i've been physically, emotionally and mentally abused

No, of course not.

My father slapped me once or twice.
My mom whipped me with a horse whip.
The worse part is how they neglected to teach me any life skills at all while simultaneously forbidding me from going out and acquiring then on my own.

Yeah. I wish I could return my dad the favor but that would get me sent to jail

I was thrown into extremely cold or hot showers as punishment.

>>212922681 (OP)
Yes and I genuinely believe it broke something in me
>grow up active healthy boy
>parents go to America for a year for work (they were at the same company)
>left with grandparents with my brother as they’re unsure if they want to stay there
>parents come back but it felt like the longest year ever since I was maybe 5-6
>one night have a bit of a tantrum at not wanting whatever they made for dinner
>mother beats the living shit out of me for it
>never act up again and retreat fully into my shell forever
I’m sure thirdies will talk about how it toughened them up etc etc but I was not used to such violence and I think she forgot how to handle children while away

>>212923216
every time my mom gave me shit like that i went out and play football with the neighborhood kids and i go to school and pick on girls with other boys and have them chase us around and i forget about the trauma after a few days

Phisically never but words can be just as harsh.
Anyway at 14 I was already way taller than my father.
Apprently height has skipped a generation, he's a shortie.

they beat them when I was young and now I beat them

The ear grab is underrated. It's innocent enough but gets the job done. That's what my mom did

>>212922681 (OP)
no my dad was always working abroad and i was a momma boy who couldn't do anything wrong
now i browse 4chan as a neet while mommy does my groceries
>>212923216
>>212925163
feel bad for you two

>>212922681 (OP)
yes mom used to, untill the day i hit back and face fisted her uncontionous down the stairs. it was a wake up for both of us, i could kill here with my bare hands, but i loved her. and my dad would kill both or one of us harder if he found out. he would probably side with me..

>>212922681 (OP)
They used a belt for a brief period but then they stopped once they realized that instead of making me behave it just made me angrier. After that they moved on to what could be called 'emotional beatings'. It worked in the medium term but probably not in the long term as I'm a 26 years old hikikomori neet.

>>212922681 (OP)
Yes, sometimes until my ass was purple. But they softened up with age and now I neet in their house like a leech, so I guess it evened out in the end.

>>212925854
Tell me again how blacks are violent and whites so much better

damn did everyone here grow up with psycho parents

>>212926732
Appropriate physical punishment is a positive character-builder in childhood
The fact that many parents these days restrict their children's internet use or count their sugar intake, yet consider it taboo to even give their children a light spanking is a complete confusion of what's more important

>>212926725
Nordics are the most violent Europeans, it's kinda obvious if you look at homicide rates

No, yelling and taking away the computer would be enough.

I got spanked once, and roughly pulled on my wrist a few times. Nothing tragic. Outside of that, my parents were extremely lassaiz faire and it's kind of a miracle I turned out mostly alright in the head. They just let me stay on the computer as long as I wanted, never checked on me no matter how long I was out, never asked how school was or if I'm making friends, or tried to do any homework with me, never went on holidays. I was just kinda there in the house. I know this is a form of abuse, but I turned out okay and at least my mum became a really caring person as she aged. She's great.

>>212923032
I did when I was 16. Man, it was cathartic. My mom started screaming and put herself between us and begged me to stop.

>>212927319
HOW CAN HE SLAP

>>212927344
Kek

Yes.
When I was about ten my dad told me to take the trash out and I said "forget you" and he shoryukened me into a wall

>>212927319
Based
>>212922681 (OP)
Yes, it doesnt work. It only makes things worse for the child. Dont hit kids and teens, anons.