Can someone who has traveled South East Asia please tell me how to get with girls who are not prostitutes or looking for a paypig """boyfriend"""?

I'm going soon and I hear about how easy it is to smash over there, but every time someone tells stories in depth it's about getting tricked by prostitutes, or 'girlfriends' who they happened to also give money to. Not to mention more blatant scams.

I'm tall and fit and good looking, I get laid pretty easy in western countries. But even young and fit guys seem to fall victim to this kind of shit in SEA. Is it actually easy to get with women who want sex just for its own sake, or is it all just hookers and scams? Like what are the warning signs, how do you tell the ones who want money apart from girls who genuinely just want to have some fun?

>women
>wanting sex

>>211706338 (OP)
You're firstoid foreigner. They want a paypig

>>211706370
I don't know what you look like buddy but women do want to have sex with me. I got a fair bit of attention traveling in Europe, I never had to approach women they always initiated. And Asians seem to like me in particular even more so than the usual fetishizing of white guys.

>>211706375
I get that most of them will, but surely there are women there who like to fuck, and will take the chance to get with someone like me even just for the novelty or curiosity about BWC or whatever. But how can I tell?

>>211706663
Whatever helps you sleep at night. Just know women always want money in some shape way or form

>>211706723
my gf is richer than me
well, her dad is rich, but it's the same thing

>>211706723
In the past when I was traveling I was only banging women who were also from first world countries, and usually with better education and career prospects than me, even if they didn't outright have more money at the time. I'm not used to the idea that it would even be possible to use me for financial gain. I'm not sure how to tell it apart from genuine interest.

Also what dating apps are common over there? Is everyone on tinder? I know there are chink alternatives that are popular in Asia.

>>211706338 (OP)
If you want non prostitues you go to East Asia not SEA also they're way hotter if you're really as attractive as you claim i don't see why you would pick SEA for getting laid if you're so cocky go to Korea instead
I was travelling in Vietnam and even when using dating apps it's full of prostitutes and girls that work for bars (got scammed one and last time using tinder), you go inside a nightclub and half of the girls inside are prostitues, they constantly come to you on the street etc.. it's not hard to get laid itself the reall challenge is meeting normal girls that are not selling their bodies as a tourist
at one point it gets very annoying if you're not looking for prostitues that's why i ended up hating it there, i cannot speak for other SEA countries but i assume is a similar experience

>>211706723
Ugloid cope, honestly

>>211708650
Yeah this is exactly the kind of thing I am worried about. I'm going to China too but I'm going to be with a friend (female) the whole time. As for Japan and Korea I have chosen SEA over them mostly because it is cheaper and I want to extend my holiday as long as possible since I have no obligations back home, I can just stay until I run out of money.

So you didn't get much luck in Vietnam? I think Thailand is even worse for that kind of thing and I don't see why Cambodia would be any different. A little irritating.

>>211706370

if your goal is to get quick pussy on a vacation then what's wrong with prostitutes? you'll spend more time and money creeping around nightclubs trying to "earn" pussy when you could have fucked 5 hand picked whores in the meantime.

>>211706972
If this were true you wouldn’t use this site or need to post this.

>>211709014
Just give them some money bro. A little goes a long way, you’re all so fucking retarded and selfish

>>211708650
Can you tell us what happened when you got scammed?

>>211709092
>>211709182
A lot of reasons why I don't want to use prostitutes. I can explain them all if you want but I don't think it's all that relevant.

>>211709122
I was an autist as a teenager and chronically depressed, it wasn't until I was in my mid 20s and already addicted to 4chan that I realized I only had to shift my attitude a little and look after myself to get laid easily.

>>211709014
i was there more for travelling than to get laid (Saigon) still got with 4 differents girls with Bumble in 2 weeks, less prostitues/scammers there also you have to choose the place of the date always even if you don't know the city if they choose it high chances they work there
I tried meeting girls in bars/clubs too but nightlife there is terrible it's either bars/clubs in the main street filled with foreigners and prostitues, vietnamese style clubs where you cannot go alone since everybody goes in groups and sits in table or rooftops that are more for dates than for meeting girls
There's a couple of alright clubs loungues but they're only busy on weekends, on weekdays the only place with people is the main tourist street, also everything closes super early
I cannot reccomend Vietnam for a young solo traveler that wants to party and hookup with locals, unless you're extroverted enough to pick up girls in the street that's the only way i can see where you can meet normal girls on a weekdays in person and probably not hard me personally i'm too shy to do that would need to be drunk, the Ho Chi Minh square would be a good place for that
Thailand is probably better as a solo traveler but women quality is worse than in Vietnam let alone East Asia, also lots of ladyboys and foreigners

>>211709515
Nothing crazy, just had a date with a girl through Tinder i believe one of my first days there no idea where to go so i let her choose, she brought me to a hip hop bar/club and after a while drinking i picked up enough cues to relize is pretty obvious she works for the bar, so i insisted on moving to another place but she kept making excuses to stay there and drink more to get me drunk so i just paid all the bs she ordered and left it was cheap at least
then i asked one friend that lived there and he told me this happens a lot in datting apps so after that i never let the girl choose place

Just be white

>>211709674
OK thank you for your tips, appreciate it. I am not going only to get laid, I'm going more for travel too. But the thing is I also like to fuck a lot, and Asian women particularly like me, not just like the normal fetishization of white guys either I seem to have some kind of look or traits they particularly go for. I'm not entirely sure why that is but it would be a real shame not to take advantage of that. But then, I have seen videos of women acting similarly to disgusting old men in places like Thailand, so how would you even know what is real?

>>211709832
>hip hop bar/club
OK that would be the end of that date for me. I have heard of that before, I will make sure to choose the place, thanks. But even then, surely the smarter ones would just have a drink or two with you then say 'I really like this other place, let's go there' or whatever. Again, that could be a total normal and genuine thing to do, so how do you know? It seems almost easier to just not bother with it.

>>211709855
Yes I've done that already, but you also have to just be white to be a target for prostitutes and scammers.

>>211706338 (OP)
Bro if you can't get laid in SEA as a white guy it simply isn't meant to be.

Just walk around a club until a girl starts making out with you

>>211710010
Have you actually done this though? I see these kind of comments I see a lot, but more detailed stories usually don't have such a happy ending.

>>211706338 (OP)
Unironically instagram/facebook if youre bit autistic

>Yes I've done that already, but you also have to just be white to be a target for prostitutes and scammers.

>>211706338 (OP)
>I need to get laid by my own beauty alone, I just be physically validated to feel fulfilled
The world isn’t black and white kid, it’s perfectly possible she finds you attractive and also wants you to pay for the meal. I’d say hop on dating apps but you’d be a bigger asshole lying to a girl who wants a boyfriend vs finding some party girl or slut who just wants to fuck.

>>211710209
That girl looks much better now than she used to when they first met, it's crazy how much money can improve a foids appearance

>>211710186
how do you even filter for location on instagram?
t. 30yo boomer

>>211710358
You cant, thats why its harder to get laid with non-prostitute looking girls in here, its because we need to know where she lives first.

>>211709990
you cannot know if it's real or not since even normal girls there expect you to pay for everything and they behave like npcs that's the problem and the reason i'm never going back there
Seoul, Shanghai, Tokyo and Taipei are still cheap compared to Europe, with hotter women, actual good nightlife, no prositution, no scams and good nightlife, i would advise to go there instead, even if you can be less time than in SEA the experience will be 10 times better

>>211710474
Alright thank you for your advice.

Men are not good people, you are the foot of evil in this world

>>211710867
Did another white guy break your heart?

>>211710154
>Have you actually done this though?
yes

If you're lazy you can just look at tinder or hinge and find someone. You'll get about 20 matches a day so you'll be able to easily find someone down to fuck that fits your schedule

>>211706338 (OP)
if you want a real deal foreign girlfriend, you *need* to know their native language. Period. If you don't, you will only get prostitutes, whores, and gold diggers.

Period. no question. end of story. That goes for every country.

Now, if you're a tall decent looking white guy *AND* you know their native language to like a B2 level? You're solid gold in the dating market of any third world country.

A lot of them were uneducated and dumb.
I remember traveling rural Thailand I I met this young blonde fruit-sellar girl who could only speak Thai.
Apparently her father was a Russian who had no money but her mother thought all white men are rich hahahaha
I kinds felt bad for the girl.
I wonder how she is doing now

>>211710930
No white men are easy and like me. This board and this thread are just a good reminder that most men are nasty and soulless.

>>211711024
in the end we are predators, and girls need to be aware of that, but at the same time it's what it is.

>>211711053
Women are wired completely differently and most don’t realize the extent of your evil. Most think you are like us but you’re not, you legit look at us like cars kek

>>211706338 (OP)
It's so easy that it just becomes boring and uninteresting, so you'd better focus on the other horny western tourists, russians etc. And every asian wants money and free drinks and will suck your cock.

>>211711024
>>211711078
>White men are easy haha
>NOOO how dare you want to sleep with easy asian women instead of me, MONSTER!!!!
Yawn.

>>211710973
trvth nvke

>>211711078
we partially see you as property, and i don't mean that in a negative way. males of all species plant stakes and fight over territory/resources/assets and that includes our females. it's more about protection from other males than it is about dominating you or whatever. the world is not a nice safe place and women don't seem to realize it because they have men in their lives protecting them.

we create beautiful cars and buildings because we have to do something to come half as close as what you can do inherently--create a human life.

>>211711078
We are wired to impregnate as many girls as possible, ideally genetically healthy ones but we'll take whatever we can get in the end.
>why
once a girl is pregnant, there's nothing else to do with her, and we can literally fuck multiple times a day

Women are wired to find the single best guy they can and keep him for herself to maximize resources for her offspring.
>why
pregnancy is extremely taxing and is a huge commitment, so you'd better make sure the guy is the best you can get

Disgusting

>>211711476
can't trust a kiwi...

The ones that aren't prostitutes, gold diggers, poorfags, etc. have a serious social stigma being found with foreigners. Shaming is real and vile, reputation and appearances are currency in turd world shitholes.

At their level you might as well find a Westernized diaspora from your own country.

They don't love you, they love your passport and wallet. Anything and any advantage to get them out of this shithole, cope all you want and pretend you're a gigachad in a Papuan statue making forum.

>>211710973
OP literally states he wants to hook up, not get a gf

>>211706338 (OP)
Betus maximus
Jesus Christ who makes a thread like this

>>211711917
never trusting a reddit spacer

>>211710973
>if you want a real deal foreign girlfriend
I don't

>>211711917
>a serious social stigma being found with foreigners.
This is interesting to me and is kind of the opposite in China, not too sure about other Asian countries like Korea or Japan but I guess they're not like that either. It's something to show off if you have a white boyfriend there, all the women will be jealous and men might seethe but won't do shit about it.

I suppose it's a stigma to do with prostitution, wouldn't you say? In those countries it's not really an issue, but in Philippines or somewhere like Thailand white guys with local girls are dime a dozen, and usually either outright prostitutes or those kind of faux girlfriends who are actually basically prostitutes.

>>211712562
>men might seethe but won't do shit about it.
No one cares that much bro

>>211706338 (OP)
A Pole is upset that he isn't a celebrity in Malaysia while in Indonesia, Thailand and Philippines, he is a celebrity receiving smiles.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3aaPYy_2PCM [Embed]
Why thirdy are like this?

>>211710867
What has upset you about this post? That I like casual sex and don't want to get scammed?

>>211712627
They do though, some of them. It's like how some white guys seethe about BMWF relationships.

I understand their feelings because it is not fair on them, but that's out of my hands.

>>211706338 (OP)
If you want a wife use thaifriendly or pinalove that's what all the sexpats use
They're not hookers and you're not supposed to give them money but you still provide house and food and in exchange they cook and clean, it's a trad relation like mail order bride or arranged marriage

For casual sex or gf instead go to night clubs, some bars (local-oriented ones otherwise it will be bar girls), and in places frequented by locals, and it's better not to go alone and speak the language for that