Just turned 35. Celebrated my bday by getting free pancakes at Denny’s and drink at Starbucks . Buddies too busy to remember but it’s ok, parents wished me happy bday. Free sushi dinner with dad.
During the day it was drink some wine, blaze, go downtown for massage and happy ending. Then wander downtown eat food, chat with strangers, then go home , blaze , drink and sleep

How’s your day to day

i dont cope i just suffer

>>213148879 (OP)
Happy birthday m8, hope you enjoyed yourself. Just got back from work and just posting here

>>213148879 (OP)
alcohol

>>213149208
based

and happy birthday bro

>>213148879 (OP)
I accepted my fate. In Germany you will never make friends again after school because that’s the only time you have people your age. Once you start working it’s all oldtroons unless you work in retail.

>>213148879 (OP)
i learned to make my own tendies
and thats good enough for me

Jesus died single
Why do you care?
What is there to cope with?

I am a wizard, whats cooler than that huh, that's also a very funny article "avoidance" , some post that image of some pepes jacking off and playing videos games on a couch and a wojak girl with the black baby i the background kek

>>213149208
>>213149233
haha fucking incel faggot

>>213148879 (OP)
>How do you cope as a single man in your cunt?
There's nothing to "cope" with because I don't give a fuck. Even though i'm certainly going to be in a relationship again this year. But if it's not happening i don't care because it's not vital.

>>213149233
>>213149149
Thanx guys. Hope everything is good on your ends.
>>213149120
Ya as a single guy, it’s learning to live with suffer and cope. Even if you are dating or married there’s a 50% you’ll break up or divorced even 10,20,30 years down the road. It’s still a struggle until you get old and sent to retirement home.

>>213149208
Had this phase in my 20s, now alcohol gets me queasy and sick .
>>213149422
It’s so true, everyone is very aloof too unless you’re cools d attractive. Plus Nordic culture is very aloof. Unlike say Latin culture
It’s very much eat sleep work and nothing else

>>213149503
I hoped that I’d at least be married, kids and solid career and home by now. Everyone wants a good woman and bloodline
But staying at home you’ll always get calls on where you going what are you doing. Maybe solo travel to cope I guess

>>213148879 (OP)
New natalist doomer stats just dropped.
Just shitpost online and sleep every day.

>>213148879 (OP)
I'm about to turn 30. Lately, I've just been lying on the couch for extended periods of time listening to either new black metal albums or old Cum Town episodes.

>>213149422
Have you tried video games?

>>213149233
>>213149208
Kill your self incel faggot, no one's gonna miss you

>>213150116
Felt this 5 years ago too. You’ll learn to accept at 31,32,33,,34.
But think what hurts more is there’s goals you wanted and never achieved.
You’ll live like it’s your 20s but you’re lil more greyer, stiffer but hopefully you’re in good shape so you can fuck good when opportunity comes

>>213150200
Dam dude, this is why guys suffer. No is here to help. Even at crystal cafe, women listen and advise each other to cope. Here it’s racism and bullying and crab bucket.
If normal people don’t give a shit about you at least as fellow autist or social loser you shouldn’t tear him down.
God knows how many kicks to the ribs we have taken over the years to wind up shit posting here

>>213150238
I do stay in decent shape. That helps. And I'm close to finishing a first draft of a novel, which is one of my few real goals in life. I doubt I'll get it published anywhere, and there's no one in my life I'd be comfortable sharing it with, but hey, I'll have written a novel.

>>213150408
Maybe turn it into a YouTube audiobook and post here under a secret name
Who knows might go viral

>>213149567
>>213150200
>same post 30 minutes apart
you don't feel too lonely ?

>>213150696
Guys stop fighting it was my bday

Should be supporting each other since world don’t give a rats ass about us

>>213148879 (OP)
>How do you cope as a single man in your cunt?
https://www.flashpack.com/solo/relationships/sweden-solo-living-single/

>>213150890
Go on,
How is your day to day life. At least it’s more peaceful then living at home
But how are homes there? Is it expensive like here or do you go more rural to get it cheaper

>>213150966
Rent is capped in Sweden. Has been since the 60's.

>>213151071
You’re lucky , rent is like $2000 single bedroom here, but it’s supposedly going down.
You can rent in small town but it’s nothing there unless you got a boner for nature and driving a lot .
But nothing to do. Local youths can’t wait to get out and Indian guest workers see why it’s boring
Granted our cities aren’t that great either

>>213148879 (OP)
>Psychologists link this trend to shifting priorities
it's called giving up

>>213148879 (OP)
>63%
Explain how this won't lead to societal collapse

>>213150015
>staying at home you’ll always get calls on where you going what are you doing.
Fakecel normalfag

>>213148879 (OP)

Even 20 years ago, before all this incel culture and manospherere whining stuff got started, I had a pretty clear idea that I just plain didn't want to have a kid or get married, independently of whatever social problems or personal pathology you might suggest with that. My attitude didn't change as I went through my 20s and 30s.

>>213148879 (OP)
Does it count if I had a kid at 15 and the kid was smart enough to secure a fullride+campus housing at 17? I feel both divorced and chronically single at the same time. Shits weird

>>213148879 (OP)
I came to terms back in 2008-2009 that I would never date anyone. I have long accepted this, and I've just immersed myself in 2d.

>How's your day to day
I'm currently taking summer courses for college, however I'm feeling burnt out, and I have been turning in my assignments late.

>>213151480
That’s normal ?I found it embarrassing when I was messing with my friends or talking to girls that my parents are always calling to see what’s going on. I swear they cockblock me on purpose
You don’t get room to breathe or be your own person. Then your friends rip on you as some mamas boy or some shit

porn, leeching from family as a mid 20s khhv

me vs. my increasingly blackpilled and dejected competition

>>213151500
Same but I actually wanted those things but it keeps slipping through my fingers. I feel like the original incel before it became a thing
>>213151562
Weird but you did good bro

>>213151594
Fuck felt this . Burnt out twice and dropped out of college twice. Dunno what’s wrong with me. I don’t get how some guys and girls get good grades, party,train and socialize at the same time . Feels like it’s grades, sleep or friends but you can only have 2

it's literally so over, if only we ever listened a little better to funny moustache man

>>213148879 (OP)
Usually a few beers and a good TV show or music. I tried weed but gave me anxiety. I don't enjoy vidya anymore, but I play from time to time. I'm okay with having no gf for the rest of my life, I have gotten used to it.
T. 31 haven't dated in 7 years

>>213151693
>grades, party, train and socialize
Only grades for me, I have a 3.667 GPA, but I'm sure it'll fall after the summer because there's no way I'll be getting anything higher than an 89 in these two classes. My head needs a break.

>>213151733
Literally me at your age
>>213151737
Ya studying is brutal I don’t get how anyone can study that hard without life getting in the way

I think it gets easier with the libido going down as you age. after my early 30s i just accepted it.

>>213152681
Shit you’re kinda right. But I kinda miss it especially use to fuck real good and hard. Now it’s milk me and I’m done. Just bugs me that I didn’t father kids at least before libido drop.
If I lose that then gotta figure another hobby aside from drinking eating and sleeping

as someone who's been successful with women, 99% of them aren't remotely close to gf material
you guys aren't missing out on much

>>213152801
Ya it seems 55% of women are messing with 37% of men

But must be a lot of stress and work to maintain them
Post divorce you’re broke