I would if I had a job and prospect of futurely moving or getting the other party to move countries. But I'm currently busy with university so that's not a possibility right now. Hence why I didn't engage or Interpals and similar stuff much further

>>212071829 (OP)
Most people start out long distance these days.

Long distance sounds pretty miserable honestly. What's the point?

>>212071900
This, you have to put up with the humiliation ritual to even have a chance at pussy nowadays

>>212071940
It's certainly not miserable when you're both genuinely interested on each other
Maybe a little discouraging but not miserable

>>212071829 (OP)
just download Slowly
interpals is dead (filled with indians and indogs)

azar works too if you pay for the country you want to match with.

but like anything, it takes time. you have to be patient. think about 4 months in the future. then you can finally start feeling close and in those 4 months don't show her your dick

>>212072079
>>212071900
No they don't wtf are you talking about

>>212071829 (OP)
No, what's the point? You might as well have an AI girlfriend.

The few relationships I've had have been long distance because up until recently I've lived like a shut-in. The last one lasted several years and I was deeply in love with her but it ended because in many ways I am still a bit of a shut-in. Absolutely broke my heart so I'm not sure I'd do it again. I wouldn't recommend it unless you can easily visit each other with some frequency.

>>212072802
Never head or Slowly
Interpals has always had horny indogettes
Never heard or Azar either and I'd never pay for anything or use an actual dating app which I'm assuming that is
>>212072858
AI girlfriends aren't real
>>212072943
You ended a relationship... because you're a shut-in? You either want a relationship and act like or you don't. Dude what

>>212073172
>Interpals has always had horny indogettes
yes that's the good part about it. but they are always the same bunch
>Azar
think chatroulette but an app. You can spend like 5 dollars and get 3-4 good matches in an hour or so.
>worth it?
maybe if you really horny

but slowly is peak. You have to put effor into it though

>>212073172
>You ended a relationship... because you're a shut-in?
I didn't end it. But you're right in any case. I fucked up.

>>212073367
Interesting thanks
I'll look into Slowly but I don't really want to invest time in such things
Just using OmeTV for normal converstations with strangers at most
>>212073377
Grim
Good luck next time

No idea why I keep typing "or" instead of "on" or "of" by the way

>>212073511
>converstations
conversations*

>>212073511
well if you really want a long distance relationship investing time (chatting, voice calls, video calls) is a must

>>212073587
I was just wondering whether people here have tried it and consider it doable or worth it
As I said I couldn't really try it
At least not right now

>>212072741
>It's certainly not miserable
My experience says otherwise.

>>212073925
I'm thinking about it to be honest. It might be worth it because i'd get to go to europe. But it has to be a 1 year investment of no sex relationship
i tried before once and it's hard

>>212071829 (OP)
tl;dr: No.
There's no such thing as "long distance relationship". It isn't a real relationship, there is no bonding at all, no matter how hard you try to cope and convince yourself otherwise. It makes me severely embarrassed to remember all the cringeworthy e-"sex" I had during my late teens, but it was ultimately a waste of time when those relationships never evolved from being mere online roleplaying, it is even more miserable than breaking up with a real one.
Getting my first actual girlfriend in real life was such a night and day different experience, since my only experiences were with online RP, so I was awkward as fuck at the beginning.
As other anons pointed out, if you are truly desperate for fake affection, just learn how to use AI.

>>212072943
>The few relationships I've had have been long distance
You've done it more than once? I'll never do something like this again unless they're from a few States away.

I have been in two LDRs and I had met up with them both multiple times. I will say that LDRs are not ideal but the people who say that they're not "real" relationships must have some part of their brain fried. If you can't pair bond with someone without immediately fucking them then that's your problem.

>>212071829 (OP)
I already did try it.

>>212071940
It can work if there's plan and will to do visits and more importantly actually make effort to turn long distance to close relationship. If neither is willing to move then it wont work

>>212075193
This. I remember "enjoying" my e-relationship because it was better than absolutely nothing, but that's a low bar. Nothing compared to a real relationship.

>>212075193
Well yeah, that's why you actually need to plan to meet. No point for long distance relationship if you will never even meet them in person

>>212071829 (OP)
I was in a long distance relationship with a girl for 2 years and I met up with her a couple times but neither of us could move abroad so we had to break up eventually.

>>212071829 (OP)
Yes, though it has no purpose with casual dating, it works if you go in intending to stay with the person forever. In that case the headache of moving countries is justified.
>>212071940
Better love with distance than nothing nearby. Or a relationship that makes you wish you had nothing.
>>212075193
see these are casual relationships online, no casual relationship is worth a plane ticket.
>>212075565
Sanity in a sea of chuds, well done.

>>212071829 (OP)
Currently in the most unusual "long distance relationship" and the fact that it's still going with zero legitimate progress being made pretty much shows me a varying degree of both our psychiatric issue.

>>212071829 (OP)
Seems like it would only work with an Asian broad because they're the only ones autistic and asexual enough to be satisfied with nothing more than human interaction.

>>212076380
what psychiatric issue is that?

>>212075430
I am a very lonely man, bro. The first few times it wasn't so bad because I was young and it was kind of just fucking around and really meant nothing to me. The last one is the one that truly shattered my heart.

>>212076841
Don't want to say that it's definitive. There could be many reasons for her case, she could've been seeing other people which would explain a lot and I'd hate her forever for that, could be hiding something, but I'm leaning more towards a mental issue. How servere is it? I don't know. She's an odd one.