They look fine

there's no mindset, it's a single skill that you have to develop which is called turning your brain off. if you do enough light sparring and continuously increase the intensity you will be able to engage in fights of that intensity with minimal effort.

>>76380706 (OP)
There is no mindset you just have to be mentally ill

>>76380706 (OP)
practicing it will help, but won't take out the fagginess of you.
you may become harder, but some people are just build different, some phisically, and some mentally.

>>76381095
I train, I'm quite good at striking even but I wouldn't step to do that, hence why I say it. I like violence, I don't mind hurting people (being hurt it's okay sometimes but I do not like it) but yet I'm far from this type of guys. Also I'm not disciplined enough to train like pros

>>76380875
Literally this.

When I started playing rugby I used to be so scared when I was getting tacked or about to tackle someone. Through practice, you learn to literally ignore your brain and tackle that son of a bitch from the waist down like he just spat on your mom.

>>76380706 (OP)
you cant even look a girl in the eye and say hello and now you want to do bare knuckle fighting?
lol ok

yes by training for a big chunk of your life competitions as a kid help a lot
>>76381101
bruh all martial artists love violence to a degree. You shouldn't hurt people without a reason tho. Also you are not good at striking if you aren't sparring kek
>>76380875
this

>>76381463
I love tits so fucking much bros.
it is unfair, I did not ask for this.

>>76380706 (OP)
>Can you develop the mindset of this type of guys?
easily, get your ass beat enough times and you will either adapt to fight or be their 'girlfriend'

>>76381505
>if you aren't sparring kek
I do spar but with gloves and not always 100%
>>76381471
fair

>>76380706 (OP)
Post the video

>>76380706 (OP)
i'm also wondering this. i want to become more prepared for violence and aggression, but i've been a conflict averse little flinching bitch my whole life.
>>76381095
things like this scare me. i know some people are just built different, but i hope i can at least be dangerous in a general sense against the average person, and be competitive against other aggressive types.

Is this a bot thread? Are you all spics?

>>76381505
Not all martial artists love violence. Many just accept it as a part of life and choose to not be surprised.

>>76380706 (OP)
Really good video op, motivated me to get back into fighting, gonna start muay thai tomorrow

>>76382420
https://youtu.be/abbTaXLFipU?si=bLgZAeDuJFcUONyF

>>76382972
why would someone make a spic bot

>>76380706 (OP)
you need to get a PhD from Hustler's University (that will be $10,000)

>>76381463
>When I started playing rugby I used to be so scared when I was getting tacked or about to tackle someone.
My first real game I got my first real tackle. I was hyper focused on getting my angle and catching the guy, running as hard as I could. In the split second before contact I had this weird lucid moment about the reality of two large adult men running nearly headon into each other at full tilt. I absolutely wiped this dude the fuck out but it was an ugly, graceless, possibly technically illegal contact. Cleared us both well over the touch line into a heap. He got up laughing liKe "GODDAMN I HAVEN'T BEEN HIT LIKE THAT IN FOREVER!" And my club mates were all congratulating me on being a savage, but the truth is that when I hit him I wasn't even mentally there, I was just passively watching the inevitability of physics from a semi-disassociated place inside my head. Never happened after that, but that is what it was like my first hit.

>>76383531
This one is pretty savage
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eDHj0Mo8Epg

>>76380706 (OP)
i assume you're talking about being "fearless" which doesn't exist, unless you're so braindamaged that you can't perceive consequences anymore. every fighter is afraid, even the world champions, they just learned to push through it and fight anyways, but they're still afraid. hence why they adopt alter egos, get heavy into sports psychology, get hypnotized and dabble into unironic mysticism sometimes. there are clips of mike tyson crying ahead of fights.
just look up cus d'amato and teddy atlas takes on this i guess. and realise you probably just need confidence in general. its not about "turning off your brain" or "just get more exposed bro", because even hard sparring is not the same as a fight, plenty of fighters revolve their training around hard sparring. its about stakes and consequences and going through with something against human instincts.

the only exception to the rule i have heard about is muay thai fighters who started from age 5, and racked up 200-300+ fights, but there is no proof of this, perhaps severely traumatized ones.
when it comes to KOTS, many of these guys are coked up or methed up hooligans, and they still know there are nurses around there anyway. theres still a ref. anderson silva was once busted for using an anxiolytic or something. i guess you can meditate on death and get into a state of mind where you don't care about dying, thus aren't afraid of any consequences.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhTIs9fXD6s

>>76380706 (OP)
you just have to fight, my father was a professional boxer, so he taught me since I was young, i've been in hundreds of fights, but I try to avoid it if I can, but i'm ready to rock at the drop of a hat, most people are faggots anyway and will turn tail if you threaten to punch their teeth in and mean it.

>>76385148
i'll agree there is some fear, but as soon as the fight starts that all leaves me, when i'm fighting i'm cold and detached.

>>76380706 (OP)
I work as a sports psychologist and nutritionist for a fairly prolific MMA gym as part of my income. When it comes to fighters there are two large categories.
>retards
>nerds
Within those two categories there are those who inherently/already understand the nature of fighting, aka have the mindset you want and there are those who do not.
To train the mindset in retards you get them to spar a lot then you watch violent nature recordings. Like lions tearing apart zebras. That kind of shit.
With nerds you need them to spar a lot, but then you also have them read books about war or watch documentaries about war. They need to get that understanding of what fighting is, and that you need to be prepared to be violent because your opponent will hurt you.
Retards develop the mindset faster than nerds. Nerds tend to end up being better if they can develop it. However nerds are more likely to never get it.