My girlfriend insists on ordering food from delivery services or getting takeout about 5 times per week, which is not only absolutely assraping my wallet, but also fucks with my gains heavily.
I am talking McDonalds, Five Guys, Dominos and a variety of asian places. I'm getting a good amount of protein I guess, but at this point all this sodium and grease makes me sick and the calories turned me into probably the fattest I have been for as long as I can remember.
We talked about this shit, I told her, look, I'm not saying we never go out to eat or order anymore, but maybe keep it to once or twice a week max. She said okay, but continues like always. Often times, it's just second nature to her, but after I commented on it a few more times lately, her excuse is that she is stressed because of university. Which is true, sure, but it's just that, an excuse.
I make an effort to cook more homecooked meals, but admittedly, I suck. It doesn't taste as good as the slop and I am sorry about that. But I can eat it anyways, I guess my standarts aren't too high, but she doesn't really touch that stuff. So she keeps fucking ordering shit. I am slowly but surely turning skinnyfat and, this almost pisses me off more, am absolutely bleeding money.
Did any of you guys have to deal with shit like this and how did you snap her out of it? Or forget about her, how do I just retreat from this? I appealed to the money aspect, I appealed to the health aspect. She says "you are right", then continues to do it.
Should I just categorically refuse and we eat separately? But I already know this will backfire, because her sensitive ass will find a way to be hurt by it.
For fucks sake, I can rant longer, but I have to stop myself here.

>>76393433 (OP)
How fucking weak and pathetic are you as a man that you can't even get a hold of your bitch like that? Wtf am I reading? You're dating some hog and letting her rape your finances and your health by ordering zogslop daily? Inshallah your heart stops tonight.

My lazy fat bitch wife is the same. Like damn bitch maybe if you ate whole foods every once in a while you wouldn't be so stressed. Simply dont partake

>>76393433 (OP)
>Hey anon let's order something to eat, what do you want?
>Just order for you, I'll eat x
>But anon blah blah
Just play dumb and do your thing, there is nothing good that will come out of arguing with an addict, they all know what is bad for them they just don't want to do anything about it. Even if she orders something for you without asking don't eat it she will stop very quickly.

>>76393443
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>>76393475
This anon is right. You can’t argue with an addict so you have to do your own thing. Let her order for herself and you eat your own home cooked meals. As you make more you’ll get better at cooking, and then tasting bad won’t be a problem. If she gets offended remind her that you already talked about this problem and you aren’t going along with it anymore. You have to be steadfast in this as well. She will tempt you by “accidentally” ordering you food, “starving” herself when you don’t eat her slop, and all other manipulations. Stay the course and don’t look back.

>>76393433 (OP)
>My girlfriend insists on ordering
You're the girlfriend. She's the boyfriend.

>>76393433 (OP)
perhaps it is time for you to give her a firm but fair beating, OP

how does your gf have control of your finances wtf am I reading

>>76393433 (OP)
its very simple anon, if she wants takeout and you dont, she can pay for it
>but she doesn't really touch that stuff
*insert whale noises*

>>76393458
if you've still got your balls attached to your body tell this to her face to make some actual progress

>>76393616
She doesn't, but in my culture the man pays.

>>76393670
A man is somewhat expected to pay WHEN SHARING a meal in 99% of cultures. Where the fuck do you live, Saudi Arabia?
Just don't fucking eat it and cook your own shit, she'll feel bad about it and will stop. But you should put on the fucking pants and stop being a bitch in the relationship.
If you're a pussy, just look up some healthy recipes that fit in your macros and offer to spend the evening cooking together, it's le romantic

>>76393695
>she'll feel bad about it and will stop
no she won't

>>76393670
That's understandable but then the man also has to have balls and say "I'm not paying for this garbage"

>>76393433 (OP)
You must be too young. Just throw it out (the girl). You can't imagine how far worse it can get with someone who can't adjust their actions on what they agree to do, let alone critical thinking and yadayada

>>76393433 (OP)
Lol I'm the cook in the house, so I do the planning/shopping/cooking. We eat whatever I cook. My GF is appreciative, even if we both somewhat like the easy slop, we tend to only order when we are both crazy busy with work or something.
>I make an effort to cook more homecooked meals, but admittedly, I suck. It doesn't taste as good as the slop and I am sorry about that.
I never understand this. You just follow a recipe to the T, and its good or its not. You build up a collection of good recipes. Maybe try a new one every month, but otherwise always cook the good recipes you've collected. The end. The only way you can be bad at cooking is if you don't follow the recipe. So follow the recipe. Easy.
>My girlfriend insists on ordering food from delivery services or getting takeout about 5 times per week, which is not only absolutely assraping my wallet, but also fucks with my gains heavily.
Are you seriously the one funding this? What? If she wants to order takeout, she pays, the end. My GF and I split bills, and if she really wants takeout, she'll be the one to order and pay. Why are you paying? It's easy, just say "lol no I'm not paying for that". Done.
>Should I just categorically refuse and we eat separately? But I already know this will backfire, because her sensitive ass will find a way to be hurt by it.
Yeah you have to put your foot down. Either she's mature enough to realize it makes sense, or she's a child and you need to do better.
>>76393670
>She doesn't, but in my culture the man pays.
HAHAHAHA imagine being cucked by "culture". Yeah no, I found a partner who understands fairness and is a mature person who contributes to my life, not makes my life shittier. I've dated girls who expected me to pay for everything, threw those relationships away.
My partner cleans and does all the dishes, I plan and cook all the food. We split the work and it's pretty damn awesome.

>>76393433 (OP)
Didn’t read past the title, tell her to start fucking cooking, simple as
>b-but I don’t know h-
She better learn if she wants to get married
>you don’t plan on marrying her
Then what’s the point even

>>76393670
thats only in restaurants you fucking mongoloid
>>76393862
>Then what’s the point even
splitting cos.. oh wait

>>76393433 (OP)
TLDR
Dump the bitch and grow a pair of balls. You aren’t even married to her and you’re already letting her be your master. What a pussy

>>76393433 (OP)
keep paying simp faggot. that's the only reason anyone pretends to like you, let alone love you

>>76393433 (OP)
>her excuse is that she is stressed because of university.
Now OP, do yourself a favour and imagine how things will be when she actually gets a job.
You should leave the pig immediately but you sound like a faggot considering she's getting all that >FOR FREE courtesy of your hard-earned wagebux.

>>76393433 (OP)
Your girlfriend sounds toxic as shit. Kick her ass to the curb.

>>76394145
brootal