It turns out that the lack of touching, hugging causes more serious consequences than we might think. It gradually causes emotional losses: anxiety, insecurity, irritability, depression. It also seriously affects self-esteem, intensifies loneliness, increases stress and gradually deprives us of joy and energy. This phenomenon is even referred to as skin hunger, and although sex life can influence to satisfy it, this hunger is not a sexual need. It is about something completely different about using an organ such as the kidneys or lungs. For while it is possible to live without sex, unsatisfied intimacy at any stage of life has lamentable consequences.
Touch has an almost immediate effect. It immediately reduces cortisol stress levels, which are also largely responsible for heart disease, relaxes and gives not only support, but also a sense of security.
>>212630056 (OP)I'm black so this doesn't apply to me. We aren't built for deep pair bonding.
>>212630056 (OP)niggas will do anything except try, just go to any college and start talking to the girls there and you'll get a hug every day by like 20 of them as long as you are not completely repulsive and antisocial. you might even grow some balls and ask one out and get a gf CHUDDIE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mERQWW2nlC0
You're right hand comes off?
>niggas will do anything except try, just go to any college and start talking to the girls there and you'll get a hug every day by like 20 of them as long as you are not completely repulsive and antisocial. you might even grow some balls and ask one out and get a gf CHUDDIE
>>212630056 (OP)I was hugged 1 (ONE, yes one) time back when I was around 14 and I distinctly remember it because it was the one and only time a non-related female hugged me
She did it as a goodbye hug but it was more for my friend and I happened to be there
I also recall when my mother hugged me after I got a job after years of NEETdom and I was rather confused because at 22 this was quite possibly (no exaggeration) the first time she hugged me
>>212630056 (OP)Do you mean in your country or what
>>212630056 (OP)That explains why I always feel like shit.
>>212630233I once hugged an 8/10 Italian-Brazilian coworker as a goodbye hug too. It was her last day at worl. I was 18. It was the first time a non-family member hugged me. It felt like heaven. Almost like shooting up dope.
>get close to a chick online
>sex definitely not out of the table
>freak out at the prospect of having to show my face or even let her hear my voice
s-sorry Zoe...
>>2126315326 months without loving or receiving love
2 or 3 without sex
>>212630056 (OP)John Maus song Bennington is based off a real period in his life he stalked a random fangirl at one of his concerts for 2 years. Writing her constant emails and showing up to her house unprompted.
>>212631574get off my board, normgroid