I'm a fuckup who's almost 25, with absolutely no idea what I'm doing in life. I always seem to make the wrong life decisions, and fuck-up working towards my goals. I can't keep doing this, I'm getting fucking old. FUCK!

Has this, does this, or will this occur in your nation-state?

>>212779171 (OP)
>it's as if I was scared
maybe you need God

>>212779185
How? I've tried praying regularly for a period of my life, but I never seemed to feel anything, or get any help.

>>212779226
have you tried being a good person

>>212779226
Religions are meme, what you need to do is lock in little bro. Here's a good playlist for getting on that grindset:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4p-oiYyycjI

>>212779240
I'd like to think I am. I'm not saint or hero, but I try to do right by those I encounter, and who are around me. I couldn't doing anything else, guilt almost never leaves me if I do wrong.
>>212779376
The only time I've been able to get into a "sigma grindset" is with Adderall. Otherwise, I get a few good hours of work, and then my sadness just drains the rest of my energy out of me.

>>212779171 (OP)
>I'm a fuckup who's almost 25
bro
just start doing whatever you want to be doing
nobody sees your age and thinks "damn its over for you" lmao

>>212779597
Literally everyone I have ever met points and laughs at me chanting, "It's over!"

>>212779171 (OP)
lol bitch
come back when you're in your late 20s

>>212779920
up yours woke moralist

>>212779171 (OP)
when I was almost 25 my mom died with almost no warning

>>212779226
there's a book you should probably read.
>>212779376
don't listen to him. "grindset" is a meme. you don't need to slave for a system that hates you

>>212779171 (OP)
protip, figure it out and do it fast
we're going to have so many NEETS with zero life experience beyond the point of no return soon, it's not going to be pretty, do yourself a favor and avoid a life of complete utter misery

>>212779953
I'm sorry that happened
>>212779961
The Bibbel?
>>212779977
Any recommendations?

>>212779997
life at it's core is very simple, find a trade you can tolerate and find some hobby to spend your free time on, having a crappy car to get you from A to B also helps

>>212780294
I've got that I suppose, I just feel like it isn't enough. Like I have FOMO on life. Socialization is the most important thing in life, and that is the biggest thing I'm behind on. Also, I wanna live in a heckin' walkable cityerino, so a car isn't too important to me.

>>212780369
the only advice I can really give in regards to being social is try to be honest when talking to people with how you think and feel, for a long time I had second thoughts and always curated what I was about to say, it made social interactions stiff and created a wall between me and whoever I was talking to, I did this without realizing it and it stemed from poor self-confidence, being honest unironically is one of the most important things in life, being dishonest will punish you in the end, physically or mentally
>tldr: just be yourself

most mentally stable American

I feel you op but im 26

>>212780821
Yeah, I've been doing that more and I've had more social success. Have you heard of the book, "Radical Honesty"?
>>212780851
I'm low-mid tier as far as American mental stability goes. We've evolved past such frivolous things as "sanity".
>>212780869
Germans don't suffer. I stayed at a Hostel in Berlin, and there are so many social opportunities in Germany. That being said, I'm sorry you feel sad like me, utilize the lovely opportunities your country has.

>>212781019
>so many social opportunities in Germany
Americans are much more open and outgoing and its easier to socialize.
A hostel in Berlin is like the least spiritually German place you could visit.

>>212781019
god, stop whinging like a pathetic runt. Nobody knows what the fuck they are doing and those who pretend to just have a bigger ego. I'm 27 and I could be scared and sad like you or I could be proud ive made it this far, proud of the memories ive made, continue devoting time to bettering myself and keep looking forward to the future with optimism.

It's easy to be a sad weakling, chose the hard route and become a man that you feel proud to represent. I've been through a hell of a lot and come out stronger every time. An easy life wont make you become a good man.

>>212781058
>Americans are much more open and outgoing and its easier to socialize.
That isn't true, we're awkward and/or fake.
>>212781082
Venting is healthy Australian-lite

>>212779171 (OP)
This is me but I'm 27. How over is it?

>>212779171 (OP)
It literally does not matter. You're not the first person to lead the pointless life of a loser, and you certainly won't be the last. Find something to do to keep the existential dread away, and you'll get by.

>>212779226
You are a child. Grow up.

>>212781058
>Americans are much more open and outgoing and its easier to socialize.
That isn't true, Americans are awkward and/or fake.
>>212781082
Venting is healthy Australian-lite

>>212781144
Oh, and exercise. Exercise is very important, especially if you don't have much going on in life.

>>212781138
Europeans have healthier societies that allow for different paces for different people, you are fine. But no more waiting on making your life better.
>>212781152
What do you mean?

>>212781163
>Venting is healthy Australian-lite
Not really it just reinforces your feelings and brings everyone down with it. Grow up

>>212781277
If I saw you in real life I'd crush you

>>212781375
Maybe if you fell on me but that is unlikely

>>212781105
>Venting is healthy Australian-lite
There is tangible scientific evidence that 'venting' and rumination is cognitive poison, unlike what pop psychology would have you believe. It's better for the brain if you suck it up and get on with things, instead of locking yourself into a flagellating thought-loop.