Thread 76521318

Is it true that most women go to gym just to find a jacked bf?

>>76521318 (OP)
I bet her butthole is delicious

She dies of methanol poison 3 days later

>>76521318 (OP)
I do. I don’t even look at guys with sub 3pl bench

>>76521318 (OP)
The majority of the most attractive women at my gym have boyfriends from what I can tell. Usually work out together, or in the gym at the same time anyway. No idea if they picked them up at the gym though.

I found my gf and now wife at the gym, anons who say you shouldn't approach girls at the gym could be missing the love of their lives

>>76521351
Gymrat femanon here.
Same, if he's weak it gives me the ick.
Guys that are reading this, if you can't bench atleast your bodyweight for reps don't even bother approaching us.

>>76521357
Good observation, but i tend to notice that women are in two camps. They either love or hate being talked to at the gym.

>>76521375
I can bench my bodyweight for reps but I don't know if I could do your bodyweight

>>76521396
Holy fuck anon, you've killed they/them

>>76521396
How will the femcel ever recover from this?

>>76521396
>t. sub 3pl bench

>>76521387
Fucking rekt em

>>76521318 (OP)
Based on the "exercises" I see them doing that largely seems to be the case.

>go to 3 different gyms due to them having specific machines that the other ones don't have
>see girls mirin me as I've gotten leaner and more aesthetic
>constantly see girls looking at me
>outright get in staring contests with a few of them as they do NOT break eye contact if we catch eyes
>smile, she smiles back
>finally go break the ice
Like clockwork they IMMEDIATELY act like they don't want to talk or acknowledge me at all. I had one girl outright go from smiling and friendly to staring at her phone, giving me one word answers and looking at me through her perephrials.

I've gotten so black pilled I just gave up talking to anyone in the gym outside of being friendly asking if they're using equpiement or if I can work in

>>76521396
So you're a DYEL chud because I'm 120lbs

>>76521470
They're not staring at you, dyel, they're cringing at you

>>76521470
Please regale us with stories of how you tried to talk to them.

>>76521482
probably starts talking about anime, video games, jews or some other incel shit

>>76521489
My guess its something like picrel

>>76521470
Women are autistic retards, you have to be patient with them

>>76521470
You’re a tard and any of you other faggots who do this and are reading this are too. If they approach you, fair game you’re in but don’t be that creepy guy approaching girls “breaking the ice” at the gym. The gym isn’t the bar or club hell it would be more acceptable to approach at a grocery store than the gym even. You look like just about the biggest jackass in the world.

>>76521522
You're just ugly and have to be the funny guy to just be friendzoned
I still approach chicks it just has to be right and you just have to not talk like a fucking retard

If you were actually cute, they'd approach you first

>>76521396
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

GOT HER ASS

>>76521318 (OP)
there's a face all these women that do the "endless cockteasing instagram/tiktok whore bit" make when they're pretending not to realize their tits are half sticking out and jiggling or they "don't know they're being filmed" as they coyly pretend to be interested in something else - and something about it just fucking infuriates me

>>76521475
Post body with timestamp written on paper.

>>76521375
>>76521396

>>76521318 (OP)
Do enough guys go to the gym long enough to get jacked?

>>76521318 (OP)
I thought most guys aren't jacked or if it's even noticeable unless they're trying to show off.

>>76521318 (OP)
Don't be dense, they go for the same reason as anyone else. They're insecure with themselves.

>>76521375
Sorry, femanon. Being a fat fuck who only squats and does tricep extensions on cable does not count as being a gymrat

you know a brown person recorded this because this is easily a 4/10

>>76521318 (OP)

Some do, just like there are women in college just scouting for a husband. There was some super-chink of a woman in my engineer class who got married to some guy in her 3rd year and she just dropped out immediately after that.

>>76521318 (OP)
Grape
Iykyk

>>76522042
good morning ranjesh

>>76521344
>sees pretty girl
>immediately thinks of asshole
Come out of the closet.

>>76521396
Diabolical
Devastated
Destroyed

>>76521318 (OP)
I don't know about public gyms but my wife only uses the bench in almost nothing in my home gym for her feeble attempts at bench presses when she wants to get fucked.

>>76521387
It's almost like they are people each with a different personality, likes and dislikes, huh?

>>76521318 (OP)
Nah.

>>76521470
You must not be good at talking to ladies. I'm not really saying I am, but they usually only tentatively like guys visually and if you say something retarded it's over.

>>76521638
>something about it just fucking infuriates me
because its disingenuous, they end up commodifying the expected innocence and beauty of womans sexual urges. And for nothing else but to cocktease into ad-deal on the social media website.

Literally farming gooners with some vague shallow persona. Modern sirens.

>>76521318 (OP)
Nah, ime, they're usually looking for a daddy, typically a rich boomer who does some bs exercises, she'll laugh at his dumb jokes because unlike your broke jacked ass he's loaded with money. At least that's what they do in my gym.

>>76521318 (OP)
>Is it true that most women go to gym just to find a jacked bf?
No. They go to the gym for attention.

>>76521351
>powerfat fantasy

>>76521357
>Anon, you don't understand, if she says no it might be awkward!
Why?
>Because now she knows you're attracted to her!
And?
>What if she makes fun of you!
Why would she do that?
>Women are evil!
If she was evil why would you give a fuck what she thinks or says or how she feels?

>>76521470
If a girl was interested in you, they would 100% approach you themselves. Really, you shouldn't ever have to cold approach a girl, and if you do there's a very big chance she won't like it. If girls aren't literally waving at you or walking over and starting conversations with you then there's about a 99% chance she's not interested. I'm saying this as someone who has for 99% of his life only ever experienced rejection until very very recently at the peak of my fitness where girls are now literally walking up to me to talk to me. When that happens to you for the first time, it's like everything just clicks and you become a true knower of women.

>>76522558
That can happen and you can still fuck it up. Or she can (Recreational flirting for sexual attention, or she gets intimidated and doesn't want to be vulnerable, or the reality of leaving the boyfriend she split up with yesterday hits her, or she's trying to entrap you for a tiktok).

>>76522568
>That can happen and you can still fuck it up
wrong, if you are a child abuser, criminal, weirdo, not talkitive but at the same time handsome then she will literally ignore all those things

>>76521396
Lmao

>>76522653
>wrong, if you are a child abuser, criminal, weirdo, not talkitive but at the same time handsome then she will literally ignore all those things
I'm not after the sevens you're talking about.

>>76521470
You must talk like a sperg, guaranteed. My chad looking gym bro gets mires all the time and by the time we initiate convo the bitches lean towards me (literally their whole body) and they just give me the attention, stop being neurotic and be more relax with women and they'll come at (you)

>>76522568
My point wasn't that you can't fuck up those situations, my point was that girls WILL initiate interactions with you if they're interested.
Having said that, being rejected isn't necessarily fucking up. If a girl isn't interested in you for whatever reason (whether that's because she's a shallow bitch looking for yet another reasonably attractive orbiter to rank slightly above her lowest ranked orbiters that she might possibly want to fuck when she's particularly lonely and everyone else has gotten tired of her shit, or you guys just don't play off each other very well) that's better than faking it during that initial interaction to get "accepted" and then having to play a character for the entire relationship until you get sick of it and realise you've wasted your time being some version of yourself you don't even like for some girl you don't even like.

>>76522558
post physique

>>76522693
>he thinks they're sevens
"7" is a new "5" because we don't want to hurt anyones feelings (ours or theirs)
You are not convincing me that you are actually going for those above 7 by saying this

>>76522729
>"7" is a new "5" because we don't want to hurt anyones feelings (ours or theirs)
>You are not convincing me that you are actually going for those above 7 by saying this
I'm just giving you the benefit of the doubt that you have any standards at all other than warm hole.
You obviously don't know what it's like dealing with tens. When a chick knows she could get a "high value male" in five minutes, she's never desperate. You can be the hottest guy on the planet and you're still only a little better than 10,000 other guys she could get. Being a little spergy is a fucking problem in that scenario.

>>76522549
> durr why do you care about woman thinks
because it's the year 2k25 and chances are you will end up as "the creep who tried to rape me" in some tiktok and will get banned from the gym

>>76522558
>If a girl was interested in you, they would 100% approach you themselves.

This man knows what he's talking about. Just be careful because they can't handle rejection well.

>>76522772
Has this literally ever happened to anybody that you know irl? Have you even heard stories of people you know telling you that they know a guy who knows a guy who knows a guy that that's ever happened to? You may as well be afraid of the bogeyman too.

>>76522793
> if this does not happen to people you know it's nor real
low iq

i also don't know anyone who got killed because he didn't wear a seatbelt or bicycle helmet

>>76521318 (OP)
Who is that?

>>76522805
Everyone knows someone who has been in a car accident. Nobody knows someone who was "cancelled" out of a gym membership. The audacity of you to call anyone else low IQ when you think tik tok is in any way reflective of real life.

>>76522090
Yeah except if you approach the wrong one you get banned from the gym. Or maybe not once, but twice or thrice and the risk may be very real.

>>76522809
> you think tik tok is in any way reflective of real life
so what is your point?
that all of this is staged?

have seen zoomzooms try to do tiktok "street interviews" where the only goal was to humiliate the person multiple times myself

>>76522558
Is this how the game is in the US or EU? In South America 99% of girls expect you to approach them and if you are the kind of guy that just sits waiting for them to approach you it gives them the ick, it's seen as a beta behavior.

>>76522818
>have seen zoomzooms try to do tiktok "street interviews" where the only goal was to humiliate the person multiple times myself
Right, and what does that have to do with asking a girl out and then losing your gym membership for it? Also, why would you even ask out a girl who you thought was some tik tok roastie who would just try to get you banned from the gym?

>>76521375
>>76521351
ywnbaw

>>76522821
Maybe it is beta behaviour but I've never once in my entire life gotten a date or a number by cold approaching a girl despite trying a few times, but in the last year I've gone out with 3 different girls purely by existing and saying yes to their request to hang out. I'm Australian if that means anything.

>>76522821
i moved to finland where in many ways the women are more masculine than the men socially and still, they generally are the ones who are approached. it's the same as most places in very rare circumstances a woman will unambiguously approach a man, but more often she will just give signals that show she's open to approach or talking more or whatever. very few men approach in finland which means it's one of the places where passport bros type niggas have a field day, because the men here are often unconcerned with shit like looking good and unwilling to approach, meanwhile the women are often beautiful and will give out numbers just because you had the balls to go talk to her.

>>76521470
Anon, they're scared of you and literally think you will murder them. They're watching you until you go away so they feel safe again. You must look ungroomed and disgusting.

>>76522835
>I've never once in my entire life gotten a date or a number by cold approaching
This is weird, I'm a 5'6 manlet and I've got plenty of numbers but obviously not all of them will turn into a date.

>>76522843
>very few men approach in finland
I should try to passportmaxx because I'd just approach girls without giving a fuck.

>>76521318 (OP)
gym dudes are gay

>>76521318 (OP)
I just go there for health.

Most of the guys there aren't my type, I go specifically for the e-boy type.

>>76523052
How tf does eboy type even looks like

>>76522090
>It's almost like...

>>76522693
>>76522740
Just to ask you directly, do you sincerely think the pictures of women you posted are "10s"?

>>76523060
>How tf does eboy type even looks like
Just google it to get an idea

Pic related has nice hair

>>76523131
Do I need to look like that to land a goth gf

>>76523141
>Do I need to look like that to land a goth gf
I wouldn't say I am goth but I do wear black mostly. If I met a guy that looked like that, liked me and was nice I would give him a chance.

>>76523093
>Just to ask you directly, do you sincerely think the pictures of women you posted are "10s"?
You're either a crazy bitch or having a laugh if you don't think teen Diana or early 20s Alessandra Ambrosio are acceptable choices.

>>76521375
I'm re....recovering from an injury. S-sorry for the baby weights.

>>76521318 (OP)
What her OF? IG?

There’s a WMAF couple that goes to my gym together all the time and I get so jealous I want that for me so bad

>>76523146
>If I met a guy that looked like that, liked me and was nice I would give him a chance.

>>76521375
>if you can't bench atleast your bodyweight

At least this is more realistic.
1/2/3/4 isn't impressive if you already weigh 250lbs.

>>76521357
>>76521387
>>76522090
>>76522812
So what we learned is, let women approach you.

Yes I have been approached by women at the gym, but never under normal circumstances. It was always some kind of pseudo-comedic pickup line which they probably rehearsed, or were dared by their best friend to say to me. Always past the fine line of banter / insult because women can't banter for shit.

>>76521375
Aint nobody approaching you ugly faggot stay in your lane

>>76523778
>AI sloppa

>>76522558
Hahahahah there are “men” who actually believe a woman will approach first. Where do you unhinged faggots get the confidence to spout your delusions?

Another gym rat femanon here , met my Chad on tinder. He was on it for a year and I was on it for two days lol.

>>76521470
They’re just shy dawg. Not that deep

>>76524298
>Where do you unhinged faggots get the confidence to spout your delusions?
The gym.

>>76521470

>girls only go to the gym to oggle men

Why are you so shocked?

>>76524298
if you are a chad they will

>>76524301
Your chad spent that year burning through girls at an alarming rate, it's just that you're the first one hot enough to hold his interest. For now. If he tells you anything else he's lying.

>t. Chad who was abruptly made single last year, and has been burning through women at an alarming rate. Also, knower.

>>76524298
How ugly/obese are you?

>>76524442
>

>>76524442
Like women care about that.

>>76524965
True, women are meant to be cheated on, it's in their biology. Women like when others girls fuck their guys and rather share an alpha chad than settle for a beta.

>>76524298
Not necessarily outright approach and ask you out but they will at the very least make it obvious beyond a shadow of a doubt they want to talk to you.

>>76525724
>they will at the very least make it obvious beyond a shadow of a doubt they want to talk to you.
Give examples of what that means to you because a lot of men tend to overthink it and take everything as a hint

>>76526393
They do? I overthink it take everything as not a hint.

>>76521470
>>76522558

>>76523954
there are girls at my gym that can do 3/2/4

>>76525017
What do you mean? Women hate it when their man are getting hit on by other girls. I had my ex gf come back to my country for a wedding and she asked me to go for drinks and my gf wanted to beat the shit out of her

>>76526393
Not him but these happened to me:

>doing pullups
>girl comes over and sniffs my armpits
>ewww anon you need a shower
>just stands there in kissing distance and waits for my reaction

>bro and me doing squats
>show him how to because he's a beginner
>girl comes over and asks if she can join
>show her how to as well
>bro is done and heads for locker room
>girl asks if I enjoy being choked
>just stands there in kissing distance and waits for my reaction

>put cream on palms because skin is rough and hurts from grip training
>two girls come over
>one says ooh, hands hurting from too much butt slapping last night?
>other has shit-eating grin like coolface.jpg
>both just stand there within kissing distance, waiting for my reaction

I suspect this kind of behavior is simply copy-and-paste from what they see men doing at the gym. The gym is a predominantly male space, so they think they should behave like men in order to fit in. Those were just a few examples, but every time I was absolutely disgusted and dumbfounded and gave no reaction. There's nothing I hate more than women acting like men. It's the most unattractive thing I can imagine.

>>76527001
Are you a chad?

>>76527021
Definitely not. I'm short and ugly and wear baggy clothes to hide my natty DYEL physique.

Here's another one:

>workout done
>bro and me talking very loudly about jobs at entrance of locker rooms
>yeah things have been going great for me, just got a promotion
>girl that just went in to the female locker room storms back out
>wow anon congrats on your promotion
>thanks?
>just stands there in front of us, waiting for a reaction

I didn't even know her.

>>76526967
TLDR: give a woman a chance instead of asking her for a chance.

There is always this pressure to men which men ask for a permission and women give men a chance. Which is true but if you mold yourself into this thinking structure you'll only make things difficult.

Why are women seem so relaxed, confident in interaction?
Because women are the ones who give a chance to other people to interact with.

Think it in this way.
>Be me walking down the street
>Some counter passenger (whether a man or a woman or an alien) wondering around with google map on the phone
>You casually give that person a chance
>Can i help you sir?

Same situation but when you put yourself in the shoes of passive permission asker
>You think before an action
>Should i help him? Can i bother that person? Shouldn't i get a certain queue that he need a help before i act?

>>76527033
>webm
You motherfuckers need to stop thinking hookers are miring.
>post
I think you're overthinking this shit man. If these women really are into you, they'll accept a date or something. If they're not, they'll keep being weird around you. You lose nothing by saying "What are you doing later?"

>>76526989
that's because you are dating a man, not a woman

>>76522821
This. I have moved from Argentina after living my whole life there and all the girls I could get was by taking the lead. You can "see" her interest by crossing looks or some body gesture, but is outstandingly subtle (that's why it is so fucking easy to screw it when approaching).
I don't think this changes in Western countries, as I'm in Europe now and is not THAT different from where I was. Granted, perhaps I am not good looking enough (white, decent face and frame but 1,68 m height).

>>76521396
Good shit dude

>>76526989
>Women hate it when their man are getting hit on by other girls. I had my ex gf come back to my country for a wedding and she asked me to go for drinks and my gf wanted to beat the shit out of her
It's complicated. They don't want to *lose* a guy they like, and that very often happens if someone more appealing is hitting on him. They're basically fine with polygamy in a culture where it's typical (Not this one), because they're much less likely to lose a guy they like if he doesn't have to choose.

>>76521396
based

>>76521318 (OP)
Women treat the gym like a nightclub. They go to have fun with their friends and get visual attention from men and that’s pretty much it (unless you’re Chad). The only difference is that the aesthetic of the gym is healthier than the club. Just like in nightclubs women are looking for chad exclusively and if you’re not a chad you shouldn’t expect to get anything out of approaching them. Social circles and dating apps (not tinder) are legitimately the best options for normie men.

>>76521375
You will never be a woman

>>76524442
Women don't care if you cheat on them, they prefer it actually

>>76521375
i hope you kill yourself

>>76521375
please be from France, I'll give you anything you want my lady

>>76524442
I took his virginity , I am his first girlfriend and his first date (Not his first kiss but you can’t win em all) . He became a chad recently because he grew up overweight. And he got shredded with a lot of hidden farm muscle underneath from working hay-bales such. He was 23 when we met and I was 18 <3

>>76527049
By the time she's looking at you like that she's not giving you a chance, she's already crushing hard on you.

>>76527521
you sound like a sleazy old man lol

>>76527603
I feel like one too , I got the score of the century lol

>>76527663
How much sex per day?

>>76524231
wtf kind of meny language is that? some slavic?

alright anons I'm a sperg, how's this?
>approach, smile but not too big
>say "hey, don't mean to interrupt your workout, just wanted to introduce myself"
>continue, "I'm anon, come say hey before you leave if you wanna, if not that's cool too"
>walk away

>>76529055
LOOKING GOOD TONIGHT, LADIES

>>76521396
Rekt

>>76529055
Don't bother people at the gym. If a girl wants to be noticed she'll make it obvious

>>76521470
nigger they stare ate you because they caught you staring

>>76527049
so what you're essentially saying is 'just act' or 'just try'

>>76522805
the alpha and beta shit i learned in 2010 coming here is now living and breathing in gym brands. 4chan really does influence culture.

I saw this at the gym today except hers was purple. Yes, full makeup and shapewear as well.

Either she wasn't trying or it is to the point where women don't even need to try.

>>76521470
similar story
>rowing behind the treadmills
>chick with massive ass doing her thing
>trying to be a gentleman and not start at her ass
>she's literally staring at her phone the entire time she's walking which is prob 20 minutes
>she suddenly turns around, try to make eye contact and smile
>Her eyes immediately lock on to my bulge which is 24/7 for me and visible cause y'know, I'm rowing with shorts
>unabashedly looks at my bulge side eyeing it for almost 2 full seconds and then just goes right back to looking at her phone

this has happened to me 3 times now, where they just shamelessly start at my bulge but won't even look at me. I think women who are on their phones all the time are just porn addict gooners. Like you said, they wouldn't even respond if I tried to talk to them anyway judging by their body language

>>76521396
kek

>>76524298
that's how I got my gf desu

>>76521318 (OP)
yes, women only do hobbies to find men who have shared interests
as should you
if you're into anime, go to anime conventions
if you're into gym, go to gym
if you're into dancing, go to dancing

>>76521638
>>76522399
Nta but i have the theory that all instawhores audience are just children. I dont think the regular everyday joe wastes his time watching generic whores do nothing, you regular guy just searches porn, jacks off and gets over it. Children believe those whores will adopt them or something and they also evade the parents filters by browsing "innocent" instagram (my little female cousin was addicted to whore tiktok dances and angsty bitch drama because their parents didnt gave a shit until their little princess started to get naked in public). No one really pays attention to these bitches except children and deranged gooners, take a look at /gif/ its 20 threads of actual porn for 1 of sfw coombait, its just retarded to do so. Also, those instathots have a huge audience of women aspiring to be a useless waste of space like them, and that adds up a lot.

>>76529055
>alright anons I'm a sperg, how's this?
I don't think that will work unless
-She's desperate and you're attractive, or
-She's even more autistic

>>76527080
>Argentina
>white

>>76521387
dont be a bitch about annoying women take your chance