So let's say you approach a girl at the gym and she rejects you, are you doomed to find a new gym or do you just stay there anyways? Isn't it going to be awkward as shit?

>more impressive
She has better tits, but he has a bigger dick
Need to see butthole for the tie breaker

>>76419734
what if neither of them has a butthole

>>76419743
Shame. We move on to negative points: She has tattoos and belly button piercing, but he has brown nipples and eyes. You think it would be a coin toss, but
>5'3
She wins

>>76419730 (OP)
that's just the typical zoomer mindset. "overanalyze everything and everything is awkward"

>>76419734
>>76419743
>>76419752
Answer my OP question you disgusting gooners

>>76419772
How to break thru this mindset? I'm 27yo how do I get rejected by a girl in a place I go to everyday and just say fuck it if it happens?

>>76419776
What's a gooner?

>>76419782
Idk. I never had that problem because I see all women as NPCs, soulless meat robots if you will

>>76419782
Just reload a new save bro

>>76419782
Why should you have to change gyms? She should be responsible, if she didn't want things to be weird then why did she reject you?

>>76419784
Look up "goon cave". Everything will explain itself.

>>76419730 (OP)
>you approach a girl at the gym and she rejects you
does nobody teach young losers how to properly ask a girl out nowadays?
you dont say "hello strange woman I've never spoken to before, would you go on a date with me m'lady?"
you just make plans to do something interesting and then ask her if she wants to come with you
if she says no, then she hasn't rejected you because you weren't asking her out on a date, just to hang out
if she says yes, you flirt with her at the event and go from there

>>76419822
You can just say you don't know

>>76419830
you aren't allowed to talk to women you haven't met before

>>76419837
that's why you meet them first silly

>>76419830
I'm not planning on asking her directly, just like share equipment and some small talk, then see if she's giving enough interest then maybe just throw a "we should train together sometime" and see her reaction

>>76419852
Did your dad leave you on his own or was he killed in an accident? What happened?

>>76419859
How should one approach girls at the gym without looking like a creep

>>76419867
Nonexistent since birth?

>>76419888
Yes I never had a dad hence why I'm asking /fit/ for advice

>>76419893
What happened?

>>76419902
My parents divorced when I was a kid

>>76419904
Why?
How often do you see him?
How often do you talk?

>>76419830
>hello strange woman I've never spoken to before, I'm doing xyz, want to come with me?
yes because that's TOTALLY DIFFERENT than just asking the bitch out to a light lunch. Let's be real here girls know the moment a new guy goes up to them and starts talking to them they want to fuck her brains out. Acting like a child pretending you don't and just want to hang out is pathetic highschool shit.

>>76419730 (OP)
Why do people roid sub 3pl8s tor reps bench? It fucks your frame even with hgh it looks unnatural, but roids and no hgh will just keep your 2pl8 bench frame and add muscke to it basically since the bones harden 5yrs worth in 1 year.

Like if youre lifting with this in mind youll grow 2 or so tshirt sizes before hitting 4pl8s.

>>76419730 (OP)
He needs to hit more wide bench, idk dude flex at her give her the look.

>>76419909
We never talked really, I don't see him, he lives in a different city and I don't care about reaching to him either, I'm a (broken) adult now, it's too late

>>76419913
is that the norm in 1st world countries? I feel like asking a girl for lunch while both of you are at the gym is weird as shit, why not just talk about gym stuff with her and maybe get a gym date instead

>>76419784
Hypnotic pornographic masturbation. Though similar to edging as both involve long periods of pornographic masturbation, the edger has a semblance of humanity, possessing self control to not ejaculate, teetering on the brink. The gooner dives into the abyss transfixed upon cheap pornographic dopamine, not caring if he cums or not, the act of stroking his cock, stimulating his glans, obsessing, that is the existence of a gooner.
Gooner is just a silly word tho. Funny minions turned masculine warriors with AI edits, appealing to kids raised on Despicable Me, making Never Goon minion the hero and Gooner the tragic failure. Both aware of this degenerate knowledge, they are one side of the same coin. Never Goon enacts revenge against Gooners for the knowledge afflicting us both, but choosing to fall into degeneracy.
We are brothers, our places could have been easily switched. It falls upon brothers to clean the mess of the other.
>>76419730 (OP)
Why are you approaching women at the gym? You should be lifting.

>>76419926
>damaged goods
No woman wants you as a tradhusband, so it really doesn't matter what you do

>>76419954
The girls I approach also have no dads so we're even

>>76419926
Here’s how you get women at the gym
>don’t be a creep
>only talk to her when the situation allows
>don’t over stare a her when you are more than 5ft away
>keep a light convo and build rapport slowly, you will likely see her again
>if you are not sure ask her when she joined this gym
>make her laugh a little bit
>talk 20% listen 80%
>don’t sacrifice your intensity of your workout for her, she will know
By this time you should know if she wants you or not, then just go in and ask her number

>>76419968
Thanks, anon. Should you ask for her number at the first interaction or do you build up some kind of "relation" first?
Like talking to her on X day then asking for her number on next day?

>>76419972
Why would you talk to her on a rest day?

>>76419985
Wtf you mean rest day

>>76419972
If she is super into you and unsure if you see her again same day, if not you can play the long game

>>76419730 (OP)
Why would I leave? She can leave if she’s weirded out.

>>76419988
idk i dont lift

>>76419991
What are the biggest signs she's into me?

>>76420014
See if she browses /fit/ in-between sets

Two different gyms, two different outcomes
>first reaction
>super cute mid latina that I am really attracted to
>talk to her for two weeks just light convo breaking ice shit
>finally say we should workout together since we were doing the same workouts
>completely frozen just staring at me in the middle of the gym
>after what felt like 5 minutes of neither of us talking just kinda nervous smile and start backing away from her
>afterwards completely awkward
>we'd always watch each other from across the gym
>we'd make it a point to never be around each other
>if we pass each other we act like the other is a ghost or literally look at the wall
>have seen her walking my way and full on 360 her ass the other way

Other interaction
>same thing, breaking ice normal
>this time I actually flat out asked if she wanted to workout together some time
>got hit with the 'i have a bf'
>cool
>immediately stop giving a shit about her and move on
>don't really care what the fuck she's doing

Honestly it's easier to just not care and ghost her than keep thinking about what the other is doing and try to avoid.

>>76420038
What kind of things do you do at the gym to haunt her?

>>76420038
That's based as fuck, anon. I admire your courage and will of not giving a fuck, I'll probably do this and shoot my shot, if I get rejected so be it. Wagmi.

>>76420038
>workout together
What type of response are you expecting when offering that to a girl you only spoke to 1-2 times? That's way too pushy

>>76420038
>completely frozen just staring at me in the middle of the gym
What are you supposed to do in this situation, /fit/?

>>76420065
So what is the best approach here? Do you just gotta play the long game? Wouldn't that slowly make things colder and eventually make ur chances lower?

>>76419730 (OP)
There's no way it won't be slightly awkward after.
>>76419867
Test the waters progressively, but if she responds strongly go with it. Progressively varies, but maybe a little look, a little smile, a casual phrase, then obvious flirting. Obviously she would have to reciprocate at every stage.

>>76420080
>Test the waters progressively
and how long should it take for you to ask for her number? does it depend on how she reciprocates?

>>76419784
Someone who is beyond gone.

>>76420282
>and how long should it take for you to ask for her number? does it depend on how she reciprocates?
I would think so. I don't think I've literally "asked for a number" before desu. I'd personally ask if she wanted to do whatever sometime, if we were already talking and it felt right.

>>76420038
>we should workout together
She was probably confused by the grammatical structure of the question. You see, "workout" is a noun; you meant to say "work out". Try it this way next time.

>>76419734
>but he has a bigger dick
are you sure?

>>76419830
also works better because women don't like to make any commitments.
if you plan to go ice skating on the weekend or whatever and make it sound like you'll do this regardless of her answer, she is much more likely to agree than if you ask her to specifically go ice skating with you, because now it's a plan dependent on her participation.

it's also more fun for yourself that way because if the bitch flakes, you still have plans to do something you enjoy anyway instead of sitting there and being mad.

>>76420282
Well my friend if she agrees to your plans, then you just ask for her number then
"Cool, if you give me your number I'll text you the details" or something like that. When two people have plans for a later date then it's expected that they should have a way to communicate.

>>76419730 (OP)
>>76419776
The answer is to just play it off and lift as normal. It's only awkward if you allow it to be. Also, it'll play better if you actually talk to the people at your gym and establish yourself as a social presence prior to asking a girl out.

>>76419730 (OP)
they have east asian tier heights

>>76419730 (OP)
>So let's say you approach a girl at the gym
I would never do this, the gym is not a place to meet women.

Also, they are both too short.

>>76421814
I'm kinda known at my gym and talk with almost everyone but this girl is new there and she goes with her mom but they don't workout together, a gym bro of mine said she's 22yo (I've shared some equipment with her single mother)

>>76419730 (OP)
Just go anyway. I literally did this, although at a bouldering gym. More than once. Once you realise there's no real consequences you stop caring and it's so fucking liberating. I've fucked a few girls from my local bouldering place now. Been rejected by more.

>>76421857
Based, thanks for the motivation anon

>>76419830
>Wow how did you need know this obvious advice that nobody has recommended before are you retarded

>>76421857
How do you approach them usually? Do you ask for their name etc? How does the convo progress past that

>>76420038
>>have seen her walking my way and full on 360 her ass the other way

>>76419730 (OP)
Fucking kek, women can't help themselves of only picking a man above their height and they call that (((love)))

>female
>tattooed
nope.jpg

>>76419893
Not OP, I have a dad and he didn't talk to me about girls. Whats this idea chad dads are normal.

>>76419782
accept that you're nothing, that you don't matter, that you will make whatever choices in life you want an the end result will always be the same, you will wither away into nothing and after one generation at best will be forgotten, not even a speed bump in history.

then trivial things are irrelevant

>>76419730 (OP)
Why is that mexican with a northern european white woman

Did they grow up in USA and shes been brainwashed ot think they are the same race?

>>76425819
some people dont actually care about things like that

>>76425819
Women have never cared about that. At most they will LARP as racist to appeal to men she wants to notice her, but at the end it's all about who makes her pussy tingle or has sufficient resources