Thread 29664792

Femanon with a cheating kink here, I think every man has a breaking point. I want responses from people who ACTUALLY love and like their partners, not from mean misogynistic incels. What type of girl would make you cheat and why? (and how)

Captcha timer go brrrr

>>29664792 (OP)
>Femanon with a cheating kink here
tits with timestamp or gtfo

My wife used to look like Mal Malloy, absolute fertility goddess and I loved her curves like you wouldn't believe.
She spent a year on ozempic and then got a gastric bypass and now looks like a 4/10 karen with her skin hanging off basic bitch and that's why I cheat

>>29664792 (OP)
I would never cheat, I love my wife

I hate myself for it. Before her, I dated a thick white girl for a long time. They're my soft spot. I almost cheater on her with this tall blonde from high school. I think I have a tall girl kink. She's just so thick and full breasted. And her ass is huge. Fuck.

>>29664792 (OP)
>What type of girl would make you cheat and why? (and how)
None. If I'm not fully attracted to someone to begin with I just breakup.Too much disease, mental illness, and morality bruising to partake. I'm too old for all of that. I'm in my late 30s now. I've known about a half dozen people since high school that were killed or died in some murder-suicide B.S. because they got off on cheating.

>>29664792 (OP)
deeply in love with my wife and we have sex all the time.
if another woman was younger, attractive, and willing it would be very very hard to resist.

>>29664834
Please give details about these degenerates.

>>29664817
Rip

Instead of cheating on my wife, I picked a wife that knows I will keep fucking other women. There are plenty of women that are happy being non-monogamous.

Bump

>>29664792 (OP)
Tits or GTFO

>>29664839
Tell us more and post what your type is

My wife just started getting into cuckquean stuff recently, so I guess its her pick what kind of girl I would cheat on her with.

>>29664792 (OP)
I do love my wife, but I've been in love with my best friend since high school and she didn't really see me until recently. We fought it at first out of respect for our spouses but it ramped up slowly. I do love my wife, but my breaking point was "the one that got away", my dream woman, my best friend that I thought was never a possibility.

>>29664792 (OP)
Adultery is quite the sin, young lady

>>29664792 (OP)
I don’t understand why a relationship has to end with cheating. If I no longer loved my partner or if things weren’t working out, I would end the relationship before getting involved with someone else romantically. Maybe some men lack a moral compass or any sense of remorse, but I don’t think that’s the norm.

>>29664887
Damn that's deffinetly a hard one to resist anon, who has better tits?

well, my fetish is sexy trans women. the only way I can cheat on my wife is that we both share a sexy beautiful trans girl. I've been dreaming about it for a long time.

>>29664887
Damn this thread got real quick, i'm invested now

>>29664792 (OP)
I wouldn't barring some thought experiment where if I don't she gets killed or something, if you cheat you're a cuck, just divorce her if you're unhappy.

Happily married, I know that I would hate myself and worsen my depression if I ever did cheat.

Despite this, I'd still probably go for any 6+/10 that had big tits or ass as long as they instigated. Thankfully I'm a fat ugly guy who doesn't go out often, so I don't have to worry about it.

>>29664916
I don't think things are that black or white, you can love your partner and still fuck up once, it's pretty bad but I also feel like it shouldn't be seen as the biggest crime ever

>>29664792 (OP)
I love my wife a lot. She's smoking hot, way smarter than me, and we have super compatible senses of humor.

But we both have our hall passes. I would only cheat on her in a few impossible scenarios, but I guess I have a femdom kink because there's something about a mean, bitchy, and smart woman absolutely taking me for a ride and ruining my life that I find super hot.

>>29664887
My buddy is like that about girls that got away too. It's gotten him fucked over a few times.

>>29664923
I was about to post the same thing, my wife is literally (like, professionally) a top model and I love her more than my own life. But if Jean Hollywood asked me to fuck them, I don't think Id be able to resist. The post nut clarity would be brutal

>> 29664885 did you encourage this at all?

It would take a very special woman for me to cheat on my girl. I’ve spent time in strip clubs and bars with plenty of opportunities but it’s just hard to find a woman that I’m willing to take risks for.
What’s weird is I have a cheating fetish, I just have a hard time finding a woman that “check all my boxes”. I definitely need a woman that’s much different than my current woman. She’s curvy with a great Latina ass so petite types / big tits are where I would start. I might consider a sugar relationship

>>29664792 (OP)
Engaged, not married yet. I would never cheat. The only thing I would accept is a threesome with her since it wouldn't feel like cheating as she is part of it. And in this case, I wouldn't mind any girl that isn't fat nor ugly.

>>29664792 (OP)
The relationship becomes definitional in some way. Sex doesn't happen like it used, the person doesn't look like they used or they don't act like they used to. And there has to be a reason to not just end the relationship.

As for the how, I guess in secret at motels.

>>29664792 (OP)
I've been married for 9 years. I love my wife and I enjoy our life together. The reality though is that I don't enjoy sex with her. I find her attractive in a more platonic way than hedonistic. She's very boring during sex. So I've been thinking about getting an escort or something but I never grew the courage to do it. The guilt eats me.

>>29664792 (OP)
I'm happily married and I'd tell you but I'd like to know you're not some 50 year old dude jerking off to the comments. How about a timestamp to go with those tits so we know you're for real?

The rest of you are newfags.

>>29664792 (OP)
This whole thread is newfags and you're such newfags you don't even know why I'm saying that.

>>29664792 (OP)
I have a similar kink and have been in a relationship for the last 10 years. Still, I would never cheat. I understand the allure of someone having such an incredible X trait that it might lead to cheating, but I would never betray my girlfriend, because my love for her is genuine, and I firmly believe hers is too. I’ve often thought that the attraction to this idea comes precisely because of the ideal—the thought of somehow corrupting oneself over an attraction so strong that it surpasses love. However, after deep reflection on the matter, I know I would never cheat. If it had been possible before this point, I’m unsure. I was tempted many times and had plenty of opportunities, but never took any of them. Perhaps if a bigger temptation had come earlier, it might have happened, but right now, I see it as completely impossible.

>>29664916
in the end it's all about communication.

>>29664792 (OP)

Im with the woman i'm gonna marry. We actually just got our domestic partnership today and ill be proposing in about half a year.

Nobody could make me cheat. And its not because shes soooooo crazily hot. Its because shes the best woman I've ever met. The kind that chuds dont think exist and that incels would overlook just as hot girls overlook them. She's fun af, a gamer, organized, a great communicator, family oriented, honestly I could go on forever.

So nobody could make me cheat. But as I believe an absolute is actually a bad sign in a relationship, in the sense that "were absolutely gonna be together forever" puts a lot of false assumptions of universal omnipotent control into the equation, I do have a sense of who might make me leave her. And basically it'd have to be her all over again but also a version who could unlock a deeper connection to my latent sexuality than she can.

I've had a past relationship with a mentally unstable woman that was magical, and one of the greatest things about her was that on top of being an absolute FREAK, she has a psychospiritual bend to her, that helped me unwind a lot of layers of repression.

There's a version of me out there in the multiverse who has gone fully into kink, rather than just dabbled, and where ive found fun and success, that version of me would have found mastery of thier own sexual body and sense of self.

They would be immersed in a kink lifestyle and yet also have thier life together.

For me that life is my opportunity cost to the one I have. Its the 49% good option. Where as the one I live now is the 51% if you understand.

So she would be all that my girl is and yet she would be able to somehow allow me to fully harness my sexual nature.

She'd have a fatter ass and such and be younger and hotter i imagine but without the rest itd be pointless. My girl is desu a luxury model moreso than a sport model.

Where my girl is cute and adorable this woman would appeal purely to my libido.

>>29664792 (OP)
i hate the antichrist

>>29665031
So true, I think that's the same reason why it makes me so horny. The idea of corrupting someone so hard that he can throw his morals out of the window. In my case I never cheated or got cheated on (that i know of, of course) but it still is a nice fantasy. In my head the idea of my bf railing one of my friends out of pure lust is soooo hottt (tho Id probably cry if it happens irl idk haha)

>enters this thread expecting incels
>finds people in love instead

>>29665041
you don’t seem mentally like someone who should spend time on this board

>>29664792 (OP)
Tits or gtfo. This isnt reddit you fucking newfag.

>>29664792 (OP)
married 15 years, love her and we bang 2-3 times a week. neither have cheated. several kids.

Wives after 1-2 years completely stop giving bjs. Permanently. No matter how much they like it, even if they really do, they always stop.

They also stop acting like you are desired. They take you for granted and are brainwashed by tiktok/instagram feeding them content of men/husbands doing insane basic worshipping/slavery of women. Wives completely stop showing any form of interest, and expect only interest to go one way. No matter how secular or religious they are, wives only receive attention from men. Girlfriends chase men to get a husband, and then the chase is over, and now they expect attention in perpetuity.

Any husband can be had if you are:
Nice
Show genuine desire for him. Money is fine, just show actual desire for HIM and make HIM feel like he is a real person that matters and is valuable/desirable.
Let him experience novelty vicariously through you. Let him show you things the first time, let him tell you stories for the first time. Allow him to not feel like he's boring you - wives only nag their husbands and hate when husbands share, because they only want the attention to go FROM HIM to HER.
Imply you'll suck his dick, either through looking at his crotch and let him catch you or by sitting a little close to him and have your hands on your legs, but have your hands close to his groin.

>>29664792 (OP)
>What type of girl would make you cheat
The kind that can fog a mirror
>why? (and how)
Because my wife won't fuck me. I remember her mother telling her "If a wife won't, he'll find someone who will." Guess my wife wasn't listening.

>>29664792 (OP)
Im married, and I love my wife. The issue is we have been married for 4 years, and we have not had sex in over a year. I love my wife in every other way, but I want sex. Like the other anon said, after a few years wives just stop giving attention and only want to receive. And if they have a medical reason to abstain from sex, they will use it like a crutch and never touch your dick again

So what would make me break and cheat? If I was 100% sure she would not find out, and it was 100% casual. I'm Bi, and before I got married I hooked up for M4M sex a few times. that kind of sex, where you don't even learn their names, they are just there for sex, is the ONLY kind of sex I would accept from anyone other than my wife. I don't want to FEEL for the other person. I just want to use their holes and go home. If I was 100% sure that could work, I would consider it

49 year old wizard reporting in, what does cheating feel like? OTHER than "bags of sand".

>>29664792 (OP)
NO TITS OR TIMESTAMP and you faggots have gotten all mushy about how much you love your wives. You're all faggots and belong in Leddit.

>>29664792 (OP)
name
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>>29664792 (OP)
You posted what my ideal woman looks like, aka a woman I would marry and have 4+ kids with and never cheat on

>>29664792 (OP)
>What type of girl would make you cheat and why? (and how)

Doesn't exist. A magic woman who makes my cum turn to gold, I'd just divorce my wife.

Hey OP
>>What kind of healthy, happy, puppy would you kill? What breed (and how)

I don't do shit things, because I'm not a shit person.

>>29664792 (OP)

Tits or gtfo

>>29665103
>>29665149

In a similar situation that these fags are. I've been married for 3 years and my wife will give me a BJ only if I beg her, which fucking sucks. Also she's come up with so many permanent excuses for not having sex with me anymore. "I am so tired all the time", "I worry about the future so much" yadda yadda the usual crap. Not saying those feelings aren't real, it just pisses me off so much that her libido has gone to hell.

I wouldn't cheat on her though because I've cheated in past relationships and been cheated on and both ends suck both during and after the fact, for years. But I have a million fantasies in my head where I bang some of our friends, or imagining what my life would be like with one of those "girls that got away" like the other fags in this thread.

It doesn't help that I was with many other chicks before and almost all of them were way crazier and hornier in bed, would talk about sex a lot more often, would watch porn or would generally make me feel a lot more desired sexually. I just hate that the woman I am the most compatible with, personality wise, is the one that I find to be the most boring in bed. Damn. And even when I do get sex which can be something like once every two weeks, she wants it to be this super fucking boring ass sex where she lays on the bed and wants me to do literally all of the hard work. No wonder people are unhappy in their marriage and rich niggas just buy themselves a harem of whores who can't say no to sex.

I love fantasies where the girl is a random encounter and also cheating because there's a bit of mutually assured destruction there. Too bad the fear of diseases is there, though I guess if I'm out on a long trip I'd be able to test 2 weeks after the fact so I make sure I dont bring anything home?

>>29664792 (OP)
Pretty much married my perfect dream girl. Smart, funny, attractive. Never say never, obviously, but at this point you'd basically have to summon a literal sex demon, or drag over one my old waifus from when I was a hopeless weeb out of the realm of fiction to even get me to consider it.

>>29665048
Hail, Satan! Kill your local Pope.

>>29665337
Exact situation here.

I have had opportunities to cheat that I turned down, and sometimes I wish I hadn't. It would be nice to just have a side piece, but women can never just be cool, and they WILL want you to leave your wife one way or another. If you don't do it fast enough, they will make it happen even if they end up without you as well.

For men sex is very physical, it can just be a fun activity, but for women its emotional. Once their emotional needs are met and they feel secure, they do not feel the need for sex anymore, especially if their system has been wrecked by birth control. Men can have sex separated from love in addition to sex that expresses love. Women largely can't separate the two.

Even the coworker who talked a big game of how she can't catch any feelings, she only loves her husband and has no problem just fucking with no strings attached, started texting me in the middle of the night telling me she was in love with me, and nothing had even happened between us except flirting. Her emotional needs were not met by her husband so she wanted sex from me, but of course one could not go without the other. Sex is just the foot in the door for them.

It's frustrating.

I love my wife of 20 years, but there is no intellectual stimulation. I haven't cheated, but if I did, I could imagine it would be with someone I found intellectually stimulating.

I don’t want to cheat on my wife but my fantasy has always been to be a bull fucking married well off women. I go up to a penthouse and she’s waiting for me in lingerie. In my 20’s I had the physicality and the big dick to do it but now after an busted knee and the marriage drop in my sex life I don’t think I’ll ever have those 3 a night performances ever again.

>>29664792 (OP)
>I think every man has a breaking point
incorrect.
if you're not my wife you're just not hot enough to fuck.

>>29665443
You don't have a wife.

>>29664792 (OP)
Well obviously if I knew she had tits that good and made a pass at me, I might try and resist but the chance to be with an attractive girl of these sort of calibres are too rare

Maybe I could resist...I just don't know, here's another I might cave to

>>29664867
gross cuck

How far do you think this conversation could go?
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>>29665511
Correct, anon is the world's most beautiful man. No one is worthy of marrying him.

It'd have to be one of your friends, and if it's imperative that you don't want him to know that you're trying to make it happen, she'll have to be plenty forward about it.
Basically, there's a taboo to it, and on top of that, there's familiarity. It's not going to be scary or awkward. It's a walled garden affair, as opposed to bringing in some random bar fly who can try any manner of crazy shit or just be a terrible person.

We're pretty basic. If it's easy and safe, then why not?

>>29665573
a body is just visual stimulation. my first gf was perfectly proportioned, skinny with wide hips and E cups but she was boring in bed. the sex got way better as she gained weight over the years. her podgy belly and fat ass were far more stimuating

my next partner only put weight on below the tits and she was a freak, fantastic sex. she actually got back with her ex while we were still sleeping together. we were all friends and would hang out for days on end smoking and drinking. he didnt know we were still fucking. she would see me out when i left and press against my crotch with a long hug goodbye.

when we hung out at mine she would pretend to be too drunk to leave with him and we'd fuck that night and the next morning before she went home. she loved anal and loved my small cock, would suck it for as long as i'd let her. statistically he must have been bigger so don't believe people that say theres no hope if you have 4 inches skinny.

i'd never cheat but i love being the other guy cause of how hot it is that the woman is so horny she forgets her morals. the sex is amazing and you can tell them to fuck off if they demand anything because you're not together. and they still come back for more mindmelting sex

picrel - she told me she'd been wanking all day to the thought of me while her boyfriend was at work

>>29664792 (OP)
Love my wife, married 7 years, together for 10 total with kids. I would never cheat, but if i was to be tempted? it would be a very fem, very cute transgirl with a little uncut cock and perky tits.

>>29664792 (OP)
I want the girl to cheat on me. Just some slut that thinks she's sneaking off behind my back to suck and fuck

>>29665337
>I just hate that the woman I am the most compatible with, personality wise, is the one that I find to be the most boring in bed.
fag, do you think you're actually interesting?

>>29665418
>for women it's emotional
what a useless generalization

Love my wife and she does have a tight pussy that when she wants can squeeze the life right out of you. What she isn’t is a sexual being. She approaches sex like something you put on your schedule. Plus she’s particular about being fingered and will do zero anal. I’ve had girls crawl on their hands and knees for me. I’ve had girls let me raw dawg them anal in a shower day after day after day for as long as Iike. None of that is part of my reality now that I’m married. I really couldn’t ask for a better partner. But man do I miss kinky whores who just love cock and love anal. She also works out a lot and lost some of her curves and DD boarding on DDD are now just D cup. As someone that has been with a ton of women with huge breasts. I’m talking H cup, her down size has been a turn off. I do a ton of business travel and have many opportunities to cheat but I’m so scared of catching something and giving it to her. I guess morally I wouldn’t feel bad since it’s just a sexual act, but fuck me if I gave the mother of my child AIDS. Now in the hypothetical is someone like Cassie0pia wanted to put her giant milkers on me for the best titty fuck of my life, I would jump on a plane to anywhere for that.

>>29665696
damn gotta introduce me to your partner. I love the energy a cheater brings and that'd be even better with no guilt

>>29664792 (OP)
i dont think there is if were being honest. I love my wife, but we do have issues that im not willing to talk about but honestly I don't there is. I believe that if we get divorced, I wont even actively look for another woman. Not only am I an old gen-x'r but I don't want kids either so their is no desire other than pussy and I could get a hooker for that. Yea, I just don't think there is any ass out there worth the trouble.

>>29665170
Other people have said they've felt massive regret. So much that some of them even confess and voluntarily blow up their relationship even though they would have gotten away with it.

I've cheated and felt...great about it. Like I won a small jackpot. The forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest, I guess? At least that's how it was a long time ago.

>>29664792 (OP)
I'm happily married, and since being married I get a LOT more interest from women, the idea of having unwanted attention was not something I could have imagined in my early 20s (early 30s now). Random women buy me drinks, touch me. It's honestly a bit annoying because I don't want it.

Anyway, the most tempted I've been has been with girls who just vibe, it's not really about the prettiest girls. I had a girl who wrote down my name, held my arm, was complimenting me a lot. It's hard to get that kind of attention from my wife. I didn't make any kind of move, but if that girl had whispered in my ear that she wanted to fuck me, it would have been very hard to turn her down. I don't know what would have happened.

Also, I am careful with my exes. I have a couple of exes who I would absolutely end up screwing in the right circumstances, so I avoid those. Once the door is open, it's never really closes imo.

>>29664792 (OP)
was married for 15 years, she dead now but the only time I considered cheating (ultimately didn't though) was with a tight bodied tiny 4'11" latina with perky tits and a tight little bubble butt at a job I once had. She hit every physical attraction metric I have and then some, even flat out said I should come over and lay the pipe on her. I ended up not cheating because foolish love and my wife at the time was healthy and down to fuck all the time with a kink streak I'll never find again.

>>29664792 (OP)
Love is like a drug where your partner fills out everything in your mind and body and heart....cheating would not be able to happen....the time cheating becomes possible is when a partnership becomes a choice

ITT a bunch of dudes who have never heard of prep. Just take that shit when you want to go cheat, then when you get home go to the doctor and say it burns when you piss and he'll give you antibiotics, tell your wife it's a bladder infection.

In my 20s I had a long term relationship. Loved the girl, but she wanted an open relationship. I couldn't fucking do it. We broke up over it and she found some cuck I guess. Mentally I just couldn't do it. In my 30s I met my wife, so I'm really happy how things turned out. But ya I'd never cheat. It's crazy to think I'll never get to touch another (different) pair of bobs again, but it's definitely worth it for me to have just mental and emotional stability and love.

Her penis would need to be more feminine

>>29664792 (OP)
Joke's on you, im unhappily married but i came anyways.

>>29664885
Yeah but what's the source?

>>29665788
I've never had a girl ask for an open relationship like that before but if she did I'd break up with here too.
The difference is that I'd want to keep fucking her while she found a new relationship.

>>29664816
Seconded.
Why wasnt this the first 15 replies?

>>29665420
>intellectually stimulating
kys.

>>29665788
nah i'm with you. my brain attaches to one person even if we're not together. sex gets better when you know someone inside and out

>>29665788
That scares me honestly, imagine the love of your life one day just says 'hey i wanna fuck other people', I know there are warning signs of course but you never know with girls today

>>29665811
the warning sign is she has a vagina.

>>29665804
because 4chan culture is dying, haven't you noticed anon?

>>29664823
Based

>>29665041
Lookit that wall of text. Negro aint nobody reading that.
Dont even get me started on the faggoty formatting.

>>29665825
Yeah, I'd noticed, i just keep rediscovering the fact.

>>29664792 (OP)
She must... (from most difficult to easier to accomplish)

... be a person i trust (lots of talks)
... banish from my life once we're done, like leaving to Mongolia the next week and never come back (insurance policy)
... share a fantasy about some kinky sex no feelings involved (i don't care how hot she is, i need a shared fetish not just regular sex)
... be attractive to my eyes (the easiest, big boobs, big areolas and/or hairy pussy would help a good amount)

and yet... she must find me somehow in a dark place to do it right in the moment bc if i went home before doing anything i'll tell everything to my wife and beg for a threesome.

Knowing i'm just an average looking guy and i have no money it's just impossible that anything close to all that stuff happens in my real life and i don't care, i still love my wife after 25+ yrs of marriage so i don't care if it's not gonna happen, that's the point.

Op, we want what we don't have. My ex wife had a thick hot body with great tits and I was attracted to skinny girls at that time. Now I'm married with a small-medium size boobs girl and I'm attracted to girls with bigger boobs.

Once you realize that this "attraction" or "passion" for other girls is nothing more than an ephemeral and fake desire, your desire for cheating will slowly fade away.

Be happy with your woman, love and kindness is the most important thing, this won't fade, definitely better than just sexual attraction.

>>29664792 (OP)
if she denies me sex and it isnt because shes sick or busy or any kind of legitimate reason

>>29665103
>Wives after 1-2 years completely stop giving bjs. Permanently. No matter how much they like it, even if they really do, they always stop.
The great marriage killer. Women have no idea how negatively this affects everything. They wreck their marriages out of sheer laziness.

>>29664792 (OP)
I've cheated several times as a married man. Hell I'm even doing it right now.

I think i'm gonna burst your bubble, but what the hell. I'm sitting here with a dick hard as fuck for a woman i started talking to tonight and i'm moaning to her in vc. My wife's asleep.

Been caught several times, but this is the "last time" she's giving me a chance. I don't know why i do it - it's boredom, it's feeling inadequate, it's about feeling good about yourself. Being a bigger guy helps too. Several suicide attempts and a BPD diagnosis later, with antidepressants shoved down my throat, i realize that i don't even find the girls particularly attractive.

Sure, they're pretty, but if i could, i would have loved to be faithful to my wife. She's way more attractive than most of them ever were. She's an amazing woman. Truly. I hate myself, but i'm trying to change it. Aint going well though.

If you cheat you're a fucking loser. Plain and simple.

>>29664926
A cuck is someone that gets off on their wife fucking alpha bull men and being humiliated for it. Someone that cheats is not a cuck, dumbass.

>>29664816
>tits with timestamp or gtfo
Exactly. Otherwise the guys here are chatting with a dude with cuckold fetish.

>>29665149
>The issue is we have been married for 4 years, and we have not had sex in over a year
go to counseling yesterday anon, that's not normal
the longest I went without was six weeks and that was during recovery after surgery
the DAY the doc cleared her for action she came home and basically dragged me by the dick to the bedroom

>>29664792 (OP)
rip
https://spankbang.com/6gq7a-8q1wrd/playlist/rylie+haze

>>29664792 (OP)
I honestly don't think it would take much for me to cheat. I have a fiancee I like fine but I don't think I love her, I'm basically still in the relationship because of sunk costs

>>29664917
Friend does, but more than that there's just indescribable sexual chemistry.
>>29664939
It would never have happened with anyone else in the world, it HAD to be her. Fate's not without a sense of irony.

>>29664792 (OP)

No girl would make me cheat, any girl that I wanted that badly I would show to my wife and see if she is interested.

>>29664792 (OP)
Wouldn’t do it. Married with two kids. Not going to nutt with someone else and potentially get an STD. Porn is free and after finishing, my desires reset to 0.

>>29664792 (OP)
There's nothing any woman could ever offer that would overcome years of shared experiences, growth, and partnership or that could ever be valuable enough to justify risking the trust and faith that is the bedrock of our children's emotional stability and future earning potential.

My genetic line will survive and prosper. Yours will become the degenerate underclass.

>>29666242
The problem, anon, is that sunk costs inevitably turn into resentment, which turns into an inward or outward hatred, or both. This isn't a matter of buying cheap bed because "you'll get used to mediocrity", it will turn into you into seeing missed opportunities with a better match as your wife holding you back. Im not trying to convince you to dump her tonight, but there will come a time when you either know you made the right decision or are exponentially piling regrets onto yourself. Think hard bro

>>29664792 (OP)
I have a cheating kink. I like to cheat on my girlfriend. I've been with her many many years now. I love it more when she knows. She's bi, so we've explored threesomes, and she's sat to the side and watched before. She would argue that she isn't, but she's a cuckquean. I have had one night stands that I tell her about while she gets upset, and then later tells me I can do it again. But my perfect point is something I've only fantasized about. I want to make friends with a girl, someone younger than her, and more attractive. Someone who is super nice to her, boosts her ego, and is overall a good friend to her (and me I guess). No idea how I'd want it to start, maybe threesomes or maybe drunken night out together, but when it does start there are 'rules' that are put in place. No full sex, no kissing, no doing it without me kind of things. Each rule gets broken and new ones pop up. No unprotected, no being romantic, no threesomes without me kind of stuff. More and more she watches as her potential best friend here breaks her down little by little. Now she's watching as I fuck this girl, no protection, whispering romantic words into her ear just loud enough for her to hear, and sees me cum inside her when it's her most risky day. I want her to feel fully cheated on. And I want her to thank us both for that.

Cheating? In this economy?

Honestly? Probably any woman under 40 and isnt obese or disabled who shows overt interest in me would do then trick at this point.....

I love my wife and she's a good person....but as soon as we had kids; done with with sex, completely.

I've even gone like 6+ months of not 'asking'/initiating sex and it just never happened and was never mentioned.

Sex with someone who actually wants it would probably convince me. It's so difficult for us men that our women can just suddenly become asexual in their late 20s and 30s without a worry and just continue life without a problem.....

Jfc.
Is this thread Larp central? What kind of sperg is crunching out these walls of retardation in text form?

If you're reading this thread and cringing, blackpilling or something, remember the majority of the people replying are the same ones who populate the board with nothing but raceplay,cuck and rape threads. Not representative of what the average person you could talk to anywhere else is probably thinking. Not what OP or anyone else in this thread asked but I'm just saying. Whatever.

>>29664792 (OP)
Me and my wife regularly fuck younger women together. It's awesome!

For me to actually cheat, she'd have to be extremely rich.

>>29666397
there is always one thread on /gif/ with these fucking bloggers for some reason. It's a containment thread for people who would rather type than crank their hogs.

>>29666029
tl;dr.

Don't cheat. Even if the pussy is worth it, it ruins your mental health and turns into an addiction.
I literally can't stop myself. I hate it.

>>29664792 (OP)
You would have to pay me an incredibly large sum of money. I'm talking like 20 years of my salary.

Unless my gf really needed money we didn't have, then I would for the money, give it to her and accept if she decided to leave me for what I did.

I've always been very deeply loyal. I wake up from nightmares when I'm cheating, even with strange things like 'angels' or 'faceless women' etc.

>>29664792 (OP)
I'm deeply in love with my wife. I have been for 12 years now and our love keeps growing daily.

My wife is blonde, petite and has a tight body. She seems very innocent on the surface but can get quite wild when encouraged. The only thing she s missing is the will to initiate and that extra humpf of enthusiasm that you only see in porn movies.
I love her tits, her pussy, and I love having sex with her.

That said. If a thick dom goth girl were to hit on me tomorrow and push me into a stall to fuck her, it would be extremely hard to resist. Basically, the opposite of what my wife is.

Don't get me wrong. I wouldn't change my wife for anyone in the world, but fucking hell I'd love to get fucked by a big titty goth girl.

>>29666472
>this guy can't handle some extra side pussy

Love means you wouldn’t cheat, sorry gemstone but the question is retarded

>>29664792 (OP)
>cheating kink
ur just a whore admit it

>>29666529
I think it's more so he can't square that circle between hurting his wife and fulfilling his own personal needs. I know the feeling but luckily I'm not married and am living a more fulfilling life single and can just be a degen bachelor without worrying about emotionally hurting anyone.

>>29664792 (OP)
Real shit? Someone who actually shows raw animalistic desire for me. I genuinely love my woman, I genuinely care for her and I genuinely desire her with all my being to the pathetic point of digging back conversations of when she was with other people just to get to see her like that, almost like innocently lusty and genuinely needy for the other person. She hasn't been that with me in a while. I know for a fact she doesn't cheat, but sometimes I wonder if I could live with cheating on her. She's genuinely loving and caring, I know she would take a bullet for me but what kills me is that she won't be a slut for me. So, yeah. Somebody who I can genuinely connect sexually with in the sense that I am genuinely desired, craved and even seen as a piece of meat to satisfy a lust. Shit sucks. It makes me genuinely sad, worst part is that I know I'm a little above her league. And I just let her turn me into a mess because of my obsession with her. So I just let myself go.

Sweet words might just earn you my attention.

>>29664792 (OP)
Data mining thread

>>29666551
Whores just keep rebranding.

>>29664923
Does your wife know she is married to faggot that actualy calls other dudes she her, wow, just go get aids but do t gi e it to your poor wife,in fact ask for a divorce and go be the degenerate porn addict fag you long to be

>>29664951
Fuck....them....you fucking faggots are so damn pathetic, he why is it so hard to admit porn rotted yiyr brain and turned you gay and you want to have sex with a man ...

>>29664817

Please say you've got more of her. Holy fuck she was perfection.

>>29664792 (OP)
That's pretty easy: The type of girl that brings a cute friend. Love my wife but she would NEVER do a threesome. It's still on my bucket list.

>>29664792 (OP)
>mean misogynistic incels
Get the fuck off of men's websites, stop being a cheating whore and kill yourself. Any disgusting wifeguy entertaining this irrelevant, time-wasting question from a lonely roastie should just leave their wife, because you're not happy and she's quite obviously not putting out if you're here.

>>29664792 (OP)
great thread

>>29664792 (OP)
>What type of girl would make you cheat and why?
Honestly I think if I got a modicum of attention from more than one girl at a time I'd ruin my life. I have a hard time saying no to people.

>>29664792 (OP)
I like to fantasise about cheating, but the fantasy never works because I don't see a realistic scenario where I go along with it. Having the idea is one thing but the logistics of actually meeting a willing person, escalating, finding a place to do it and then removing clothes seems so wildly unrealistic to me. You'd have to have fuck me eyes and I'd have to be the perfect level of drunk I think.

>>29664792 (OP)
married 10 years. together for 15. I wouldn't.
there was a time when I really regretted passing on a high school friend that really wanted my dick. typical goth freaky girl.
now I realize I despise people. I wouldn't want to cheat simply because of the bullshit that comes attached with people. going out, making small talk, wasting time on the phone. politics, religion, you're always walking on eggshells because you never know what's gonna set people off.
yes, I'm a misanthrope. yes, my wife is understanding. no, I don't hate her. without my wife I'd probably go on a mass shooting before offing myself.

>>29664792 (OP)
You need to build a long term destruction of the marriage. You need to spend lots of time with that man, get his trust and provide him what he doesn't get at home. He needs to passionately fall in love with you. So much, that he stops regreting cheating.

This, or get him super drunk a show him some top tips and show a fist down your throat.

>>29664792 (OP)
I have a cheating kink, as well, but it's not that I want to cheat on my wife, but that I want to fuck someone else's.
My wife wants to be dominated and owned, so we roleplay a lot, something like she's married, and I'm a neighbor, her husbands boss, or even a burglar.
Nothing gets me as fucking hard as just thinking about the different ways I can "steal her from her husband/boyfriend".
But no, I would never cheat on my wife, if that answers your question.

My wife and I have a great relationship and our sex life is almost perfect. Only problem is, she won't let me cum in her mouth, and that is something I cannot resist if given the opportunity.

Turns out her best friend loves giving head. We met up a few times during lockdown and she sucked the soul out of me. Swallowed four of my nuts in one day. We stopped seeing each other when she got a boyfriend (it was okay to fuck a married man, but not if you have a boyfriend. Woman logic.) but god damn I dream about those blowjobs to this day.

My wife's ex best friend. We all got so close, had a bit of a love triangle, almost a threesome but in the end she became toxic and a total bitch. I still would love to hate fuck her and get it out of my system.

>>29664792 (OP)
41m at the time of the story. My wife is my beloved partner, never glanced at other women
But frankly she just doesn't like sex that much

My singing teacher put me with this 21 year old half korean girl for duets, hyper skinny, like freakishly anorexic with huge tits, voice of an angel, seriously, when she speaks or sings i just fucking melt. Do some duets, they go great.

Anyway we became friends, for about a year, turns out she's genius level intellect too, absolutely trashes me in chess, card games, mobas, fighting games, whatever, doesn't matter, the only thing i can beat her at is physical stuff since im huge

We get to talking one day and I talk about how y wife doesn't really like sex, this girl says she loves to fuck, loves to be dominated. For whatever reason she likes to be choked and hit too. ok, not my thing, whatever. But she says despite her smarts she cant seem to get her life together.

but she asks me, can I be her "master" and give her orders, help her get her life on track.
OK, i figure this is fun, every day I tell her what to wear, what to eat etc. shes like my little doll

things go good for a bit then she starts to disobey. "You have to hit me, punish me for being bad" and she gets on track again. That repeats for a while, i learn how to deal with her.

one night she propositions me, at this point im totally infatuated, she smells so fucking good and my body screams it wants to fuck her

you would not believe the blowjobs she gives, full on deepthroat, and im quite large, she says she trained every night for 6 months to be able to handle me

for the past 4 years we've been fuck buddies and singing partners and a ton of other things. no doubt my soulmate. but i still have my wife and family and other than this I'm a really good dad and husband.. I read to my kids nightly and do the dishes, clean the house, fix shit around the house etc

so to answer your question. hyper skinny, huge tits, genius intellect, and addicted to serving

>>29666779
show some

>>29666821
lets see

I've been with my wife for 10 years, married for 4. We're high school sweethearts. I genuinely do love her and couldn't live without her, she's the best thing in my life. I can't even say that our sex life is lacking - our sex life is fantastic.

A lot of people think that men cheat (and maybe they're right sometimes) because they're missing something, they're unsatisfied in their marriage, or whatever. However, I am incredibly satisfied in my marriage. My wife ticks all of my boxes.

However, if have occasionally been very tempted to cheat before. The only reason I haven't, is because the woman did not make an overt move. There have been several times where all it would take is a simple suggestion or offer, and I would have broken.

The times when this has happened have not been when I'm at my lowest. In fact, they're when I feel my best. When I am most confident and self-assured, when I feel like I *deserve* it, not because of a failure of my wife, but because I feel like I am just that great. So essentially, the kind of girl that would make me cheat is someone who is able to gas me up, inflate my confidence and stroke my ego, and then having the audacity to make a bold move.

My wife makes me feel this way, and that ironically makes me vulnerable to cheating, because I continue to feel good about myself when I'm around other women. Someone who can stoke those embers while they're burning would have the chance to break me.

You've got to be attractive too, of course.

>>29664792 (OP)
PUSHY, playful and nice girl would I guess. My wife is not like that, so I miss the feeling. Also, I'm just weak to this kinda thing. Well, a girl with a reasonably nice body though.

And yes, I love my wife and wouldn't seek a partner other than her

>>29664792 (OP)
I had to give up on being a college professor because, after a year of female students trying to fuck me for a good grade, I almost did cheat with one of them.
I stopped in time and removed myself from the situation but yeah, I guess a hot 20 y.o. desperately trying to pass my class is my breaking point.
My gf doesn't know, I just told her I wanted to go into consulting for the money.

>>29664792 (OP)
A lesbian that just wants to get pregnant. I don't wanna be a dad, but a lesbian that just wants to be a mom and will keep coming back to me until she's 100% knocked up. She doesn't need to be hot, she just needs to have a womb and want cum in it, even BETTER if she doesn't actually like cock but wants a natural pregnancy.

I love and adore my partner, he's adorable and cute and we have great sex, but I can't indulge my pregnancy/breeding fetish with him.

>>29665811
Gf told me while drunk that its unfajr she has only ever had 1 dick while I had 4 different women and how she is curious about different dicks. Left me a bit shocked because I always saw her as this ct. sheltered pure girl

>>29664792 (OP)
Finally cheated on my partner of 7yrs this year. We have children together and are in love.
I was working away a fair amount due to necessity, she was becoming more and more difficult about it and would often insinuate or accuse me of being unfaithful anyway, which was always unjustified. I try to look after myself and do get some female attention but would never entertain it. It wasn't so much that she'd let herself go, although she was far less attractive than when we met and hardly put any effort in, it was more the being difficult and me suffering the punishment for infidelity anyway.
I snapped while working away and had group sex with two attractive women, which they initiated. After that I've been on a bit of a rampage having sex with 4 or 5 women per week. I also left her.

>>29664792 (OP)
>What type of girl would make you cheat and why? (and how)
The only girl who could get me would be the gf I had when I was 17.
She was my first love and I never got over her.

>>29664792 (OP)
>What type of girl would make you cheat and why? (and how)
Only if my gf was into it somehow, like a threesome with another girl or she had a cuckquean fetish (she doesn't).

>>29664792 (OP)
I'm unhappily married (my wife isn't attracted to me anymore) and I would never cheat on her, no matter how beautiful the other girl is.
I took a vow.

Been together for 12 years, and am extremely happy with my woman.
Petite (160cm), slim, amazing butt, nice chest, beautiful as can be, a fiend in the bed, and most of all, extremely intelligent. She hits all the spots really.
I am also bisexual, so the only possibility of me cheating on her would be with a nice man, and that’s because it’s obvious what he’d have that she doesn’t. I don’t act on it, despite a lot of opportunities (and with women as well), because I simply love her too much. There was a single occurrence where I almost, almost fell in the rabbit hole, but a night out piss drunk and a couple kisses and a bj from a guy made me so disgusted with myself the next day (for simply doing it, not because it was bad at all, it was quite good) it steered me clear from that path of cheating.

>>29666996
Wasn't aware of this term cuckquean, does anyone actually managed to get their girls to choose with who they gonna be cheated on ?

>>29667007
Pretty gay, I think cheating with a man when you're a straight.

How could you think it could be great ?

>>29667028
I’m literally not straight though, didn’t you read?

>>29664792 (OP)
cant think of anything that would be worth it.

she's smart, similar politics and interests, we get along great domestically, and she Loves getting fucked in the ass every day. whats another girl gonna have to offer

I'm happily married to the girl, that is everything I could ask for, and more. I'm never cheating.
I am tempted though. I'm a lecturer at a college. I'm 27 and the students are 21-24. Some of the girls have made eyes at me, but I bet those were for the grades.
If any of them, especially the redheads, tried something at my office though, I'll have the hardest time refusing. Abusing my authority seems so thrilling, and technically there's no policy against it here.

>>29664792 (OP)
No such thing. If i'd ever find someone truly irresistible, i'd try to turn it into a threesome. Happened only once so far, I've met someone who really, really nailed my kinks, felt like lots of fun, and was really into me. We've talked about it and agreed that threesome is not out of the question, though it never happened in the end. And I'm fine with that.

Most people who are genuinely happy in relationship wouldn't cheat unless they share your kink, it's pretty obvious.

>>29664923
>>29664951
>>29665679
this was me. now im married to one and its the best thing i ever did

>>29666990
Sauce? Hot!

>>29664792 (OP)
you asked for people who actually love and like their partners. you want to stick to fantasy then.

because I love her, I would never cheat. she's my partner in everything. your "every man has a breaking point" thing isn't true, at least not just for just some other attractive girl that isn't the attractive girl you've built your whole life with. attractiveness isn't everything, sex isn't everything.

>>29666323
i enjoyed this, thanks anon

>>29667034
Anon so retarded he thinks he's bi, but when he get sucked by a guy he's disgusted.

But sure you're bi senpai'

>>29664792 (OP)
I would never cheat cause it would hurt my wife’s feelings and even if the attraction is gone after 10 years but you would never ever think about leaving or cheating on that person that’s called true love.

>>29664792 (OP)
I love my girl and I will spend the rest of my Life with her , but I have crazy libido and I feel like one girl is not enough for me.
I used to have a side chick at work for a year.
Petite blonde with really big tits 21-22 years old then if I remember correctly.
Her face was mid and she used a lot of make up but her body alone was 10/10.

She actually knew that I was in a relationship but she didnt mind and kept it a secret.
We met purely to fuck, no dates, no talking, no texting, just pure wild fucking with choking, slapping her face and deepthroating.
It was perfect for me because I hate affairs and sexting and all that bullshit.
We would meet once/twice a week.
I just needed this sadistict intense sex on milk truck barbie from time to time to get some steam off.

Sadly it ended after she found her last boyfriend (she had like 3 of them during that one year period, she was a huge slut) she said she wants to try a normal relationship but at the same time she told me that she would let me know if it doesnt work out (idk what to think about that)

Few months have passed and I didnt have any luck with other girls so far, Im not ugly or anything like that, Its just that no opportunity came up.
Im not sad because sex with my gf has been really good lately so its whatever.

I could fuck any girl that is young and overall cute and submissive, I dont have emotional attachement to sex I just love fucking and dominating women. Romantic love is a seperate thing for me.

If I could be picky I would love to doggystyle a girl with a huge round bubble ass. Just take her from behind like an animal put her in a chockehold and listen to my hips smacking loud against her fat ass.

>>29664792 (OP)
It doesn't matter how smart, sexy, compatible, or anything a girl is:it won't be enough to make me cheat on my wife.

Because who this other woman is and what she's like doesn't enter into the equation. The only thing that matters in this equation are my own values in terms of how we should treat others.

Even if we assume that somehow it was possible for me to meet a woman so incredibly awesome that I want to be with her even though I already have a wife (I can't imagine this happening), I would sooner honestly tell my wife this and get a divorce than to cheat on her.

>>29664792 (OP)
Been happily married over 30 years. She gave me three kids, has always been true and is still hot as ever. Plus, I know what the future holds and I'm very likely going to need her much more than she needs me someday. No way I'm doing anything to hurt this wonderful lady no matter who the other girl is.

I'd be down if she wanted US to get a gf because I'm stupid. That I couldn't say no to.

>>29665103
>Wives after 1-2 years completely stop giving bjs
Been married 30 years and get bjs all the time. She even licks my balls.

>>29664792 (OP)
Now I love my partner, but a pure biological mog that wants to get bred would be something I would consider

>Think: tall, perfect tits, perfect pussy/body etc.

>>29665149
If your wife stops fucking you she doesn't love you. At least not in the way she's supposed to.

>>29667149
Disgusted by cheating, not by the guy or the act itself (like I wrote). Please get some reading comprehension.

>>29666408
You are a stupid man to cheat on a girl like that just for money

>>29664792 (OP)
I love my wife but I would cheat on her with am 18 year old who calls me Daddy

I was in a relationship for 10+ years, and while it didn't work out I never would have even considered cheating no matter how hot the girl was. While I appreciate that people in this thread seem to be responding genuinely, it disgusts me how many people say "I would cheat if XYZ reason".

Look, I understand. I'm human like everyone else. If you had somehow dragged my favorite fictional waifu into the real world and she wanted me, of course that synapse of temptation would fire in my brain. But I would never betray someone I love like that.

If I was a woman reading this shit I'd be getting blackpilled hard. If you don't want to be with the person you're with, then end the relationship. I get that it might be difficult if you're married, live together, have kids, whatever. But cheating will always be the worst option.

Just find a girl who's into free use or something. Or maybe you can have an honest conversation early in the relationship about how you're terrified you'll one day be stuck in a sexless marriage. Make her understand your perspective and why you feel that way. If she's an empathetic person (your wife should be like that anyway) then she will understand and try hard to accommodate you, just like you should do for her.

Stop telling random 4channers about your relationship issues and TELL HER INSTEAD. Fucking hell.

>>29665679
Why do you gay men keep marrying women?

>>29664792 (OP)
None, because Christ is king

>>29664792 (OP)
It's simple: I have never nor will I ever consider cheating on my wife.
>In 15 years she never tried to nudge or change me, accepts me the way I am - so do I
>She's a monster in bed that not only does what I like but likes it too
My wife is sort of like my best (female) friend who happens to be a perfect match for my sexual appetites.
So no matter what type of woman, it would be a worse experience and fuck everything up that I have.
It's simple: When I'm horny I can grab my wife and fuck her the way I want and she enjoys it since I make sure she has reasons to enjoy it. There's just not a single emotional or sexual reason for me to become unfaithful.
And even if there was I'd end the relationship before I'd thank her for all the years by banging some slut behind her back. I'm an asshole but I'm not such an asshole.

>>29664792 (OP)

I could never see myself cheating because I refuse to let myself get into a circumstance where it's possible. That being said, I think it would be as emotional as it would be physical.

>meet someone
>connection develops
>gradual uptick in communication
>risqué topics are broached
>etc
>eventually I'm blowing my load balls-deep in someone else
>shame and regret to follow

I'm happily married for the most part, and I love my wife. But I also only really care for myself in the sense that when I want something, as long as nobody finds out it's no harm.

So I have cheated on her many times, several times with various escorts including a shemale once, and several times on grindr and other apps where I'd hook up with femboys.

I love her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but the only reason I've stopped doing it now is that it's causing us to have less sex and that's causing friction in the relationship, plus I don't want to end up catching an STD and passing it onto her.

>>29664792 (OP)
Well technically it wouldnt be "cheating" since its not a competition, and my wife of 11 years now has a very logical view of lust and love.
I have a couple of FwB, mostly gay bottoms since shes more comfortable with that, but there is a girl she used to be roommates with. Cute face, little chubby, big tits and loves to have them abused.

For me it would have to be my wife wanting to watch me fuck another woman. I’m 35, my wife is hot and sucks or fucks me once a day and I’m not taking that for granted.

Not married

But I was nearly married until I found out my fiance fell out of love with me and was having an affair months prior to our wedding date. Since then I realized monogamy is dead so cheated on every girl I've had after the break up with my fiance since it's a cheat or be cheated on world.

>>29666354
Exactly, it’s either: all the sex beforehand was bait and switch and you wanted to settle down with literally anyone with a job and not a complete loser; you’ve gone off sex either due to hormones or whatever reason but you don’t value me or our relationship to at least make me cum once in a while, or you’re getting it elsewhere.

happily married with 6 kids here

i also have a cheating kink and have been hypersexual since i first hit puberty; cheated on almost every partner i had

an attractive, petite, intelligent, girl who was seductive with me would be hard to pass up

i wish i wasn't like this, it makes my life significantly harder for pretty short term feels

>>29664792 (OP)
Interesting thread, and if it wasn't for /gif/ then I would probably blogpost. But here is a snippit I guess. Together with my wife for 20 years (married 13) and I started cheating on her about 10 years ago I guess. After a while I stopped, not because of guilt but I didn't have the need to do it anymore. Then about a year or 2 ago I started again and it's insane how much of my time goes out to cheating / finding a woman to fuck. I now have a mistress (also married) that I see a few times a year. I just ended it with a FWB (who was single and knew I was married) and I did a lot of anal stuff with her which was amazing.. I've been seeing whores as well but I am trying not to, because I know I can get it for free but sometimes it's just nice to have a type of body you can't usually get.

>>29664792 (OP)
I've never cheated with any of my partners and I hope I keep it that way with my fiancee, as she's the love of my life.
My worst nightmares involve sexual dreams in which I realise I'm not having sex with my partner and I'm cheating on her only to either keep doing it under the pretense of 'it's already done' or get convinced by the hoe to shut up about it. I wake up tense and nauseating from them.

I've had a kink for sexual workers since I met one on tinder a couple of years back and kept having dates for a couple of months, so I half-heartedly fantasize about introducing one in our routine (not gonna happen) or fuck one and never speak about it.

In the end I don't think I'll ever cheat because I'm too empathic with my partner and I know it would destroy us both emotionally and ruin our loving and caring relationship and life project together, which both on paper and irl (especially in this day and age) is dumb as fuck to say the least.

>>29667294
Jesus was a false prophet and your god is a superstition

>>29667437

And you feel no shame in this?

>>29666354
If your wife stops fucking you she doesn't really love you. At least not in the way she's supposed to.

>>29664915
Insane sell on that 3rd dude in the gym.

>>29664792 (OP)
Love my missus to bits, but frankly out of the few women I've shagged in my life, all of them have ranged from various levels of chubby to one who was just downright fat. My wife is also on the controlling side. Additionally, I have never, not once had a woman I wasn't fucking or related to compliment my looks or personality unprompted, and I have never been actively romantically pursued by anyone. If a regular-sized or skinny girl showed interest in me or pursued me, I don't know if I would be able to stay faithful. Which isn't great for my self esteem.
Then again, I'm too tired to cheat, and no one I know would want to.

up

As a fellow married man that never cheated on my girl. I think the only possible scenario where I could crack would be a threesome with two flatchested skinny girls, and only if there's a guarantee that my girl would not discover.

>>29664792 (OP)
Ynbaw

>>29664792 (OP)
33/m/US here

None, I took a vow to God that I would remain loyal and faithful in sickness AND in health. Jerking off is already bad enough but I could never be brought to having sex with another person as long as I live. It would take some serious mental gymnastics and probably drug use to even begin to bend that and at that point it's basically rape.

I'm 41 but I'm basically fucked in the head. We have two small kids now and I still constantly think about sex, I'll goon every day or two. We still have a decent sex life but it's actually been hard for me to cum my entire life. I can do it if I don't touch myself for a week. She's also always tired (mom of two young kids) but we'll still do it once a week or a little more often. I wish she was more enthusiastic, she's always yawning and falling asleep or talking about random household related things - you know how it goes. But I can't fault her. She still gives me a blowjob every single time.

I've cheated on every partner I've had (including her, but only once or twice before marriage). I felt overwhelming guilt, to the point that I slept horribly for months, and never did it again, and I don't think I ever would again, I don't like that feeling of guilt.

If anyone has any suggestions for dealing with delayed ejaculation I'd love to hear them. I know not gooning all the time helps, but I'm often so horny I can't function.

>>29664792 (OP)
My wife is the only woman I've ever been with, and she's really the only one who has ever shown any interest. We're both awkward weirdos and I'm lucky to have her and I would obviously never cheat on her.

But there's this woman I see at work conferences sometimes. We have the same interests, she's super cute, and even I can see how flirty she is with me, even though I'm usually oblivious to that kind of stuff...if anyone it would be with her

>>29665757
That would be a good setup. If you can seduce her, you can fuck her. Just no telling her of it arrangement and have to send pictures.

>at the bar with my wife and friend
>went to go look at some pictures for sale with my friend leaving my wife at the bar alone
>get back and she excitedly told me about how some guy hit on her.
>absolutely made her day
>had to pretend to be the jealous husband even though I was diamonds at the thought of this stranger bending her over in the bathroom fucking hey brains out

>>29664792 (OP)
there's nothing that could make me do that to her

>>29664792 (OP)
38-year-old here. I started dating my wife when She was 25 and I was 33. Her sex drive was insatiable, and she's 5'1 with a very slim tight body and big tits, so we were fucking all the time. Unfortunately, her drive has slowed to a crawl since we married, I'm afraid a woman who wants to please me and acts invested would tempt me pretty hard.

>>29664916
It's more about the complexity of marriage and divorce... the deeper you get into marriage the less chance of "just ending" the relationship becomes a thing. Sure you can separate, but there's usually all sorts of other baggage attached that make it difficult to just walk away.

>>29664792 (OP)
In order for me to cheat on my wife it would have to be a one time thing and I never see the woman again. And she has to be worth it. But my wife is great so the chances of that happening is slim.

When I was still single, my friends and I would occasionally go to the red-light district when we went out for drinks. We had a lot of fun going to strip clubs, and I fucked some dimepieces. I haven't been there in a very long time. But still, whenever I'm near that district, I get a "tingling" sensation. I know that sounds weird, but I feel drawn to that place. I try to avoid it as much as I can. I don't know what my "breaking point" would be, and for my marriage's sake, I don't want to test it.

>>29665041
Similar situation.
Took a “break” with my current gf, got sucked into the hypnotic hands of psychospiritual girl.
My main girl is by all boxes checked perfect in partnership. Communicator, thoughtful, fun, decent looking.
Except, I never got that sinking feeling in my stomach when I first saw her.
Not like psychospiritual girl has one of those faces I could stare at all day and need an inhaler because my breath taken away. I know she’ll get older, but the look in her face won’t fade.

I’m afraid I don’t have that with current GF. And this will eventually lead me to cheat. Even if she’ll make the perfect partner/mother.

Tldnr; If im not hypnotically attracted to gf, im prone to wandering eyes.

If anyone chose the 49% psychospiritual girl. Let me know how it’s going.

>>29664792 (OP)
I love my Wife deeply. Been together for 8 years.

I am not a one night stand kind of guy. I'd like to consider myself "slut proof".
So what kind of woman would make me break?
1. I am totally helpless against soft-voiced, doting women. But my Wife is already that. So this girl would either have to
A. Out-dote my Wife. Which would be cartoonish. If my Wife were any more doting she'd be a slave lol.
B. Turn my Wife against me, so she could fill the doting vacum.

>this is /gif/ so give us sexier details
I like heavy tits and wide hips. So she cant be muscular, fat, or nubile.

But I am not a one night stsnd guy. So it'd probsbly end up as a 2 Wife situation.

>>29667812
>If anyone has any suggestions for dealing with delayed ejaculation I'd love to hear them
poppers and edibles, doubt your wife will be cool with either

I wouldn’t cheat but i think a tomboy if anything, or a redhead (not ginger)

>>29664792 (OP)

There isn't a woman on this planet that could provide an alternative life to what i currently have with my wife. She has provided so much and given me everything i have ever wanted.

Asian tomboy since my wife is very girly

>>29664792 (OP)
>not from mean misogynistic incels

Where do you think you are?

Married for 10 years, deeply in love but comfortable, can feel her libido slowly ebbing away.
I wouldn't dare cheat on her, and neither would she with me, but I know she's got an intense jealousy kink, and if I did something behind her back, I'd want her to find out. Her heart would break, but she would be completely fucking soaking wet and horny the entire time.
And that makes me diamonds. I want to cheat just to make her cum harder.

>>29664916
it's simple you fucking retard.

humans naturally lose sexual interest in their partner after 5-10 years. look up any data on this, including couples who don't have children.

it's probably a biological thing. people want to fuck other people. it doesn't mean you don't love your partner.

>>29667247
Jeez, someone's triggered.
"It didn't work out"
Sounds like you where the one who got cheated on.

I would not. I would end the relationship if I was seriously going to do it, but I can't see that happening in my lifetime.

If she were to pass away even I think I would struggle to want anyone else for many years, and even then strictly physically. Though if your desperate for a type I would seek eventually if that happened, I'd probably go to Thailand and get some cuties. Unlikely since I'm 6 years older than my wife.

I am appalled by a lot of these replies from people who "genuinely love" their partner. My wife is my best friend. We've been through big weight gain and back again, there have been times I didn't feel the most attracted to her, it is insanity that so many guys use that as a cue it's time to destroy her emotionally just to get off.

Anyway, that's a response from someone ACTUALLY in love, and likely the only real responses you'll get will sound similar.

some stories:

>be in a happy 6 year relationship
>we got together when her BF cheated on her with my GF
>starts casual FWB, doesn't turn into anything serious until later
>bedroom eventually dies even though friendship and relationship is incredibly strong

First
>chatting with former mutual FWB
>she just got off meds and is horny all the time
>severe trust issues and doesn't wanna ride the cock carousel
>starts talking about her masturbation and toys
>sends me pics
>starts dressing up for me and sending me more pics
>at a party, get drunk as fuck. GF passes out early. FWB and I get handsy in the back yard
>she starts playing with my crotch. I get handsy with her boobs
>bend her over a bench and butt fuck her
>after, start to sneak over to her place on the regular
>she dresses up for me
>gets lots of toys
>sends nudes constantly
>asks me to spank her so hard it leaves a mark
>i'm diamonds about this
>next week, FWB does yoga with GF.
>GF sees bruises, recognizes it was me immediately
>big fight, lots of crying.
>we're still together
>bedroom is still dead
>FWB is still friends with us.

Apparently, you're an incel if you shame women who cheat. Lol, that word doesn't even mean anything anymore.

Call me whatever you want, I'm not missing out on anything by not having YOUR respect.

>>29664792 (OP)
She'd need to be chubby, submissive, and give absurdly degenerate head
But even then I'd probably get away from her before giving in. I want to grow old with my wife

>>29667936
Second

>complicated old friend
>she's borderline SA'd me before
>either gets me really drunk or keeps me out until I'm tired
>would offer her bed/couch
>rips off my pants and starts sucking my dick
>history of constantly cheating on all of her boyfriends
>frequently with me
>she moved away

>she reaches out
>in town for the weekend
>I tell GF I'm getting dinner with her to get hot gossip
>get dinner
>friend asks if I wanna drink wine at her airbnb
>sounds nice
>we chat for a few more hours
>she starts talking about the last relationship and her fetish/sex
>I do too
>eventually, she walks over to me and says
"sorry, I need to do this"
>leans onto me while I'm sitting in a chair
>giant tits pressed into my chest
>grabs the back of my head and starts making out with me
>goes on for 30 seconds or so
>when she breaks off, I tell her we probably shouldn't do this
>go to leave, but grab her by the back of the hair, shove her against the wall and put my tounge down her throat
>say something like "that's a taste you can play with yourself too"
>i really get off on the idea of women masturbating to me
>leave

She just reached back out to me and wants to meet up in a week. Should I do it?

>>29664792 (OP)
>I want responses from people who ACTUALLY love and like their partners
>What type of girl would make you cheat and why? (and how)

These are contradictory statements. I won't cheat on my wife specifically because I love her.

>>29664792 (OP)
My wife was fat. That's not a bad thing I liked it a lot. She was insecure about it, her low confidence was unfortunate. I'm not sure if I'd ever leap into cheating on her, ironically were split cos she cheated on me. I think though it's not about some special quality in a woman that would cause a man to cheat, if he's truly happy at home. I think it's just wanting to taste a different flavour, I'd be most tempted by a thin woman, thigh gap, cute ass, perky tits. I'd want to try that. So that's my answer.

>>29667936
>>29667864

Just be GF's with both of them you utter fucking retards. It's literally what I'm doing and it's working better than my regular marriage ever did.

When you understand female psychology, come back.

>>29667841
Why did her sex drive fall off cliff? How to prevent this?

>>29664792 (OP)
I don't need to cheat. My wife and I are nudists and swingers and more in love than when we first got together as teenagers.

>>29664817
That sounds like a fucking nightmare.
I don't blame you for cheating

>>29664792 (OP)
Married 9 years
Happy no issues
Wife still gives occasional blowjobs
Likes that I watch porn and will lick balls sometimes while I masturbate cause thats easier than sex
Still have sex maybe once a week
Wouldnt cheat
Only money could make me 10 mil + as she would be mad at me for turning that down
Was with 20 women prior to wife
No sexual experience would be worth cheating
Find a good woman who loves you and you love, never feel like cheating... its easy bros
>No but really i'm lucky, so I 100% wouldnt cheat but from past relationships I totally understand why some men would.

>>29664792 (OP)
My wife and I have been non-monogamous for 2+ years. We fuck 4-5 times per week and I fuck 1-3 other women per week. It's not cheating when she happily licks my dick clean when I get home.

Except she's pregnant now and hasn't wanted to fuck much since, so now I just fuck the other women.

>>29664823
Same

>>29668011
this anon gets it, nothing inspires women like competition

>>29668019
If a woman loses interest in sex it's because she either never had good sex or gave up on the idea of having good sex with you

>>29667864
Married the psychospiritual girl, am getting (messily) divorced

I'm not married but I'm gonna be moving in with this girl that I'm gonna marry as soon as we have the money.

I honestly think I have a problem with cheating tho. I already cheated on her once with a man with a fatter ass than her and I've also sent nudes to people on discord and shit.

>What type of girl would make you cheat and why? (and how)
For me it's all about sex appeal and how bad you want me. I can't see myself "emotionally" cheating or whatever, where a man spends time with another woman and really just likes her more than his wife. I've heard of that but that's not me. You have to have a bigger ass or tits or something.

She's so great to me for giving me another chance. But I think there's something wrong with me. There's such a thrill to that shit and I just love being lusted after. I'm such a shitty person.

>>29664792 (OP)
married 10 years. i know there are women out there that can make a man forget his marriage exists, thankfully they would almost certainly ask if one was married, and would decline the man if they were. in this way, a married man is safe, all he has to do is only find the attractive women attractive. a woman cannot be considered attractive if she has sex pics of herself on the web. the best whores in this place cannot hold a candle to some of the women out there in the real world on any metric.

>>29668159
>I already cheated on her once with a man with a fatter ass than her
sounds like you're a turbofag anon, leave her before you give her aids

>>29664792 (OP)
I don't think I'd ever cheat, but if my wife got really out of shape I would probably have a hard time coping, and what makes it worse is that today you're basically considered a monster if you say it'd bother you if your wife gets fat...

>>29665337
me except she has the libido and I don't because she put on over 100lbs since being pregnant and uses "I was just pregnant last year" excuse as to why she won't work out but even telling her "your weight has become an issue" devolves into her screaming "you're calling me fat!! I'm ugly/unattractive/yadda" and at this point I'm about to just start hooking up with her friend or a dude because I'm losing my fucking mind being the sole provider and only getting the option to fuck my girlfriend who went from the body of a chubby fertility goddess to a loose sack of potatoes. On top of that she only ever wants missionary or doggy because she's so fucking fat she cant ride or bend anymore. How do people not realize when they're this fat? I'm a chubby guy with a bit of a gut but she's literally gone from being smaller than me to almost double my size.

>>29668019
>>29668096
Nah, we've talked about this extensively. On the rare occasion we do have sex, it's great. She's completing a PhD and her priorities are with that right now, but, and I know you faggots will get a kick out of this, she comes from a hypersexual background, abuse, etc, and since she's matured in basically every aspect of her person and life, she no longer prioritizes sex. I know, I know, save it.

>>29664792 (OP)
>>29664792 (OP)
Married with 3 young kids.
Wouldn't cheat, sex isn't frequent lately, but there isn't a breaking point.
Although the neighbors hot wife has been conveniently changing infront of their window when I'm outside in the evening. She was also the former babysitter/maid to her now husband and previous wife...
Can't say I haven't thought about it.

>>29664792 (OP)
I married outside my type.
I married the quintessential good girl trope.
She’s blonde white and has an elvish, ethereal, and somewhat unconventionally beautiful face. A body that would be painted in resistance era. Thing is she never had a father figure growing up so she doesn’t really know how to treat men. Sexually its completely boring missionary but there is deep love there but it’s just a little same-y. It’s not all her fault I’ve always been self conscious about talking dirty and spicing things up. She rushes through a BJ, her handjob skills are non existent and so far anal is off the table but she tries… bless her, and I love her. She has body insecurities and thus doesn’t really dress provocatively anymore, hides her legs.

My type however has always been young troubled gutter trash. Tattoos, wild, dark hair, floppy bra-less boobs under t-shirts. Basically anything thing that is the polar opposite of my wife is dangerous.
I’ve always been flirty with all women and my impulse control is pretty bad. I hate that I probably would cheat if it was presented to me on a silver platter, and there would be no chance of it being found out. I just don’t trust women to keep their mouths shut.
I’ve definitely encountered many willing women but I’ve never taken the bait yet. I’ve strongly suspect I’ve had women pursue me just to see if they could get me to cheat to prove I’m not the loving husband I present myself to be.
My real kryptonite is tall women. I’m 6’2 and have been looking down at women my whole life.
The other day I was at a coffee shop and there was a wedding going on at a nearby park. A woman came into the coffee shop dressed to the 9s she was like 6’3 and an absolute Amazon wearing a dress with a slit up middle so you could see her colossally long toned leg… she looked like a different species compared to my wife. Also Asians… black girls, and a very passing trans if given the right circumstances.

>>29668312
lmao we are learning things. guys with good wives on here would stick their penis in another mans filthy anus if given the chance. please forgive me if i am not surprised

>>29668096
>nigga don't know what hormones are

>>29664863
thx
>>29666676
that's Mal Malloy bro
>>29668050
Aye, it's horrible, imagine loving someone for 15 years then getting the rug pulled from under you and she goes from a 10/10 to a 4/10 out of her own stupid choices

>>29664792 (OP)
Exactly that woman in your post

>>29668356
Man the Harpoons!

>>29668323
you're not forgiven, KYS

>>29668323
I’ve learned that good wives should try letting their husbands stick it in their ass.

>>29664792 (OP)
Never really cheated on my wife, but I did stole her from another man. It was very hot to fuck her in a hotel, while her husband was calling and she just threw the phone under the pillow.

>>29668356
revolting

>>29665041
give it a few years once she gains weight and never wants to fuck

Cheating is a matter of definition. My personal definition is "my dick enters her body", so i have never cheated.
I doubt she would see it that way though. I have had multiple women play with my dick, sometimes for pay, sometimes for free. I let them, and I don't consider it cheating any more than I would consider jacking off cheating. Then again, I'm scum, so take that for what it is worth.

>>29664792 (OP)
>What type of girl would make you cheat
Pretty much any.

>and why?
Being nice to me.

>(and how)
Showing interest.

My wife is a horrible, selfish, cruel person, but we have 4 kids and I was molested by my stepfather growing up, so I don't want to put the kids at risk by divorcing and her remarrying someone who would be in a position to do that to them.

>>29668405
And next she's cheating on you.
Can't deny it either.
Never wife a cheater.

>>29668405
i had a buddy do that, she had three kids with him then abandoned him and the three children. now he's fat, cooked, living off child benefits while unemployed, and will have no source of income when they are 18, unless his kids support him which doesnt seem very reliable. his life is pretty much ruined because of cheating

>>29664792 (OP)
None. Point blank.

If some bitch wants me to cheat then I know she’s a shit terrible person. It’s bad behavior that only causes harm. It’s also a sign of weakness.

>>29664792 (OP)
Death penalty for all cheaters and liars.

This is my perspective: my wife and I got married after 6 months because I knocked her up within 3 months of knowing her. I thought I was doing the right thing by marrying her so I could support her and the baby. Turns out she was fucking insane. I tried to leave her in the first year because she cheated on me and was doing drugs while breastfeeding (and I found out she was doing some while pregnant) but my lawyer told me I would definitely lose custody of my kids because of some local semantics. I started sexting people online, going to strip clubs, Asian massage parlors, etc. my wife is movie star level attractive, and I am a successful, muscular, 9-inch-cock having Chad, but because I have been caught cheating so much I know that she would clean me out in a divorce. For some reason, she won’t leave me. Anytime I try to divorce, I get told I will lose everything. The emasculation of feeling like I can’t get away from her has done serious damage to my psyche. I’m now at a point where I have a serious cuckold humiliation fetish and I’m constantly hoping she cheats on me again, but she hasn’t since the first time I caught her. In public she disrespects me, but in private she will give me total free reign over her body. I hate her as much as I love her and I wouldn’t wish this type of relationship on my worst enemy. I think the only reason why she stays with me is because she knows that I’m still the best guy she’d ever get to be with, whereas I have hired a lawyer to try and divorce three separate times. I give up each time because I am not ready to risk never seeing my kids again to get away from her.

>>29668592
that's so hot

>>29664792 (OP)
My sister

>>29664792 (OP)
Married in an almost cinderella story to the love of my life, she is the perfect puzzle piece to fit my dirt poor upbringing. I have no idea why I'm hypersexual considering I didn't grow up exposed to porn at a young age and was never sexually assaulted. My hypersexuality/goonerism makes it really hard to stay monogamous despite not beating my meat all too often. Some girls, I've gotten very close to faltering, especially the sweet and lithe like my coworker whom on her own does small harmless stuff on its own like referring to me as her "work hubby" and always trying to be paired with me for a business trip or carpooling to and from work. It's really getting hard, part of me wants to give her a baby but I know it'll ruin everything I've built up with my own hands. She's thin with a shapely physique, pale, trails her voice when she talks, can always tell when I'm worried. My wife is also amazing, girl next door/random cashier at Trader Joe's beautiful, can actually cook and packs me my lunches, always looking to please since I'm the only one she has over here since she gave up her former citizenship. I'm a dirtbag who put himself in a self fabricated rock and a hard place

>>29668592
female hands typed this

>>29664792 (OP)
It's just not going to happen. Sorry to break your fantasy.
I WILL get depressed over the missed opportunity, regret it and consider myself an idiot, but I won't cheat.
I know because I had multiple opportunities to cheat, but choose not to every single time. At this point, why start now?
I guess my breaking point would be a scenario where we can turn back time a couple decades. But at that point, we're all bitcoin billionaires, is it really cheating when you can buy the person outright?

>>29664792 (OP)

To be frank with you, I've had several opportunities to cheat on my wife and I sometimes fantazise with it, but I've also destroyed a great relationship before this one for dicking around, so I'm very careful of not letting myself be in a spot where I may cheat.

It's really a thing of the situation and the right person. I know which women I should never be left alone with because some flirting may lead to stuff I may later regret, although the flirting is indeed very fun.

My situation is similar to >>29664834
My wife wouldn't tolerate even a kiss in an alley, and we've worked hard for this relationship for me to ruin it on some fifteen minute fuck with someone I don't care for as much.

Kill yourself whore. Die, get raped.

>>29664792 (OP)
I hope I would never cheat on my wife, but I fantasize about it every day. I love my wife but she's gotten unattractively fat. Her stomach is droopy and she sits around in pajamas all the time. I occasionally work out but she never joins me. I feel repulsed whenever she wants to have sex. I love her but I just wish to God she would lose weight.

>>29668645
>>29668609
These are super interesting responses and I’m curious if you could both expand upon them. Clearly I can’t talk to anybody about this and the few times I’ve tried therapy or counseling have felt like complete wastes of time. An unfiltered opinion would be great

Took the cheating pill on my last marriage.
Had 2 different exes who still wanted to hook up and once I gave into one of them (the Nurse), then it became easier to justify banging the other one (the Psychologist).
Once I was busy dumping loads into them and feeling a bit guilty, it was almost nothing to take the Office Secretary up on her offer of "breakfast" at her apartment before work (there was no food involved).
Most spergs will think this is a larp, but it's not - the last 2 years of my marriage I had 4 women in rotation, including the Wife.
My balls were so drained that one night the Wife asked me why my cum volume seemed to be lower than it normally was, since she was a champion swallower and could tell my load was smaller than normal.
Truth is, I had dumped a mouthful into the Office Secretary that morning, then visited the Nurse at her place in the afternoon where she sucked one out of me, only to have the Wife want to gobble one down in the evening. Third load, third mouth that day.
The Psychologist was a redhead who wanted doggy and to be choked with a collar and leash.
All the women knew I was married. None cared.
I am telling you guys - the "cheating" was bad, but having that kind of arrangement in your life definitely works wonders on your self-esteem.
Wife never found out.

>>29668769
do you want real advice or "fuck my life over" kinky advice? real advice would be to buy her flowers, treat her with respect and make the best of your life. the other path would be to start asking her if she thinks other guys are cute etc. once she starts cheating she will become miserable mess and start doing drugs again and turn your life into a flaming chinese sewer. then divorce will be inevitable and youll get cleared out and be finished. so thats the advice. really she seems able to be influenced for better or worse, she has saw a lot of contempt from you for the cheating with the divorce attempts. you clearly cant get over it properly which is why you have the kink fetish. i get it, my first gf cheated on me but she wasnt preggers so i dumped her for that. but you have to face it every day. but seems in some ways shes trying to live a dignified life. maybe forgive and forget. but that means no more kink fetish, because thats keeping the kink alive. and thats gonna be basically impossible since we have our minds in the gutter. so youre gonna have to learn how to deal and not light up the shitstorm, maybe with age she will calm down. seems to be the case in my marriage

>>29668781
she never found out but y'all got divorced. women have a sixth sense for immorality. its basically impossible to get up to hijinks of consequence. it will come to them in their dreams or whatever. now for guys the same isnt true of course, i feel terrible if an honest guy has his woman sleeping around and he doesnt know, there is not really any way for us to figure it out.

>>29664916
So you have been married for what? 5 years? I have been married 34 years. I would cheat because the opportunity comes up with someone I can probably get away with. "I would just end the relationship"... comes from a person who doesn't have any idea what kind of nightmare it is to just walk away from the kids, house co-mingled everything to start anew under oppressive alimony and child care payments. Pro-tip, you don't get to walk away. You lose your business, your kids access to your home everything. No one in government gives a shit that you did the right thing. Most of the people answering, didn't read the damn question. Cheating isn't an option, it is the only avenue left for anyone who has been married over 25 years. Oh and the wife...eventually she will stop having sex with you. Usually after menopause, they tend to dry up and sex no matter how great you think you are, just isn't worth it.

>>29665103
This guy gets it..
The other part is also true.. an 18 year old girl says "Eat my Pussy" and you are all over that shit... A 58 Year old woman says "Eat my pussy" and you have a neck ache, back ache... trust me..it is not the same.....

>>29668619
This, in a heartbeat

Had something longer typed out; accidentally deleted.

Basically - meet up with me with initially platonic intent, get me drunk, then make it extremely apparent that you met up with me under false pretenses and were absolutely intending to lure me into fucking you. Dress slutty in a plausibly deniable way; crotchless thong and a buttplug underneath - or get creative. Make it absolutely obvious, with zero nuance or class or room for doubt.

I like surprises. This would break me instantly.

>>29664792 (OP)
I wouldn't cheat on my wife. We're just too compatible in all the ways that matter, sexually and otherwise. Any other woman would be a downgrade. There was a time in my life where I would have done so, but that was over a decade ago.

>>29667812
Not looking at porn to jerk will make you more sensitive to arousal from your woman.
Either jerk without porn or stop jerking its most likely mental

>>29665103
Been married for 15yrs with multiple kids as well. Get bjs a couple times a week, sex twice a day, and more adventurous stuff a few times a month. The way you carry yourself matters, I dont even get nagged. And when women flirt with me I see it as an attack on my children and am a complete asshole to them ( and yes it happens often). You can do better.

>>29668847
Son, women have plenty of tells. If you can't tell, you don't know your wife as well as you think you do. I had an ex pull it on me and the way I found out was oddly that we were having way *more* sex than normal out of nowhere, and after maybe about a week it dawned on me that this was a very abrupt change in behavior that had no obvious impetus. So I asked her, knowing that +something+ was up, what had changed and she gave me a total non-answer. I figured it was cheating, so I basically just started fucking her without any concern over whether or not she came and the psycho fuckin loved it. So I just casually asked her who she'd been fucking right after blowing a load in her eye and she just started crying and admitted it right there. Asked her why and basically said she was too embarrassed to admit that she liked rougher sex than I was giving because I thought she liked it gentler - which I light of how I'd been fucking her was hilarious because the whole thing could have been avoided if she'd just been straightforward about what she wanted, and doubly sm because she was still trying to get my juice out of her eye while explaining it and sobbing. She didn't find my laughter very funny.

Anyway she left of her own accord and moved back in with her parents. She swore they used condoms but I still got an STI panel done and it was clear, and she never got pregnant so I guess she was at least not being completely retarded; just mostly.


I know you'll all abhor me for this but
Some year or so later she reached out and apologized, and had been seeing a therapist, and we ended up being pretty good buds. I'd never admit it to her but hatefucking her was some of the hardest I've ever nutted, but I'm not a retard so I'd never even try it again. Current wife better anyway.

>>29664792 (OP)
If you want a real answer, the only thing that made me cheat was insecurity that I hadn't dealt with. We didn't have the word "incel" back then, but I was so fucked up from what I know recognize as jewish degenerate conditioning through media that I would respond to any female who have me any attention long after I had been having regular great sex and had been with multiple women (even 2 at once.)
Looking back, it was very unsatisfying and I was acting out of compulsion and not desire.
I don't think I would cheat now, but that's also because I don't want to bring home a disease. I used to trust condoms, not I don't anymore.
If like to think I'm over my weakness, but who knows? It's not like they try very hard anymore. I'm old now.
Also, drawing women when I took up art helped. Is like the buffalo bill thing, but instead of wearing them I'm creating the image. It puts it into perspective when you realize it's just fucking light hitting your eyes.
I'd totally fuck the midget who used to be in the little big videos.
I guess I have no idea.

>>29668956
bro i got the same answer from my ex-gf even before i got sloppy seconds, i know how to tell if they are cheating. what i meant if there is some woman out there who is smart enough to do it without changing behavior. if they exist. maybe that is why men are born with more neurons, to catch the change in patterns of their behavior, maybe they arent smart enough to do it on the down low. all these women in careers and school they spend a lot of time out of the house. its concerning. if they can go out and drill a bunch of guys and come home and act normal a lot of guys would be cooked

>>29668011
I would but I already tried that with GF. The sex was great, but GF #2 was a psycho whos insecurity drove both of us to the point of near suicide. We agreed we're never doing that again, and GF prefers FWB as a BFF instead of as a sister wife.

>>29664792 (OP)
Nothing would make me cheat
This is anonymous, I would have nothing to gain by lying
Even at my absolute horniest I never forget my wife or how much I adore her
There's absolutely women out there who could raise my heartrate, but none of them could entice me to even hold their hand in an intimate way. I have zero interest in betraying my wife. It's not like I'm interested but something is keeping me from doing it, I'm entirely repelled by the very idea.

>>29664792 (OP)
Only a little girl (between 9 and 14) may make me cheat. I'm a pedo and this would probably the once in a lifetime chance.
That's it.

>>29668808
I get your advice but my wife never stopped being a psychopath, she just never cheated again. She still lies, controls, avoids accountability, and freaks out regularly. I’m talking running through the street at 3 in the morning type freak outs. Funny thing about her is she doesn’t want anyone to know I cheated on her, but she will routinely tell people that I beat her. I have never laid a hand on her. I’ve had to sleep at hotels and record her freaking out in my house just in case she ever tried to call the police on me for her lies. You’re assuming she’s a normal woman when she is actually the most two faced manipulative snake I’ve ever met. She puts on a perfect mask in public but at home it’s a constant fucking fight with her. Recently I was working so hard I was out of the house for over 16 hours 6 days out of the week. When I was home I was sleeping on the couch. When that period of work was done, I started cleaning and realized that this bitch had completely trashed my house to the point where I was terrified someone would call cps on us. I’m talking garbage piled up several feet in the kids’ rooms, dirt everywhere, piles of dirty diapers, maggots on the floor, etc. it took me 2 months to clean it and she didn’t help a single time. A month after I finished, I get told that I never clean because she’s started running loads of laundry at night. It’s literal insanity with her. The kink stuff I’ve tried to figure out. I’ve tried swinger clubs, nudist resorts, etc. but idk. Again she is this insane, but I could go home and tell her I want to piss in her mouth and she would get on her knees and open wide for me.

>>29669112
Yeah this bitch sounds clinically insane. I had a mutual friend with the same issue but worse, mother of the children was a heroine addict and it took him 4 years and damn near $60k (in 2012 money) for him to get sole custody of the children. The mother being a neglectful drug addict is literally the only way to beat the stacked divorce courts as a man.
Set up security cameras. Secret and small ones in most rooms in the house, my favorite method of this is cameras inside fire/carbon monoxide detectors. Set them up in trees outside your house/apartment whatever that captures her going outside being a psycho. Get baby cameras for the inside of your cars that take SD cards so you can capture her in her prime. Give her a ring camera or two and set them up on all doors. Give her the illusion those are the only two cameras, and trust me you will see the either disregard of it (giving you evidence, a good thing) or her change her attitude while around them. True psychopaths will do the latter, sociopaths do the former. If she's a sociopath, divorcing her becomes much easier since she won't try *true* emotional manipulation of you and the kids (women always do it but true psychopaths are able to do this on a much higher plane).
>film her
>capture her being neglectful
>THEN get a lawyer when you have evidence
Google to make sure you don't live in a US state that has ANY kind of adultry laws on the books, because if you do, your cheating kink has already made it impossible for you to divorce with any kind of custody or without getting fleeced for all you have.

I do have a very odd feeling though that your wife is someone who mentally requires a partner with a strong hand. Not as in striking or abusing her, but mentally and emotionally dominating her. I dated a girl who is right up this alley, would tell people (facetiously but frequently) that I hit her and I'm abusive but legitimately got off on me being so dominating in the relationship.

>>29665337
this naturally happens and you probably can't do much about it, but do you think it's possible she's kinda repressed and gets off on domination but doesn't realize it?

>>29668229
ozempic or ozempic alternatives would literally fix this problem with minimal effort on her part.

>>29668956
>the way I found out was oddly that we were having way *more* sex than normal
Can totally relate.
>be me
>happily married 12 years
>wife starts having "issues" like depression, but not that often
>we go on yearly trip to the beach with the kids
>for the entire vacation, wife acts like we're on honeymoon
>I'm getting blowjobs every morning
>face fucking is back on the menu
>wife even wants to do some anal
I'm walking around thinking that she got her mojo back and we're the happiest couple alive.
>go back home, depression returns to wife
>starts acting distant
>says she "needs to find herself"
>cut to the chase - she's been cheating with this guy the whole year
When I eventually asked her what was up during that trip, all she could say to me was she was "trying to see if our marriage could be saved" which was horseshit.
It was finished.

Cheated on my GF earlier this year after a works party.
Didn't set out to do it but we were struggling after our child was born and the stress of that, her post partum nightmare moods and underlying incompatibilities made it more or less inevitable the second someone hot enough came my way.
I'm ashamed to admit that the sex was fucking great. Tight little 20 year old baddie who really knew how to fuck. I fucked her bareback in an alley behind the last bar we were in. I went back to her parents' house and fucked her there. They threw me out. I woke up in the morning in their porch, still drunk, climbed back in through her window and went to town on her. I was about 10 strokes away from unloading in her heavenly young cooch when her stepdad busted into her room and yoinked me off her, which at the time was pretty heated but in hindsight is hilarious. Pulling some jacked almost 40 year old rando out of your wayward slut daughter's hungry snatch and then having him argue with you, fully hard, at 8am.
She bailed out of the house with me and we went out to the woods, smoked a joint and spent an hour going at it.

Anyways I started to sober up shortly after that. The reality of my transgressions dawned on me. Started walking home, called the gf and confessed (she works with us, she was at the party, she already figured something had gone down). She went through all of the classic tropes. Threw all my stuff out of the house in black trash bags, kicked me out of my own home... Ahh it was a rough couple of days.
She took me back in very shortly after but it was clear she'd never let go of it and I definitely didn't expect her to. My mistake was really not having the balls to break up with her sooner. We got back to arguing with each other again, not good for baby, I called it a day and left her. I think it broke her mentally quite a lot. I didn't want to hurt her like that. Even though, I still can't stop thinking about that 20 year old pussy.

>>29664792 (OP)
It’s not precisely a body type but someone that can fulfill needs my wife can’t.
Name it affection, sex, just chat. It can be a world of things.
I love my wife, but I can’t deny she is sometimes lacking in certain areas.

>>29669112
sounds like postpartum depression in a bipolar person with borderline personality disorder. women love to think they have postpartum depression and you could use the house mess as a reason for her to see someone. then you email the shrink the stuff you are writing here after you get them to vow that they wont tell her. the shrink puts her on bipolar meds and curbs her mood disorder. maybe lithium or something its not even that bad. but the key is to say you are concerned about her postpartum depression, dont mention bipolar. appeal to her ego. then discretely give the shrink the dirt. and the shrink will give her the meds.

>>29664792 (OP)
I would not cheat on my current partner for anything, because I'm older and not retarded, and while I might have some degen kinks here and there (clearly, I'm fucking posting here and so does she sometimes on other boards), I would not ruin everything I worked so hard to achieve with her.
I did cheat on my previous long-term relationship of about 4 years, though, and would not do it again.

Early 20s, first relationship that lasted more than a year, felt like The One, friends with her friends, etc etc.
One of her friends was this nerdy bookworm with similar interests and we didn't talk often, but when we did it would be for hours. There was an extremely brief period, maybe a week at most, where my ex and I had a "big" fight over something so stupid I don't remember anymore, and this friend messaged me to ask about it. This wasn't out of the norm, both of us kinda confided in her to mediate fights.
We met by chance at the coffee shop I liked, talked for a while, drove her home. She asked me to come inside and keep talking. She kept asking about taking a break, which I refused, and told me she "knew that I loved her but I needed some fresh air".

I can't explain the feeling the moment she reached for a kiss and told me she wouldn't tell. I just sat there and let her suck then ride me. I came quickly, so did the guilt. Left and patched things up with my ex the same day, but now I could only see her friend in a sexual manner. I tried to resist it but mentally, I was already checked out of the relationship and was embarrassed about it. We thankfully broke up over something completely unrelated to this, and I didn't feel bad about it. Stopped seeing the friend after that too. Would not do that again. The feeling of cheating is a void, and the only way you don't feel it is if you don't have a heart to begin with.

>>29664792 (OP)

Take your cuck fantasies elsewhere, reprobate.

2005 Jessica Biel, obviously.

Desperate fugly women 30-35 are crossbreed between sexualy mature and almost teen and if they work out and dress remotely sexy makes me tungsten hard
I met one of those and she sent me pics of her i jerked off and she knew it and probably mentaly hooked me on her body that i started having fantasies about her, imagination made it 5x better than reality
To this day when i see her legs my dick goes hard mode its better we never met

I think men mostly cheat because their wifes libido just dies and they think their husbands should too
All said noone should cheat, exchange lewd pics and jack off but dont cheat

I don't get the mentality behind cheating because my wife and I are 12 years into an open/poly relationship. The poly thing is more recent-about 3 years, and mock it if you want, but its ignorant to assume that any single person can provide 100 percent of the emotional and physical needs another person has. Modern day monogamy is rooted in thousands of years of secular reinforcement. The idea that another "cant have what I already possess."

There are things I need emotionally and physically that my wife can't properly address. I sometimes need to fuck a skinny little trap/tranny up the ass til they cum handsfree while we are playing oldschool doom splitscreen. My wife has a difficult time addressing that mainly because she doesn't have a penis.

Likewise, I dont have a thick pair of tits to tie up til they pop while getting my (nonexistant) clit e-stimmed (cause im a guy), so she goes and sees one of her lesbian honeypots that loves bdsm.

We are pansexual, and with the development of the poly thing, we have been communicating more clearly than ever. She needs to vent about X topic to someone while getting fucked, while I need to vent about Y topic. The problem being we cant stand talking about those topics for one reason or another, so we go hook up with one of our regulars for a good fuck and vent session. Stress flows away from the core of our relationship more easily when we can just fucking talk to someone else sometimes. Its not that we don't circle back around to that issue, but the up-front emotional toll has already been paid, so we can approach it with clearer heads. Its cheaper than therapy, and its nice to change up the bedroom once in awhile.

Never cheated on my wife but came close twice. Both times with my ex, who is the kind of damaged person who craves validation by constantly seeking new relationships then moving on. I was one of them, but we remained friends afterward especially since we coincidentally went to the same community college and had a class together. This happened when we were both 20. She was a petite blonde with blue eye, short hair, and small but sensitive and perky tits.

>driving us home from class one day
>she wants to stop for froyo, so we do
>says she wants to eat it at my place to not make a mess
>on the way the topic of sex comes up somehow
>she tells me about a guy she hooked up with
>"but you're still the only time I've gotten this"
>mimes spreading a pussy and licking it
>boner.png
>"yeah well I love eating my gf's pussy haha"
>still talking about as we walk up to the door
>2 minutes later sitting on the couch together
>she mentions she now has an IUD
>gives me bedroom eyes
>"I've never had a guy cum inside me before..."
>I meet her gaze
>cock the hardest its ever been
>"...I wonder what it's like to feel it drip out..."
>desperately want to show her
>instead I stand up
>"Ok, well thanks for coming over, I can take you home now"
>she seems incredulous
>"That's it? We come her, talk about sex for 2 minutes and leave?"
>"Yep!"
>drive her home
>fap furiously as soon as I get back and cum buckets

I've fapped to the memory of this many times. What it would have been like to just pull down her yoga pants, pin her to the couch, and teach her what it feels like to be cummed inside. That would have been awesome.

But instead I chose to stay loyal to my gf, who is now my wife. I know I made the right choice. But it was a close one, let me tell you.

>>29664792 (OP)
No. Simply not worth it. Sex is a drug. An established life with trust is something different.

>>29664792 (OP)
tits or gtfo

I'm noticing a trend here that most of yinz are only doing this cheating shit because a woman gave you attention. Anyone who says they haven't just haven't gotten attention

With my future wife right now. Perfect woman. Love her. Want to protect her from anything. Couldn't have manufactured a better woman in a laboratory, heart of gold, low maintenance, quiet, intelligent, nerdy, kind, sexy as fuck with the most perfect pussy and ass I've ever seen and tasted. Loves having sex with me loves getting me off and twerking on my face and then cums on my cock, every. Damn. time. Loves making me cum.

Having said that I do have a cheating fetish. Was a bit of prolific fuck boy before her with a body count of 50 or so in the space of 7 years or so, so there's many women from my past I'd want to fuck again and those others whom I could have that I fantasise about, but I could absolutely never ever ever go through with anything, the guilt would be suicidal levels. On a bit of a schizo level I sometimes text random hookers asking them what they offer and if they can fulfil my most insane fetishes just for the fuck of it, and i also imagine going to get a legit massage at an AMP and getting hard and then just seeing what happens, maybe they'll allow me to jack off in front of them but they don't touch - does that count? Idk, it's pretty fucked and something I'm not proud of, but I'd never ever imagine ever actually going through with anything and I would never allow myself to desu.

A man is only as good as the values he lives by. And I intend to remain living by mine and accept the love and life my future wife gives me.

todopoki or any 9 or 10 who doesn't like niggers my wife doesn't either i'm on a blast right now so cheating is always an option doesn't mean i don't love her but i just wanting to ravage some random slut

>>29665337
>>29668229
if you had kids with this bitch, get her on iodine and the necessary cofactors. most people don't get enough iodine and she's probably been sucked dry by the kids and is now hypothyroid and legitimately has no energy or libido
>t. fixed wife with iodine

>>29664792 (OP)
Based on the replies ITT it's revealed that that huge chunk of this board are actually pussywhipped sexually frustrated married closeted fag normies who come here to secretly jack off to cuck, tranny and femboy cock. Cause I cannot imagine why someone with a family would come here in the first place.
No wonder this whole site has been so fucking lame in the last years - it's been completely overran with NPC normalfaggots.

>>29664792 (OP)
Genuinely? None. I wouldn't cheat with anyone. If I was at a point in the relationship where I considered cheating on my wife I'd rather break up or go to therapy.

I'm 40, my wife is 38. We have 4 kids together and very happily married.

With that said I've been cheating on my wife with this 19 year old that works the front desk at the place I work at. I'm ashamed of it to be honest but I cant resist her. She flat out tells me she's trying to wreck my marriage by getting pregnant. I can't resist her

>>29666083
Sure thing cuck

>>29664792 (OP)
>I think every man has a breaking point
You think wrong. I'd never cheat. It's pointless and unnecessary. Sure, sometimes fantasy might wander off and I do watch porn (apparently some people consider that cheating) but my SO knows that. And this never go beyond that.
If I'd really feel that I need to do something considered cheating I'd just end the relationship. Like it's no-brainer for me.

>>29664792 (OP)
TITS OR GTFO
ive never seen a thread fail so spectacularly lol