>>211764611I'm attracted to the idea of being a father, but when I think about the sheer amount of responsibility that comes with raising a child I don't think I could do it. Those responsibilities I can imagine are probably only like 20% of what a parent has to do, in reality there's way more stuff I don't even know about.
It's the same thing with having a girlfriend. Obviously I want sex and I like the idea of having someone else in my life, but am I really capable of dealing with all the extra responsibilities of being in a relationship? Am I capable of compromise and giving adequate attention to a woman and keeping her entertained and finding activities for us to do? Honestly, probably not.