>>76426108This.
The #1 mistake you can make is taking online advice seriously. People are heavily neurotic online and especially on reddit and 4chan.
Every single "fact" I've heard online I've seen regularly debunked irl. Ugly. Short. Bald. All in relationships as long as they are outgoing enough.
For the vast majority of people, they are alone because they are not socialmaxxing, which is what they really should be doing.