>>29184907I took the swinger route with my wife. I am smart enough to realize that an actual cuck dynamic or actual cuck sex is bad for your relationship and will make the women lose respect and attraction for the man over time, but at the same time I do secretly have a bit of a cuck fetish. I slowly talked my wife into being swingers. We started off by going to clubs but not actually doing things with other people, but just have sex with the 2 of us while other people we next to us also having sex. Over time we did our first blowjob swap with another couple, and eventually a full swap. When we reached the point where we had sex with other people several times (either at a club or meeting at home with a couple we know), I brought up the idea of also sometimes inviting 1 person instead of a couple. We started off meeting with another woman to do a mff threesome, and I then said I wouldnt mind a mmf threesome either. After we had done an mmf threesome a couple of times, I kept mentioning the fact how I love to watch her and how she is so sexy, etc, so she has slowly become comfortable with the idea of me watching and masturbating while she is riding another cock for me. So I guess I have kinda managed to fulfil my own 'cuck' fantasy without me wife actually thinking of me like a cuck. She has absolutely no humiliating thoughts towards me at all, she still thinks I am some chad that fucks other women and sometimes likes to watch his wife give him some life porn.