Thread 76579579

Thread subject. After having sex, whether I cum or not, for some time after (days) it'll be difficult to even get an erection. Ejaculate volume is diminished. The more times I have sex also, the more impossible it becomes to orgasm from the act itself. I am uncut.

Only been with this one woman, so don't really understand it.

>>76579579 (OP)
Need some background info: how old are you, how out of shape are you?

>>76579614
Early 30's.
Not out of shape.

Doesn't happen with jerking off, only sex.

>>76579615
I'm mid-30s, good cardio, basically stopped jerking off a few years ago when I met my girlfriend because she fucks me so much.

I don't have trouble getting hard, but if we fuck too many days in a row I have trouble cumming. Like I can feel turned on but I'm not getting as hard as usual and my dick isn't sensitive enough to cum.
Too many days in a row is like, 5 times in a week maybe?

i am 40 and it's over for me

>>76579642
There are too many confounding factors for me to sort it out clearly. I just know my sex drive dropped pretty low after losing virginity. Sex seems to cause it, but not doing so it gradually returns.

Once is enough.

Are you beating it too hard when you jerk off? Are you watching too much porn?

>>76579579 (OP)
35, in average shape. Don't get hard anymore. Used to not be a problem. I think its partly psychological.

Currently trying The Stack
>vitD
>zinc
>magnesium
>pine pollen tincture
>macca root
>pomegranate juice
>lemon/cherry juice (vitC)
>walking daily, good sleep, good diet, stress free life.
>sunlight exposure
>nofap
>avoiding bad chemicals (polyester, cosmetics, BPA, nonstick pans)

It's not doing much, unfortunately. After a very disappointing evening with a lovely lady the other week, I ordered some tadalafil. Will see if it works.

>>76579805
It could be part of it. I don't know, for all I know she ommitted having taken the jab, or something else. Distrust is a potent poison either way I suspect.

>>76579814
>for all I know she ommitted having taken the jab
I am vaccinated and have had a lot of sex with several vaccinated women. My dick works fine. Maybe your paranoid schizophrenia is causing erectile dysfunction?

>>76579841
>I am vaccinated and have had a lot of sex with several vaccinated women.
Then your situation isn't comparable, as I'm not jabbed. So the body may respond differently to something in the mucosal exchange or w/e.

It's just one possibility, I don't know. Initially I had to try not to cum too quickly, but now it would be difficult to cum if I tried.

>>76579811
It will work, if its real tadalafil and not some fucked up gas station internet pill, it's magic.

Have you tested your T? You could be borderline low. If you total T starts with 3XX and your free T is on low reference range you might need TRT. Freeze your sperm before though

>>76579855
Also I'd like to add. >>76579642
>Like I can feel turned
> my dick isn't sensitive enough to cum

Is also a sign of possible low T. It may not be "clinically low", but it might be too low for you to function normally.

I'm speaking from experience. I had the same problem. Lower libido, trouble cumming from sex, even some ED. Turned out I had primary hypogonadism.
Like my LH and FSH were upper high range, meaning brain sends signals and is working overdrive to produce T, but balls are not producing enough T.

I never roided, lived a pretty healthy lifestyle, have active work, but it just happened when I was around 29-30.
TRT and less fapping fixed it. I swear, they are putting something in water and food to fuck with our hormones.

>>76579877
OP here. I was doing nofap when we started getting together, and not to be obscene, but I couldn't help but be rock hard just being around her. My thing was practically dripping. This went away after sex.

>>76579877
>I swear, they are putting something in water and food to fuck with our hormones.

Its everything, man. Every single thing in our modern environment pulls in the direction of suppressing testosterone and male sex signals. Every side effect suppresses it, nothing boosts it. Thats more than coincidence, its enemy action.

>>76579888
You were mentally very horny and it can mask the symptoms of low T.
Again from experience, when I met an new girl and usually the first few weeks or so of fucking I was the same. Like precum, just kissing would make me hard as fuck, but then once I fuck symptoms returned.

Just go to a basic lab, get your blood tested.
LH, FSH, free T, total T, estradiol, SHBG

It would give you a general picture of your health. Doesn't cost much, at least here in EU was like 50bucks. If the results look normal, then you can assume its psychological and you can rest easy.
If tests are shit, repeat after a few weeks. If tests are still shit, go to an endocrinologist.

bump

>>76579910
>at least here in EU was like 50bucks

Do you people really say "bucks" to refer to cash units? I thought that was strictly and american/dollar thing. Looks like my local lab does tests for 70-160 USD

>>76579814
You're a moron.

>>76580165
Why.

>>76579877
>It may not be "clinically low", but it might be too low for you to function normally.

I was led to believe that doctors have been steadily lowering the clinical definition of low-T, as part of a broader conspiracy to suppress testosterone and render the population docile and unhealthy. What's the latest figure for what they consider the new normal? 300? 200? 50 ng/dl? Where does it end?!

>>76579904
This. It's not just the food, it's the actual culture that surrounds you. It's that deeply ingrained. The idea of "toxic masculinity" is so completely fucking goofy and yet it's just part of the larger circus of suppressing male sexuality and subverting male-female dynamics in general. The proof of this is just going to countries where they haven't fucked that aspect of the culture up yet. I have ZERO inclination to marry a girl in the U.S. because relationships are way too antagonistic and the government incentivizes them to be that way. Women from Costa Rica? Ecuador? 10s there behave like 1s in the U.S. in terms of submissiveness and desire to please.

They're just so much more feminine there still. I told a girl I had to do my laundry and she jumped up and was like "Ohhh I'll do it!" I was never so fucking turned on in my life. That's how bad things have gotten in the U.S. It's not that I need a girl to do my laundry or much of anything for me, but how excited she was and how hot she was. It's like hearing a woman apologize and take accountability. At this point, that gets me aroused. You could probably be eating estrogen pills with women like that around, but the culture demands you to be such a man, roles are so unquestionably defined, that your test would probably just be higher on average than in the U.S.

>>76580177
They are doing so, you are right.

Technically they will say down to even 250ng/dl is acceptable which is fucking absurd if you are in your 30s and 40s. Reference range is like 250-1000 and that doesn't account for age.
You could have 280 at 30 or 70 and they will say it's fine. At least the basic retard doctors will. "It's just the level your body needs" which is BULLSHIT. Complete bullshit.
They want the magic number to be below 250, then any doctor will prescribe TRT.

Your best bet is to go to a PRIVATE clinic or a clinic that specializes in like anti-aging shit. They are more lenient (more costly too) and most will actually take action if you are anything below 350.
In your 30s your total T should at the very least be close to 400. 25-29 it should be 400-500 to be considered normal.

In my case I was tested to be 324 and 310 and my free T was 0.08 and reference range was 0.09-0.3 ng/ML

>>76580210
truly, spoken like a man in a "my peepee doesn't work good" thread on japanese basket weaving forum

>>76580210
>The proof of this is just going to countries where they haven't fucked that aspect of the culture up yet

Indeed! I visited Argentina this year and was amazed to see the couples. Firstly, nobody was fat. But then there were also very pretty girls, happily paired with rather unstunning, if not downright homely guys. Just strolling the streets, hand in hand, sipping yerba matte. Oblivious to what ZOG has in store for them.

>>76579667
>I just know my sex drive dropped pretty low after losing virginity
that's pretty common when you're in your 30s

>>76579615
If it happens with jerking off as well, then you have a medical issue. Go to a doctor, get your hormonal panel checked.

If it's only with sex it's an energy thing.
Read about women's yin energy, your yang energy is too weak and cannot resist the pull, you are being drained. There are ways to increase your yang and resist yin.
Also your woman must be feeling unsatisfied.

>>76579846
No. You could also add in arbitrary conditions that my window faces the south and my dog barked twice during the even to exclude my experience.

You are retarded.

>>76580538
>Also your woman must be feeling unsatisfied.
She seems to enjoy it, and I can basically go all night. Far as I can tell she genuinely orgasms.

However she said she feels bad that I never cum. Like I said, initially this was optional, I tried not to finish too quickly. Now I just can't even get close. It's strange.

Yin and yang. I have been generally more lunar aligned, wouldn't surprise me if I was yin dominant. More in the mind than the body, rely on the unconscious mind quite a lot. That's what drew us together I suppose, subconscious / telepathic communication.

>>76580564
Ignored. You might as well be a bot.

Bump

Sexual health thread?
Probably gets asked every time but how do you last longer? This shit has been plaguing me for years. Even increased cardio doesn't seem to help.

>>76579615
post sex trieste

>>76582322
>Sexual health thread?
Sure.

>>76579615
>Doesn't happen with jerking off, only sex.
You gf is ugly, this is what the plapjak meme is about

I have a tight foreskin and extremely sensitive glans. I cum within 10 seconds but I’m always horny I just keep having sex and every session with the misso before bed ends up with me coming around 5 times within 10 minutes. When I wake up we always spoon and I poke her in the back. She will then reach around guide my penis in her in the position known as the sleeping Indian. We’re both half asleep but I come at least twice before pulling out and getting ready for work

>>76580538
>>76580568
I was in a funk like this for a while. My ex girlfriend was a bitch to me, we broke up. Went through a series of one-night stands where I couldn't cum. I thought "maybe I need professional help" so I went to a couple of hookers and still couldn't cum.

Met my current gf and told her I think something is wrong with me, we worked on it together slowly and I just talked about my feelings and eventually I could cum, now she milks my balls dry for me 5 times a week. Very happy with the results.

I just want to rape unbothered.

>>76583051
A true happy ending

>>76579642
I'm an old fag. Mid 50s. Married 25 years to same woman. We bang it out 2-3 times per week. I still enjoy sex with her immensely. She looks like a woman in great shape for her 30s, even though she is also in her 50s. I am on TRT and lean. Zero cardio other than sex. Lots of lifting. No alcohol to speak of in our life.

I think we would have more sex, like 3-4 times per week, but the work week is exhausting. Often just want to sleep.

Look into TRT.

>>76580210
This paragraph 1 nails it. Modern American society/culture is so fucked up. Woman (whose number 1 fantasy is being raped) are all on SSRIs and depressed. The men are all, fat, weak, soft and cucked. Its all because we marinate in a culture that is anti male, anti woman, anti family. Probably because were anti God, too.

No wonder they cant get a decent man to fuck them, and even decent men have been culturally undermined and weakened.

>>76583677
Yeah, well why is everyone always so vague about it?

>>76579579 (OP)
Fuck your relationship thread bitch ass motha fucka

>>76579615
>Doesn't happen with jerking off, only sex.
it might phycological. the porn/material you are consuming is stimulating you more than your. my take is cut out porn completely. when you read a lot of guys misleading you by saying stuff like "im in my 30s and i still get boners like im 16 and i jerk off and i have sex 14 times a week". ignore them! you do you.

personally im in my late 30s and i basically started having a limp dick almost 10 years ago. in my late 20s my dick strength decreased almost overnight and it never came back. the only thing that has helped unironically is heavy doses of magnesium and daily pelvic stretches. but i feel my case is very unique. im an athlete tier build different kind guy. hormones through the roof, always lean etc. at 38 i can perform maybe once a week.

>>76579579 (OP)
people saying trt but what you need is HCG or HMG to get you testicles working and your penis sensitivity back

also you might have a lot of tension in your pelvic muscles which make it hard to release

dont do kegels, it just makes it worse. you actually cum better when your pelvic muscles are relaxed.

youve also programmed your brain to get turned on by porn and not sex.

also do more cardio, eat healthier

>you libido is significantly higher when you lift
You mfers lied to me.
Now i always choose sleep over sex and annoyed that my wife refuse to do anything fit-related.

>>76580219
Ive scheduled to get my levels checked. Will report back with results

>>76579579 (OP)
I basically don't get hard the day after either.
t. 27, lean, don't do cardio

>>76588875
You need to figure out if it's caused by being with another person; being with her specifically; having vaginal intercourse; or her vagina specifically.
For example, does it happen if you avoid vaginal intercourse for a few days and only make each other cum with your hands?
Does it happen if you avoid sex acts that require lube? (lubes can have weird chemicals in them)
Does it happen if she squats on your face and jerks you off, while you drink every drop of vaginal fluid that comes out of her?
Does it happen if you drink her pee?
My point is, you need to get her to help you test all possible combinations of sex acts and their abstinence. For science.

>>76589058
NTA, but this is classic PPS (post plap syndrome)

>>76589058
Idk I think it has to do with testosterone because it was happening even when I was taking Tadalafil 5mg daily, so it wasn't that I couldn't get hard, more so that I don't have desire for sex the day after having it

>>76582322
This is gonna sound retarded but when I was constantly watching porn and fapping I would last for hours during sex but once I moved in with gf and greatly decreased fapping and porn consumption I now bust in like 8 minutes or less during sex I sometimes even nut after just a few minutes of her blowing me. Long story short I think having long fap sessions actually helped my performance and endurance with real women

>>76590516
that doesn't sound retarded at all, that sounds obvious

>>76590520
Really? It seems that people online have always said that more porn consumption harms your sexual performance

>>76590581
>people online
(((THEM)))

>>76590597
Why would (((they))) be anti-porn

>>76590606
The last time I explained this I got b&

>>76579579 (OP)
Anyone cured Post Finasteride Syndrome (PFS) or Post SSRI Sexual Dysfunction (PSSD)? Worse fucking diseases known to man.

>>76590581
>porn consumption harms your sexual performance
Not being able to cum at all is also bad sexual performance though. Some dudes who constantly look at porn and beat their dick relentlessly have trouble keeping it up and trouble cumming. That is the performance problem.

>>76585441
>dont do kegels, it just makes it worse. you actually cum better when your pelvic muscles are relaxed.
huge trvth bomb.
doing pelvic stretches daily while breathing deep into your belly and also taking magnesium can make a difference. of course you have to be patient because results can take several days to weeks to show but it will happen.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3Rydb1nZU4

Anything that can be done for deathgrip other than nofap?