>>2672593Women don't readily admit that they're into a specific man or type of man because they're hardwired to play hard-to-get.
It benefits them immensely and boosts their value to behave as though no men meet their standards and thus they are "unattainable".
If you're not into women, maybe you've noticed it, maybe you haven't, but a world where women aren't directed to a sensible mate choice by family/parents/etc creates an incredibly volatile market for mating/dating.
Cold approaching women is sort of hell unless you're like 6'4 and/or look like a model.
They're pretty consistently dismissive and unenthusiastic about you until or unless they find out that one or more other women are into you, and then their interest is magically piqued.
This is because they are hardwired strongly for groupthink and behavioral homogeneity, and strongly against risk-taking and independent decision-making.
It is often said that women would rather share a high-value man than have a loser to themselves; this is only half-true.
In reality, women just have an extreme bias against capitulating and admitting attraction to a man unless he is a known commodity among other women.
They simply can't do it any other way.