How are your career, hobbies, social life and sex life going in your country

>>212307082 (OP)
They are going great. Thanks for asking.

>>212307082 (OP)
All down the trash, thinking of kms imc hiyc?

I failed to get an entry level job with my memeshithole Westoid country university degree in Japan, so I started my own business as cope

>>212307082 (OP)
>How are your career
going fine
>hobbies
getting back into swimming and sketching right now, pretty nice
>social life
dead but by my own choice. i’m still very hung up on my ex and no amount if parties or hookups changed that. thinking of getting into counseling
>sex life
it was fine until i contracted an STD + began thinking about my ex a lot more. taking a break from it for a while

>>212307082 (OP)
fucking SHIT. nothing but utter shitty SHIT. NO social life, shitty environment, NO SEX, NOTHING. NOTHING, NOTHING, absolutely fucking NOTHING.

decided it's time to stop with the incel shit
I'm going on a date tomorrow and got told I looked great AND cute by a different person yesterday

>>212307131
>i’m still very hung up on my ex
how long has it been?

>Career
Job I hate with prospects that might materialize in 10 years
>Social life
Non existent
>sex life
Ibid.

>>212307195
we officially broke up last September but kept regularly talking/expressing feelings until December. the last time we spoke was March and it was her telling me she’ll report me if i ever try to speak to her again

>>212307082 (OP)
>eh
>not good
>bad
>non-existent

>>212307082 (OP)
Stop bullying me

>>212307131
Is it a cool std?

>>212307294
Dude just leave her alone. Going zero contact is the best thing (hardest too)
Do some aversive conditioning. Each time you crave to contact her just eat some garlic cloves you always keep in your pocket (or anything awful)

>>212307383
no it was the clap

>>212307424
yeah, ive been on a good streak now. still, no matter how much aversion conditioning ive done, no matter how much she’s changed, and even the fact that she has moved on (and arguably broke my heart by doing something pretty fucked up in december) for some reason my heart is still set on her

>>212307427
The bug of a true thespian.
https://youtu.be/wLRlbsBJhio?si=6cHb6GuNwSt4-0IP

>>212307454
it's good that you are getting back into hobbies but if your social life is only 4chan then you won't feel good regardless
you are disciplined enough for aversion conditioning but you are forgetting that the things that works better is positive reinforcement.
not everything can be achieved by suffering, let yourself enjoy some small victories.

>>212308232
yeah, i have friends who invite me out to shit and while i was going out for a while after our breakup, like going on double dates, parties, movies, or even dancing at clubs (something i never did before) nothing really made me feel good about myself, if anything it made me more insecure seeing all these people doing degenerate shit while i imagine this pure-hearted girl who once loved me doing the same stuff. honestly i think my feeling would be so much easier to deal with if i didnt feel like i corrupted one of the few good women in the world. when we met she was a funny, kind, intelligent woman who gave her virginity to me. now she is trying to be an e girl with numerous make followers on her social medias. i don’t know man. i hate how this all happened, and wish she wouldnt have changed and had just met someone better and married him.