>>211878764 (OP)Let me give you some personal insight on the matter.
I've been with my wife for 10 years now. We met in secondary school, and I got her pregnant.
She is and always has been a lazy person and a shit cook. I wouldn't even mind eating shit food if she at least made it on time. But she rarely did.
We'd get into screaming arguments constantly about how lazy and worthless she was. I felt like an arsehole for it, but goddamn she was a real piece of work. The only reason I dealt with all this was for the kids, and also because the sex is great.
But one night, I got fed up. Not only did she get drunk, neglect the kids, and made me beans on toast for dinner, but she decided to give me attitude too. She was being real fucking bitchy. So I told my Nan to keep an eye on the kids and told my wife we were going to go out and have dinner together. I drove maybe 3 roads down to a quiet area (we live in Yorkshire, it's not hard to find a quiet field) and I got out of the car, went around like I was going to open her door for her and let her out, and I just beat the shit out of her while she was still seatbelted. After a few punches, I asked her if she wanted to go back to her parents. She started screaming and yelling and said yes, so I beat the shit out of her again. Then I asked her what she wanted to do. She finally got smart and said she wanted to go home. So I took her home and dared her to start trouble. I even handed her my mobile and dialed her mum's number on the drive home. I made her talk to her mum, while daring her to fucking say something.
Before that incident, I had never laid a hand on her. But I had always threatened it. I told her "one of these days, if you don't straighten up, I'm going to lay hands on you."
All my meals have been on time, and she just recently tried to make a Beef Wellington. It was mediocre, but I was just thrilled that she tried.
Do with this information what you will.
