Meeting Japanese Women online overseas - /int/ (#211707238) [Archived: 1126 hours ago]

Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 12:48:36 AM No.211707238
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I need help. One of my buddies finally gave in and decided to get a Japanese wife.

One of my other friends was able to end up marrying a Japanese woman after meeting her on PAIRS a few years ago.

After 3 years of tinder he gave up on western women and decided to take the Japanese girl pill and it worked out really well for him and he has 3 kids currently.

Now my other buddy has finally given up on western women and wants to try it.

Here's the problem:
PAIRS, Omiai, and Tapple have completely banned all non Japanese off the platform in the last few years. VPN won't work.

You have to upload an ID and as soon as they see your not Japanese they ban you! PAIRS used to be great. I remember there some really high quality women on there compared to American Tinder.

So for those anons that have met japanese women online from overseas recently, where are they now and what is good to use?

Many of the older smaller apps and "international dating" sites are ghost towns filled just with ai bots now. It now harder to meet japanese women online now then it was 10+ years ago.

I am already married so I have also been out of the dating game for years. Any suggestions would be nice.
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 1:56:18 AM No.211709012
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Bump
Anonymous Brazil
6/14/2025, 1:58:47 AM No.211709077
>>211707238 (OP)
Holy mother of pathetic
Grow a spine faggot

Sage this shit
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Anonymous Turkey
6/14/2025, 2:38:26 AM No.211709948
>>211707238 (OP)
I recommend going to Japan and giving firm handshakes to any and all women you meet. Good luck.
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Anonymous Canada
6/14/2025, 2:59:24 AM No.211710369
>>211709077
bump
Anonymous Canada
6/14/2025, 3:08:54 AM No.211710556
>>211707238 (OP)
Just go to Japan and find a woman there, the tickets are under $1000 dollars certain times of the year.
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Anonymous Singapore
6/14/2025, 3:12:23 AM No.211710628
>>211707238 (OP)
Stop stealing their women you BASTARD
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Anonymous Japan
6/14/2025, 3:14:36 AM No.211710675
wtf is wrong with this creep
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:14:49 AM No.211710681
>>211709077
Rude!
Anonymous Ireland
6/14/2025, 3:17:17 AM No.211710723
>>211707238 (OP)
Just go to Japan for fucks sake
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:19:41 AM No.211710766
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>>211710628
It's not for me.

>>211710675
Have you seen the dating market in America lately? Although it's been years since I dated here I've heard nothing but depressing things and it's really gone downhill. A lot of guys who swore never to date an Asian/Japanese are now looking to the East. There's tons of left over women that japanese guys are ignoring or or throwing away, but are still higher quality women than what you can find in the west currently. It's bleak over here.
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:21:51 AM No.211710811
>>211707238 (OP)
who the fuck is submitting id to dating apps
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Anonymous Japan
6/14/2025, 3:25:06 AM No.211710865
>>211707238 (OP)
>PAIRS, Omiai, and Tapple banned dirty gringos.

Whoa,They was a decent dating app...I didn't know that.lel

Unlike Tinder, Omiai/Pairs only has Japanese people who are serious about marriage and long-term relationships. Gaijin probably thought it was like Tinder.

So they got banned probably.
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:27:37 AM No.211710906
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>>211709948
>>211710556
>>211710723
That's what I told my friend. My wife went looking through japanese message boards, even Girls Channel to see where japanese women(looks like gaijin hunters to me) are looking for gaijin men. They seem to be abandoning online apps completely and instead are recommending in person meet up parties. Also they said to avoid western men in Tokyo as they are poor(English teachers) and creeps(Johnny Somalis). They recommended the city near Misawa Air Base for higher quality American men. Kind of fun to see how the game is played from the other side.
Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:36:43 AM No.211711076
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>>211710865
My guess was post 2020 the Indian male flood. And Ai bots. Yeah my friend is serious. Not looking for a hook up.

He makes good money, he's very fit and an intelligent creative guy. Solid common sense. Just a shame every other women he meets here seems to have an only fans account and looks like bathroom stall graffiti with the tattoos. I told him japanese women are notorious for selling their bodies too. Half of them are sweet-heart house wife waifus and the other half are perverted exhibitionist and career women. Make sure to Pimeyes search every Japanese woman you meet. They all use fake AV names but searching vis face will show the truth of who they are. I know a dude who found out his japanese girlfriend was an ex JAV actress. They were together for 5 years and she never mentioned a thing or gave a hint. The shock of his life to say the least! At least she was nice and cooked well. You would have never suspected that sort of cute nice girl did that stuff in her past.
Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:40:36 AM No.211711137
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>>211710811
Japanese people who want to use a matching service to find a partner for marriage with minimal bots and scammers.
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:42:23 AM No.211711182
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>>211710865
They are also blocking out NIHONJIN who look mixed or not japanese enough. LoL. Very rude.
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:45:09 AM No.211711241
>>211711182
jomon discrimination
Anonymous Poland
6/14/2025, 3:45:37 AM No.211711251
>>211711137
>>211711182
the only thing a samurai fears a whyteboy looking for a jap gf
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Anonymous Brazil
6/14/2025, 3:47:10 AM No.211711279
>>211710766
Cringe
Anonymous South Korea
6/14/2025, 3:47:13 AM No.211711280
just use Tandem
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 3:57:24 AM No.211711482
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>>211711280
Thanks Korean Friend
Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 4:10:06 AM No.211711722
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>>211711251
We laugh but it's true. My other friend was swipping literally 1000s of times only to match with walled leftist fenimists, anti-family, fat losers who still looked down on any man who dares swipe right.

He finally threw in the towel and we signed him up for Pairs as a half joke and told him to download LINE. The very first day he was talking to around 20 japanese girls using a translation app. One girl was a cute maid cafรฉ girl who admitted she wanted to isekai to Americs and live on a farm. Another one was a cute 22 years old with circle glasses from Aomori who said she just wanted to get married and have kids before age 25.

Just a night and day difference between the women selection here in the west and the women over in J land. As many faults that japanese women have, Japanese dudes have no idea how good they have it and the bar of quality of women can get so much lower than they can imagine.

My buddy ended up getting with a girl who promised she would wait for him to come back from a 5 month business trip where he would be offline. He came back and she was waiting for him and they met up and got married about a month later. They are still together all these years.

There's a lot of shit crazy japanese women, but if you can filter those out there's some great women there. Look outside of Tokyo for one. Those smaller town girls are a lot more down to Earth.
Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 4:13:23 AM No.211711774
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>>211711251
We laugh but it's true tonan extent. My other friend was swipping literally 1000s of times on local American Tinder and other dating sites only to match with walled leftist fenimists, anti-family, fat losers who still looked down on any man who dares swipe right.

He finally threw in the towel and we signed him up for Pairs as a half joke and told him to download LINE. The very first day he was talking to around 20 japanese girls using a translation app. One girl was a cute maid cafรฉ girl who admitted she wanted to isekai to America and live on a farm. Another one was a cute 22 years old with circle glasses from Aomori who said she just wanted to get married and have kids before age 25.

Just a night and day difference between the women selection here in the west and the women over in J land. As many faults that japanese women have, Japanese dudes have no idea how good they have it and the bar of quality of women can get so much lower than they can imagine.

My buddy ended up getting with a girl who promised she would wait for him to come back from a 5 month business trip where he would be offline. He came back and she was waiting for him and they met up and got married about a month later. They are still together all these years.

There's a lot of shit crazy japanese women, but if you can filter those out there's some great women there. Look outside of Tokyo for one. Those smaller town girls are a lot more down to Earth.
Anonymous Japan
6/14/2025, 4:17:33 AM No.211711845
how do I unsubscribe this blog shit
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Anonymous Spain
6/14/2025, 4:21:05 AM No.211711911
>>211707238 (OP)
Hellotalk is your best bet but he has to actually try to learn Japanese
Dating apps are trash in Japan since most girls don't even show their face and the ones that want to meet foreigners would use Tinder or Bumble anyway not Pairs
But still is quite complicated to have a serious relationship with a Japanese if you don't move to Japan
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Anonymous Ireland
6/14/2025, 4:29:24 AM No.211712052
>>211711251
timmys just too powerful
Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 4:29:41 AM No.211712057
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>>211710865
Pairs was the best kept secret for meeting Japanese girls online if you lived overseas. A lot of guys didn't want to talk about Pairs to avoid it getting too popular with other gaijin. Looks like it got too known so the Japanese dudes shut down the wmaf. <:'l I really can't blame them because of the much more market value gaijins had in online dating in the Japanese dating market. Japanese guys lost out. The site got too much attention overseas and they must have been flooded by filthy gaijin after 2021.
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 4:42:35 AM No.211712238
>>211711845
By deleting your 4chan account.

>>211711911
Thanks Spain brother. I knows it's easy to hook up with jgirls using tinder IN japan, but I was looking for apps to connect while overseas. Back in the day they used to have Japancupid.com, but it's a dead site now. Tinder and bumble have monopolize the majority of japanese women online dating now. So now there's not very mant options to meet j girls online unless your in Japan.

In 2025 it should be EASIER to meet japanese women online because of the shit economy in japan, better tech, and a lot of japanese woman wanting to isakai out of Japan for a better life cause they are all poor now. Thailand and the Philippines are well known for a well oiled machine of their women coming to the west with multiple avenues of meeting western bros. Japanese women have LESS options now than 10 years ago. I think it's part of design. The Japanese government knows they need to keep their women from running to the west so they clamped down on communication avenues for women looking to start a family overseas. Unfortunately many women in japan just decide to stay single because they are too poor. So instead of hafus being born and maybe returning back to Japan if born overseas, it's just aging post wall women stuck in a dying japanese economy rotting in a cubicle while doing JAV to pay the bills while they import millions of 3rd worlders who rape school girls in the street.

This world wants no one to be happy.
Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 4:52:44 AM No.211712370
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>>211711845

By deleting your 4chan account.

>>211711911
Thanks Spain bro. I knows it's easy to hook up with jgirls using tinder IN japan, but I was looking for apps to connect while overseas for my friend. Back in the day they used to have Japancupid.com, but it's a dead site now. Tinder and bumble have monopolize the majority of japanese women online dating now. So now there's not very mant options to meet j girls online unless your in Japan.

In 2025 it should be EASIER to meet japanese women online because of the shit economy in japan, better tech, and a lot of japanese woman wanting to isakai out of Japan for a better life because they are all poor now. Thailand and the Philippines are well known for a well oiled machine of their women coming to the west with multiple avenues of meeting western bros.

Japanese women have LESS options now than 10 years ago. I think it's part of design obviously. The Japanese government knows they need to keep their women from running to the west so they clamped down on communication avenues for women looking to start a family overseas. Unfortunately many women in japan will just decide to stay single because everyone is just too poor. So instead of hafus being born and maybe returning back to Japan if born overseas, it's just aging post wall women stuck in a dying japanese economy rotting in a cubicle while doing JAV to pay the bills while they import millions of 3rd worlders who rape school girls in the street.

This world wants no one to be happy.
Anonymous Canada
6/14/2025, 6:21:00 AM No.211713570
>>211707238 (OP)
Good. Japan should be racially pure.
Anonymous Canada
6/14/2025, 6:27:06 AM No.211713641
>>211712057
are there any western equivalents for "serious relationship hookup cell phone applications?"
I don't have time for pump n' dump hoes.
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Anonymous United States
6/14/2025, 9:09:00 AM No.211715800
>>211713641
Nothing that isn't meant for profit maximization. All modern western dating sites are designed to just squeeze as much dollars out of you as possible. You finding someone and getting married is a profit loss for them and isn't in their best interest.
Anonymous Japan
6/14/2025, 11:31:22 AM No.211718249
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