>>29054409Do NOT say "fetish" around a woman; outside of the actual BDSM community, they are generally fucking morons about this kind of thing and she will probably interpret that to mean that you don't actually like her.
The closest you'd ever want to get (if it somehow came up) is saying that she's your "type." (Which a lot of the time is just female-coded for "kink.") Even that's risky, if she's the kind to be delusional about how her date is into her solely because she's just so unique and special.
I recently saw a thread on the romance novel sub on Reddit (always a laugh) where women were complaining about how authors try to portray fat female characters as attractive. The consensus was that they don't like the narrator referring to her body as bigger, they don't like the male character to acknowledge it out loud when he compliments her body...but they also get suspicious if the male character doesn't THINK about it in internal monologues.
So...the male character is supposed to compliment her eyes and hopes and dreams, the narrator is supposed to pretend he's giving her a pelvic exam and not fucking her, but the male character better THINK that he likes her fat ass.
Again: women are retarded. Don't ever expect them to have a reasonable reaction to normal male sexuality.