>>50217602
I didn't say they like the system, but Akyuu talks about it in FS, the villagers manipulate the youkai in turn. Also the fairies were just and example, like the Kappa, Tanuki, or Tengu who all do business in the human village. Doing business with youkai is the norm.
Tewi is just an option, a bit of speculation no different than what you're doing. I think she might be interested if there's money in it, if it can boost the Inaba's reputation, and partly because matchmaking falls under her preview as a god.
>>50217638
The thing is, the if the man refuses divorce arbitration, and the wife isn't living with him, and there's no central institution to enforce the law. Then it really comes down to how stubborn the husband is going to be, if he claims to be married then he can't marry someone else. If the wife's says she wants a divorce and is staying at the Myouren temple then they effectievly aren't married and the man is going to have a bunch of nasty rumors about how he mistreats women due to his wife hiding out in the myouren temple.
What is he going to do? Escalate? Even if the wife is a nun, the myouren temple isn't exactly not part of the human village, they go there to preach, beg for alms, and interact with the villagers like a normal temple does. Which would be part of her duties as a nun/monk/person there. She wouldn't even have to shave her hair like historical buddhist temple divorce settlements would have her do.
Also, Mamziou does want people to think good of the Tanuki, so if it would make her look good, I think she would be willing to help out.
Earlier you made a claim about how samurai can just go around killing people when Gensokyo was founded, 500 years ago, but isn't Gensokyo supposed to be closer to the Meiji period? I bring up this anachronism since my understanding of buddhist divorces comes from the Edo and before period. I bring that up due to your claim that in 99% of human societies it would end in his favor. Because that was a problem in japan during the Edo period, husbands not willing to sign divorce papers since the wife was their property.
In which case the buddhist temple stepped in to arbitrate. The wife would go to the temple, explain the situation, and she would join as the divorce is being settled and become a nun. There was a specific term for these types of temples divorce, Enkiridera, although I'm sure Byakuren would want to offer this service as well. This abolished later in the Edo period, but they operated in the earlier era as well and as Byakuren is from 1000 years ago, before the practice was abolished I'm sure she'd be willing to offer the same service.
So the temple would exist for exactly this type of case you're talking about. In which case the husband has three choices:
>Escalate
>Wait it out
>Sign the divorce papers
And I don't think it would be settled in his favor if he escalated. The woman went to the temple and is trying to solve in case in exactly the way she is expected to while he's the one hiring goons.
She might also have her family's help if they're willing to negotiate for a divorce settlement and don't want to involve a third party.